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so tell me about this friend that introduced the two of you

who is the friend?

male?

female?

relationship to this nutjob?

Tell me and I will tell you how to solve the problem.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27749763


She's female. I've known the friend who introduced us for years but we fell out of touch for a while and then we started going out again and she introduced me to him and we both liked the same books/music mainly (call it a book swap friendship if you like)

My friend used to go to concerts with this guy and her other friends once in a blue moon and we'd all meet up for drinks. We all like the same bands. But then he said he hates her after a while and for me not to be friends with her . Thats how weird this is. Apparently she's too full of herself. My friend said to keep away and she never would have thought he was so weird. I don't get it really.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20529567


Well your friend is of no use to you to solve this. If you really want him to stop....

Forget the cops.

Go hire a bodyguard and then arrange a meeting with this guy in a public place. Have the bodyguard stand off.

Then tell this fucker if he ever contacts you again that you are going to have his fucking brains bashed in.

Get up and storm off out the door. This psycho will follow, that is when your bodyguard will pound the piss out of this guy. Then you look him in the face and say "I told you to keep away"

Then make sure the bodyguard grabs the guys wallet and writes down his ID. Have him tell the guy "I know where you live and if you want to continue to live leave her alone"

Psychos understand this type of action. The cops will be useless and probably empower this fuck to me more brazen.

If this does not work, kill him and be done with it.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27749763


Personally, I wouldn't know where to find a bodyguard like that, and probably couldn't afford one anyway. Just go buy a handgun and take a concealed carry permit. Wouldn't hurt to have a shotgun to keep at home as well. Just in case, document the stalking.
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02/11/2013 10:12 PM
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he iz going to be on netionel telk zhowz like jey leno zinging the zongz ebout me, bezhing me.

he even choze e muzic video director for the bendz new muzic video with the zeme lezt neme ez me, no reletion to me tho.
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he needz to breek hiz keybord

he uzuelly breekz thingz

hiz femouz bend iz coming out with e new elbum in ztorez thiz yeer.

etleezt e few zongz will be on the elbum ebout me, bezhing me, inzulting me, perv thingz in the lyric

the title of their elbum iz e zentence terrorizing/direted et me.

you cent ztop me iz the title of the elbum, from whut i heer

the you iz me
 Quoting: BROKEN KEYBORD GIRL 32841706


you should demand a share of the profits !
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02/11/2013 10:15 PM
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I don't like the part where you play games ( I love you) with him.
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I dont like it either, but I am at my wits end. I really liked him as a friend and then he's talking about moving in together, I just was so shocked but I told him I loved his company and I was starting to grow very fond of him so I said lets not ruin it but that was an excuse to call me every name going just because I didn't want to have him as a common law husband within 3 months of seeing each other. He said he wanted nothing more than friendship too at first I felt comfortable and I found that quite sweet that he wasn't a typical guy (which he was!). All lies. Then he got more and more demanding and abusive I ignore then I get lies to reel me in, I give as good as I get I get more sob stories or abuse I've tried everything so this is my last ditch attempt and I dont like it but if it means he will feel he will have the upper hand then I will do it if he will leave me alone.
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he needz to breek hiz keybord

he uzuelly breekz thingz

hiz femouz bend iz coming out with e new elbum in ztorez thiz yeer.

etleezt e few zongz will be on the elbum ebout me, bezhing me, inzulting me, perv thingz in the lyric

the title of their elbum iz e zentence terrorizing/direted et me.

you cent ztop me iz the title of the elbum, from whut i heer

the you iz me
 Quoting: BROKEN KEYBORD GIRL 32841706


you should demand a share of the profits !
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 6097934


how do i do thet, he doznt even know me. i met him like 10 yrz ego et e meet n greet beckztege.
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endlike 3 yrz ego for 2 minutez while i wez weiting to go home.

im homebound, i heve zome type of dizebility thet mekez me more vulnereble eround people


i wouldnt know whut to do , i dont even leeve the houze in 2 yrz due to medicel illnezz
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02/11/2013 10:16 PM
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so tell me about this friend that introduced the two of you

who is the friend?

male?

female?

relationship to this nutjob?

