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I, or we may not hear from 0457 again, nor will we know for sure it was a real post for help. What I do know, is that three angels on this thread responded to the call in a way not found anywhere else on GLP. Know that your reaching out exposes the true love and kindness within you all. If the poster was truly in despair, I hope he returns here, for he will find no more caring people than you guys. hf DF
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Kind words, DF that apply to you as much as anyone. I hope he knows how much we care. I hope he's talking to his wife right now and will be back. I really hope.
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Me, too.

Did you all notice a reoccurring word? HOPE. AC thinks he has no hope. A certain person has made it almost a dirty word, but it isn't. It's everything. One thing I do when I think I've had it, is look for one tiny thing around me to make me happy. One thing that gives me hope. AC, I'm pretty sure you're reading, so I'm going to write like you are. Look at your children's faces when they fall asleep tonight. Look at how beautiful they are, how innocent. Watch them play. Just for a minute. Then, thank God that He gave them to you for awhile. If you start giving thanks for even the smallest of blessings, the darkness will lift. Just start by finding that one, tiny thing. It's a big problem. You can only solve it like that old saying,"How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time." Baby steps, hon.
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I, or we may not hear from 0457 again, nor will we know for sure it was a real post for help. What I do know, is that three angels on this thread responded to the call in a way not found anywhere else on GLP. Know that your reaching out exposes the true love and kindness within you all. If the poster was truly in despair, I hope he returns here, for he will find no more caring people than you guys. hf DF
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Kind words, DF that apply to you as much as anyone. I hope he knows how much we care. I hope he's talking to his wife right now and will be back. I really hope.
 Quoting: Nine's


Me, too.

Did you all notice a reoccurring word? HOPE. AC thinks he has no hope. A certain person has made it almost a dirty word, but it isn't. It's everything. One thing I do when I think I've had it, is look for one tiny thing around me to make me happy. One thing that gives me hope. AC, I'm pretty sure you're reading, so I'm going to write like you are. Look at your children's faces when they fall asleep tonight. Look at how beautiful they are, how innocent. Watch them play. Just for a minute. Then, thank God that He gave them to you for awhile. If you start giving thanks for even the smallest of blessings, the darkness will lift. Just start by finding that one, tiny thing. It's a big problem. You can only solve it like that old saying,"How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time." Baby steps, hon.
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TB, don't tell your husband I love your heart. lol On second thought, go ahead and tell him. hf DF
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I, or we may not hear from 0457 again, nor will we know for sure it was a real post for help. What I do know, is that three angels on this thread responded to the call in a way not found anywhere else on GLP. Know that your reaching out exposes the true love and kindness within you all. If the poster was truly in despair, I hope he returns here, for he will find no more caring people than you guys. hf DF
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Kind words, DF that apply to you as much as anyone. I hope he knows how much we care. I hope he's talking to his wife right now and will be back. I really hope.
 Quoting: Nine's


Me, too.

Did you all notice a reoccurring word? HOPE. AC thinks he has no hope. A certain person has made it almost a dirty word, but it isn't. It's everything. One thing I do when I think I've had it, is look for one tiny thing around me to make me happy. One thing that gives me hope. AC, I'm pretty sure you're reading, so I'm going to write like you are. Look at your children's faces when they fall asleep tonight. Look at how beautiful they are, how innocent. Watch them play. Just for a minute. Then, thank God that He gave them to you for awhile. If you start giving thanks for even the smallest of blessings, the darkness will lift. Just start by finding that one, tiny thing. It's a big problem. You can only solve it like that old saying,"How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time." Baby steps, hon.
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TB, don't tell your husband I love your heart. lol On second thought, go ahead and tell him. hf DF
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I think I just might! Thanks, I needed a little hug, myself. Don't forget about the barbeque, either!
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Kind words, DF that apply to you as much as anyone. I hope he knows how much we care. I hope he's talking to his wife right now and will be back. I really hope.
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Me, too.

