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So I've been in love with my friend's girlfriend for the last 3 years... should I tell her?

 
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So I've been in love with my friend's girlfriend for the last 3 years... should I tell her?
I don't know what to do...

I can't get her out of my system.
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02/18/2013 09:20 AM
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Re: So I've been in love with my friend's girlfriend for the last 3 years... should I tell her?
Man up, shut up and go find your own girlfriend!

Don't be that guy who just falls for everyone elses successes. As if she is just going to drop everything for you- wake up!
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02/18/2013 09:22 AM
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Re: So I've been in love with my friend's girlfriend for the last 3 years... should I tell her?
If you have 1 to many friends
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02/18/2013 09:22 AM
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Re: So I've been in love with my friend's girlfriend for the last 3 years... should I tell her?
lol...

no dont tell her hahaha

3 years and you havent said anything? looser
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02/18/2013 09:23 AM
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Re: So I've been in love with my friend's girlfriend for the last 3 years... should I tell her?
Why would she want somebody so inhibited? Just think of all the 'secrets' you would keep from her under the false label of 'love'. Maybe you just need a 4 legged pet.
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02/18/2013 09:23 AM
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Re: So I've been in love with my friend's girlfriend for the last 3 years... should I tell her?
I don't know what to do...

I can't get her out of my system.
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this will end badly
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02/18/2013 09:24 AM
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Re: So I've been in love with my friend's girlfriend for the last 3 years... should I tell her?
Man up, shut up and go find your own girlfriend!

Don't be that guy who just falls for everyone elses successes. As if she is just going to drop everything for you- wake up!
 Quoting: Steve8511


I cannot stand people who claim to fall for someone else's mate. Its the lowest of low. only a true scumbag would move in on their friends gf.

OP, you are pathetic. With 7 billion people on the planet, find a single girl... there are tons of them, ffs.

don't be a homewrecker.
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02/18/2013 09:25 AM
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No way bro, you can't go down that road. Not only are you betraying your friend, you are betraying yourself at the same time. It will adjust the hierarchy of your own thinking processes, with yourself at the bottom of the totem pole.

Don't hang out with your buddy anymore, and whatever you do, don't punk yourself into thinking that this one girl is special, cuz she is not!
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02/18/2013 09:25 AM
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Oh, and OP, you only want this girl because she is taken. what you are liking is the challenge of stealing her and the subsequent chase.

you are not a real man. a real man would remain friends to both and silence his desires.
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02/18/2013 09:26 AM
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Re: So I've been in love with my friend's girlfriend for the last 3 years... should I tell her?
No way bro, you can't go down that road. Not only are you betraying your friend, you are betraying yourself at the same time. It will adjust the hierarchy of your own thinking processes, with yourself at the bottom of the totem pole.

Don't hang out with your buddy anymore, and whatever you do, don't punk yourself into thinking that this one girl is special, cuz she is not!
 Quoting: Warrior of the Apocalypse


^^this is the truth^^
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02/18/2013 09:27 AM
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fuck her and stfu
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02/18/2013 09:27 AM
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Re: So I've been in love with my friend's girlfriend for the last 3 years... should I tell her?
Leave it. Don't do it.

With friends like you who needs enemies?
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02/18/2013 09:29 AM
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Re: So I've been in love with my friend's girlfriend for the last 3 years... should I tell her?
Man up, shut up and go find your own girlfriend!

Don't be that guy who just falls for everyone elses successes. As if she is just going to drop everything for you- wake up!
 Quoting: Steve8511


I cannot stand people who claim to fall for someone else's mate. Its the lowest of low. only a true scumbag would move in on their friends gf.

OP, you are pathetic. With 7 billion people on the planet, find a single girl... there are tons of them, ffs.

don't be a homewrecker.
 Quoting: daisy 34495736


this$%^^^^^
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Leave it. Don't do it.

With friends like you who needs enemies?
 Quoting: Keepin It Real


sadly, there are many a scum like OP. Doesn't stop to think about the lives he would ruin, only thinks about his own needs and wants.
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02/18/2013 09:29 AM
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Re: So I've been in love with my friend's girlfriend for the last 3 years... should I tell her?
No, don't tell her. Just keep it to yourself until/unless you're both alone and drunk then etc... if it was meant to be it'll happen. No need to force it.
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02/18/2013 09:31 AM
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Re: So I've been in love with my friend's girlfriend for the last 3 years... should I tell her?
I don't know what to do...

