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25 and lead a depressed and lonely life

 
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Re: 25 and lead a depressed and lonely life
there is nothing wrong with you op its the society and wich the elite have created since after the the 2 world war
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Re: 25 and lead a depressed and lonely life
come on over, plenty of room in hell.
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Re: 25 and lead a depressed and lonely life
I have no friends, no family, no relatives and don't like crowded places. Everyday after work I come home to my 1 bed flat with the kitchen, toilet and bed in the same room, and go to sleep, normally with no dinner. I have 1 meal a day and that's during lunch.

Sleep is all I do after work and I don't have a social life.

I don't know how long I can go on like this.

My existence is pointless. What can I do..
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Re: 25 and lead a depressed and lonely life
Watch "The Secret." Maybe it will help?
 Quoting: Gratia Plena


It's the law of attraction. You are attracting that which you put out into the world. If you're always thinking, "I'm lonely, I'm depressed, life sucks," then the universe gives you loneliness, depression, and a sucky life. It doesn't hear, "I wish I wasn't depressed." It hears, "DEPRESSED," and that is what you get.

Start visualizing happiness. Start feeling it. Pretend you're happy. Don't think, "I am so lonely." Think, "I am so excited that I am going to find true happiness!" I know it sounds quacky, but you have nothing to lose.

Seriously. Watch the movie. You'll want to hate it, but you'll find out it makes you smile anyway. I'm not a millionaire yet, despite trying out "the secret," but it is funny how just when I was going to be short on money because of an unexpected expense, I would get an unexpected check in the mail. Try it. You are worth it! You are a beautiful soul!

Also, try taking B12 supplements. I am a woman, and certain times of the month (ahem) I get so depressed that I have suicidal thoughts. I know it is just my hormones, so I have never seriously thought about acting out on this thoughts, but they come like clockwork, and I hate them. I get so down, I just hate the world and life and just want it all to end. The past month, I have started taking B12 sublingually every day, and it is the first month in years that I haven't had a week straight of suicidal thoughts. I still think you should watch "The Secret," by try supplementing with D and B12 too.
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excuse me but you could be completely unaware of life and death and still have your hormones. Then you would not focus on suicide so Im laughing as I hope your realize its not your hormones.

Seriously Loner just be happy as a loner, drifter. Plenty of people are by job or just by choice theres nothing wrong with it and most people are anyway. I struggled when I realized I had no friends too but all my many childhood freidns were outcasts just like me and they are probably no different now. Look around you, think about it. I was the kind of person in school who hung around with a different person every few months and we all intermingled separately. There was tons in my year and others like that, I was the kind of person who was neutral with everyone but mainly got on all round. Now Im a loner and Im almost proud because of so many reasons.
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Re: 25 and lead a depressed and lonely life
Fix your diet and get some sunlight and exercise.

Get the Genotype diet book by D'addamo and get a full-spectrum allergy test.

Speak to a NATUROPATHIC doctor about a body detox.

Also consider taking a class on meditation.

In three months, you'll be a totally new person.
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02/07/2013 11:59 AM
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Re: 25 and lead a depressed and lonely life
bide your time until super hot robot fuck dolls become availble???
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Re: 25 and lead a depressed and lonely life
Watch "The Secret." Maybe it will help?
 Quoting: Gratia Plena


It's the law of attraction. You are attracting that which you put out into the world. If you're always thinking, "I'm lonely, I'm depressed, life sucks," then the universe gives you loneliness, depression, and a sucky life. It doesn't hear, "I wish I wasn't depressed." It hears, "DEPRESSED," and that is what you get.

Start visualizing happiness. Start feeling it. Pretend you're happy. Don't think, "I am so lonely." Think, "I am so excited that I am going to find true happiness!" I know it sounds quacky, but you have nothing to lose.

Seriously. Watch the movie. You'll want to hate it, but you'll find out it makes you smile anyway. I'm not a millionaire yet, despite trying out "the secret," but it is funny how just when I was going to be short on money because of an unexpected expense, I would get an unexpected check in the mail. Try it. You are worth it! You are a beautiful soul!

Also, try taking B12 supplements. I am a woman, and certain times of the month (ahem) I get so depressed that I have suicidal thoughts. I know it is just my hormones, so I have never seriously thought about acting out on this thoughts, but they come like clockwork, and I hate them. I get so down, I just hate the world and life and just want it all to end. The past month, I have started taking B12 sublingually every day, and it is the first month in years that I haven't had a week straight of suicidal thoughts. I still think you should watch "The Secret," by try supplementing with D and B12 too.
 Quoting: Gratia Plena


excuse me but you could be completely unaware of life and death and still have your hormones. Then you would not focus on suicide so Im laughing as I hope your realize its not your hormones.

Seriously Loner just be happy as a loner, drifter. Plenty of people are by job or just by choice theres nothing wrong with it and most people are anyway. I struggled when I realized I had no friends too but all my many childhood freidns were outcasts just like me and they are probably no different now. Look around you, think about it. I was the kind of person in school who hung around with a different person every few months and we all intermingled separately. There was tons in my year and others like that, I was the kind of person who was neutral with everyone but mainly got on all round. Now Im a loner and Im almost proud because of so many reasons.
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Scientists have documented depression in RATS depending on their diets and hormones levels (like insulin). Don't pretend to be an endocrinologist or research scientist. You're ignorant on the subject. Ever been to an animal shelter? Go see what a depressed, caged animal looks like. If they had self awareness, maybe they too would extend their depression to suicidal ideations.