Did you all notice a reoccurring word? HOPE. AC thinks he has no hope. A certain person has made it almost a dirty word, but it isn't. It's everything. One thing I do when I think I've had it, is look for one tiny thing around me to make me happy. One thing that gives me hope. AC, I'm pretty sure you're reading, so I'm going to write like you are. Look at your children's faces when they fall asleep tonight. Look at how beautiful they are, how innocent. Watch them play. Just for a minute. Then, thank God that He gave them to you for awhile. If you start giving thanks for even the smallest of blessings, the darkness will lift. Just start by finding that one, tiny thing. It's a big problem. You can only solve it like that old saying,"How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time." Baby steps, hon.
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TB, don't tell your husband I love your heart. lol On second thought, go ahead and tell him. hf DF
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I think I just might! Thanks, I needed a little hug, myself. Don't forget about the barbeque, either!
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I haven't, just PM'D a mutual friend about it actually. hf DF
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Me, too.

Did you all notice a reoccurring word? HOPE. AC thinks he has no hope. A certain person has made it almost a dirty word, but it isn't. It's everything. One thing I do when I think I've had it, is look for one tiny thing around me to make me happy. One thing that gives me hope. AC, I'm pretty sure you're reading, so I'm going to write like you are. Look at your children's faces when they fall asleep tonight. Look at how beautiful they are, how innocent. Watch them play. Just for a minute. Then, thank God that He gave them to you for awhile. If you start giving thanks for even the smallest of blessings, the darkness will lift. Just start by finding that one, tiny thing. It's a big problem. You can only solve it like that old saying,"How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time." Baby steps, hon.
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TB, don't tell your husband I love your heart. lol On second thought, go ahead and tell him. hf DF
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I think I just might! Thanks, I needed a little hug, myself. Don't forget about the barbeque, either!
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I haven't, just PM'D a mutual friend about it actually. hf DF
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I'll have to get his hours and let you know. I DO know it's better to go during the day. He cooks so much and when he runs out, he closes up for the day.
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TB, don't tell your husband I love your heart. lol On second thought, go ahead and tell him. hf DF
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I think I just might! Thanks, I needed a little hug, myself. Don't forget about the barbeque, either!
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I haven't, just PM'D a mutual friend about it actually. hf DF
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I'll have to get his hours and let you know. I DO know it's better to go during the day. He cooks so much and when he runs out, he closes up for the day.
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I haven't had dinner yet, now my mouth is watering. DF
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I know, me too! Poor hubs has to go back to work in a couple of hours. His overnight person hurt her knee and can't stand on it. I made banana bread awhile ago and it's killing me to wait for it to cool off!
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I know, me too! Poor hubs has to go back to work in a couple of hours. His overnight person hurt her knee and can't stand on it. I made banana bread awhile ago and it's killing me to wait for it to cool off!
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Don't wait, I like it while it real warm.
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I know, me too! Poor hubs has to go back to work in a couple of hours. His overnight person hurt her knee and can't stand on it. I made banana bread awhile ago and it's killing me to wait for it to cool off!
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Don't wait, I like it while it real warm.
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Ssshhh! Don't tell! I had a little extra batter and made a few muffins. I ate 2! That gives handsome 4 for his "lunch".
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I know, me too! Poor hubs has to go back to work in a couple of hours. His overnight person hurt her knee and can't stand on it. I made banana bread awhile ago and it's killing me to wait for it to cool off!
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Don't wait, I like it while it real warm.
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Ssshhh! Don't tell! I had a little extra batter and made a few muffins. I ate 2! That gives handsome 4 for his "lunch".
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I'm gonna tell.
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Too late! He's up and getting ready, so he knows they're for his lunch. That's ok, I have more baking to do after he leaves. Just didn't want to make noise while he was sleeping. Our kitchen and bedroom share the wall.
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Too late! He's up and getting ready, so he knows they're for his lunch. That's ok, I have more baking to do after he leaves. Just didn't want to make noise while he was sleeping. Our kitchen and bedroom share the wall.
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We all have things we feel we have no one to talk to about. Sometimes it just helps to unload it to help free your mind and heart. The longer we hold things inside us, the more stressed and depressed we become. This is a "no fault" thread, someone else is, or have, gone thru what you are struggling with and will probably comment back to you. I have some great volunteer counselor type members on here that will get back to you sooner or later. JUST DUMP IT HERE. DF

