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Deadbeat dads and their kids...

 
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"... studies indicate that roughly 40 percent of children in the U.S. grow up with absent fathers. Those same children are twice as likely to be incarcerated, 63 percent of youth suicides are from fatherless homes and 71 percent of all high school dropouts are from fatherless homes, statistics show. ..."

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 Quoting: the proble 21769045


I have two kids from a previous marriage and I paid my legal obligations and then some. I probably overdid because I did not want the label of a dead-beat dad.

My kids are in my life and I tell them I love them every time I see them.

With that in mind I say:

Fuck the dead-beat dads. I have no sympathy for them.
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cheer A REAL MAN. cheer

rosebeer2rose

woohoo

They need to clone you.
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And to those who can afford to fight the system to keep their kids - GREAT!!

For the rest of us who were middle-class incomes then destroyed by the ex and courts by being denied equal protections, women like this poster look down the nose of any man who allows himself to be destroyed by the system.

Loser attitude there when you blame the victims again. Rather than blame a MAN for letting the system strip him of his ability to defend himself and keep his kids, why don't you cheer those who have tried and been crushed?

Sadly until attitudes like these two change about laws there will be less and less kids winning by having access to both parents.

Glad you can look down your noses at others who were screwed by a corrupt system.

A real man you say? No - A man who had the finances to win. Rare indeed.

And FO with your cruel attitude.
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From all the posts it is clear that REAL MEN and REAL WOMEN do not seek to destroy the other parent.

Also clear if any MAN who expects fairness, loses everything. Lesson for men is if your woman is not happy - she gets it all free of charge and the more you defend your rights the harder the system drains you until you are broke. This is what causes deadbeats, not the feminist view of a man avoiding child support.

It is clear if a man does not have the extreme resources to 'pay the system' then the woman gets the kids and undeserved sympathy 99.99% of the time.

Boys raised without a father learn to cow-toe to a woman, then rebel when they learn the truth though it is too late and they are looked down upon for not cow-towing to the woman.

Problem with all this for the mothers who seek to destroy a man, is the children are used as tools and a means to an end. That may seem to the abusive women as a 'victory' for feminism, but it ruins the kids.

There are fair people everywhere but when it comes to kids and family court all too often we see and hear of one empowered woman standing on top of the rubble left of her ex and kids lives.

The womens movement has swung the pendulum waaayyyy too far the other way at the expense of both the kids and men. Until it swings back to a more fair level everyone loses. Kids lose a parent, men lose everything and are forced into deadbeat status against their will, creating more victims, and then the women, who nobody respects because they fought dirty to win at any cost.

Lessons here? Be fair and put the kids as #1 and do not seek to deny the ex access or poison the kids. False empowerment is easily abused which most angry women use to great victory, then wonder why no man wants them.

Until we start seeing laws force both parents into being fair, not 99.99% one-way, the kids lose and our country goes further down the drain. Way to go there feminazis!
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And naturally we have this thread hijacked into a new thread to make women look like the victim again...

This is why the USA has disintigrated into chaos over the last 40 years folks - destruction of the family unit courtesy of double-standard 'all-for-the-woman' courts which show zero fairness. Faminist movement caused it and all they can do is call men 'women-haters' and 'deadbeats'. Like that is going to get any sympathy.

Easiest way to avoid these women is do not date 'liberal' women. Avoid them and let them stew in their own brew as lonely people looking for a reason to achieve something - just not at yours and your childrens expense.

Conservative women hardly ever are this way so there is a message in there somewhere.


Here is the thread that hijacked this one...

Thread: Men need to stop the hate against women
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"... studies indicate that roughly 40 percent of children in the U.S. grow up with absent fathers. Those same children are twice as likely to be incarcerated, 63 percent of youth suicides are from fatherless homes and 71 percent of all high school dropouts are from fatherless homes, statistics show. ..."

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 Quoting: the proble 21769045


I have two kids from a previous marriage and I paid my legal obligations and then some. I probably overdid because I did not want the label of a dead-beat dad.

My kids are in my life and I tell them I love them every time I see them.