Some people are social butterflies and love life and are happy to be that way. Some people are loners and love life and are happy to be that way. OP is obviously NOT happy.

There's nothing wrong with being a loner like the above AC claims he is proud of, but you, OP, are obviously not happy with your situation. You have gotten some good suggestions in this thread, and I hope you try some of them out.
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Re: 25 and lead a depressed and lonely life
Life is what you make it. I am similar to you in many ways but I found a way to deal with what seems like a black hole you just keep falling deeper and deeper in.

If I had to give you 3 points I would suggest this.
1.Find a Church. Does not have to be big. You don't even have to socialize. But you need the message of Life. (Jesus)
2.Don't be afraid to go see a doctor. Just tell them what you feel. You are dealing with stress, loneliness, etc. Trust me they will understand and not think you are strange.
3.Do some form of exercise for at least 10-15 minutes a day. It will cause changes in your body that will eventually affect the mental and emotional aspects.

But yeah man don't let life get you down.

The samurai's were famous for falling on their own sword and ending their life when the enemy had them finally backed into a corner. Don't be a samurai. Be a warrior. Be a Spartan! Don't be afraid to call out for help and don't ever be afraid to face the force of loneliness and that inner emptiness that wants to just gut you.

Last I want to just leave you with this advice. Just wait until you are 27. I can't explain it but I was once told this and I am in my last week of being a 27 year old and I can honestly tell you that Life Does Get Better. Something just happens and you "find yourself". You seem to know your limitations, your desires, your dreams, and you seem to understand this earth and it's inhabitants so much better.

You have probably seen right now the worst life will hand you. So take that into perspective. Be like Lazarus who Jesus raised from the Dead. How can you scare a man who has already seen death? How can life do anything to you now that you have not already felt. Rise up!

Bro I really hope this helps you. My prayers are with you.
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02/07/2013 12:14 PM
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Re: 25 and lead a depressed and lonely life
Seriously bro just find a girlfriend or go join a club that you are interested in.
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02/07/2013 12:16 PM
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Re: 25 and lead a depressed and lonely life
Volunteer.....................there are way too many people who have less than you hav e described and who do not have options.

When you offer something of yourself in behalf of other people or supporting those who are dependant upon people, say animals or such, you become involved and have purpose.


When you gain purpose you care less about yourself amd more about something outside of yourself and you have living and from there you can gain community.

Take a baby step by changing one thing in your day as you have outlined it.
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Re: 25 and lead a depressed and lonely life
People dont seem to find the loner life appealling well, you can still be a loner and know people.
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Re: 25 and lead a depressed and lonely life
Hi. You are very young, so have no fear. Many people your age are in a sort of slump stage, not at all uncommon.

FIRST, you need to make a family for yourself. You need to find friends. Go where you meet people. Can you find a:
- book club
- volunteer work (it could be something fun, like history presentations for kids or a museum)
- people who like to play board games who meet
- library activities
- take a class (learn a language or something that interests you)
- religious organization (church, wiccan group, whatever)
- volunteer to help garden or do natural preservation
- help the less fortunate

If you don't have one, really get a HOBBY. Get interested in something. Read books! Having a few things that you find interesting can really be a lifeline, and you'll find joy in these. Interests are a great way to meet friends, too.

Avoid television and popular music. Honestly, they are designed to make you depressed, lethargic and trapped in self-pity. Pay attention to the emotional effects any sort of media or music has on you...and only let healing things into your life.

Talk a walk in nature or a beautiful place.

Every morning, make a gratitude list of those things that you appreciate in life...however small. It will help to change your thinking.

Good luck. You may not realize it, but these low points are actually turning points in your life.
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Re: 25 and lead a depressed and lonely life
change your play ground of life.. Do new and different things,, and try things that are new.

Like has a way to pin us in a corner,, but you are not held back by 30 family members or 10 friends.. Your alone so chart your own coarse of life.

Sodbust
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Re: 25 and lead a depressed and lonely life
I have no friends, no family, no relatives and don't like crowded places. Everyday after work I come home to my 1 bed flat with the kitchen, toilet and bed in the same room, and go to sleep, normally with no dinner. I have 1 meal a day and that's during lunch.

Sleep is all I do after work and I don't have a social life.

I don't know how long I can go on like this.

My existence is pointless. What can I do..
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33871244


There's lots of "I's" in there my friend. Your existence is only pointless if you choose for it to be.
Try volunteering. Just once a week to start. Retirement communities are a good place to start. People there are lonely also and would love to have a friend to talk to.

I'm taking my kids to play bingo with the old folks tomorrow. When I first went, I had NO clue how important it was to these folks. WOW. They love people coming to see them.

Anyhoo, I always worry my children will feel hopeless one day, so I've started them early to think of others before themselves. Sometimes we get so stuck in ourselves, we lose sight that its not just all about us.