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I was amazed to see the number of people in need a concerned ear to hear them, or just vent. I knew there were vast numbers of people out there that needed an outlet, any outlet. The response so far has been most encouraging, and the attention they have received is beyond reproach. As the volume of posters increase, as it will, just know that we may not be able to respond quickly. How ever, know that I will read them, all of them, and we will do our best to answer you as available to do so. Therefore, I ask you check back in, someone will respond. I also expect that I will have more qualified, caring members stepping up to try and help you in some way. Feel free to come here with out fear of being scoffed at or ignored. You are welcome here. hf DF

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I only have like 3 friends in real life. I am in love with a girl who treats me like shit.
All I do all day every day is create music.
My life is so depressing. I would give anything to go back to when I was 18.
Ahh those were the days. Doing a bunch of drugs, having sex with random beautiful women, orgies, parties, EVERYDAY!
But now since I stopped doing drugs and sold my car I have virtually no friends. No one wants to hangout with me because they all want to get high, and all I want to do is create music.
Im just so freaking lonely.
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I only have like 3 friends in real life. I am in love with a girl who treats me like shit.
All I do all day every day is create music.
My life is so depressing. I would give anything to go back to when I was 18.
Ahh those were the days. Doing a bunch of drugs, having sex with random beautiful women, orgies, parties, EVERYDAY!
But now since I stopped doing drugs and sold my car I have virtually no friends. No one wants to hangout with me because they all want to get high, and all I want to do is create music.
Im just so freaking lonely.
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Can I ask you something? Are you any good? What kind of music do you write?
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I only have like 3 friends in real life. I am in love with a girl who treats me like shit.
All I do all day every day is create music.
My life is so depressing. I would give anything to go back to when I was 18.
Ahh those were the days. Doing a bunch of drugs, having sex with random beautiful women, orgies, parties, EVERYDAY!
But now since I stopped doing drugs and sold my car I have virtually no friends. No one wants to hangout with me because they all want to get high, and all I want to do is create music.
Im just so freaking lonely.
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Maybe lonely, but you are the winner getting away from the drug scene. Find some new friends, it is possible. DF
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I only have like 3 friends in real life. I am in love with a girl who treats me like shit.
All I do all day every day is create music.
My life is so depressing. I would give anything to go back to when I was 18.
Ahh those were the days. Doing a bunch of drugs, having sex with random beautiful women, orgies, parties, EVERYDAY!
But now since I stopped doing drugs and sold my car I have virtually no friends. No one wants to hangout with me because they all want to get high, and all I want to do is create music.
Im just so freaking lonely.
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Can I ask you something? Are you any good? What kind of music do you write?
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Let me tell you why I asked. I started playing piano when I was 4, flute when I was 10 and electronic organ when I was 13. Pipe organ came much later, but I didn't get to play for long. I tinker around with alot of different instruments. I can PLAY, but you are creating! I took music theory and the stuff I wrote was technically correct, but sounded like crap.

