Love

Why? Because we know, but whatever man. Odds are there is somebody who will return the feeling, keep trying

Good question.

You know if people would be honest, not play games, make decisions, stand by the decisions, believe and trust...I could go on but I know you know what I mean.

It just doesnt need to be that difficult if you really love someone.

Listen my friend, your not the only one... the only answer I can give you is that pain/suffering builds character and what doesnt kill you only makes you stronger...

trust me brother I know EXACTLY how you feel, you are not alone...

Just live though it and dont commit suicide, I mean I've been able to avoid doing it this far, so can you... dont do it... you will only get reincarnated into a worse position than you left, there is no reward for killing yourself..

for some reason god needs you to live though this pain, you might not understand it now, but 5-10-15-20+ years from now it will make sense and you will have that "aahhhh, i get it" moment. you will be strong when others need you,

consider it all life boot camp training...

let me guess also... a woman???

Because you haven't found the right person yet.

You must understand women are not your equals, they are inferior and niave and subject to much more outside influence than you are as a man, there is no use in trying to understand them in the same way that you as a man understand things...

just keep on keeping on,

Yeah. The woman I knew I wanted from the moment I saw her. She put a spell on me.. and then kicked me to the curb.

Happy Valentines Day OP

Why? Only you can answer that question. But it does require some thought if you don't want it to keep happening.

Guard your heart till you are sure the other person feels the same. Take it slow.

Romantic love is a dance--not a race.

If you are attracted to someone don't get ahead of yourself and think they should love you because you love them--it doesn't work that way, never has.

Don't get angry at the world, work on making yourself more lovable.

Valentines day is a terrible time to look for love, if people are not serious it shows over this Holiday.



Last Edited by stillhere on 02/14/2013 12:51 AM

It may sound cliche but you cant let them know how much you actually care about them. It makes you appear weak unfortunately i have learned this before as well. Of course you have heard the saying "nice guys finish last", i disagree with this though. Generally woman are attracted to assholes because they portray strength, people desire to be with a strong person. Overly nice guys appear weak, even if they aren't. You may even be a strong person but by showing them constant unconditional love it almost portrays a message that says "you can walk all over me and I still will want you". Of course i could be completely off base with this as i don't personally know what your situation is, woman are all so different..and crazy. Keep your head up though as long as your not afraid to keep trying you will find someone.

I knew it... look there has been A LOT of that going on lately, I know its always been going on...but my feeling is a lot more then it used to be

#1 - You are not the only one, it recently happened to ME and I garuntee it was 100X worse than your case( i cant go into details)

#2- What goes around comes around, even for women, just know she will get that pain back 3x as bad(which may hurt you even more if really love her knowing that she will get that pain back)... but it will happen to her .. trust me..what goes around comes around

#3- Now you know to never truly give your heart to a woman again, just play them, lie to them , use them , and betray them.... now you have the karma free upper hand, its like a blank check to do you, the hard part is just getting over that last one, once you do youll never be the same man again, thats it ..the old you has died... now you will have no heart and no feelings ever again

#4 - make the best out of having no heart now, take advantage of any woman you can , get the most out of it, then kick her butt out of your life

I wish there was a magic formula... ;/

Just keep on loving. It is always reciprocated through whatever frequency. Be it ways unexpected, or direct and upfront, love carrys on and is neverending.

It is the stuff of legends with the strength of oceans.

I've loved to the point of self-sacrifice.. it just hurt in the end.

I know a few people that are selfless and loving like this, and I can tell you that they're adored.

Even if its just a matter of catching them during that odd moment, holding them still, looking into their eyes and softly telling them how much you love them, and acknowledging how sweetheartedly they live.

Thank you.

He meets his soulmate, and they couple ceaselessly for ten days.
No mistake.
This union will change worlds.

Where do you get your flowers from, the graveyard?