I've been there my friend. Someone snapped me out of it long ago and said, "get over yourself. It's not all about you. Go fill someone's bucket and quit worrying about your own." Lol. Tough love I suppose, but it worked.

Good luck and know you are not alone.
hf
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bide your time until super hot robot fuck dolls become availble???
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Summer Glau version for me thanks. 5aohyeahGoofy Thumstarwars
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Re: 25 and lead a depressed and lonely life
if you have a job then you're better off than most
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Re: 25 and lead a depressed and lonely life
Watch "The Secret." Maybe it will help?
 Quoting: Gratia Plena


It's the law of attraction. You are attracting that which you put out into the world. If you're always thinking, "I'm lonely, I'm depressed, life sucks," then the universe gives you loneliness, depression, and a sucky life. It doesn't hear, "I wish I wasn't depressed." It hears, "DEPRESSED," and that is what you get.

Start visualizing happiness. Start feeling it. Pretend you're happy. Don't think, "I am so lonely." Think, "I am so excited that I am going to find true happiness!" I know it sounds quacky, but you have nothing to lose.

Seriously. Watch the movie. You'll want to hate it, but you'll find out it makes you smile anyway. I'm not a millionaire yet, despite trying out "the secret," but it is funny how just when I was going to be short on money because of an unexpected expense, I would get an unexpected check in the mail. Try it. You are worth it! You are a beautiful soul!

Also, try taking B12 supplements. I am a woman, and certain times of the month (ahem) I get so depressed that I have suicidal thoughts. I know it is just my hormones, so I have never seriously thought about acting out on this thoughts, but they come like clockwork, and I hate them. I get so down, I just hate the world and life and just want it all to end. The past month, I have started taking B12 sublingually every day, and it is the first month in years that I haven't had a week straight of suicidal thoughts. I still think you should watch "The Secret," by try supplementing with D and B12 too.
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thats like saying someone who just got raped, on some level was asking for it.


the secret is nothing but hogwash
The term "derp" was invented by the creators of Southpark.
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Re: 25 and lead a depressed and lonely life
op you have lived ~33% of you life, no so long to go now
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Re: 25 and lead a depressed and lonely life
Smoke weed all day, every day and take some magic mushrooms on occasion. You'll be doing great after that.
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Re: 25 and lead a depressed and lonely life
just like there is pain in the body when there is something wrong with it physically, depression is the mind's way of letting you know that something is wrong with your soul, and consequently with your life.

...that there something right in front of your nose that you have been ignoring for too long. You are being forced by your higher self to stay alone and confused so that you may find the answer. If you would pretend the problem isn't there and just go on with your routine, then you would not find the answer in time, which would result in some kind of tragedy.

be thankful that your higher self is letting you know that something must be corrected... Some don't even get this opportunity.
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Re: 25 and lead a depressed and lonely life
Go Vegan! Eating meat and dairy is detrimental to your health. Grow a garden and save your money! If not in the ground then in containers. Go to a nearby church! You do not have to be a fanatic. It's just that the people there are usually so nice and they include everyone in their activities. There is much love there. Get a pet! Save a cat or dog from the torch. Get a massage! This takes the toxins out of your body leaving feeling great and sleeping very well. If you can't get a message then go swimming. The pressure of the water against your skin has the same effect as message thus message is actually baptism so expanded upon in the bible. It was simply subject to translation.
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do not listen to this person.

take martial arts training, be humbled by the new knowledge you will attain, and begin to respect yourself once again.
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Re: 25 and lead a depressed and lonely life
or, of course, you can try the fuck doll alternative.

when depression hits, it's either meditation or fuck dolls.

I chose meditation
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Re: 25 and lead a depressed and lonely life
masturbate
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Re: 25 and lead a depressed and lonely life
join a cult.

democracy is popular these days
The term "derp" was invented by the creators of Southpark.
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masturbation? Are you cRRaZyy?

every time a man ejaculate he is expelling great energy from his body... This in turn weakens him greatly, and if nothing is done to break the habit and replenish the lost energy, then it's his health that starts going downhill.

sorry, but relief is not for free.

Reality is harsh, but in harshness you find strength.

Don't waste your sexual energy.
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Re: 25 and lead a depressed and lonely life
I have no friends, no family, no relatives and don't like crowded places. Everyday after work I come home to my 1 bed flat with the kitchen, toilet and bed in the same room, and go to sleep, normally with no dinner. I have 1 meal a day and that's during lunch.

Sleep is all I do after work and I don't have a social life.

I don't know how long I can go on like this.

My existence is pointless. What can I do..
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33871244


bonghit
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masturbation? Are you cRRaZyy?

every time a man ejaculate he is expelling great energy from his body... This in turn weakens him greatly, and if nothing is done to break the habit and replenish the lost energy, then it's his health that starts going downhill.

sorry, but relief is not for free.

Reality is harsh, but in harshness you find strength.

Don't waste your sexual energy.
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peepants
































stfu rant
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Re: 25 and lead a depressed and lonely life
read the bible..
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HA! Like that will help.
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masturbate
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Yup.

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