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Anonymous Coward User ID: 33827543 United States 02/17/2013 07:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Amazing...that you even have to come to this website and post this ridiculous question. Apparently...you believe you are a perfect boyfriend. Astutely....most women will think you are a perfect nightmare. and good luck with that. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 33273832 United States 02/17/2013 07:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am a young guy in my 20‘s, I own my own land which is a self-sufficient commune type farm, I have many houses on my land, I do not owe anyone any money and I have a good credit rating. I do not drink, I am loyal, I would never get angry and hit a women, I am a health nut vegetarian (but I don’t mind if my girlfriend or anyone else eats meat), I do not lie or steal from others, I can be sensitive at times. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4901221 I am never getting married, I am never having kids of my own but I my adopt, I will not go out to restaurants but I will not stop my GF from going out, I don’t like being around any more than 4 people at a time(and that’s only if I like them), it is not a democracy at my small village/farm it is a dictatorship and I am the dictator, On my farm I am a kind, sensible, and just dictator, like all good parents, when my GF is on my land she will (like everyone else must) do what I tell her to do the way I tell her to do it or leave, she must be able to enjoy getting her hands dirty, I do not support fashion or the pointless use of makeup to look beautiful, if she is my girlfriend that means I love her and I don’t want to see her hiding behind makeup, I want to see the real her and not some plastic barby doll. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 30742855 United States 02/17/2013 07:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | when my GF is on my land she will (like everyone else must) do what I tell her to do the way I tell her to do it or leave, Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4901221 Neither your GF nor anyone else will ever be able to make themselves at home on your land. As long as you believe your way to be the only proper way, your way will be tread in solitude. I doubt there is one who would see you as perfect for her as long as what's quoted remains to be seen. |
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Anonymous Coward 02/17/2013 07:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I mean what you've said so far sounds reasonable... But I bet there's way way more weird little rules that are a 'must' in your eyes that would send most chicks running... Not because they're bitches, but because they'd just be offended by what you expect of them. My suggestion is, get a nice foreign girl who doesn't speak your language. And preferably deaf/mute. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1711362 Canada 02/17/2013 07:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well, I like the first paragraph. If I were a woman I would totally marry you. lol. But the 2nd paragraph makes you look like a psycho. If I were the same woman above who married you, and you acted like guy in the 2nd paragraph, I would probably beat the shit out of you with a baseball bat for being a docuhbag. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 9014106 Australia 02/17/2013 07:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Things were starting to sound pretty good, but the 'dictatorship' part kinda ruined your case. Not that you shouldn't be able to run your property the way you want, but to expect to 'own' others when they step foot on your land is - well - a deal breaker. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 34480305 United Kingdom 02/17/2013 07:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Find a girl into this: [link to en.wikipedia.org] |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 9014106 Australia 02/17/2013 07:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well, I like the first paragraph. If I were a woman I would totally marry you. lol. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1711362 But the 2nd paragraph makes you look like a psycho. If I were the same woman above who married you, and you acted like guy in the 2nd paragraph, I would probably beat the shit out of you with a baseball bat for being a docuhbag. Haha - yep. Started good, and then went downhill. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 21057428 United States 02/17/2013 07:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am a young guy in my 20‘s, I own my own land which is a self-sufficient commune type farm, I have many houses on my land, I do not owe anyone any money and I have a good credit rating. I do not drink, I am loyal, I would never get angry and hit a women, I am a health nut vegetarian (but I don’t mind if my girlfriend or anyone else eats meat), I do not lie or steal from others, I can be sensitive at times. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4901221 I am never getting married, I am never having kids of my own but I my adopt, I will not go out to restaurants but I will not stop my GF from going out, I don’t like being around any more than 4 people at a time(and that’s only if I like them), it is not a democracy at my small village/farm it is a dictatorship and I am the dictator, On my farm I am a kind, sensible, and just dictator, like all good parents, when my GF is on my land she will (like everyone else must) do what I tell her to do the way I tell her to do it or leave, she must be able to enjoy getting her hands dirty, I do not support fashion or the pointless use of makeup to look beautiful, if she is my girlfriend that means I love her and I don’t want to see her hiding behind makeup, I want to see the real her and not some plastic barby doll. Insecure control freak.......only an insecure girl will go along with all that bolded above. All of the second paragraph is pathetic, but the bolded part is the worst. There are no dictators in a healthy marriage or co-existance. There are equal partners that respect, love and care for eachother. You're looking for a slave, not a mature secure woman for a partnership. Pity. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1711362 Canada 02/17/2013 07:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am a young guy in my 20‘s, I own my own land which is a self-sufficient commune type farm, I have many houses on my land, I do not owe anyone any money and I have a good credit rating. I do not drink, I am loyal, I would never get angry and hit a women, I am a health nut vegetarian (but I don’t mind if my girlfriend or anyone else eats meat), I do not lie or steal from others, I can be sensitive at times. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4901221 I am never getting married, I am never having kids of my own but I my adopt, I will not go out to restaurants but I will not stop my GF from going out, I don’t like being around any more than 4 people at a time(and that’s only if I like them), it is not a democracy at my small village/farm it is a dictatorship and I am the dictator, On my farm I am a kind, sensible, and just dictator, like all good parents, when my GF is on my land she will (like everyone else must) do what I tell her to do the way I tell her to do it or leave, she must be able to enjoy getting her hands dirty, I do not support fashion or the pointless use of makeup to look beautiful, if she is my girlfriend that means I love her and I don’t want to see her hiding behind makeup, I want to see the real her and not some plastic barby doll. Insecure control freak.......only an insecure girl will go along with all that bolded above. All of the second paragraph is pathetic, but the bolded part is the worst. There are no dictators in a healthy marriage or co-existance. There are equal partners that respect, love and care for eachother. You're looking for a slave, not a mature secure woman for a partnership. Pity. Actually, up until 5 minutes ago I was thinking the same until the poster above posted this. [link to en.wikipedia.org] Now I`m not so sure....hmmmmm.... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 21057428 United States 02/17/2013 07:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am a young guy in my 20‘s, I own my own land which is a self-sufficient commune type farm, I have many houses on my land, I do not owe anyone any money and I have a good credit rating. I do not drink, I am loyal, I would never get angry and hit a women, I am a health nut vegetarian (but I don’t mind if my girlfriend or anyone else eats meat), I do not lie or steal from others, I can be sensitive at times. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4901221 I am never getting married, I am never having kids of my own but I my adopt, I will not go out to restaurants but I will not stop my GF from going out, I don’t like being around any more than 4 people at a time(and that’s only if I like them), it is not a democracy at my small village/farm it is a dictatorship and I am the dictator, On my farm I am a kind, sensible, and just dictator, like all good parents, when my GF is on my land she will (like everyone else must) do what I tell her to do the way I tell her to do it or leave, she must be able to enjoy getting her hands dirty, I do not support fashion or the pointless use of makeup to look beautiful, if she is my girlfriend that means I love her and I don’t want to see her hiding behind makeup, I want to see the real her and not some plastic barby doll. Insecure control freak.......only an insecure girl will go along with all that bolded above. All of the second paragraph is pathetic, but the bolded part is the worst. There are no dictators in a healthy marriage or co-existance. There are equal partners that respect, love and care for eachother. You're looking for a slave, not a mature secure woman for a partnership. Pity. Actually, up until 5 minutes ago I was thinking the same until the poster above posted this. [link to en.wikipedia.org] Now I`m not so sure....hmmmmm.... I find that disgusting, abnormal, sick and unhealthy......but whatever floats a person's boat. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 4901221 Australia 02/17/2013 07:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You had me up until you said you are a dictator running a dictatorship. Good luck with that. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5542489 You love your parents don’t you? All good parents are dictators! In a democratic family with 3 kids you will be having ice-cream and candy for dinner every night. Sadly their are 3 main thing that will collapse a hippy type communes faster than anything else: money, decision making and sex. I can take care of money, sex is not a problem and that just leaves decision making of which I have taken care of. |
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JennD User ID: 28039238 United States 02/17/2013 07:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | it is not a democracy at my small village/farm it is a dictatorship and I am the dictator, On my farm I am a kind, sensible, and just dictator, like all good parents, when my GF is on my land she will (like everyone else must) do what I tell her to do the way I tell her to do it or leave. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4901221 ... ... I do not support fashion or the pointless use of makeup to look beautiful, if she is my girlfriend that means I love her and I don’t want to see her hiding behind makeup, I want to see the real her and not some plastic barby doll. Point the first: it is a bit skeevy that you're asking for advice regarding a potential partner and you are slipping into parental/boss language. A girlfriend is not an employee, nor is she a child to be looked after. She's your GIRLFRIEND. It's great that you want to "love her for her," but what if that "her" involves wanting to wear tinted lip balm and a little mascara? Just cause it makes her feel good, or it is something she has been doing since she was 14 and it is an ingrained habit. Basically, I am going to say this as plainly as possible because many people seem to miss the point: her body? Her rules. If she wants to wear make up for whatever reason, guess what? She gets to! BECAUSE IT IS HER BODY. If she wants to run around your magical wonderland of a farm in 5 in platform pumps...well, honestly, that's asking for a broken ankle. But it's her brain-dead decision to make. Last Edited by JennD on 02/17/2013 07:43 PM JennD |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 4901221 Australia 02/17/2013 07:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I mean what you've said so far sounds reasonable... Quoting: Mister Obvious But I bet there's way way more weird little rules that are a 'must' in your eyes that would send most chicks running... I take in a lot of homeless people. I do not allow drugs, and i have a golden rule that everyone (including me) must follow: To each according to his needs, from each according to his ability. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 4901221 Australia 02/17/2013 07:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Things were starting to sound pretty good, but the 'dictatorship' part kinda ruined your case. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 9014106 Not that you shouldn't be able to run your property the way you want, but to expect to 'own' others when they step foot on your land is - well - a deal breaker. i do not own others, but i will not stand for anyone stuffing up all my hard work! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 9014106 Australia 02/17/2013 07:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You had me up until you said you are a dictator running a dictatorship. Good luck with that. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5542489 You love your parents don’t you? All good parents are dictators! In a democratic family with 3 kids you will be having ice-cream and candy for dinner every night. Sadly their are 3 main thing that will collapse a hippy type communes faster than anything else: money, decision making and sex. I can take care of money, sex is not a problem and that just leaves decision making of which I have taken care of. If you really want to be a benevolent dictator - maybe you should rethink your decision not to have children (and fight it out with the government who will want to control and influence them.) Otherwise, goodluck with finding a female that *cough* has gone out of fashion. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 4901221 Australia 02/17/2013 07:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Actually, up until 5 minutes ago I was thinking the same until the poster above posted this. [link to en.wikipedia.org] Now I`m not so sure....hmmmmm.... I find that disgusting, abnormal, sick and unhealthy......but whatever floats a person's boat. i agree with you on that one. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 34480305 United Kingdom 02/17/2013 07:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Actually, up until 5 minutes ago I was thinking the same until the poster above posted this. Quoting: idk[link to en.wikipedia.org] Now I`m not so sure....hmmmmm.... I find that disgusting, abnormal, sick and unhealthy......but whatever floats a person's boat. i agree with you on that one. Oh come on. It's a woman that likes a dictator and dirt. It's perfect. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33779702 United States 02/17/2013 07:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You love your parents don’t you? All good parents are dictators! In a democratic family with 3 kids you will be having ice-cream and candy for dinner every night. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4901221 Sadly their are 3 main thing that will collapse a hippy type communes faster than anything else: money, decision making and sex. I can take care of money, sex is not a problem and that just leaves decision making of which I have taken care of. You sound like such a tool |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 4901221 Australia 02/17/2013 07:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | it is not a democracy at my small village/farm it is a dictatorship and I am the dictator, On my farm I am a kind, sensible, and just dictator, like all good parents, when my GF is on my land she will (like everyone else must) do what I tell her to do the way I tell her to do it or leave. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4901221 ... ... I do not support fashion or the pointless use of makeup to look beautiful, if she is my girlfriend that means I love her and I don’t want to see her hiding behind makeup, I want to see the real her and not some plastic barby doll. Point the first: it is a bit skeevy that you're asking for advice regarding a potential partner and you are slipping into parental/boss language. A girlfriend is not an employee, nor is she a child to be looked after. She's your GIRLFRIEND. It's great that you want to "love her for her," but what if that "her" involves wanting to wear tinted lip balm and a little mascara? Just cause it makes her feel good, or it is something she has been doing since she was 14 and it is an ingrained habit. Basically, I am going to say this as plainly as possible because many people seem to miss the point: her body? Her rules. If she wants to wear make up for whatever reason, guess what? She gets to! BECAUSE IT IS HER BODY. If she wants to run around your magical wonderland of a farm in 5 in platform pumps...well, honestly, that's asking for a broken ankle. But it's her brain-dead decision to make. i agree her body her rules, i wouldnt dream of stoping her but i will tell how i feel about it and i wont have anything to do with it. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 34559884 United States 02/17/2013 08:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am a young guy in my 20‘s, I own my own land which is a self-sufficient commune type farm, I have many houses on my land, I do not owe anyone any money and I have a good credit rating. I do not drink, I am loyal, I would never get angry and hit a women, I am a health nut vegetarian (but I don’t mind if my girlfriend or anyone else eats meat), I do not lie or steal from others, I can be sensitive at times. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4901221 I am never getting married, I am never having kids of my own but I my adopt, I will not go out to restaurants but I will not stop my GF from going out, I don’t like being around any more than 4 people at a time(and that’s only if I like them), it is not a democracy at my small village/farm it is a dictatorship and I am the dictator, On my farm I am a kind, sensible, and just dictator, like all good parents, when my GF is on my land she will (like everyone else must) do what I tell her to do the way I tell her to do it or leave, she must be able to enjoy getting her hands dirty, I do not support fashion or the pointless use of makeup to look beautiful, if she is my girlfriend that means I love her and I don’t want to see her hiding behind makeup, I want to see the real her and not some plastic barby doll. Count how many times you said "I" You are a narcissist. |
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