Cute girl knows I'm married but asked to have casual dinner | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 32405669 United States 02/11/2013 01:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Clearly you shouldn't if you're married and there's a good chance you could end up mugged or worse, you might be seen as a "mark" to her or someone she's associated with. Trouble either way. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21978477 ^^^ Getting mixed up with her or any other woman will leave you with a lifetime of guilt and rationalization. Not worth it. Show some self restraint, it will pay off over the long haul. Live your life in such a way that you can always truthfully say "My life is an open book". |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 9423805 United States 02/11/2013 04:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So I'm stationed in Korea unaccompanied and this cute girl who is 19, asked to have a casual dinner alone. I'm 33 and a Sergeant. She knows I'm married. Should I go for it? Do you think she just wants to hang out with someone who doesn't hit on her all the time? Because I don't. Quoting: Armyguy79 1119045 I always said if she wanna give the clit ill give her the dick |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 9423805 United States 02/11/2013 05:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Holy shit you guys have some hilarious answers on here.I've decided that if she ask me out again, then I will bring a male friend with me. I honestly don't see anything wrong with going to dinner with someone of the opposite sex, as long as they know their boundaries. So if she hits on me, I will remind her of my obligations to my wife. And if she continues, then I will just end it and not hang out with her again. And the only reason that I mentioned that she is "cute" is because damn it she is. Quoting: Armyguy79 21860757 Me as a man it would be my duty to penatrate her |
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Juggalo User ID: 1072087 United States 07/17/2013 09:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So I'm stationed in Korea unaccompanied and this cute girl who is 19, asked to have a casual dinner alone. I'm 33 and a Sergeant. She knows I'm married. Should I go for it? Do you think she just wants to hang out with someone who doesn't hit on her all the time? Because I don't. Quoting: Armyguy79 1119045 Your behavior is "Un-becoming and NCO". One Tequila! Two Tequila! Three Tequila, ...... Floor! |
Jekyl User ID: 43544237 Canada 07/17/2013 09:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So I'm stationed in Korea unaccompanied and this cute girl who is 19, asked to have a casual dinner alone. I'm 33 and a Sergeant. She knows I'm married. Should I go for it? Do you think she just wants to hang out with someone who doesn't hit on her all the time? Because I don't. Quoting: Armyguy79 1119045 Idk why she would ask you out to dinner unless she wanted some hitting action going on |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 25782226 United States 07/17/2013 09:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Maybe consider this: Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10439102 [link to bible.cc] New International Version (©1984) But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. Ok, so he's ALREADY committed adultery, might as well have dinner, fuck her, do whatever he wants now! True. Looking is the same. Technically I think we're all cheating. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 5658634 United States 07/18/2013 11:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You're an NCO. Is it worth risking ucmj? We both know army chicks are total whores, no shame whatsoever. Guaranteed that the first time you piss her off she runs to your chain-of-command and rats you out. Even though you would both be guilty of adultery, she will skate and you'll be fucked. Say goodbye to your rank. Seen it happen so many fucking times it's not even funny... Much better things in life to take a risk on than army pussy. That is the legal issue. Now the moral issue. It's only a year. You would feel shitty if your wife screwed around, so think about it. Though in all honesty, army wives are a close second to army chicks in the whore category... Sage advice, "do what your rank can handle". |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 39071320 Canada 07/18/2013 11:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So I'm stationed in Korea unaccompanied and this cute girl who is 19, asked to have a casual dinner alone. I'm 33 and a Sergeant. She knows I'm married. Should I go for it? Do you think she just wants to hang out with someone who doesn't hit on her all the time? Because I don't. Quoting: Armyguy79 1119045 Be the grown up and say no. |
