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How can I get over shame without medication?

 
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How can I get over shame without medication?
I'm ashamed of some actions committed by my parents, especially my dad in the past.

I live in fear of my friends discovering them and mocking me. Just that thought freezes me.

I wish there were a way to overcome something like this without the doc and get medicated. They medicate you for everything these days.

I know it sounds silly but its effected my mental health. Some days this is the only thing I can think of. I daydream of ways how to face my friends when they finally find out, how to make up a story etc etc.

verysad
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02/17/2013 12:37 PM
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Re: How can I get over shame without medication?
Let it go.


These things are not us.


Stop the cycle, find Love then reach down and pull another up.
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Re: How can I get over shame without medication?
Let it go.


These things are not us.


Stop the cycle, find Love then reach down and pull another up.
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Thanks. I donno what you mean by these things are not us.
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Re: How can I get over shame without medication?
Fuck 'em. This has to be your mantra. Who cares what other people think? What do YOU think about you? Do you like yourself? Do you love yourself? If not, why not?

Bitch on my block been hating on me for years. Every new neighbor we get, she tells these fabricated stories about me and my family to them. Guess what? I left the shit where it lay, and it's finally catching up with her. People see her for what she is and they see I am nothing like her lies portray me to be. And her husband is fucking another neighbor down the block. I know about it, but do I put her biz in the street? Nope. She'll find out when she supposed to.

Live your life and fuck 'em all.
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Re: How can I get over shame without medication?
Come on dude don't sweat it, you're amongst friends here. Just tell us what they did that that is so shameful and you'll feel much better :-)
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Re: How can I get over shame without medication?
I'm ashamed of some actions committed by my parents, especially my dad in the past.

I live in fear of my friends discovering them and mocking me. Just that thought freezes me.

I wish there were a way to overcome something like this without the doc and get medicated. They medicate you for everything these days.

I know it sounds silly but its effected my mental health. Some days this is the only thing I can think of. I daydream of ways how to face my friends when they finally find out, how to make up a story etc etc.

verysad
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1711362


Did he butt fuck you or what? Just let go of the things you can't control or change...if your friends make fun of you then either grow a pair or find new pussy friends...
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Heterosexual pride!

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Re: How can I get over shame without medication?
Psychotherapy.
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02/17/2013 12:45 PM
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Re: How can I get over shame without medication?
I think these 'friends' should be let go first. They are not truly your friends if they wont support you regardless. Its not like your Dad went and killed people right? Even if he did, they should still be your friends, because it wasnt you.
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Re: How can I get over shame without medication?
I'm ashamed of some actions committed by my parents, especially my dad in the past.

I live in fear of my friends discovering them and mocking me. Just that thought freezes me.

I wish there were a way to overcome something like this without the doc and get medicated. They medicate you for everything these days.

I know it sounds silly but its effected my mental health. Some days this is the only thing I can think of. I daydream of ways how to face my friends when they finally find out, how to make up a story etc etc.

verysad
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1711362


Never give anyone free rent in your head. If whatever happened bothers your friends, then they are not your friends and better to be rid of them. Hold your head up and live your life for you - people opinions are just that, their opinions. So fuck em, live your life and let the chips fall where they may.
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Re: How can I get over shame without medication?
I'm ashamed of some actions committed by my parents, especially my dad in the past.

I live in fear of my friends discovering them and mocking me. Just that thought freezes me.

I wish there were a way to overcome something like this without the doc and get medicated. They medicate you for everything these days.

I know it sounds silly but its effected my mental health. Some days this is the only thing I can think of. I daydream of ways how to face my friends when they finally find out, how to make up a story etc etc.

verysad
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1711362


Did he butt fuck you or what? Just let go of the things you can't control or change...if your friends make fun of you then either grow a pair or find new pussy friends...
 Quoting: BRIEF


OH WOW! Maybe I should have used better words to describe the situation. Its nothing like that.
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Re: How can I get over shame without medication?
Come on dude don't sweat it, you're amongst friends here. Just tell us what they did that that is so shameful and you'll feel much better :-)
 Quoting: Sir France's Beercan