With that in mind I say:

Fuck the dead-beat dads. I have no sympathy for them.
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Well done sir. Respect for you.
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i agree....respect from over here too, sir!

i think the people wigging out on this thread are either deadbeats or have been called that...and are not. but this isn't calling all absent fathers deadbeats....ya know. the law is screwed up and a lot of GOOD dads end up with raped wallets and barely any time with the kids they love dearly. :/ my father and i went through that one. but women aren't just whores either...i tried for so many years to make things okay in my family...and for all my trying feel like i just wasted time and dragged my kids through the experience too. no bueno. :( but its over now. and he's not here, but not a deadbeat. sends money, calls every day. video chats. just wasn't working with US. and thats not good for the kids, no matter what some people want to insist. doesn't mean that the mom has to be malicious and use the law to screw the father.
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"... studies indicate that roughly 40 percent of children in the U.S. grow up with absent fathers. Those same children are twice as likely to be incarcerated, 63 percent of youth suicides are from fatherless homes and 71 percent of all high school dropouts are from fatherless homes, statistics show. ..."

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 Quoting: the proble 21769045


I have two kids from a previous marriage and I paid my legal obligations and then some. I probably overdid because I did not want the label of a dead-beat dad.

My kids are in my life and I tell them I love them every time I see them.

With that in mind I say:

Fuck the dead-beat dads. I have no sympathy for them.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 34399218


Well done sir. Respect for you.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21769045

i agree....respect from over here too, sir!

i think the people wigging out on this thread are either deadbeats or have been called that...and are not. but this isn't calling all absent fathers deadbeats....ya know. the law is screwed up and a lot of GOOD dads end up with raped wallets and barely any time with the kids they love dearly. :/ my father and i went through that one. but women aren't just whores either...i tried for so many years to make things okay in my family...and for all my trying feel like i just wasted time and dragged my kids through the experience too. no bueno. :( but its over now. and he's not here, but not a deadbeat. sends money, calls every day. video chats. just wasn't working with US. and thats not good for the kids, no matter what some people want to insist. doesn't mean that the mom has to be malicious and use the law to screw the father.
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The mom uses the law in a malicious way for power and sympathy which she clearly did not have before accepting a baby in to her life. Ask any lawyer - it is all about power over a man and money. Thats what these malicious 'moms' do to become 'queen bee'. Thats what caused the 'welfare mom' syndrome where more kids equals more govt money and support at the cost of the kids and the father. This is feminisms doing, not anything else.

A true deadbeat does not care, nor support or visit the kids in any way. Unless there is a Domestic Injunction forcing the man away, which legally is also a way to prevent any child support order too then there is no excuse for him to not care for his children - period.

For those women who file bogus DVI's then file support be aware moany states allow the man to terminate parental rights due to DVI, so if you do get one, make sure it is for prevention of true violence - not to screw the man and get child support afterwards.
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Ya I know plenty
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Me too! Government is the new "father". Liberals do not see what the "freebies" does to the traditional family.
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Oh shut the fuck up you retarded ass clown.

Injecting politics everywhere you go.

You deserve a nice ass whooping you fucking racist.
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Ya I know plenty
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Me too! Government is the new "father". Liberals do not see what the "freebies" does to the traditional family.
 Quoting: Renegade (Me too)


Oh shut the fuck up you retarded ass clown.

Injecting politics everywhere you go.

You deserve a nice ass whooping you fucking racist.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15993935


Why? It's true. The fact you can not see it is most likely due to you not living in the USA. Like you have an effing clue moran. Clearly you can't even tell a racist from a feminist/mysandryist.

Don't you have a sheep to go fuk or something?
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Ya I know plenty
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Me too! Government is the new "father". Liberals do not see what the "freebies" does to the traditional family.
 Quoting: Renegade (Me too)


Oh shut the fuck up you retarded ass clown.

Injecting politics everywhere you go.

You deserve a nice ass whooping you fucking racist.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15993935


Why? It's true. The fact you can not see it is most likely due to you not living in the USA. Like you have an effing clue moran. Clearly you can't even tell a racist from a feminist/mysandryist.

Don't you have a sheep to go fuk or something?
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Yes, I actually do have a clue. Just because I live in one place does not mean I can't also live in another place and be aware of what goes on in that other place.
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Me too! Government is the new "father". Liberals do not see what the "freebies" does to the traditional family.
 Quoting: Renegade (Me too)


Oh shut the fuck up you retarded ass clown.

Injecting politics everywhere you go.

You deserve a nice ass whooping you fucking racist.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15993935


Why? It's true. The fact you can not see it is most likely due to you not living in the USA. Like you have an effing clue moran. Clearly you can't even tell a racist from a feminist/mysandryist.

Don't you have a sheep to go fuk or something?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24238594


Yes, I actually do have a clue. Just because I live in one place does not mean I can't also live in another place and be aware of what goes on in that other place.
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Then how can you not see politics have been forced into the American families? You call people racists - and this is not a specific racial issue.

