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Well this is not new. Since the begining of time the problem still on ! women vs men and all the divisions, we have to change or will fall as humans, is that simple every one has to do their part, and respect others humans no matter what.
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Can't men just avoid them and go their own way? Call an escort a few times a year? Let women burn their candles at both ends and practice their hypergamy and single motherhood glory.

When SHTF you'll have tons of needy hot ones who've had their princess world reality shattered, take your pick...
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This is some tragic shit. You sit on your computer wishing for TEOTWAWKI just so you can live some Mad Max/Conan fantasy and have green light to mistreat, rape and collect women like Pokemon cards. But you want us surely, to acknowledge you as a man that is worthy of being respected by that title.

Here is part of the issue.
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Nice guys are tragic? I only have so much food to go around, if you bring little to the table why would I want the liability?

Even if there were no men were around, women would still be hypergamous. There's a reason lesbian relationships/marriages tend to falter more than all others. You have 2 hypergamists with the "what can they do for me" attitude and that's a recipe for disaster.
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Woman are very important and beautiful creations.

To those positive women out there... Thanks for all you do!!

Including (but not necessarily of utmost importance) sucking on our weenies from time to time.
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Anyone who does not appreciate a successful woman should be ashamed of themselves, however most times todays women have been taught that to do so they have to be a single-parent, have a career, house, car etc... all on their own WITHOUT a man in their lives.

That is the feminist attitude. Period. Feminists call those who point this out as 'women haters'.

Same difference as saying a persons skin color is black all of a sudden is labeled a racist - even if nothing else is said. That is 100% total bullshit, yet women who do not like hearing the truth spew 'women hater' out of defense.

Stop you bullshit double-standard laws and introduce fairness back into the courts. Failure to do so has been the cause of now two generations of increasingly off-the-chain kids.

Yeah - you double-standard women own it.
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that's a thread of its own...

women need to learn to also keep themselves looking as best they can, not just for themselves but because when you are at your best in terms of weight and health, you have more energy and can take care of your family better. too many women just let themselves 'go' after marriage and kids. Its not fair to anyone, especially the hubby. don't bait and switch, ladies. keep fit, eat healthy, do your hair pretty at times and ffs, get rid of clothes that make you look matronly. NO SWEAT PANTS. Be someone your hubby looks forward to seeing after a long work day, otherwise he'll be thinking about other women who still dress to impress.
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I keep in shape to set an example for my kids. I dont wear makeup. I wear tennis shoes and khaki's everyday to work, but at home, Im all about the sweatpants. But I only see my kids, so no biggie.

But those spray tan girls are awfully popular to not be attractive.
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well I have always been physically fit, for ME. I won't deny that my husband likes me that way and that at times I have felt a bit insecure if I gained a few pounds, but I can't blame him for a world that has programmed him and every other man to want a certain look - men cannot escape this porn-driven society we now exist in, where everything has a sexual connotation or double entendre.

Now that we are growing old together we see the world for what it is, my insecurities and complaints have diminished. I don't work out for anyone but myself because it makes be strong and self reliant in doing things. More importantly, my workouts keep me mentally fit. When I complete a ten mile run, I know I pushed myself to do on a 90 degree day, I feel empowered.

As for clothing, I understand that when you have kids, sometimes sweats are the way to go, but if a man is bustin balls 50-60 hours a week, at the end of the week, do something special for him. A little perfume, something pretty and feminine and make him the center of attention for a few hours, baby him. Cook him his favorite meal and LISTEN to him. Don't spend one minute talking about yourself or complaining, give him the spotlight for just that short time each week or as often as your schedule allows.

Too many couples are like ships in the night, passing each other by and passing through their OWN lives without stopping to smell the roses and drink the wine.

Trust me, doing these simple gestures will kick back a woman more than she deserves. Men want to feel special too. When we women actively do these things they can't help but want to love us and provide for our every need.
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I can see why your husband married you, you do seem like one of the good ones.
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well thank you. I'd be leaving out the most important part of our marriage if I didn't give props up to The Lord, Jesus Christ for watching over us and guiding us. I don't like to get preachy on GLP - too many Bible thumpers, but I've had some supernatural stuff go on in my life and witnessed great change in my husband's as well.