I think you know now that drugs don't help you write good music. It'll only make sense while you're high!LOL Trust me, I've had friends that wrote while under the influence! You may have a gift, if others want to listen to and enjoy your music. It shouldn't make you miserable. New friends will come. Keep making your music and others will find you.
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I only have like 3 friends in real life. I am in love with a girl who treats me like shit.
All I do all day every day is create music.
My life is so depressing. I would give anything to go back to when I was 18.
Ahh those were the days. Doing a bunch of drugs, having sex with random beautiful women, orgies, parties, EVERYDAY!
But now since I stopped doing drugs and sold my car I have virtually no friends. No one wants to hangout with me because they all want to get high, and all I want to do is create music.
Im just so freaking lonely.
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BTW, anyone that makes their partner feel like shit, isn't worth the time you took to type the sentence about her. Darlin' I promise you, there IS someone special out there for you that will be your exact fit! Don't try to rush through life, enjoy it, savour it. Some of it will suck, but mostly, it's good. When I get lonely, I get lost in music. It's imprinted on my soul. I bet it is yours, too.
They also serve who stand and wait. John Milton
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I have a feeling that I will enjoy the love and support being shared in this thread when I take the time to read through it. My heart goes out to those who are going through difficulty.

Here's my rant. I'm am SO SICK AND TIRED of pornography. It is a constant temptation. I work on a computer and much of my energy every time I sit down to work goes towards resisting the urge to look at porn. Today I went to one of my favorite news sites from another country and made the mistake of clicking on a video of a hot chick. I thought it would be like a Sports Illustrated swimsuit video thing. I rarely click on those, too. But today I was weak. Next thing I know, the girl in the video is taking her clothes off. The other country is looser morally than we are here. Now I have to resist going to that section of that website every time I go back to it.

I am tired. I understand the effects that pornography has on the brain. Porn on the brain, and specifically internet porn, is one of the most harmful things out there right now. And I am just tired. It is everywhere. Most people see it as normal. Most people don't understand how damaging it is to them. I feel very alone as one who tries to resist that crap. And I am tired.
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Now I have to resist going to that section of that website every time I go back to it.

I am tired. I understand the effects that pornography has on the brain. Porn on the brain, and specifically internet porn, is one of the most harmful things out there right now. And I am just tired. It is everywhere. Most people see it as normal. Most people don't understand how damaging it is to them. I feel very alone as one who tries to resist that crap. And I am tired.////////////////////
I will be back a little later this evening, but for now, I will say that in your last paragraph you answered your own question. You know the harm to the brain, you know it is everywhere, and that it should be avoided. Now you must find the strength to totally not expose yourself to it. There are to many good sites to go to on the internet that contain healthy content for you. RESIST, is the key word in your post. I have to fight that battle all the time, because the female body is so alluring and beautiful to man. You can control this yourself with intense restraint. Try a day at a time, the longer you are away from it the easier it gets, just like quitting any addiction. A day at a time my brother. Best wishes to you my friend.
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all you can do is keep trying to resist it. if it's hard to resist, prayer really does help/ it's like anything -- if your actions don't match your convictions one of them has to give. and you KNOW (and I know) you're right about porn.
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I only have like 3 friends in real life. I am in love with a girl who treats me like shit.
All I do all day every day is create music.
My life is so depressing. I would give anything to go back to when I was 18.
Ahh those were the days. Doing a bunch of drugs, having sex with random beautiful women, orgies, parties, EVERYDAY!
But now since I stopped doing drugs and sold my car I have virtually no friends. No one wants to hangout with me because they all want to get high, and all I want to do is create music.
Im just so freaking lonely.
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BTW, anyone that makes their partner feel like shit, isn't worth the time you took to type the sentence about her. Darlin' I promise you, there IS someone special out there for you that will be your exact fit! Don't try to rush through life, enjoy it, savour it. Some of it will suck, but mostly, it's good. When I get lonely, I get lost in music. It's imprinted on my soul. I bet it is yours, too.
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good advice, TB. And hello!
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Hey, Swin. How are you, my friend? You and yours have been in my prayers.

And, no, I haven't gotten to my paperwork yet! Soon, though.
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I only have like 3 friends in real life. I am in love with a girl who treats me like shit.
All I do all day every day is create music.
My life is so depressing. I would give anything to go back to when I was 18.
Ahh those were the days. Doing a bunch of drugs, having sex with random beautiful women, orgies, parties, EVERYDAY!
But now since I stopped doing drugs and sold my car I have virtually no friends. No one wants to hangout with me because they all want to get high, and all I want to do is create music.
Im just so freaking lonely.
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To have 3 friends makes you wealthy indeed. We all have acquaintances. But for friends, 3 is awesome.