Thats why you come across as ignorant. Throwing words around without proper use make you look just plain dumb.

Racism is only about skin color - what is your understanding of the ass clown 'racist' term you so easily use?

There are plenty of racist threads on here. This one is about deadbeat parents and their kids. So far it is pretty universal that feminism has caused the main rift, which is a political movement. Thats why you look stupid criticizing another for being correct. It is you who chose poor words to describe your position.
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My dad walked out on me, mom, and brother when I was four. My brother was only 1 yo.

He did not pay one dime of child support and fled the state (back in the early 1970's) to hide and work for pay under the table jobs.

My mom hired a private investigator to track him down for child support because the court was sluggish to do anything back then. When she found him, he was furious. He threatened to come and shoot all of us if she continued to bother him for child support. Needless to say she left him alone.

My mother worked her entire life in a factory. She never took welfare, and paid for everything cash on the barrel. As a single mom I remember the stresses she faced taking care of everything. She was so thin from stress, and sometimes I heard her crying from my bedroom at night.

One day, when I was 19 yo, my dad contacted me out of the blue wanting to see me. I made the mistake of going to meet him. He didn't like me and told me not to contact him again and that meeting up was a mistake.

Three months ago my father died. I had to find out on the internet that my own father died. No one contacted us. In his obituary, my brother and I were not mentioned as his children. The description of his life in that obituary was the first time I got to know what my dad did for a living and what he enjoyed doing for hobbies throughout the years.

It hurt a lot. Still hurting. I had to say goodbye to a man I never knew, who did not want to be a father.

Whenever a man or woman talks about running off and leaving their children behind, I tell them what life is like without a dad in it. It has opened some eyes and made people think long and hard before leaving their flesh and blood behind.
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You tried civility first - kudos to you. No man would bash you for that. Hell - most any man would not hold one iota against you if you went after him legally - but only because you were civil first. 99% of women are not. Thank you feminazis.
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So... how do we help the kids... who seem to be the real victims?
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WE START by monitoring the mothers and make sure they do their part and let dads file grievances and get some of father rights back and or make the mother liable and jail them like they do fathers. Then while the mothers are in jail, will give full custody to fathers who really want to try.
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Ok... how do we start making this happen?
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Monitoring the mothers? How do you mean?
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Me too! Government is the new "father". Liberals do not see what the "freebies" does to the traditional family.
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my ex is literally payed by the government 500€ a month to throw me out
frenchfag here
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My dad walked out on me, mom, and brother when I was four. My brother was only 1 yo.

He did not pay one dime of child support and fled the state (back in the early 1970's) to hide and work for pay under the table jobs.

My mom hired a private investigator to track him down for child support because the court was sluggish to do anything back then. When she found him, he was furious. He threatened to come and shoot all of us if she continued to bother him for child support. Needless to say she left him alone.

My mother worked her entire life in a factory. She never took welfare, and paid for everything cash on the barrel. As a single mom I remember the stresses she faced taking care of everything. She was so thin from stress, and sometimes I heard her crying from my bedroom at night.

One day, when I was 19 yo, my dad contacted me out of the blue wanting to see me. I made the mistake of going to meet him. He didn't like me and told me not to contact him again and that meeting up was a mistake.

Three months ago my father died. I had to find out on the internet that my own father died. No one contacted us. In his obituary, my brother and I were not mentioned as his children. The description of his life in that obituary was the first time I got to know what my dad did for a living and what he enjoyed doing for hobbies throughout the years.

It hurt a lot. Still hurting. I had to say goodbye to a man I never knew, who did not want to be a father.

Whenever a man or woman talks about running off and leaving their children behind, I tell them what life is like without a dad in it. It has opened some eyes and made people think long and hard before leaving their flesh and blood behind.
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It is cases like yours which grabbed the hearts and minds of so many which led to Roe v Wade passing.

The problem today is the pendulum has gone too far to the other side, and punishes deadbeats - which yours sure fit the description of - when the system grants 99.99% of the time to the mothers of today.

Earlier in this thread I suggested to the OP that instead of using FORCE to grant the woman power over the mans life, and vice versa (there are deadbeat moms too), to use the court to truly put the kids first - not this bullshit they say is in the kids best interests today.

So how can this be done? Change the laws to FORCE the parents into counseling ffor starters. If true abuse exists that is another story. Many women file false Domestic Injunctions with zero evidence/proof of anything just so they get 100% custody and support for free from the state.