Tell me and I will tell you how to solve the problem.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27749763


She's female. I've known the friend who introduced us for years but we fell out of touch for a while and then we started going out again and she introduced me to him and we both liked the same books/music mainly (call it a book swap friendship if you like)

My friend used to go to concerts with this guy and her other friends once in a blue moon and we'd all meet up for drinks. We all like the same bands. But then he said he hates her after a while and for me not to be friends with her . Thats how weird this is. Apparently she's too full of herself. My friend said to keep away and she never would have thought he was so weird. I don't get it really.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20529567


Well your friend is of no use to you to solve this. If you really want him to stop....

Forget the cops.

Go hire a bodyguard and then arrange a meeting with this guy in a public place. Have the bodyguard stand off.

Then tell this fucker if he ever contacts you again that you are going to have his fucking brains bashed in.

Get up and storm off out the door. This psycho will follow, that is when your bodyguard will pound the piss out of this guy. Then you look him in the face and say "I told you to keep away"

Then make sure the bodyguard grabs the guys wallet and writes down his ID. Have him tell the guy "I know where you live and if you want to continue to live leave her alone"

Psychos understand this type of action. The cops will be useless and probably empower this fuck to me more brazen.

If this does not work, kill him and be done with it.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27749763


Personally, I wouldn't know where to find a bodyguard like that, and probably couldn't afford one anyway. Just go buy a handgun and take a concealed carry permit. Wouldn't hurt to have a shotgun to keep at home as well. Just in case, document the stalking.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29430674


Cant carry guns in UK. Pepper spray will have to do the trick and even thats illegal. Crap country
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02/11/2013 10:20 PM
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how do i get money from the profit, becuze i need money
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02/11/2013 10:21 PM
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zhe iz winning by terrorizing u

dont let it bother u

mozt ztelkerz dont do enything dengerouz. even if they ere ennoying
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You were able to type "BROKEN KEYBOARD GIRL" normally for your name, why are you typing like that?
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They have to get too close for pepper spray to do a lot of good. Get some of that wasp spray that will spray about 20 feet or so. Or a large purse that you can carry a can of hair spray and a cigarette lighter in.
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im mizzing 2 keyz

broken keybord girl only hez 1 key im mizzing
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I don't like the part where you play games ( I love you) with him.
 Quoting: WindyMind


I dont like it either, but I am at my wits end. I really liked him as a friend and then he's talking about moving in together, I just was so shocked but I told him I loved his company and I was starting to grow very fond of him so I said lets not ruin it but that was an excuse to call me every name going just because I didn't want to have him as a common law husband within 3 months of seeing each other. He said he wanted nothing more than friendship too at first I felt comfortable and I found that quite sweet that he wasn't a typical guy (which he was!). All lies. Then he got more and more demanding and abusive I ignore then I get lies to reel me in, I give as good as I get I get more sob stories or abuse I've tried everything so this is my last ditch attempt and I dont like it but if it means he will feel he will have the upper hand then I will do it if he will leave me alone.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20529567


I would do some research into personality disorders and stalkers. After I did that I would pick a few ideas out and make a plan. A counselor might know immediately what you are facing and be able to help you get out of it. Basically talk to someone that knows more about it than you do so you can learn quickly what to do. Stop guessing and get information. Good luck.
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i need to do zomething too

i dont know much ebout thiz but. probebly they ere reeding thiz
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get a baseball bat and prepare to wack the scary fucker.
 Quoting: mezroy 20519170


I have a rolling pin. Yes he's a scary fucker alright.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20529567


Rolling pin's no good, it's too hard to swing effectively. You'll want the heft of a wooden bat for the proper amount of damage. You don't want to piss him off, you want to stop him. Trust me on this.
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02/12/2013 04:10 AM
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You sure you're not taking too much cocaine?

lol

In all honesty you have to report this type of behaviour to your local authorities to prevent any further harassment and to your friends and family. Don't go thinking you can change that type of person either because you can't,at least that's what my professor said tomato. Trust me I'm giving up on trying to change my father!
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I know I have to do something about it. But if he doesnt reply I guess Im ok?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20529567


Probably not, he's probably busy looking at you right now!

hiding

It's okay give me your address and I'll take care of you babe.
I'll protect this relationship that began at 02/11/2013 09:51 PM!!!

spock
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1rof1 1rof1 1rof1
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You sure you're not taking too much cocaine?

lol

In all honesty you have to report this type of behaviour to your local authorities to prevent any further harassment and to your friends and family. Don't go thinking you can change that type of person either because you can't,at least that's what my professor said tomato. Trust me I'm giving up on trying to change my father!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16873984