I can't get her out of my system.
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What OP didnt tell us is that his friends GF is really a transsexual.
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02/18/2013 09:31 AM
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Dude, if this is truly true, she knows so no need to tell her.hf
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02/18/2013 09:32 AM
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Re: So I've been in love with my friend's girlfriend for the last 3 years... should I tell her?
if she is a caring, and honest person, she will slap you in the face.

then:

If she wants you she will come after you like a bitch in heat.
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02/18/2013 09:35 AM
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Re: So I've been in love with my friend's girlfriend for the last 3 years... should I tell her?
I don't know what to do...

I can't get her out of my system.
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I'll tell you what to do - stop being a selfish prick and go and find your own girlfriend.

She probably isn't interested in you anyway.
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02/18/2013 09:36 AM
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Re: So I've been in love with my friend's girlfriend for the last 3 years... should I tell her?
In lieu of all the recent Trek threads and resurrected ones:

"Oh,how faithless and fickle. Make up your minds!"
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02/18/2013 09:37 AM
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Re: So I've been in love with my friend's girlfriend for the last 3 years... should I tell her?
I don't know what to do...

I can't get her out of my system.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31910747



It happens to us when we are boys, but it's not love, it's an attraction.

Don't tell her anything, let it pass, or else you grow up and laugh at yourself.
“Our lives are not our own. From womb to tomb, we are bound to others. Past and present. And by each crime and every kindness, we birth our future...”
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Re: So I've been in love with my friend's girlfriend for the last 3 years... should I tell her?
I don't know what to do...

I can't get her out of my system.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31910747



It happens to us when we are boys, but it's not love, it's an attraction.

Don't tell her anything, let it pass, or else you grow up and laugh at yourself.
“Our lives are not our own. From womb to tomb, we are bound to others. Past and present. And by each crime and every kindness, we birth our future...”
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02/18/2013 09:40 AM
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Where is your Bro code man?
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02/18/2013 09:40 AM
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Re: So I've been in love with my friend's girlfriend for the last 3 years... should I tell her?
Oh, and OP, you only want this girl because she is taken. what you are liking is the challenge of stealing her and the subsequent chase.

you are not a real man. a real man would remain friends to both and silence his desires.
 Quoting: daisy 34495736



clappa
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02/18/2013 09:47 AM
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Man up, shut up and go find your own girlfriend!

Don't be that guy who just falls for everyone elses successes. As if she is just going to drop everything for you- wake up!
 Quoting: Steve8511


THIS^^^^^^
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02/18/2013 09:47 AM
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Re: So I've been in love with my friend's girlfriend for the last 3 years... should I tell her?
make her sis !
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02/18/2013 09:53 AM
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I don't know what to do...

I can't get her out of my system.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31910747



It happens to us when we are boys, but it's not love, it's an attraction.

Don't tell her anything, let it pass, or else you grow up and laugh at yourself.
 Quoting: far&away


everyone gets attractions now and then. and OP is not in love with this girl, maybe lust, but not love. Love is something that happens when two people have a relationship and make sacrifices and a commitment to each other.

Love = Respect


from a female perspective, if my man's best friend declared his love for me I would never be able to trust someone like that, even if I had any sort emotion or feeling for the person. It would be a red flag that this person has no self discipline, nor do they care about their friend's life. And what's to stop him from doing this type of behavior again some day if I was to fall for him? No thanks. Men of true character are rare finds these days. Any man that would steal his friends woman is not a man, but a snake.

There are better ways to go about this situation. Like accepting that your buddy has a gf that you approve of, but that you also respect.

Selfish people are not people you want to settle down with.
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02/18/2013 09:57 AM
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Re: So I've been in love with my friend's girlfriend for the last 3 years... should I tell her?
Do not tell her, back away from it. You will never have her in a way, you want.
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02/18/2013 10:11 AM
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Re: So I've been in love with my friend's girlfriend for the last 3 years... should I tell her?
Three years is a long time to withhold your feelings for someone. It's probably best to not tell her if you value your friendship. I will say that true love is hard to come by, and after 3 years you often know if it's love or not.
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02/18/2013 10:14 AM
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Re: So I've been in love with my friend's girlfriend for the last 3 years... should I tell her?
If you do, you will loose both and never be with that girl.

Forget it.





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