So I've been in love with my friend's girlfriend for the last 3 years... should I tell her? | |
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daisy User ID: 34495736 United States 02/18/2013 09:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Man up, shut up and go find your own girlfriend! Quoting: Steve8511 Don't be that guy who just falls for everyone elses successes. As if she is just going to drop everything for you- wake up! I cannot stand people who claim to fall for someone else's mate. Its the lowest of low. only a true scumbag would move in on their friends gf. OP, you are pathetic. With 7 billion people on the planet, find a single girl... there are tons of them, ffs. don't be a homewrecker. |
Warrior of the Apocalypse User ID: 27314219 United States 02/18/2013 09:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No way bro, you can't go down that road. Not only are you betraying your friend, you are betraying yourself at the same time. It will adjust the hierarchy of your own thinking processes, with yourself at the bottom of the totem pole. Don't hang out with your buddy anymore, and whatever you do, don't punk yourself into thinking that this one girl is special, cuz she is not! Warrior of the Apocalypse |
daisy User ID: 34495736 United States 02/18/2013 09:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh, and OP, you only want this girl because she is taken. what you are liking is the challenge of stealing her and the subsequent chase. you are not a real man. a real man would remain friends to both and silence his desires. |
daisy User ID: 34495736 United States 02/18/2013 09:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No way bro, you can't go down that road. Not only are you betraying your friend, you are betraying yourself at the same time. It will adjust the hierarchy of your own thinking processes, with yourself at the bottom of the totem pole. Quoting: Warrior of the Apocalypse Don't hang out with your buddy anymore, and whatever you do, don't punk yourself into thinking that this one girl is special, cuz she is not! ^^this is the truth^^ |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 20574169 United States 02/18/2013 09:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Man up, shut up and go find your own girlfriend! Quoting: Steve8511 Don't be that guy who just falls for everyone elses successes. As if she is just going to drop everything for you- wake up! I cannot stand people who claim to fall for someone else's mate. Its the lowest of low. only a true scumbag would move in on their friends gf. OP, you are pathetic. With 7 billion people on the planet, find a single girl... there are tons of them, ffs. don't be a homewrecker. this$%^^^^^ |
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far&away User ID: 1444889 Malta 02/18/2013 09:37 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It happens to us when we are boys, but it's not love, it's an attraction. Don't tell her anything, let it pass, or else you grow up and laugh at yourself. “Our lives are not our own. From womb to tomb, we are bound to others. Past and present. And by each crime and every kindness, we birth our future...” |
far&away User ID: 1444889 Malta 02/18/2013 09:37 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It happens to us when we are boys, but it's not love, it's an attraction. Don't tell her anything, let it pass, or else you grow up and laugh at yourself. “Our lives are not our own. From womb to tomb, we are bound to others. Past and present. And by each crime and every kindness, we birth our future...” |
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daisy User ID: 34495736 United States 02/18/2013 09:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It happens to us when we are boys, but it's not love, it's an attraction. Don't tell her anything, let it pass, or else you grow up and laugh at yourself. everyone gets attractions now and then. and OP is not in love with this girl, maybe lust, but not love. Love is something that happens when two people have a relationship and make sacrifices and a commitment to each other. Love = Respect from a female perspective, if my man's best friend declared his love for me I would never be able to trust someone like that, even if I had any sort emotion or feeling for the person. It would be a red flag that this person has no self discipline, nor do they care about their friend's life. And what's to stop him from doing this type of behavior again some day if I was to fall for him? No thanks. Men of true character are rare finds these days. Any man that would steal his friends woman is not a man, but a snake. There are better ways to go about this situation. Like accepting that your buddy has a gf that you approve of, but that you also respect. Selfish people are not people you want to settle down with. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 29043855 United States 02/18/2013 10:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Three years is a long time to withhold your feelings for someone. It's probably best to not tell her if you value your friendship. I will say that true love is hard to come by, and after 3 years you often know if it's love or not. |
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