Though I am still and always will be a sinner, and fall short of grace much of the time, I know that HIS presence in our lives has kept us safe and secure, while just about everyone around us has filed for divorce and gone the way of hating the opposite sex and has basically come undone in this wretched society that is fast becoming the norm (divorce, that is)

We were created out of love to love one another.
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Why do women not a need drivers license?

Because there is no road between the kitchen and bed room

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There are always sooooo many women-bashing threads here on glp.
It is a surprise when there is not a misogynist thread posted here.
There are not even 1% of the same kind of man bashing threads here.
Men, don't you realize that women come to this forum too?
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if you saw the ugly nerds it was coming from, it would just make you laugh though. You would laugh in their ugly nerd faces with such withering contempt and effeminate scorn.
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Nice guys are tragic? I only have so much food to go around, if you bring little to the table why would I want the liability?

Even if there were no men were around, women would still be hypergamous. There's a reason lesbian relationships/marriages tend to falter more than all others. You have 2 hypergamists with the "what can they do for me" attitude and that's a recipe for disaster.
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You speak as if the world is going to be over tomorrow and you are sitting here planning on stratagems to select a harem. That doesn't exactly sound like a 'good guy' with sound intention towards females, but maybe you are a good guy blowing off a little steam, how would I know?

All women aren't lesbians? Like, all men aren't gay? I agree, kick to the curb someone who wants to play around if you want a serious relationship. That's common sense.
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What do you tell a woman with 2 black eyes?

Nothing she hasn't already been told twice

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Women are stupid, weirdo
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there once was a time... when men cared enough about the women they loved to fight for them. to fight for their souls. to protect them from all the evil that befalls this world.

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There are always sooooo many women-bashing threads here on glp.
It is a surprise when there is not a misogynist thread posted here.
There are not even 1% of the same kind of man bashing threads here.
Men, don't you realize that women come to this forum too? But with all the hate you are chasing them away. Intense anger, and damaging words are more damaging on women than for men, it seems, although that is not good for anyone.
I could say porn has warped a lot of men's minds and made them hate women more.
But ultimately, you men have to deal with your anger without blaming. That is the only way things will change for you.
There is also a thread posted now about an ex marine newscaster who assaulted his wife. Those threads accompany the threads about how men hate women. There is a pattern. men are not dealing with their anger in a constructive way.
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Take your feminist shit somewhere else. Don't categorize all men as hating women. I was brought up to treat my lady as a queen. All other females are respected. A lot of men are starting to view women as blood suckers. Everyother day you see a news story about some lady taking half of that mans earnings when they divorce. Fair? Maybe. How about these women trapping men into taking care of her and her kids, then the man gets stuck paying child support for kids who aren't his. What about all these women who say their equal, yet they want someone to take care of them? Because of these women I refuse to marry my gf. Not because I don't love her, but i refuse to be enslaved by her.
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How is it categorizing all men as women bashers?
The op was talking about the misogynist threads that occur here on a very frequent basis. Not that all men hate women.
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I don't think I even want a "traditional" wife.

I don't care about her cooking meals or doing things for me. I'm insanely picky about everything.

I want someone more like a best friend.
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natural women are sexy

having a BMI north of 30 is not natural.

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that's a thread of its own...

women need to learn to also keep themselves looking as best they can, not just for themselves but because when you are at your best in terms of weight and health, you have more energy and can take care of your family better. too many women just let themselves 'go' after marriage and kids. Its not fair to anyone, especially the hubby. don't bait and switch, ladies. keep fit, eat healthy, do your hair pretty at times and ffs, get rid of clothes that make you look matronly. NO SWEAT PANTS. Be someone your hubby looks forward to seeing after a long work day, otherwise he'll be thinking about other women who still dress to impress.
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I keep in shape to set an example for my kids. I dont wear makeup. I wear tennis shoes and khaki's everyday to work, but at home, Im all about the sweatpants. But I only see my kids, so no biggie.