Well, my dad went to prison. And I'm so ashamed of it I feel like I went there myself. tissue
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Re: How can I get over shame without medication?
Come on dude don't sweat it, you're amongst friends here. Just tell us what they did that that is so shameful and you'll feel much better :-)
 Quoting: Sir France's Beercan


Well, my dad went to prison. And I'm so ashamed of it I feel like I went there myself. tissue
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1711362


For what?
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Re: How can I get over shame without medication?
Come on dude don't sweat it, you're amongst friends here. Just tell us what they did that that is so shameful and you'll feel much better :-)
 Quoting: Sir France's Beercan


Well, my dad went to prison. And I'm so ashamed of it I feel like I went there myself. tissue
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1711362


Come on dude don't sweat it, you're amongst friends here. Just tell us what they did that that is so shameful and you'll feel much better :-)
 Quoting: Sir France's Beercan


Well, my dad went to prison. And I'm so ashamed of it I feel like I went there myself. tissue
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1711362


Ok man I hear ya. What did he go to prison for? Maybe we can help you out when we know what he went down for, after all it can't be that bad, can it?
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Re: How can I get over shame without medication?
Come on dude don't sweat it, you're amongst friends here. Just tell us what they did that that is so shameful and you'll feel much better :-)
 Quoting: Sir France's Beercan


Well, my dad went to prison. And I'm so ashamed of it I feel like I went there myself. tissue
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1711362


For what?
 Quoting: BRIEF


He says it had something to do with his taxes. It was only for a month and the case was dropped but I cant look at him the same way. blackeye
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Re: How can I get over shame without medication?
Come on dude don't sweat it, you're amongst friends here. Just tell us what they did that that is so shameful and you'll feel much better :-)
 Quoting: Sir France's Beercan


Well, my dad went to prison. And I'm so ashamed of it I feel like I went there myself. tissue
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1711362


For what?
 Quoting: BRIEF


He says it had something to do with his taxes. It was only for a month and the case was dropped but I cant look at him the same way. blackeye
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1711362


Big deal...unless he dropped the soap while in prison i don't see the shame in that...
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Re: How can I get over shame without medication?
Come on dude don't sweat it, you're amongst friends here. Just tell us what they did that that is so shameful and you'll feel much better :-)
 Quoting: Sir France's Beercan


Well, my dad went to prison. And I'm so ashamed of it I feel like I went there myself. tissue
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1711362


For what?
 Quoting: BRIEF


He says it had something to do with his taxes. It was only for a month and the case was dropped but I cant look at him the same way. blackeye
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1711362


Wouldn't bother me if I found that out about a friend. And what does that have to do with you anyway? And there are worse things done - doing that does not make him a monster so cut him some slack already.
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Re: How can I get over shame without medication?
Come on dude don't sweat it, you're amongst friends here. Just tell us what they did that that is so shameful and you'll feel much better :-)
 Quoting: Sir France's Beercan


Well, my dad went to prison. And I'm so ashamed of it I feel like I went there myself. tissue
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1711362


For what?
 Quoting: BRIEF


He says it had something to do with his taxes. It was only for a month and the case was dropped but I cant look at him the same way. blackeye
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1711362


Yeah dude I'm with brief there. Maybe if he buttfucked a nun you could feel ashamed but a tax dodge?

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Re: How can I get over shame without medication?
Run to Christ, He has everything <- The source of everything good.
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Well, my dad went to prison. And I'm so ashamed of it I feel like I went there myself. tissue
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1711362


For what?
 Quoting: BRIEF


He says it had something to do with his taxes. It was only for a month and the case was dropped but I cant look at him the same way. blackeye
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1711362


Wouldn't bother me if I found that out about a friend. And what does that have to do with you anyway? And there are worse things done - doing that does not make him a monster so cut him some slack already.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18713240


Well it would ruin our family name. People will talk behind our back. Right now no one besides us in the immediate family know.
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Re: How can I get over shame without medication?
Run to Christ, He has everything <- The source of everything good.
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I would if Christ could turn back time and have my dad sort out his taxes.
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Well, my dad went to prison. And I'm so ashamed of it I feel like I went there myself. tissue
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1711362


For what?
 Quoting: BRIEF


He says it had something to do with his taxes. It was only for a month and the case was dropped but I cant look at him the same way. blackeye
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1711362