If you can get to a book store that has a coffee shop, picking out some music books to look at while you have your coffee is a good method to gain some new friends. If you don't bury your nose in it with the "do not disturb" concentration, bet it won't be long before you meet some new people.

Just touring the store, seeing when your age group is there, and timing it right, with a stack of books, a smile, and someone might want to share your table.

Hang in there. Sometimes it's hard to to the right thing. It's harder to forgive yourself for doing things you don't feel right about with people who don't care.

Choose your relationships wisely. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company. hf
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THANK YOU , FOR YOUR KIND REPLYS , I AM REACHING THE END SOON WHAT SCARES ME MOST IS GOING TO HELL I HAVE ALWAYS HEARD THAT IS WHERE YOU GO IF YOU COMMIT SUICIDE , BUT MY DEPRESSION IS MIND BOGGLING ITS ALOT OF THINGS I CAN FEEL EVIL CLOSING IN ON THIS WORLD AND I AM SENSITIVE TO THOSE VIBES , SOMETHING TERRIBLY WICKED IS ABOUT TO HAPPEN AND I AM CRUSHED, I LOVE MY WIFE AND KIDS BUT I CANT PROVIDE FOR THEM AND I FEEL I WOULD JUST BE BETTER OFF IF I JUST DOIT. I PRAY SOMETIMES 12-20 TIMES ADAY AND ASK GOD TO GIVE ME STRENGHTH I HAVE LOST 50LB IN 3 MOS AND PEOPLE DONT EVEN RECOGNISE ME , AGAIN THANKS FOR LISTENING AND REPLYING YOUR THE FIRST AND PROLLY THE LAST TO HEAR THIS FROM ME, I SIMPLY DONT WANT TO BE IN THIS WORLD ANY LONGER.
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Darlin' first of all STOP praying for strength!! I AM serious. When you pray for strength, God figures you'll have to use it. Pray, instead, for peace, for guidance, for more peace. Someone, a long time ago, told me when you pray for strength or patience, then you usually get a situation where you NEED to use those things.

I know how you feel, I've been there myself. I was a single mom, no job, no friends, family was always judging. I KNOW. The biggest thing that stopped me was I didn't want my two little ones to find me. One night I was ready, though. I had it all planned out. The kids wouldn't find me. Then the phone rang. It was my now husband. A little later, a person I knew from church was at my door. Those two divine appointments saved my life that day. I have found that when I pray, "Lord, please take these feelings away from me.", they DO go away.

Suicide is not the answer, hon. I know you don't see a solution. I know you see hard times. I CAN tell you it won't last forever. It really won't. You have people that are there at home that want to help you. They love you and don't want you to leave them. Remember, THIS WORLD IS NOT YOUR HOME, but it's NOT your decision to make. God has you here for a reason, wait on Him to show you. Please.
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Years ago, when I was still drinking, I started burning myself -- first with cigarettes, then with lighters. As a result I have a couple of really big ugly burn scars on my arms. We were getting ready for a karate class tonight and I helped my younger son get on his outfit while I was shirtless and he noticed the scars (which he must have noticed before, but I digress). He asked what they were -- I have a story I tell for people (like kids) who don't need to know. He listened to my story and said, very seriously, "are you OK?" and hugged me. My point is that sometimes it helps to concentrate on others' love for us instead of our love for others. Not everyone believes in God, but I do, and I think God is a lot like my younger son. Serious, gentle, wanting us to be OK and willing to help if we're not.
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Please pray for me. I'm married to a man a bit older than me, and he has anger issues. One night several months ago, he really ripped into me emotionally, and somehow, I just snapped inside. He doesn't understand how this happened, but its like my animal mind or something just got tired of absorbing his anger and a part of me wanted to kill him. Of course, these destructive feelings were felt while I was frozen physically.

