What is your definition of "fucked up"?

My whole life was one big fuck up until about 3 years ago. I'd hit rock bottom and saw no way out.

Then my life took a turn for the better and I finally saw what was going on around me. I stepped outside my bubble and realised its not all about me. I'm still not "normal" but if being "normal" means going through life in a self-absorbed daze of ignorance, then I'd rather stay the way I am and embrace who I am and how I can benefit others. Whilst also developing myself and my outlook on life.

Don't give up hope and despair. You have the strength to be whatever you want to be, you just have to make it happen.