From all the posts it is clear that REAL MEN and REAL WOMEN do not seek to destroy the other parent.

Also clear if any MAN who expects fairness, loses everything. Lesson for men is if your woman is not happy - she gets it all free of charge and the more you defend your rights the harder the system drains you until you are broke. This is what causes deadbeats, not the feminist view of a man avoiding child support.

It is clear if a man does not have the extreme resources to 'pay the system' then the woman gets the kids and undeserved sympathy 99.99% of the time.

Boys raised without a father learn to cow-toe to a woman, then rebel when they learn the truth though it is too late and they are looked down upon for not cow-towing to the woman.

Problem with all this for the mothers who seek to destroy a man, is the children are used as tools and a means to an end. That may seem to the abusive women as a 'victory' for feminism, but it ruins the kids.

There are fair people everywhere but when it comes to kids and family court all too often we see and hear of one empowered woman standing on top of the rubble left of her ex and kids lives.

The womens movement has swung the pendulum waaayyyy too far the other way at the expense of both the kids and men. Until it swings back to a more fair level everyone loses. Kids lose a parent, men lose everything and are forced into deadbeat status against their will, creating more victims, and then the women, who nobody respects because they fought dirty to win at any cost.

Lessons here? Be fair and put the kids as #1 and do not seek to deny the ex access or poison the kids. False empowerment is easily abused which most angry women use to great victory, then wonder why no man wants them.

Until we start seeing laws force both parents into being fair, not 99.99% one-way, the kids lose and our country goes further down the drain. Way to go there feminazis!