M*walk Low Earth Orbit User ID: 1067150 United States 07/18/2013 11:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So I'm stationed in Korea unaccompanied and this cute girl who is 19, asked to have a casual dinner alone. I'm 33 and a Sergeant. She knows I'm married. Should I go for it? Do you think she just wants to hang out with someone who doesn't hit on her all the time? Because I don't. Quoting: Armyguy79 1119045 Hit that shit bruh! She's an adult in need of some education. Last Edited by M*walk on 07/18/2013 11:26 AM “The tree of liberty must be refreshed from time to time with the blood of patriots and tyrants.” |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 39071320 Canada 07/18/2013 11:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You're an NCO. Is it worth risking ucmj? We both know army chicks are total whores, no shame whatsoever. Guaranteed that the first time you piss her off she runs to your chain-of-command and rats you out. Even though you would both be guilty of adultery, she will skate and you'll be fucked. Say goodbye to your rank. Seen it happen so many fucking times it's not even funny... Much better things in life to take a risk on than army pussy. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5658634 That is the legal issue. Now the moral issue. It's only a year. You would feel shitty if your wife screwed around, so think about it. Though in all honesty, army wives are a close second to army chicks in the whore category... Sage advice, "do what your rank can handle". WOW :) Well said. |
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M*walk Low Earth Orbit User ID: 1067150 United States 07/18/2013 11:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i mustve missed the memo where glp turned into a relationship advice forum Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31185464 advice on anything is plentiful here only a Moran would not realize that It's spelled MORON....geesh who's the MORON now???? NOOB, it's spelled "Moran" in these parts, are you new here?! “The tree of liberty must be refreshed from time to time with the blood of patriots and tyrants.” |
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eatinmraw User ID: 13951732 United States 07/18/2013 11:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i mustve missed the memo where glp turned into a relationship advice forum Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31185464 advice on anything is plentiful here only a Moran would not realize that It's spelled MORON....geesh who's the MORON now???? use your brian moran... |
kingbirdfivezero User ID: 31855983 United States 07/18/2013 11:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So I'm stationed in Korea unaccompanied and this cute girl who is 19, asked to have a casual dinner alone. I'm 33 and a Sergeant. She knows I'm married. Should I go for it? Do you think she just wants to hang out with someone who doesn't hit on her all the time? Because I don't. Quoting: Armyguy79 1119045 You're at the top of a slippery slope -- so no, don't do it. |
sandpiper User ID: 114310 United States 07/18/2013 11:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No, this is the start of something you do not want to do. Many people will end up hurt, you will feel guilt and make excuses but you will pay for more than dinner. If you break my wings, I will just find a cloud and learn to fly again. The Lord will catch you when you fall or teach you to fly! May the footprints I leave lead you to BELIEVE. |
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GodIsEvil User ID: 40386091 Australia 07/18/2013 11:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So I'm stationed in Korea unaccompanied and this cute girl who is 19, asked to have a casual dinner alone. I'm 33 and a Sergeant. She knows I'm married. Should I go for it? Do you think she just wants to hang out with someone who doesn't hit on her all the time? Because I don't. Quoting: Armyguy79 1119045 i didn't know korea was in germany |
Jaws User ID: 43323038 United States 07/18/2013 11:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It comes down to Guilt VRS Regret Guilt now that you cheated or regret when you are 80 that you didnt get you last chance at some hot 19 year old...either way you are screwed. Thats ok...you havent lived if you dont die with a bunch of guilt and regret Don't mess with imperfection |
ThereRMeds4That User ID: 19991674 United States 07/18/2013 12:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think the mere fact that you felt the need to ask permission from this board should be answer enough. Having a meal with someone of the opposite sex who is simply a friend is if course acceptable. However opening the door to a non work relationship with an attractive member of the opposite sex who's interest was a ego stroke when you are physically separated (most likely long term) from your spouse is irresponsible and incredibly naive. Or simply needy and self serving. You are 33? You should know its not about a particular behavior it's about the walls that knocked down when justifying said behavior that lead to trouble. As a long term military spouse. You, as a Sergeant, should be professionally concerned about how a casual meal could appear to fellow soldiers. Perception is reality. I've seen many great careers ruined over how poor judgement was perceived by others. Some Shepherds remain hidden from their sheep. |