I know I have to do something about it. But if he doesnt reply I guess Im ok?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20529567


Nope, maybe he lost his fancy phone and is stalking you physically. You should taser that wanker! 5a
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02/12/2013 04:24 AM
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well, at least you know he's crazy.
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wait, if he doesn't reply that means you're the one stalking him!
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02/12/2013 08:51 AM
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I don't like the part where you play games ( I love you) with him.
 Quoting: WindyMind


I dont like it either, but I am at my wits end. I really liked him as a friend and then he's talking about moving in together, I just was so shocked but I told him I loved his company and I was starting to grow very fond of him so I said lets not ruin it but that was an excuse to call me every name going just because I didn't want to have him as a common law husband within 3 months of seeing each other. He said he wanted nothing more than friendship too at first I felt comfortable and I found that quite sweet that he wasn't a typical guy (which he was!). All lies. Then he got more and more demanding and abusive I ignore then I get lies to reel me in, I give as good as I get I get more sob stories or abuse I've tried everything so this is my last ditch attempt and I dont like it but if it means he will feel he will have the upper hand then I will do it if he will leave me alone.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20529567


I would do some research into personality disorders and stalkers. After I did that I would pick a few ideas out and make a plan. A counselor might know immediately what you are facing and be able to help you get out of it. Basically talk to someone that knows more about it than you do so you can learn quickly what to do. Stop guessing and get information. Good luck.
 Quoting: WindyMind


Thanks. Well the good news is I haven't heard anything back from him so I think that's all he was after, getting the upper hand on who did the dumping and making him think I was suffering seemed to do the trick. It's so weird though. Interesting you mention the personality disorders. I did some research and this really fits the bill.

[link to www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov]


I can't believe there are people out there like this. I don't think I'll trust anyone again.
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wait, if he doesn't reply that means you're the one stalking him!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16873984


HAHA well he can think what he wants, I am just close to jumping for joy that I've not heard from him.
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well, at least you know he's crazy.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33709352


It's so sad though. I really thought he was such a nice person but it was all an act for attention. My friend and I are going to go to a new venue when we go out in future, there's no way I want to see him again.
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You sure you're not taking too much cocaine?

lol

In all honesty you have to report this type of behaviour to your local authorities to prevent any further harassment and to your friends and family. Don't go thinking you can change that type of person either because you can't,at least that's what my professor said tomato. Trust me I'm giving up on trying to change my father!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16873984


I know I have to do something about it. But if he doesnt reply I guess Im ok?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20529567


Nope, maybe he lost his fancy phone and is stalking you physically. You should taser that wanker! 5a
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16873984


Oh no he already said he lost his phone by pretending he was someone looking for it. I'm getting an air rifle just in case, they aren't illegal here.
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I don't believe your story....but if it is exactly how you say it is you toyed with his mind. (He has issues too for sure, but you played a big part in the game)
 Quoting: Integrity101


It's not a story it's a fact. How can someone toy with a persons mind by putting boundaries out there? That's normal. If I said I was busy with work I was seeing other men or playing mind games. That's not normal and this behavior didn't surface until later. He thinks he can just take over someones life, tell lies about their friends, lie about what he does, lie about almost everything. I used to get calls at all hours whilst we were friends and now I am sure it was him because they mysteriously stopped when things were ok between us but I never put 2 and 2 together.

How is saying to someone that you really like them but don't want to rush into anything playing with their mind?he said he didn't want a relationship anyway. No way am I responsible for his weirdness. He has a string of failed relationships that were apparently down to the women being horrible to HIM? I believed him but the more I got to know him the weirder he got.
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A few months ago I met this person through a friend and he seemed like a nice genuine person until I got to know him better and we went out a few times for drinks but then he claimed his undying love and even wanted to move in together (shit we just went for a few drinks wtf??) we didnt kiss or even hold hands it was purely going out as friends. Now I am being stalked and I am worried he will do something malicious for attention if I report it to the police.

I tried ignoring texts, arguing, being nasty back, being nice but nothing worked and it gets more and more bizarre from pretending that he's someone who found his phone, to being kidnapped, burgled, dying in the street, jumping from a bridge (Hi I just jumped off a bridge and broke my leg turned into I thought it was broken that's why I am not hurt ) to being beaten etc etc etc. All lies in response to me ignoring him.