Yeah dude I'm with brief there. Maybe if he buttfucked a nun you could feel ashamed but a tax dodge?
 Quoting: Sir France's Beercan


I see what you mean and my mom says the same. But still, going to prison is not something I can be proud of.
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Re: How can I get over shame without medication?
If its what your parents did, why let it bother you? You can't control other people's actions, might as well let it go, maybe that thought will comfort you?
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Re: How can I get over shame without medication?
Run to Christ, He has everything <- The source of everything good.
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I would if Christ could turn back time and have my dad sort out his taxes.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1711362


We do know that God works all things for good for those who love Him. So, start to look at what good can be found for you and your family. Go past your shame and look at the rest of your emotions and how your parents might be feeling. Above all, seek out the good.

Last Edited by A Friend on 02/17/2013 01:02 PM
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Re: How can I get over shame without medication?
OP, you are not responsible for the actions of your parents. Full stop! The sooner you accept this and come to terms with it the sooner you will get better. Medication is not going to help you in the longer term although it may provide some benefits in the short term.. Counselling would be a much better use of your money. Good luck!
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Re: How can I get over shame without medication?
There's just too much stigma attached with going to prison. Your relatives, friends everybody would make up stories why it happened. Rumors would spread that it wasnt just taxes it was something else etc etc.

verysad
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Id prescribe sterilisation to stop the cycle repeating again.
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Re: How can I get over shame without medication?
Come on dude don't sweat it, you're amongst friends here. Just tell us what they did that that is so shameful and you'll feel much better :-)
 Quoting: Sir France's Beercan


Well, my dad went to prison. And I'm so ashamed of it I feel like I went there myself. tissue
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1711362


For what?
 Quoting: BRIEF


He says it had something to do with his taxes. It was only for a month and the case was dropped but I cant look at him the same way. blackeye
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1711362


Why would you let that upset you that much, it's what your dad did and after posting my first comment, I was wondering if your parents raped. Going to jail for taxes is not a big deal, or if it wasnt you.
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Re: How can I get over shame without medication?
Run to Christ, He has everything <- The source of everything good.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 34441843


I would if Christ could turn back time and have my dad sort out his taxes.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1711362


We do know that God works all things for good for those who love Him. So, start to look at what good can be found for you and your family. Go past your shame and look at the rest of your emotions and how your parents might be feeling. Above all, seek out the good.
 Quoting: A Friend


My parents feel like nothing ever happened. They dont even talk about it. But it keeps bothering me. I wish I could stop thinking about it. gaah
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Re: How can I get over shame without medication?
Quit thinking about yourself and think, instead, about others.

Do what you can to improve yourself and the lives of lthose around you.

You cannot be held liable for things done by others.

Doctors do not relieve guilt, Jesus does.

You do not have to own that guilt, it is not yours. Stand tall, only you can do that for yourself. It is you, and only you, who are crippling y ourself, get over it.
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Re: How can I get over shame without medication?
I'm ashamed of some actions committed by my parents, especially my dad in the past.

I live in fear of my friends discovering them and mocking me. Just that thought freezes me.

I wish there were a way to overcome something like this without the doc and get medicated. They medicate you for everything these days.

I know it sounds silly but its effected my mental health. Some days this is the only thing I can think of. I daydream of ways how to face my friends when they finally find out, how to make up a story etc etc.

verysad
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1711362


tell the truth and let it go

shame is just thinking that it is your fault
"a foundation built on lies is always bound to crumble and those who aren't humble shall tumble to the earth"
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For what?
 Quoting: BRIEF


He says it had something to do with his taxes. It was only for a month and the case was dropped but I cant look at him the same way. blackeye
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1711362


Yeah dude I'm with brief there. Maybe if he buttfucked a nun you could feel ashamed but a tax dodge?
 Quoting: Sir France's Beercan


I see what you mean and my mom says the same. But still, going to prison is not something I can be proud of.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1711362


Or not even buttfucked per se. Maybe if he was caught fingering a spastic at the day centre, that would be bad and maybe even shameful but tax dodging is a victimless crime and should probably be applauded. Are you sure it was just tax dodging?

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