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Anonymous Coward User ID: 33792504 United Kingdom 02/11/2013 09:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It is bad, I can't sleep. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20529567 I just don't know what this person is getting out of this, I seriously am nothing special either just my fucking luck haha. But if I report it I worry he will do something in return and if I ignore he might too. It's so weird like one big mind fuck. Sounds like he is very obsessive, and with what you described in the second paragraph, actually sounds like a borderline psychopath to me. Don't take any chances get it reported and logged, especially if there is stuff still going on. You don't have to have them follow it up or do anything about it. Thing is if it does escalate in any way, the sooner you have it reported and have stuff logged, the better case you build against him if it is needed. Like I say it doesn't sound like run of the mill can't take no for answer. I'm no legal expert but I reckon we have some good anti-stalking / harrassment laws in place these days. Keep any text messages too for evidence. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 20529567 United Kingdom 02/11/2013 09:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | so tell me about this friend that introduced the two of you Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27749763 who is the friend? male? female? relationship to this nutjob? Tell me and I will tell you how to solve the problem. She's female. I've known the friend who introduced us for years but we fell out of touch for a while and then we started going out again and she introduced me to him and we both liked the same books/music mainly (call it a book swap friendship if you like) My friend used to go to concerts with this guy and her other friends once in a blue moon and we'd all meet up for drinks. We all like the same bands. But then he said he hates her after a while and for me not to be friends with her . Thats how weird this is. Apparently she's too full of herself. My friend said to keep away and she never would have thought he was so weird. I don't get it really. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 20529567 United Kingdom 02/11/2013 09:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It is bad, I can't sleep. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20529567 I just don't know what this person is getting out of this, I seriously am nothing special either just my fucking luck haha. But if I report it I worry he will do something in return and if I ignore he might too. It's so weird like one big mind fuck. Sounds like he is very obsessive, and with what you described in the second paragraph, actually sounds like a borderline psychopath to me. Don't take any chances get it reported and logged, especially if there is stuff still going on. You don't have to have them follow it up or do anything about it. Thing is if it does escalate in any way, the sooner you have it reported and have stuff logged, the better case you build against him if it is needed. Like I say it doesn't sound like run of the mill can't take no for answer. I'm no legal expert but I reckon we have some good anti-stalking / harrassment laws in place these days. Keep any text messages too for evidence. Okay, so if I called the police could I tell them I just want to log the harassment but not pursue it at the moment? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33792504 United Kingdom 02/11/2013 09:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It is bad, I can't sleep. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20529567 I just don't know what this person is getting out of this, I seriously am nothing special either just my fucking luck haha. But if I report it I worry he will do something in return and if I ignore he might too. It's so weird like one big mind fuck. Sounds like he is very obsessive, and with what you described in the second paragraph, actually sounds like a borderline psychopath to me. Don't take any chances get it reported and logged, especially if there is stuff still going on. You don't have to have them follow it up or do anything about it. Thing is if it does escalate in any way, the sooner you have it reported and have stuff logged, the better case you build against him if it is needed. Like I say it doesn't sound like run of the mill can't take no for answer. I'm no legal expert but I reckon we have some good anti-stalking / harrassment laws in place these days. Keep any text messages too for evidence. Okay, so if I called the police could I tell them I just want to log the harassment but not pursue it at the moment? I'm fairly sure you could do that yes. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 20529567 United Kingdom 02/11/2013 09:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It is bad, I can't sleep. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20529567 I just don't know what this person is getting out of this, I seriously am nothing special either just my fucking luck haha. But if I report it I worry he will do something in return and if I ignore he might too. It's so weird like one big mind fuck. Sounds like he is very obsessive, and with what you described in the second paragraph, actually sounds like a borderline psychopath to me. Don't take any chances get it reported and logged, especially if there is stuff still going on. You don't have to have them follow it up or do anything about it. Thing is if it does escalate in any way, the sooner you have it reported and have stuff logged, the better case you build against him if it is needed. Like I say it doesn't sound like run of the mill can't take no for answer. I'm no legal expert but I reckon we have some good anti-stalking / harrassment laws in place these days. Keep any text messages too for evidence. Okay, so if I called the police could I tell them I just want to log the harassment but not pursue it at the moment? I'm fairly sure you could do that yes. Ok well thanks I will look into it. It really is making me feel ill. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33792504 United Kingdom 02/11/2013 09:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It is bad, I can't sleep. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20529567 I just don't know what this person is getting out of this, I seriously am nothing special either just my fucking luck haha. But if I report it I worry he will do something in return and if I ignore he might too. It's so weird like one big mind fuck. Sounds like he is very obsessive, and with what you described in the second paragraph, actually sounds like a borderline psychopath to me. Don't take any chances get it reported and logged, especially if there is stuff still going on. You don't have to have them follow it up or do anything about it. Thing is if it does escalate in any way, the sooner you have it reported and have stuff logged, the better case you build against him if it is needed. Like I say it doesn't sound like run of the mill can't take no for answer. I'm no legal expert but I reckon we have some good anti-stalking / harrassment laws in place these days. Keep any text messages too for evidence. Okay, so if I called the police could I tell them I just want to log the harassment but not pursue it at the moment? I'm fairly sure you could do that yes. Don't 999 it obviously (unless theres cause to), call your local station or visit them. I would do that anyhow. Does sound pretty unhinged to me. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 20529567 United Kingdom 02/11/2013 09:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | get rezteining order Quoting: BROKEN KEYBORD GIRL 32841706 meke e feke pozt on fecebook pretending ur coming out ez gey if zhe thinkz ur gey then zhe wont go efter u HAHA yes he'd probably come after me with a knife if I did that. I can see it now HOW DARE YOU BETRAY ME! After this I think I will turn gay. |
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GreenTabasco User ID: 34197841 Taiwan 02/11/2013 09:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A few months ago I met this person through a friend and he seemed like a nice genuine person until I got to know him better and we went out a few times for drinks but then he claimed his undying love and even wanted to move in together (shit we just went for a few drinks wtf??) we didnt kiss or even hold hands it was purely going out as friends. Now I am being stalked and I am worried he will do something malicious for attention if I report it to the police. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20529567 I tried ignoring texts, arguing, being nasty back, being nice but nothing worked and it gets more and more bizarre from pretending that he's someone who found his phone, to being kidnapped, burgled, dying in the street, jumping from a bridge (Hi I just jumped off a bridge and broke my leg turned into I thought it was broken that's why I am not hurt ) to being beaten etc etc etc. All lies in response to me ignoring him. In the end I exposed his lies with evidence (I found out he lied so much I don't know if he ever told the truth) and then it was more weird txts about cursing me and the rest and the bizarre thing is the fucking number 3 was always appearing when he was around in many forms. It was creepy and I never understood it. Thing is he seems to be in obsessed in having the upper hand like he needs to be the one who breaks the contact/ has the last word but then he will write being all nice so I ignore it and it still doesn't help so I wrote back saying how devastated I am because he doesn't love me anymore (he said he is withdrawing his love as I am not special enough and that I am worthless and a liar, abusive blah blah... don't ask it really does make no sense)so I thought instead of ignoring or being nasty back I pretended that I was totally heart broken and had been hiding the hurt and so wrong about doubting him and now he's ignoring me for about 6 hours, this is good going so far from experience as I used to receive txts constantly throughout the day. I really hope he's gone for good and somehow I hope if he thinks I am devastated at the loss of our friendship/relationship in his head that will be enough for him to leave me alone? Has anyone every met anyone like this? What the hell is wrong with them and what's with the creepy number 3 thing? These were mistakes...should've ignored, ignored, ignored from the beginning. Last Edited by GreenTabasco on 02/11/2013 09:34 PM Your day will come... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27749763 France 02/11/2013 09:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | so tell me about this friend that introduced the two of you Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27749763 who is the friend? male? female? relationship to this nutjob? Tell me and I will tell you how to solve the problem. She's female. I've known the friend who introduced us for years but we fell out of touch for a while and then we started going out again and she introduced me to him and we both liked the same books/music mainly (call it a book swap friendship if you like) My friend used to go to concerts with this guy and her other friends once in a blue moon and we'd all meet up for drinks. We all like the same bands. But then he said he hates her after a while and for me not to be friends with her . Thats how weird this is. Apparently she's too full of herself. My friend said to keep away and she never would have thought he was so weird. I don't get it really. Well your friend is of no use to you to solve this. If you really want him to stop.... Forget the cops. Go hire a bodyguard and then arrange a meeting with this guy in a public place. Have the bodyguard stand off. Then tell this fucker if he ever contacts you again that you are going to have his fucking brains bashed in. Get up and storm off out the door. This psycho will follow, that is when your bodyguard will pound the piss out of this guy. Then you look him in the face and say "I told you to keep away" Then make sure the bodyguard grabs the guys wallet and writes down his ID. Have him tell the guy "I know where you live and if you want to continue to live leave her alone" Psychos understand this type of action. The cops will be useless and probably empower this fuck to me more brazen. If this does not work, kill him and be done with it. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 20529567 United Kingdom 02/11/2013 09:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33792504 Sounds like he is very obsessive, and with what you described in the second paragraph, actually sounds like a borderline psychopath to me. Don't take any chances get it reported and logged, especially if there is stuff still going on. You don't have to have them follow it up or do anything about it. Thing is if it does escalate in any way, the sooner you have it reported and have stuff logged, the better case you build against him if it is needed. Like I say it doesn't sound like run of the mill can't take no for answer. I'm no legal expert but I reckon we have some good anti-stalking / harrassment laws in place these days. Keep any text messages too for evidence. Okay, so if I called the police could I tell them I just want to log the harassment but not pursue it at the moment? I'm fairly sure you could do that yes. Don't 999 it obviously (unless theres cause to), call your local station or visit them. I would do that anyhow. Does sound pretty unhinged to me. Sure. Thanks |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 20529567 United Kingdom 02/11/2013 09:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A few months ago I met this person through a friend and he seemed like a nice genuine person until I got to know him better and we went out a few times for drinks but then he claimed his undying love and even wanted to move in together (shit we just went for a few drinks wtf??) we didnt kiss or even hold hands it was purely going out as friends. Now I am being stalked and I am worried he will do something malicious for attention if I report it to the police. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20529567 I tried ignoring texts, arguing, being nasty back, being nice but nothing worked and it gets more and more bizarre from pretending that he's someone who found his phone, to being kidnapped, burgled, dying in the street, jumping from a bridge (Hi I just jumped off a bridge and broke my leg turned into I thought it was broken that's why I am not hurt ) to being beaten etc etc etc. All lies in response to me ignoring him. In the end I exposed his lies with evidence (I found out he lied so much I don't know if he ever told the truth) and then it was more weird txts about cursing me and the rest and the bizarre thing is the fucking number 3 was always appearing when he was around in many forms. It was creepy and I never understood it. Thing is he seems to be in obsessed in having the upper hand like he needs to be the one who breaks the contact/ has the last word but then he will write being all nice so I ignore it and it still doesn't help so I wrote back saying how devastated I am because he doesn't love me anymore (he said he is withdrawing his love as I am not special enough and that I am worthless and a liar, abusive blah blah... don't ask it really does make no sense)so I thought instead of ignoring or being nasty back I pretended that I was totally heart broken and had been hiding the hurt and so wrong about doubting him and now he's ignoring me for about 6 hours, this is good going so far from experience as I used to receive txts constantly throughout the day. I really hope he's gone for good and somehow I hope if he thinks I am devastated at the loss of our friendship/relationship in his head that will be enough for him to leave me alone? Has anyone every met anyone like this? What the hell is wrong with them and what's with the creepy number 3 thing? These were mistakes...should've ignored, ignored, ignored from the beginning. I did and its hard when someone first says that they might be seriously ill and they have been very worried and acted out of character. I never in my life met anyone like this so had nothing to go on. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 20529567 United Kingdom 02/11/2013 09:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | so tell me about this friend that introduced the two of you Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27749763 who is the friend? male? female? relationship to this nutjob? Tell me and I will tell you how to solve the problem. She's female. I've known the friend who introduced us for years but we fell out of touch for a while and then we started going out again and she introduced me to him and we both liked the same books/music mainly (call it a book swap friendship if you like) My friend used to go to concerts with this guy and her other friends once in a blue moon and we'd all meet up for drinks. We all like the same bands. But then he said he hates her after a while and for me not to be friends with her . Thats how weird this is. Apparently she's too full of herself. My friend said to keep away and she never would have thought he was so weird. I don't get it really. Well your friend is of no use to you to solve this. If you really want him to stop.... Forget the cops. Go hire a bodyguard and then arrange a meeting with this guy in a public place. Have the bodyguard stand off. Then tell this fucker if he ever contacts you again that you are going to have his fucking brains bashed in. Get up and storm off out the door. This psycho will follow, that is when your bodyguard will pound the piss out of this guy. Then you look him in the face and say "I told you to keep away" Then make sure the bodyguard grabs the guys wallet and writes down his ID. Have him tell the guy "I know where you live and if you want to continue to live leave her alone" Psychos understand this type of action. The cops will be useless and probably empower this fuck to me more brazen. If this does not work, kill him and be done with it. Haha I wish it were that simple. But I do like the bodyguard idea. With the cops he lies so much he could lie about me say anything, he made up some real whoppers about my friend even his family. They were really bad lies too. |
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mezroy User ID: 20519170 United States 02/11/2013 09:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Didnt mean to scare you but I would call the cops make them aware of it so when you have to wack this fuck you are clear.Oh shit Ive scared you again maybe move to a differnt town shit thats scary just tell the stupid fuck to take a hike and get it over with get crazy on his ass.There now you can rest. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 27749763 France 02/11/2013 09:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | so tell me about this friend that introduced the two of you Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27749763 who is the friend? male? female? relationship to this nutjob? Tell me and I will tell you how to solve the problem. She's female. I've known the friend who introduced us for years but we fell out of touch for a while and then we started going out again and she introduced me to him and we both liked the same books/music mainly (call it a book swap friendship if you like) My friend used to go to concerts with this guy and her other friends once in a blue moon and we'd all meet up for drinks. We all like the same bands. But then he said he hates her after a while and for me not to be friends with her . Thats how weird this is. Apparently she's too full of herself. My friend said to keep away and she never would have thought he was so weird. I don't get it really. Well your friend is of no use to you to solve this. If you really want him to stop.... Forget the cops. Go hire a bodyguard and then arrange a meeting with this guy in a public place. Have the bodyguard stand off. Then tell this fucker if he ever contacts you again that you are going to have his fucking brains bashed in. Get up and storm off out the door. This psycho will follow, that is when your bodyguard will pound the piss out of this guy. Then you look him in the face and say "I told you to keep away" Then make sure the bodyguard grabs the guys wallet and writes down his ID. Have him tell the guy "I know where you live and if you want to continue to live leave her alone" Psychos understand this type of action. The cops will be useless and probably empower this fuck to me more brazen. If this does not work, kill him and be done with it. Haha I wish it were that simple. But I do like the bodyguard idea. With the cops he lies so much he could lie about me say anything, he made up some real whoppers about my friend even his family. They were really bad lies too. It is that simple. Oh and where a wig and a scarf when you meet him publicly, sunglasses too. Where clothes that you have never warn before and toss them. Don't use you electronic devices on your way to the meet. Leave them at home, turned on, That way you will not be associated with the beatdown. This works, tried an true. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 20529567 United Kingdom 02/11/2013 09:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Didnt mean to scare you but I would call the cops make them aware of it so when you have to wack this fuck you are clear.Oh shit Ive scared you again maybe move to a differnt town shit thats scary just tell the stupid fuck to take a hike and get it over with get crazy on his ass.There now you can rest. Quoting: mezroy 20519170 Its just sick, I am planning on moving to the next town if it carries on. I really hoped I was making too much of it but I can tel by the looks on peoples faces when I tell them that he's not all there. What about if I call his mother? but he hates her so probably wont help. |
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