In the end I exposed his lies with evidence (I found out he lied so much I don't know if he ever told the truth) and then it was more weird txts about cursing me and the rest and the bizarre thing is the fucking number 3 was always appearing when he was around in many forms. It was creepy and I never understood it.

Thing is he seems to be in obsessed in having the upper hand like he needs to be the one who breaks the contact/ has the last word but then he will write being all nice so I ignore it and it still doesn't help so I wrote back saying how devastated I am because he doesn't love me anymore (he said he is withdrawing his love as I am not special enough and that I am worthless and a liar, abusive blah blah... don't ask it really does make no sense)so I thought instead of ignoring or being nasty back I pretended that I was totally heart broken and had been hiding the hurt and so wrong about doubting him and now he's ignoring me for about 6 hours, this is good going so far from experience as I used to receive txts constantly throughout the day. I really hope he's gone for good and somehow I hope if he thinks I am devastated at the loss of our friendship/relationship in his head that will be enough for him to leave me alone?


Has anyone every met anyone like this? What the hell is wrong with them and what's with the creepy number 3 thing?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20529567

There is a fine line between stalker and somebody you are strangely stringing along. Why the hell would you pretend like you were heart broken? Imo you escalated the situation hands down. I had a real stalker about six years ago. It was terrifying he was a stranger who at first started asking me on dates pretending to be a customer at my company. I declined and then the hardcore stalking came on. Calling my job non stop leaving notes inside my car with threats and calling my work place saying family members had been in accidents. I had to leave my job and move two towns away. All of the sudden it all stopped the cops could NEVER trace his calls or get fingerprints off the notes. Their pretty sure he was most likely military.
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What a freak. He`s obviously obsessed with you and I don`t know if doing what you did was such a good idea.He may have recorded the conversation and in the future try to use it to pin shit on you if there`s an altercation.Don`t fuck around with this guy,call the cops and at least get a report written in police files about it.If it was a matter of him doing all of this just because he needed to be the one that ended it then he would have made a big scene long ago telling you to piss off and you would have never seen him again.You have any big strapping guy friends he doesn`t know about? If you do,be seen with them a few times,have him grab the phone next time he calls and tell him that hes your new boyfriend and he`s gonna rearrange his teeth if he calls again.
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Write your last will and testament or buy a gun. It's up to you. The guy's nuts and is going to hurt you. Trust me on this.
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As a PI, this is exactly what I help victims (mostly women) of stalking overcome. I am on a case very similar to yours tonight.
Good luck OP.

One I had a few months ago, the victim was killed. Unfortunately I was called in after the Vic went missing.

Keep one thing in mind, OP; if you're an adult, if you go missing, the Police really don't give a shit... UNLESS....you have family who keeps pushing OR your a member of the town's elite club...or a daughter.

1st thing to do is GPS yourself. No matter where you go, track yourself and give someone you trust the login and passwords.

If you go missing, we can then find you.

2. I then gps him. I put you two on a geo-grid. If he intersects your geo-grid, we get a restraining order.

He fucks up, he goes to jail. Id shut his ass down.

Find yourself a local PI.
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This is the best advice you will find here on this board.

OP, you sound very young. You have somewhat baited along an extremely unhealthy and potentially dangerous person.

You are in danger, and you very much need professional advice on handling things. A private investigator is definitely your very best option.

Make sure that you hire an investigator that is appropriately licensed in your part of the world.

Just because your stalker has left you along for a few hours or a couple of days even does not mean you are in the clear. He may be passed out, in jail, or in a mental hospital on 72 hour hold (or British equivalent).

Do retain copies of all your emails, texts, etc from this guy. Print them out, keep every last little thing this guy has ever sent you. Do not answer your phone, but use voice mail for everything.

A private investigator can also advise you on home alarm systems and personal protection.

Former social worker here.
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Hire a guy or whatever, and make him your new boyfriend. Let this creep know you got a man, even have the other man tell this guy to piss off. Worked for me.
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A few months ago I met this person through a friend and he seemed like a nice genuine person until I got to know him better and we went out a few times for drinks but then he claimed his undying love and even wanted to move in together (shit we just went for a few drinks wtf??) we didnt kiss or even hold hands it was purely going out as friends. Now I am being stalked and I am worried he will do something malicious for attention if I report it to the police.