I haven't been the same since. I have depression and major insomnia. My husband and I have ups and downs, but he does not understand that he pushed me into a sort of broken down paranoid state. Even my coworkers have noticed that I'm different, and I'm not as accepted at work.

Please pray for my mental health. I am borderline crazy, or perhaps even went crazy a little bit. There is no one to talk to about this. The denial is so thick. I miss my happy self and my mind is not what it use to be.

Thanks for your prayers.
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Hey, Swin. How are you, my friend? You and yours have been in my prayers.

And, no, I haven't gotten to my paperwork yet! Soon, though.
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Better today than yesterday, thanks in part to DF and the others on this thread.

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Please pray for me. I'm married to a man a bit older than me, and he has anger issues. One night several months ago, he really ripped into me emotionally, and somehow, I just snapped inside. He doesn't understand how this happened, but its like my animal mind or something just got tired of absorbing his anger and a part of me wanted to kill him. Of course, these destructive feelings were felt while I was frozen physically.

I haven't been the same since. I have depression and major insomnia. My husband and I have ups and downs, but he does not understand that he pushed me into a sort of broken down paranoid state. Even my coworkers have noticed that I'm different, and I'm not as accepted at work.

Please pray for my mental health. I am borderline crazy, or perhaps even went crazy a little bit. There is no one to talk to about this. The denial is so thick. I miss my happy self and my mind is not what it use to be.

Thanks for your prayers.
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A lot of people don't understand how being an emotional punching bag can make you feel. I've been through this as a child, when I couldn't really do anything about it. You can -- you need to accept that your feelings don't make you a bad person, because they really don't. They just make you a person who's been treated badly. I will pray for you.
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You know, I think so many young people have grown up with the whole BFF thing and our culture these days, that the meaning of true friendship has gotten lost. Real love, too, has always been hard to find, but after decades of indoctrination from school, tv and movies, how can they know the truth? I know I didn't know when I was 20-something.

I had a teacher that told us, if we had ONE real friend during our lifetime, we were fortunate. He said most of us would never have that. I remember we were all really shocked and thought he was just too old to understand. LOL After all these years, I'm not sure I totally agree with him, but I DO understand better what he was trying to tell us.
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Please pray for me. I'm married to a man a bit older than me, and he has anger issues. One night several months ago, he really ripped into me emotionally, and somehow, I just snapped inside. He doesn't understand how this happened, but its like my animal mind or something just got tired of absorbing his anger and a part of me wanted to kill him. Of course, these destructive feelings were felt while I was frozen physically.

I haven't been the same since. I have depression and major insomnia. My husband and I have ups and downs, but he does not understand that he pushed me into a sort of broken down paranoid state. Even my coworkers have noticed that I'm different, and I'm not as accepted at work.

Please pray for my mental health. I am borderline crazy, or perhaps even went crazy a little bit. There is no one to talk to about this. The denial is so thick. I miss my happy self and my mind is not what it use to be.

Thanks for your prayers.
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Yes, prayers for sure. It sounds like a scary and maybe even dangerous situation. It's no wonder you shut down.

Has your husband been in for a physical lately, or has he always been this way? If this is something new, maybe approaching it from the aspect of you care for him and have noticed....choose something other than anger, and think it would be good for him to just go for a checkup.

A Dr. might be a good place for you to start with your husband. They're bound by confidentiality and won't tell him what you told them without your consent.

Do you have a minister, anyone you can talk to near you, so you don't have to carry this alone?
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Hey, Swin. How are you, my friend? You and yours have been in my prayers.

And, no, I haven't gotten to my paperwork yet! Soon, though.
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Better today than yesterday, thanks in part to DF and the others on this thread.

I didn't ask -- I leave the Jewish mothering to others ;)
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Smartie! See, that's another reason!LOLOL
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