But those spray tan girls are awfully popular to not be attractive.
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well I have always been physically fit, for ME. I won't deny that my husband likes me that way and that at times I have felt a bit insecure if I gained a few pounds, but I can't blame him for a world that has programmed him and every other man to want a certain look - men cannot escape this porn-driven society we now exist in, where everything has a sexual connotation or double entendre.

Now that we are growing old together we see the world for what it is, my insecurities and complaints have diminished. I don't work out for anyone but myself because it makes be strong and self reliant in doing things. More importantly, my workouts keep me mentally fit. When I complete a ten mile run, I know I pushed myself to do on a 90 degree day, I feel empowered.

As for clothing, I understand that when you have kids, sometimes sweats are the way to go, but if a man is bustin balls 50-60 hours a week, at the end of the week, do something special for him. A little perfume, something pretty and feminine and make him the center of attention for a few hours, baby him. Cook him his favorite meal and LISTEN to him. Don't spend one minute talking about yourself or complaining, give him the spotlight for just that short time each week or as often as your schedule allows.

Too many couples are like ships in the night, passing each other by and passing through their OWN lives without stopping to smell the roses and drink the wine.

Trust me, doing these simple gestures will kick back a woman more than she deserves. Men want to feel special too. When we women actively do these things they can't help but want to love us and provide for our every need.
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My experience is that the more naturally attractive you are the worse men will treat you. I have always taken care of myself , but to try feeling beautiful when you are pregnant and your man tells you you look fat, and pregnancy is disgusting can really throw a wrench in your faith in men.

Vanity is wasted time, but we all suffer for one reason or another. I myself am trying to age gracefully, as I have no interest in botox, plastic, surgery etc. I prefer a natural look. But most men expect attractive women to maintain an air of youth in an unrealistic fashion. My ex husband has had it all, nose job, botox, lipo, I find this ridiculous looking but he likes his young chicks from playboy and pretends this makes a difference to them.

I have never found that my endeavors to maintain my beauty have been met with love for and provision for my every need, nor would I want this scenario. I am aware of my feminine mystique and gratefully an independent entity.....
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There are always sooooo many women-bashing threads here on glp.
It is a surprise when there is not a misogynist thread posted here.
There are not even 1% of the same kind of man bashing threads here.
Men, don't you realize that women come to this forum too? But with all the hate you are chasing them away. Intense anger, and damaging words are more damaging on women than for men, it seems, although that is not good for anyone.
I could say porn has warped a lot of men's minds and made them hate women more.
But ultimately, you men have to deal with your anger without blaming. That is the only way things will change for you.
There is also a thread posted now about an ex marine newscaster who assaulted his wife. Those threads accompany the threads about how men hate women. There is a pattern. men are not dealing with their anger in a constructive way.
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A mother (a real woman) doesn't complain but gives guidance...BTW a marine is a trained killer. That is his job. Once they go to war they don't come back the same way they use to be...And as for "dealing with anger" THAT'S MUTUAL.
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natural women are sexy

having a BMI north of 30 is not natural.

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that's a thread of its own...

women need to learn to also keep themselves looking as best they can, not just for themselves but because when you are at your best in terms of weight and health, you have more energy and can take care of your family better. too many women just let themselves 'go' after marriage and kids. Its not fair to anyone, especially the hubby. don't bait and switch, ladies. keep fit, eat healthy, do your hair pretty at times and ffs, get rid of clothes that make you look matronly. NO SWEAT PANTS. Be someone your hubby looks forward to seeing after a long work day, otherwise he'll be thinking about other women who still dress to impress.
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I keep in shape to set an example for my kids. I dont wear makeup. I wear tennis shoes and khaki's everyday to work, but at home, Im all about the sweatpants. But I only see my kids, so no biggie.

But those spray tan girls are awfully popular to not be attractive.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 34746297


well I have always been physically fit, for ME. I won't deny that my husband likes me that way and that at times I have felt a bit insecure if I gained a few pounds, but I can't blame him for a world that has programmed him and every other man to want a certain look - men cannot escape this porn-driven society we now exist in, where everything has a sexual connotation or double entendre.