I tried ignoring texts, arguing, being nasty back, being nice but nothing worked and it gets more and more bizarre from pretending that he's someone who found his phone, to being kidnapped, burgled, dying in the street, jumping from a bridge (Hi I just jumped off a bridge and broke my leg turned into I thought it was broken that's why I am not hurt ) to being beaten etc etc etc. All lies in response to me ignoring him.

In the end I exposed his lies with evidence (I found out he lied so much I don't know if he ever told the truth) and then it was more weird txts about cursing me and the rest and the bizarre thing is the fucking number 3 was always appearing when he was around in many forms. It was creepy and I never understood it.

Thing is he seems to be in obsessed in having the upper hand like he needs to be the one who breaks the contact/ has the last word but then he will write being all nice so I ignore it and it still doesn't help so I wrote back saying how devastated I am because he doesn't love me anymore (he said he is withdrawing his love as I am not special enough and that I am worthless and a liar, abusive blah blah... don't ask it really does make no sense)so I thought instead of ignoring or being nasty back I pretended that I was totally heart broken and had been hiding the hurt and so wrong about doubting him and now he's ignoring me for about 6 hours, this is good going so far from experience as I used to receive txts constantly throughout the day. I really hope he's gone for good and somehow I hope if he thinks I am devastated at the loss of our friendship/relationship in his head that will be enough for him to leave me alone?


Has anyone every met anyone like this? What the hell is wrong with them and what's with the creepy number 3 thing?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20529567

There is a fine line between stalker and somebody you are strangely stringing along. Why the hell would you pretend like you were heart broken? Imo you escalated the situation hands down. I had a real stalker about six years ago. It was terrifying he was a stranger who at first started asking me on dates pretending to be a customer at my company. I declined and then the hardcore stalking came on. Calling my job non stop leaving notes inside my car with threats and calling my work place saying family members had been in accidents. I had to leave my job and move two towns away. All of the sudden it all stopped the cops could NEVER trace his calls or get fingerprints off the notes. Their pretty sure he was most likely military.
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The point of doing it was that he gave the impression he wanted me to be hurt so I thought I'd let him think I was. He hasn't txted since. He's probably sat there thinking how great he is now which from what I have read about Narcissists which is what I now think he is this is exactly what they want, to think the other person is in pain without them, then they move on and couldn't care less about the victim which I'm glad.

I've never been in a situation like this but now I've heard nothing back since I wrote to him saying how hurt I was.

Because we were friends there was a time I believed what he said but once I found out he lied a lot I confronted him and ignored his behaviour but I just started getting abuse. He was always threatening never to speak to me again or withdrawing his love and protection (dont ask what he meant I have no idea)

It was like some sort of oppositional defiance, so if i SAID GOOD RIDDANCE GET LOST when he said he will never speak to me again and the rest he would write more abuse back and then I would ignore him and then I would get all sorts of weird calls making up stories. It was like he had to have the last word and wanted me to crawl to him so he'd have the upper hand so I let him have it.

So I tried reverse psychology. I let him believe that I was really hurt. He just wanted to know I was hurt but I am not but I didn't know what else to do.

Thing is if he plays a game I guess I just go along with it and he'll piss off if it's all about destroying the other person. Let him think I'm a mess and crying in a corner and he will just drop me, let him think I am glad he's out of my life and he would continue to hound me
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What a freak. He`s obviously obsessed with you and I don`t know if doing what you did was such a good idea.He may have recorded the conversation and in the future try to use it to pin shit on you if there`s an altercation.Don`t fuck around with this guy,call the cops and at least get a report written in police files about it.If it was a matter of him doing all of this just because he needed to be the one that ended it then he would have made a big scene long ago telling you to piss off and you would have never seen him again.You have any big strapping guy friends he doesn`t know about? If you do,be seen with them a few times,have him grab the phone next time he calls and tell him that hes your new boyfriend and he`s gonna rearrange his teeth if he calls again.
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Thing is whenever he told me to fuck off and called me every other name under the sun I just said 'fine' and gave it all back. But then he kept contacting me. I never once thought he just wanted me to say oh no don't leave me, your friendship sustains my life force itself, wahhhhhhhh. So I just grovelled to him and now not a peep out of him.

I will file a complaint to the police though if I hear one more word out of him, if I have peace now I won't rock the boat.

I don't really know any strapping guys. My specialty seems to be psychos by the looks of things.

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