The system is broken because the courts do not want to put thekids first and instead tell the mother 'here - you take them and we will support you and force the father to pay up regardless of ability to work, high unemployment etc.

While your story is common 40 years ago it is not today. My ex filed a DVI against a previously clean-record man, then called all my resume-listed employers with bleeding heart story over 18 months then filed for support. Since no previous employer would give a reference after that I am now not employable - period. With the economy in the toilet and no family to help I lost everything over an angry woman who I chose poorly. Sad the courts don't even listen to any words from a mans mouth.

So you see, your experience of pain has empowered the state to grant women specifically a double-standard. Not in written law, but in the courts. Judges do not even listen and if you do not have a lawyer you are screwed.

So yeah - the feminists need to back off and put the kids first rather than seek to both claim victim while purposely ending the fathers life. Talk about an ego problem!
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Me too! Government is the new "father". Liberals do not see what the "freebies" does to the traditional family.
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my ex is literally payed by the government 500€ a month to throw me out
frenchfag here
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WOW!

France too? Damn! Thought it was only a USA issue.
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More government intervention is never the answer.

The judges should ask the kids, whether or not the father hits them and under what circumstances.

If it is just Dad stuff, then the kid should be allowed to be with their Dad.
Women shouldnt be able to do anything about it.

My kids will never see their Dad until they are grown. These were not my choices that made it this way.

I tried way more than once to be civil, it did no good with him.

Now it is over and he has to live with the choices he made.
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"... studies indicate that roughly 40 percent of children in the U.S. grow up with absent fathers. Those same children are twice as likely to be incarcerated, 63 percent of youth suicides are from fatherless homes and 71 percent of all high school dropouts are from fatherless homes, statistics show. ..."

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more like whore mothers rather then fathers not hanging around.

99% of the time the woman causes the break up.
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That is crap. Maybe you are referring to your own personal experience. Even if the mother is whoring around, that gives no excuse to be a loser father not supporting their child financially, emotionally and morally. Dad's who are not in the picture are fucking losers.
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"... studies indicate that roughly 40 percent of children in the U.S. grow up with absent fathers. Those same children are twice as likely to be incarcerated, 63 percent of youth suicides are from fatherless homes and 71 percent of all high school dropouts are from fatherless homes, statistics show. ..."

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more like whore mothers rather then fathers not hanging around.

99% of the time the woman causes the break up.
 Quoting: ~IS~


That is crap. Maybe you are referring to your own personal experience. Even if the mother is whoring around, that gives no excuse to be a loser father not supporting their child financially, emotionally and morally. Dad's who are not in the picture are fucking losers.
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Yep, there is no replacing a father. The kids never get that back.
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"... studies indicate that roughly 40 percent of children in the U.S. grow up with absent fathers. Those same children are twice as likely to be incarcerated, 63 percent of youth suicides are from fatherless homes and 71 percent of all high school dropouts are from fatherless homes, statistics show. ..."

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 Quoting: the proble 21769045


more like whore mothers rather then fathers not hanging around.

99% of the time the woman causes the break up.
 Quoting: ~IS~


That is crap. Maybe you are referring to your own personal experience. Even if the mother is whoring around, that gives no excuse to be a loser father not supporting their child financially, emotionally and morally. Dad's who are not in the picture are fucking losers.
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Uhh... 'loser' here according to you....

So answer me this or pray-tel goddess: When a Injunction is used to handle the divorce despite no proof/evidence/prior events which justify it, and the father attempts to send the kids birthday presents and is told that is a violation of the injunction and if you do it again off to jail you go....

Who the fuk are you to say one who tries and is kept at arms length by a bogus injunction is a bad father?

You are so judgemental and part of the problem. Easier for you it sounds like so you don't have to think.

Stupid canuk.
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"... studies indicate that roughly 40 percent of children in the U.S. grow up with absent fathers. Those same children are twice as likely to be incarcerated, 63 percent of youth suicides are from fatherless homes and 71 percent of all high school dropouts are from fatherless homes, statistics show. ..."

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 Quoting: the proble 21769045


more like whore mothers rather then fathers not hanging around.

99% of the time the woman causes the break up.
 Quoting: ~IS~


That is crap. Maybe you are referring to your own personal experience. Even if the mother is whoring around, that gives no excuse to be a loser father not supporting their child financially, emotionally and morally. Dad's who are not in the picture are fucking losers.
 Quoting: CrazyMama73


Uhh... 'loser' here according to you....

