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| Upgrayedd User ID: 18296310 02/19/2013 02:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | and another thing Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27859581 women don't know how to look sexy. putting on half a can of aquanet, tons of makeup, fake eyelashes, fake tan, wearing clothes 2 sizes too small for you is not sexy looking like a natural regular woman is sexy 100% of men on this thread would fall over themselves trying to holler at a carbon copy of a pop culture idol chick arrayed in her finest trollop habadashery and MAC in their local square. And; in shape, normal, simply attractive women would get ignored while the mass of men flocked to get a chance at the flashy female. Every time. Wrong. I personally see them as attention monger whores. I argue with a more superficial friend about this all the time. He points out a random celebrity and says how hot she is and I disagree. We have had some good ones too! My current GF has more brains than looks, but has more looks because of it...get it? Meet the new boss; same as the old boss. |
| daisy User ID: 34495736 02/19/2013 02:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | that's a thread of its own... women need to learn to also keep themselves looking as best they can, not just for themselves but because when you are at your best in terms of weight and health, you have more energy and can take care of your family better. too many women just let themselves 'go' after marriage and kids. Its not fair to anyone, especially the hubby. don't bait and switch, ladies. keep fit, eat healthy, do your hair pretty at times and ffs, get rid of clothes that make you look matronly. NO SWEAT PANTS. Be someone your hubby looks forward to seeing after a long work day, otherwise he'll be thinking about other women who still dress to impress. I keep in shape to set an example for my kids. I dont wear makeup. I wear tennis shoes and khaki's everyday to work, but at home, Im all about the sweatpants. But I only see my kids, so no biggie. But those spray tan girls are awfully popular to not be attractive. well I have always been physically fit, for ME. I won't deny that my husband likes me that way and that at times I have felt a bit insecure if I gained a few pounds, but I can't blame him for a world that has programmed him and every other man to want a certain look - men cannot escape this porn-driven society we now exist in, where everything has a sexual connotation or double entendre. Now that we are growing old together we see the world for what it is, my insecurities and complaints have diminished. I don't work out for anyone but myself because it makes be strong and self reliant in doing things. More importantly, my workouts keep me mentally fit. When I complete a ten mile run, I know I pushed myself to do on a 90 degree day, I feel empowered. As for clothing, I understand that when you have kids, sometimes sweats are the way to go, but if a man is bustin balls 50-60 hours a week, at the end of the week, do something special for him. A little perfume, something pretty and feminine and make him the center of attention for a few hours, baby him. Cook him his favorite meal and LISTEN to him. Don't spend one minute talking about yourself or complaining, give him the spotlight for just that short time each week or as often as your schedule allows. Too many couples are like ships in the night, passing each other by and passing through their OWN lives without stopping to smell the roses and drink the wine. Trust me, doing these simple gestures will kick back a woman more than she deserves. Men want to feel special too. When we women actively do these things they can't help but want to love us and provide for our every need. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1324238 02/19/2013 02:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I argue with a more superficial friend about this all the time. He points out a random celebrity and says how hot she is and I disagree. We have had some good ones too! Quoting: Upgrayedd My current GF has more brains than looks, but has more looks because of it...get it? That last sentence is going to soar right over the kool-aid drinkers heads. Brains are sexy, and they don't hurt! Stupid tends to burn though... Props to you and your lady. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 34764365 02/19/2013 02:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Please visit PUA forums and understand why men hate women. There's a lot of reasons and a lot will be revealed to you from there. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24957083 One of the chief reasons why men go to PUA to learn is because they were nice guys who were hurt or wronged because of a woman. The sad fact is, women don't want nice guys, they love the abuse, they love jerks, no matter how much they don't admit it and they continue to flock to the abuse. The great thing about PUA forums is how many women actually go to that place, they either start learning and understanding or they go there to outright refuse that PUA even exists (femanazis). Nice guys usually go there and unfortunately get even more angrier at women, but that phase passes when they realize the harsh truth. YUP women say they want flowers, say they want a nice guy, say they want to be treated with respect, etc but when a guy does all those things, they don't WANT him sexually anymore, because he's now a chick Why don't the glp men go there and complain, instead of posting their women bashing on glp? Umm because this is foremost a "conspiracy" site...not the News Channel. An for you're information the females acting the way they do is part of a conspiracy by TPTB to divide men and woman and bonds w/in the family unit! Go figure. Doh. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 7817112 02/19/2013 02:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | that's a thread of its own... women need to learn to also keep themselves looking as best they can, not just for themselves but because when you are at your best in terms of weight and health, you have more energy and can take care of your family better. too many women just let themselves 'go' after marriage and kids. Its not fair to anyone, especially the hubby. don't bait and switch, ladies. keep fit, eat healthy, do your hair pretty at times and ffs, get rid of clothes that make you look matronly. NO SWEAT PANTS. Be someone your hubby looks forward to seeing after a long work day, otherwise he'll be thinking about other women who still dress to impress. I keep in shape to set an example for my kids. I dont wear makeup. I wear tennis shoes and khaki's everyday to work, but at home, Im all about the sweatpants. But I only see my kids, so no biggie. But those spray tan girls are awfully popular to not be attractive. well I have always been physically fit, for ME. I won't deny that my husband likes me that way and that at times I have felt a bit insecure if I gained a few pounds, but I can't blame him for a world that has programmed him and every other man to want a certain look - men cannot escape this porn-driven society we now exist in, where everything has a sexual connotation or double entendre. Now that we are growing old together we see the world for what it is, my insecurities and complaints have diminished. I don't work out for anyone but myself because it makes be strong and self reliant in doing things. More importantly, my workouts keep me mentally fit. When I complete a ten mile run, I know I pushed myself to do on a 90 degree day, I feel empowered. As for clothing, I understand that when you have kids, sometimes sweats are the way to go, but if a man is bustin balls 50-60 hours a week, at the end of the week, do something special for him. A little perfume, something pretty and feminine and make him the center of attention for a few hours, baby him. Cook him his favorite meal and LISTEN to him. Don't spend one minute talking about yourself or complaining, give him the spotlight for just that short time each week or as often as your schedule allows. Too many couples are like ships in the night, passing each other by and passing through their OWN lives without stopping to smell the roses and drink the wine. Trust me, doing these simple gestures will kick back a woman more than she deserves. Men want to feel special too. When we women actively do these things they can't help but want to love us and provide for our every need. I can see why your husband married you, you do seem like one of the good ones. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 11963746 02/19/2013 02:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There are always sooooo many women-bashing threads here on glp. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26372742 It is a surprise when there is not a misogynist thread posted here. There are not even 1% of the same kind of man bashing threads here. Men, don't you realize that women come to this forum too? But with all the hate you are chasing them away. Intense anger, and damaging words are more damaging on women than for men, it seems, although that is not good for anyone. I could say porn has warped a lot of men's minds and made them hate women more. But ultimately, you men have to deal with your anger without blaming. That is the only way things will change for you. There is also a thread posted now about an ex marine newscaster who assaulted his wife. Those threads accompany the threads about how men hate women. There is a pattern. men are not dealing with their anger in a constructive way. Take your feminist shit somewhere else. Don't categorize all men as hating women. I was brought up to treat my lady as a queen. All other females are respected. A lot of men are starting to view women as blood suckers. Everyother day you see a news story about some lady taking half of that mans earnings when they divorce. Fair? Maybe. How about these women trapping men into taking care of her and her kids, then the man gets stuck paying child support for kids who aren't his. What about all these women who say their equal, yet they want someone to take care of them? Because of these women I refuse to marry my gf. Not because I don't love her, but i refuse to be enslaved by her. ^^ And this is why there is no benefit for men in the US to get married. They have everything to lose and not much to gain. Bingo. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 24238594 02/19/2013 02:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When women stop abusing men with double-standard laws then your request will be granted. And don't EVEN say 'life isn't fair'. There is a huge difference between not being fair - and double-standards meant to destroy. Women earned any status themselves and the backlash against abusive false-empowerment through double-standard laws should be no surprise to you. What - you can't handle the truth? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 31124202 02/19/2013 02:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How could anyone hate women? Everyone enjoys a good hormone driven Shriek Fest, a good solid Face Slapping, and emotional Ambush. Then we need to thank the Woman for the high quality of our Society today, as the Woman is allowed to spend far more time with the Brain-Wash, and Mind-Control of children than a Man does? And again the Woman chooses to produce, or not produce the baby. And "Always" chooses the highest quality individuals to perform this incredibly important function. It makes one wonder? The Woman spends far more time with the child, yet here we have a complaint regarding the hatred of the Woman? Indeed, hats off to the wonderful Woman, and Thanks for the wonderful World we live in. |
| daisy User ID: 34495736 02/19/2013 02:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | that's a thread of its own... women need to learn to also keep themselves looking as best they can, not just for themselves but because when you are at your best in terms of weight and health, you have more energy and can take care of your family better. too many women just let themselves 'go' after marriage and kids. Its not fair to anyone, especially the hubby. don't bait and switch, ladies. keep fit, eat healthy, do your hair pretty at times and ffs, get rid of clothes that make you look matronly. NO SWEAT PANTS. Be someone your hubby looks forward to seeing after a long work day, otherwise he'll be thinking about other women who still dress to impress. sweat pants, aka, give up on life pants yup, sweat pants and crocs ---> nothing says "I give up" more than these two items. My all time favorite worst item of clothing for women is when they wear sweatshirts with pictures of anything disney, nascar or pro-wresting related. |
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| Upgrayedd User ID: 18296310 02/19/2013 02:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How could anyone hate women? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31124202 Everyone enjoys a good hormone driven Shriek Fest, a good solid Face Slapping, and emotional Ambush. Then we need to thank the Woman for the high quality of our Society today, as the Woman is allowed to spend far more time with the Brain-Wash, and Mind-Control of children than a Man does? And again the Woman chooses to produce, or not produce the baby. And "Always" chooses the highest quality individuals to perform this incredibly important function. It makes one wonder? The Woman spends far more time with the child, yet here we have a complaint regarding the hatred of the Woman? Indeed, hats off to the wonderful Woman, and Thanks for the wonderful World we live in. I see what you did there and I agree! This ends the argument for me. Meet the new boss; same as the old boss. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 5141990 02/19/2013 02:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | To all the males of the species on this thread, is it ok with you to partake of a prostitute? Do you have daughters? Is it a life you would wish for them? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5648569 I as a woman would rather throw myself from a bridge than enter into a sex for money contract with a man for any reason, as I am educated enough to realize the only reason that man would sell his body and soul was so he could eat dinner that night or pay to feed a drug addiction or potentially be acting from a place of be enslaved by another. This is the reality of the sex trade, no women don't do it because they love sex, they just want to survive another day. Thats the difference between many men and women, men frequent prostitutes detaching themselves from the potential consequences, and most women would rather perish than harm another is such an animalistic way. Most men I know have frequented prostitutes and when confronted justify it to me by saying they are animals, and usually with a humorous grin. This is something I will never come to terms with nor understand........ Yes. It is a business transaction between two consenting adults. No, it is not a life I would choose for anyone. Neither are a lot of things. That's why they're SOMEONE ELSE'S choices. If you are married, or in a relationship where your man pays for the dates, trips, buys you stuff and you are sleeping with him, you ARE a prostitute, so to speak. In this endless game between the sexes, men play with love to get sex; women play with sex to get love. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 32028279 02/19/2013 02:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Can't men just avoid them and go their own way? Call an escort a few times a year? Let women burn their candles at both ends and practice their hypergamy and single motherhood glory. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 32028279 When SHTF you'll have tons of needy hot ones who've had their princess world reality shattered, take your pick... This is some tragic shit. You sit on your computer wishing for TEOTWAWKI just so you can live some Mad Max/Conan fantasy and have green light to mistreat, rape and collect women like Pokemon cards. But you want us surely, to acknowledge you as a man that is worthy of being respected by that title. Here is part of the issue. Nice guys are tragic? I only have so much food to go around, if you bring little to the table why would I want the liability? Even if there were no men were around, women would still be hypergamous. There's a reason lesbian relationships/marriages tend to falter more than all others. You have 2 hypergamists with the "what can they do for me" attitude and that's a recipe for disaster. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 24238594 02/19/2013 02:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Anyone who does not appreciate a successful woman should be ashamed of themselves, however most times todays women have been taught that to do so they have to be a single-parent, have a career, house, car etc... all on their own WITHOUT a man in their lives. That is the feminist attitude. Period. Feminists call those who point this out as 'women haters'. Same difference as saying a persons skin color is black all of a sudden is labeled a racist - even if nothing else is said. That is 100% total bullshit, yet women who do not like hearing the truth spew 'women hater' out of defense. Stop you bullshit double-standard laws and introduce fairness back into the courts. Failure to do so has been the cause of now two generations of increasingly off-the-chain kids. Yeah - you double-standard women own it. |
| daisy User ID: 34495736 02/19/2013 02:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: daisy 34495736 that's a thread of its own... women need to learn to also keep themselves looking as best they can, not just for themselves but because when you are at your best in terms of weight and health, you have more energy and can take care of your family better. too many women just let themselves 'go' after marriage and kids. Its not fair to anyone, especially the hubby. don't bait and switch, ladies. keep fit, eat healthy, do your hair pretty at times and ffs, get rid of clothes that make you look matronly. NO SWEAT PANTS. Be someone your hubby looks forward to seeing after a long work day, otherwise he'll be thinking about other women who still dress to impress. I keep in shape to set an example for my kids. I dont wear makeup. I wear tennis shoes and khaki's everyday to work, but at home, Im all about the sweatpants. But I only see my kids, so no biggie. But those spray tan girls are awfully popular to not be attractive. well I have always been physically fit, for ME. I won't deny that my husband likes me that way and that at times I have felt a bit insecure if I gained a few pounds, but I can't blame him for a world that has programmed him and every other man to want a certain look - men cannot escape this porn-driven society we now exist in, where everything has a sexual connotation or double entendre. Now that we are growing old together we see the world for what it is, my insecurities and complaints have diminished. I don't work out for anyone but myself because it makes be strong and self reliant in doing things. More importantly, my workouts keep me mentally fit. When I complete a ten mile run, I know I pushed myself to do on a 90 degree day, I feel empowered. As for clothing, I understand that when you have kids, sometimes sweats are the way to go, but if a man is bustin balls 50-60 hours a week, at the end of the week, do something special for him. A little perfume, something pretty and feminine and make him the center of attention for a few hours, baby him. Cook him his favorite meal and LISTEN to him. Don't spend one minute talking about yourself or complaining, give him the spotlight for just that short time each week or as often as your schedule allows. Too many couples are like ships in the night, passing each other by and passing through their OWN lives without stopping to smell the roses and drink the wine. Trust me, doing these simple gestures will kick back a woman more than she deserves. Men want to feel special too. When we women actively do these things they can't help but want to love us and provide for our every need. I can see why your husband married you, you do seem like one of the good ones. well thank you. I'd be leaving out the most important part of our marriage if I didn't give props up to The Lord, Jesus Christ for watching over us and guiding us. I don't like to get preachy on GLP - too many Bible thumpers, but I've had some supernatural stuff go on in my life and witnessed great change in my husband's as well. Though I am still and always will be a sinner, and fall short of grace much of the time, I know that HIS presence in our lives has kept us safe and secure, while just about everyone around us has filed for divorce and gone the way of hating the opposite sex and has basically come undone in this wretched society that is fast becoming the norm (divorce, that is) We were created out of love to love one another. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 766909 02/19/2013 02:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There are always sooooo many women-bashing threads here on glp. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26372742 It is a surprise when there is not a misogynist thread posted here. There are not even 1% of the same kind of man bashing threads here. Men, don't you realize that women come to this forum too? if you saw the ugly nerds it was coming from, it would just make you laugh though. You would laugh in their ugly nerd faces with such withering contempt and effeminate scorn. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1324238 02/19/2013 02:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Nice guys are tragic? I only have so much food to go around, if you bring little to the table why would I want the liability? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 32028279 Even if there were no men were around, women would still be hypergamous. There's a reason lesbian relationships/marriages tend to falter more than all others. You have 2 hypergamists with the "what can they do for me" attitude and that's a recipe for disaster. You speak as if the world is going to be over tomorrow and you are sitting here planning on stratagems to select a harem. That doesn't exactly sound like a 'good guy' with sound intention towards females, but maybe you are a good guy blowing off a little steam, how would I know? All women aren't lesbians? Like, all men aren't gay? I agree, kick to the curb someone who wants to play around if you want a serious relationship. That's common sense. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 17679171 02/19/2013 02:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There are always sooooo many women-bashing threads here on glp. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26372742 It is a surprise when there is not a misogynist thread posted here. There are not even 1% of the same kind of man bashing threads here. Men, don't you realize that women come to this forum too? But with all the hate you are chasing them away. Intense anger, and damaging words are more damaging on women than for men, it seems, although that is not good for anyone. I could say porn has warped a lot of men's minds and made them hate women more. But ultimately, you men have to deal with your anger without blaming. That is the only way things will change for you. There is also a thread posted now about an ex marine newscaster who assaulted his wife. Those threads accompany the threads about how men hate women. There is a pattern. men are not dealing with their anger in a constructive way. Take your feminist shit somewhere else. Don't categorize all men as hating women. I was brought up to treat my lady as a queen. All other females are respected. A lot of men are starting to view women as blood suckers. Everyother day you see a news story about some lady taking half of that mans earnings when they divorce. Fair? Maybe. How about these women trapping men into taking care of her and her kids, then the man gets stuck paying child support for kids who aren't his. What about all these women who say their equal, yet they want someone to take care of them? Because of these women I refuse to marry my gf. Not because I don't love her, but i refuse to be enslaved by her. How is it categorizing all men as women bashers? The op was talking about the misogynist threads that occur here on a very frequent basis. Not that all men hate women. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 5648569 02/19/2013 02:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | that's a thread of its own... women need to learn to also keep themselves looking as best they can, not just for themselves but because when you are at your best in terms of weight and health, you have more energy and can take care of your family better. too many women just let themselves 'go' after marriage and kids. Its not fair to anyone, especially the hubby. don't bait and switch, ladies. keep fit, eat healthy, do your hair pretty at times and ffs, get rid of clothes that make you look matronly. NO SWEAT PANTS. Be someone your hubby looks forward to seeing after a long work day, otherwise he'll be thinking about other women who still dress to impress. I keep in shape to set an example for my kids. I dont wear makeup. I wear tennis shoes and khaki's everyday to work, but at home, Im all about the sweatpants. But I only see my kids, so no biggie. But those spray tan girls are awfully popular to not be attractive. well I have always been physically fit, for ME. I won't deny that my husband likes me that way and that at times I have felt a bit insecure if I gained a few pounds, but I can't blame him for a world that has programmed him and every other man to want a certain look - men cannot escape this porn-driven society we now exist in, where everything has a sexual connotation or double entendre. Now that we are growing old together we see the world for what it is, my insecurities and complaints have diminished. I don't work out for anyone but myself because it makes be strong and self reliant in doing things. More importantly, my workouts keep me mentally fit. When I complete a ten mile run, I know I pushed myself to do on a 90 degree day, I feel empowered. As for clothing, I understand that when you have kids, sometimes sweats are the way to go, but if a man is bustin balls 50-60 hours a week, at the end of the week, do something special for him. A little perfume, something pretty and feminine and make him the center of attention for a few hours, baby him. Cook him his favorite meal and LISTEN to him. Don't spend one minute talking about yourself or complaining, give him the spotlight for just that short time each week or as often as your schedule allows. Too many couples are like ships in the