25 and lead a depressed and lonely life

What do you want?

go fishing bro. many married people like me envy your freedom

Last Edited by 508527 on 02/07/2013 10:49 AM

Get about a hundred Kitties.

Go for a walk.

Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Matthew 11:28

You are never truly alone friend. You're Heavenly Father is awaiting you.

I don't know....

One person's hell is another's heaven...read, meditate, find yourself!

read the bible..

that aint our business, and you are a liar

you made me pregnant, you ran away, and now you are suffering the consequences. LIAR!

Dogs are great company.


When I was single after a divorce. Every time I left the apartment I'd say to myself today could be the day I meet the new love of my life. One day I did.

Go get a hair cut, she could be there.

Or, maybe she is waiting for you at the grocery store.

Maybe the love of your life is at the book store. I'd check in the magazine section.

If you come home from work and go to bed she will probably find the other guy.

Stay positive and know she is looking for you too.

Come on Brah. You are feeling sorry for yourself. Get a hobby or go to some local gatherings let yourself loose.
What have you got to lose ?

25 is stil young, plenty of time to change things if you're not happy. If you lack the motivation to change it's probably because you're building it up to be a far bigger problem than it really is. Try something new.

Often when you are depressed, you focus on the negative or what you dont have/ had. In your case, it may be beneficial, example:

What you dont have :

old age
major health issues
incarceration
loss of limbs, ability to walk, sight, etc
an estranged spouse and kids


So as difficult as it seems right now, try to be appreciative for the little things you do have, and get out of the house.

Depression is highly recoverable. That is why life insurance companies ( Cheapest pricks known to man) will pay out on life insurance after 2 years if a person offs themselves.

translation nothing last forever, not even this and you have a lot to to be thankful for. This is just a pebble rippling the ocean.

Good luck to you

Go Vegan! Eating meat and dairy is detrimental to your health. Grow a garden and save your money! If not in the ground then in containers. Go to a nearby church! You do not have to be a fanatic. It's just that the people there are usually so nice and they include everyone in their activities. There is much love there. Get a pet! Save a cat or dog from the torch. Get a massage! This takes the toxins out of your body leaving feeling great and sleeping very well. If you can't get a message then go swimming. The pressure of the water against your skin has the same effect as message thus message is actually baptism so expanded upon in the bible. It was simply subject to translation.

This. Hang in there buddy.

OP, I've moved many times in my life and one of the fastest ways to meet people and build relationships and a fun life is to recognize what interests I have and go to gatherings or a class on it. For example, I have an interest in metaphysics so I checked out the local metaphysical book store to find a local class of interest and sure enough there were people I could relate to. It could be exercise, yoga, astronomy, drum or flute circle. Any thing you could be interested in, there's a group getting together somewhere. You automatically have something in common and it's fun learning.

Hate to be the bearer of badnews but "social life" is just as pointless. Gotta remove everyone elses social standard from which you measure your own emotion.

Life is pointless. ONce you can accept this its no longer an issue of depression. even those who "achieve" are still doing nothing worth while, really. So its relative.

The outer world is a reflection of what's in your heart.

So basically you have to change what's in your heart.

Your attention to thoughts of loneliness is fuelling your problem.

Do your best to divert it elsewhere.

volunteer somewhere.

and, express your creativity..paint or build something

I have no interest in anything. I wish I never came across all this conspiracy theory and spiritual metaphysics bullshit.

They ruined my life.

Before this, I had so many friends and had a normal life.

Now I wish I just die.

Watch "The Secret." Maybe it will help?

Change it.

It happens to the best of us. Because people dont understand the beautiful mind.

It will seem like forever, and no matter how long it lasts, months-years, it always ends. The time now you spend building your core being up, the more strength you will have when you walk out. Its easy to pity yourself. I know so well. But the truth is, you are the only validation you need for your own happiness. And God, if you dont have a God, find a unity with all life and nature. IMHO. Something to understand how small you are in the world and marvel at.

With no one, you have no one to hold you back from finding what you want in life. It seems like you need something now, because its natural. But as you grow your mind and "soul", you become extremely desirable.

And dude, ALWAYS find compassion in all life, yours included. Remeber this anguish and see it in the eyes of the strange, as you know what they feel.

Well said.

Too many people are sad from things in the past or worry about the future. Neither are relevant in the present (the present of the present).

When you walk down the street do you see the clouds putting on magnificent displays, the birds flying and singing... or do you see the concrete and the crowds?

Perception is just as important as action. You are lucky to have free-time, so many people do not. It's up to you to make the most of it doing whatever your heart desires.

Last Edited by WeAreOne on 02/07/2013 11:40 AM

Most people are the same. I look around me and 50% of people are like you and the other 50% have bad friends are idiots or bitches. Most people have 0 or 1 real friend, the rest are just for vanity and sanity. Im personally a loner, You preferred it after a while. Oh and Im 24. It doesnt matter what you are or are not. It doesnt matter how you behave, you just are the way you are and get on with life. Opinions have no consequence.

by the way do you smoke weed lololololololololol

It's the law of attraction. You are attracting that which you put out into the world. If you're always thinking, "I'm lonely, I'm depressed, life sucks," then the universe gives you loneliness, depression, and a sucky life. It doesn't hear, "I wish I wasn't depressed." It hears, "DEPRESSED," and that is what you get.

Start visualizing happiness. Start feeling it. Pretend you're happy. Don't think, "I am so lonely." Think, "I am so excited that I am going to find true happiness!" I know it sounds quacky, but you have nothing to lose.

Seriously. Watch the movie. You'll want to hate it, but you'll find out it makes you smile anyway. I'm not a millionaire yet, despite trying out "the secret," but it is funny how just when I was going to be short on money because of an unexpected expense, I would get an unexpected check in the mail. Try it. You are worth it! You are a beautiful soul!

Also, try taking B12 supplements. I am a woman, and certain times of the month (ahem) I get so depressed that I have suicidal thoughts. I know it is just my hormones, so I have never seriously thought about acting out on this thoughts, but they come like clockwork, and I hate them. I get so down, I just hate the world and life and just want it all to end. The past month, I have started taking B12 sublingually every day, and it is the first month in years that I haven't had a week straight of suicidal thoughts. I still think you should watch "The Secret," by try supplementing with D and B12 too.

Your symptoms can be the result of poor nutrition.

This is what causes "the baby blues" after a woman has a child because so much of her stored nutrition went to the child.

Take a good B complex daily and extra Niacin B3, make sure you are getting, A, D, C and essential oils.

Volunteer somewhere--a pet shelter would be a good step before you commit to a pet.

Stay away from relationships until you get your life in order or you will attract people with a downer vibe.


Exercise can make all the difference--find some music you love, dance, move, walk, get out in nature, this time of year manny are depressed just from lack of sunlight and warmth.

[link to news.discovery.com]


THE GIST
- Listening to moving music causes the brain to release dopamine, a feel-good chemical.

- Dopamine-induced pleasure may help explain why music has been such a big part of human societies throughout history.

- Understanding why people like listening to music is helping scientists understand human pleasure.

People love music for much the same reason they're drawn to sex, drugs, gambling and delicious food, according to new research. When you listen to tunes that move you, the study found, your brain releases dopamine, a chemical involved in both motivation and addiction.



Last Edited by stillhere on 02/07/2013 11:47 AM

OP, get your testosterone levels tested. You are dperessed, which is quite normal, it's yor bodies way of telling u something is wrong. I can relate, but don't really have any answers for u. Try physical activity, it definitely helps.