So answer me this or pray-tel goddess: When a Injunction is used to handle the divorce despite no proof/evidence/prior events which justify it, and the father attempts to send the kids birthday presents and is told that is a violation of the injunction and if you do it again off to jail you go....

Who the fuk are you to say one who tries and is kept at arms length by a bogus injunction is a bad father?

You are so judgemental and part of the problem. Easier for you it sounds like so you don't have to think.

Stupid canuk.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24238594


I am referring to the fathers who DELIBERATELY are not a part of the child's life. The ones who can't step up and be responsible to care for the life they helped bring in to this world. The ones who forget to call on the child's birthday. Or makes promises to visit the child, but some how finds something else a lot more important than visiting them. The losers who always have enough to buy smokes, drugs and booze, but can't help out and provide food, clothing for their own flesh and blood.

I have friends in the exact same situation as the one you have described and my heart goes out to them. It is wrong for a father to not be allowed to be a part of their child's life. I couldn't imagine the heartache of not being able to see my child.
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My ex was a dead beat dad and now that my kids are grown he comes around when it suits him.They love him no matter how many times he let them down.Sometimes I think they love him more.I was always there but if they get mad they will tell me off and smile at him.
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Dads have a special place in kids hearts, as do mothers. Unfortunately, they are getting less love from him and they desire it more. You're the one that gives them rules and maes them take baths and goto sleep. They're kids, love doesn't mean too much at that point.
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RETARDS, NOT ALL OF THESE DEADBEATS ARE DEADBEATS. IDIOTS. FUCKING WHORE MOTHERS KEEP THE KIDS FROM THE DAD AND USE THE LAW TO PUNISH HIM. AND SHAME ON THE FUCKING USA, LAND OF THE FREE(?) FOR USING LAW TO ABUSE FATHERS. FUCK YOU.
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A+ rant....

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Couldnt say it better myself!!!bump
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My dad walked out on me, mom, and brother when I was four. My brother was only 1 yo.

He did not pay one dime of child support and fled the state (back in the early 1970's) to hide and work for pay under the table jobs.

My mom hired a private investigator to track him down for child support because the court was sluggish to do anything back then. When she found him, he was furious. He threatened to come and shoot all of us if she continued to bother him for child support. Needless to say she left him alone.

My mother worked her entire life in a factory. She never took welfare, and paid for everything cash on the barrel. As a single mom I remember the stresses she faced taking care of everything. She was so thin from stress, and sometimes I heard her crying from my bedroom at night.

One day, when I was 19 yo, my dad contacted me out of the blue wanting to see me. I made the mistake of going to meet him. He didn't like me and told me not to contact him again and that meeting up was a mistake.

Three months ago my father died. I had to find out on the internet that my own father died. No one contacted us. In his obituary, my brother and I were not mentioned as his children. The description of his life in that obituary was the first time I got to know what my dad did for a living and what he enjoyed doing for hobbies throughout the years.

It hurt a lot. Still hurting. I had to say goodbye to a man I never knew, who did not want to be a father.

Whenever a man or woman talks about running off and leaving their children behind, I tell them what life is like without a dad in it. It has opened some eyes and made people think long and hard before leaving their flesh and blood behind.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 12931998


He is not a man. He couldn't fill a woman's shoes, either. He was a pussy. Making a child. How you run away from that is beyond me. I guess I was lucky because my dad always worked hard to feed our family, along with my mom. We weren't always in the best shape but he never let us know that. Fuck "men" that run out on their families.
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Ya I know plenty
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Me too! Government is the new "father". Liberals do not see what the "freebies" does to the traditional family.
 Quoting: Renegade (Me too)


Never ceases to amaze me, the idiots who think this is all by accident.

They know EXACTLY what they're doing.

All part of the grand plan.

Read a book for once in your life.
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Re: Deadbeat dads and their kids...
"... studies indicate that roughly 40 percent of children in the U.S. grow up with absent fathers. Those same children are twice as likely to be incarcerated, 63 percent of youth suicides are from fatherless homes and 71 percent of all high school dropouts are from fatherless homes, statistics show. ..."

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more like whore mothers rather then fathers not hanging around.

99% of the time the woman causes the break up.
 Quoting: ~IS~


Absolutely. Don't forget the career sluts who deliberately entrap a bloke so they can sponge off welfare and collect child support at the same time, usually whilst living with a new partner who pays the bills anyway.

I knew a chick once who was making like 2 grand a week for basically sucking a dudes dick. A hooker in everything but name. Whore.

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