night, passing each other by and passing through their OWN lives without stopping to smell the roses and drink the wine. Trust me, doing these simple gestures will kick back a woman more than she deserves. Men want to feel special too. When we women actively do these things they can't help but want to love us and provide for our every need. My experience is that the more naturally attractive you are the worse men will treat you. I have always taken care of myself , but to try feeling beautiful when you are pregnant and your man tells you you look fat, and pregnancy is disgusting can really throw a wrench in your faith in men. Vanity is wasted time, but we all suffer for one reason or another. I myself am trying to age gracefully, as I have no interest in botox, plastic, surgery etc. I prefer a natural look. But most men expect attractive women to maintain an air of youth in an unrealistic fashion. My ex husband has had it all, nose job, botox, lipo, I find this ridiculous looking but he likes his young chicks from playboy and pretends this makes a difference to them. I have never found that my endeavors to maintain my beauty have been met with love for and provision for my every need, nor would I want this scenario. I am aware of my feminine mystique and gratefully an independent entity..... |
| EZ User ID: 1476969 02/19/2013 02:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There are always sooooo many women-bashing threads here on glp. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26372742 It is a surprise when there is not a misogynist thread posted here. There are not even 1% of the same kind of man bashing threads here. Men, don't you realize that women come to this forum too? But with all the hate you are chasing them away. Intense anger, and damaging words are more damaging on women than for men, it seems, although that is not good for anyone. I could say porn has warped a lot of men's minds and made them hate women more. But ultimately, you men have to deal with your anger without blaming. That is the only way things will change for you. There is also a thread posted now about an ex marine newscaster who assaulted his wife. Those threads accompany the threads about how men hate women. There is a pattern. men are not dealing with their anger in a constructive way. A mother (a real woman) doesn't complain but gives guidance...BTW a marine is a trained killer. That is his job. Once they go to war they don't come back the same way they use to be...And as for "dealing with anger" THAT'S MUTUAL. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 5141990 02/19/2013 02:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | that's a thread of its own... women need to learn to also keep themselves looking as best they can, not just for themselves but because when you are at your best in terms of weight and health, you have more energy and can take care of your family better. too many women just let themselves 'go' after marriage and kids. Its not fair to anyone, especially the hubby. don't bait and switch, ladies. keep fit, eat healthy, do your hair pretty at times and ffs, get rid of clothes that make you look matronly. NO SWEAT PANTS. Be someone your hubby looks forward to seeing after a long work day, otherwise he'll be thinking about other women who still dress to impress. I keep in shape to set an example for my kids. I dont wear makeup. I wear tennis shoes and khaki's everyday to work, but at home, Im all about the sweatpants. But I only see my kids, so no biggie. But those spray tan girls are awfully popular to not be attractive. well I have always been physically fit, for ME. I won't deny that my husband likes me that way and that at times I have felt a bit insecure if I gained a few pounds, but I can't blame him for a world that has programmed him and every other man to want a certain look - men cannot escape this porn-driven society we now exist in, where everything has a sexual connotation or double entendre. Now that we are growing old together we see the world for what it is, my insecurities and complaints have diminished. I don't work out for anyone but myself because it makes be strong and self reliant in doing things. More importantly, my workouts keep me mentally fit. When I complete a ten mile run, I know I pushed myself to do on a 90 degree day, I feel empowered. As for clothing, I understand that when you have kids, sometimes sweats are the way to go, but if a man is bustin balls 50-60 hours a week, at the end of the week, do something special for him. A little perfume, something pretty and feminine and make him the center of attention for a few hours, baby him. Cook him his favorite meal and LISTEN to him. Don't spend one minute talking about yourself or complaining, give him the spotlight for just that short time each week or as often as your schedule allows. Too many couples are like ships in the night, passing each other by and passing through their OWN lives without stopping to smell the roses and drink the wine. Trust me, doing these simple gestures will kick back a woman more than she deserves. Men want to feel special too. When we women actively do these things they can't help but want to love us and provide for our every need. It's not all peaches and cream in our life because neither of us are the "Yes Dear" type...lol. But that is just added spice. |
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