Now that we are growing old together we see the world for what it is, my insecurities and complaints have diminished. I don't work out for anyone but myself because it makes be strong and self reliant in doing things. More importantly, my workouts keep me mentally fit. When I complete a ten mile run, I know I pushed myself to do on a 90 degree day, I feel empowered.

As for clothing, I understand that when you have kids, sometimes sweats are the way to go, but if a man is bustin balls 50-60 hours a week, at the end of the week, do something special for him. A little perfume, something pretty and feminine and make him the center of attention for a few hours, baby him. Cook him his favorite meal and LISTEN to him. Don't spend one minute talking about yourself or complaining, give him the spotlight for just that short time each week or as often as your schedule allows.

Too many couples are like ships in the night, passing each other by and passing through their OWN lives without stopping to smell the roses and drink the wine.

Trust me, doing these simple gestures will kick back a woman more than she deserves. Men want to feel special too. When we women actively do these things they can't help but want to love us and provide for our every need.
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rockon I totally agree with you Daisy on the aspect of spoiling ones man. Keeping my man happy means I am happy and he believes the same.

It's not all peaches and cream in our life because neither of us are the "Yes Dear" type...lol. But that is just added spice.
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lol it is the low consciousness men who feel the need to behave this way. they unfortunately die alone.. try and forgive them ladies..

us real men are here for you..
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player alert - lol!
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I don't think I even want a "traditional" wife.

I don't care about her cooking meals or doing things for me. I'm insanely picky about everything.

I want someone more like a best friend.
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that is the single most important thing in a relationship/marriage.

It also helps if she knows how to use a firearm as well.

If you pursue a mate as you would a 'best friend' you will not fail. All the other stuff is either icing, or simply superficial and not needed.

True Love is Friendship set on Fire.
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Did you ruin her? Many young men are children that get married then dont want to work by the time they get it together, the woman is long gone and knows she is better off alone.

Then, she is what men refer to as a nazi bitch, but she wasnt always that way.
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And to you, fuck off.
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Didnt attack anyone and certainly not you, but if the shoe fits.
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You attacked my fellow dude. You suggested he "ruined" her. He opened his heart and you quickly jumped up and stomped on it.
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Sounds like you are projecting to me. But what the poster says above is also applicable to some men,,, jaded and cynical about relationships, and VERY reluctant to reenter another one. Shit happens. But that's not a young man's game (or shouldnt be). I find it hard to believe the young men have the experience to match the hate. So who are they learning from? The older guys!!! It must be. Being charming and teary eyed for love is what makes youth such a great experience. Where is it, though? Oh yeah, the older guys are mentoring their youngins to be tough and mannish and responsible, blah blah blah... Drains the youth right out of them...

Just tell the old fuckers to go fuck themselves...
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I don't think I even want a "traditional" wife.

I don't care about her cooking meals or doing things for me. I'm insanely picky about everything.

I want someone more like a best friend.
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that is the single most important thing in a relationship/marriage.

It also helps if she knows how to use a firearm as well.

If you pursue a mate as you would a 'best friend' you will not fail. All the other stuff is either icing, or simply superficial and not needed.

True Love is Friendship set on Fire.
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Thanks daisy.

It's what I've always wanted but still haven't found her. :\
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All the manpain, "FEMINAZI DUMB CUNT GET BACK IN THE KITCHEN" language is really making me reconsider my life choices. I mean, I THOUGHT I was happy being a wholly self-sufficient, educated, single woman.

But now I know the truth. You have all opened my eyes with your videos and your assurances that doing "women's work" will finally bring me true, everlasting happiness.

OP: ALL THE WOMEN HATERS ARE RIGHT. PLEASE STOP FIGHTING IT. WE MUST BOW DOWN TO THE D. THE D WILL BE OUR SALVATION.

BRB, going to quit my job and see if my parents have been saving up for that dowry I'll be needing to land me a Good D-erm, man.

Anyone want a sandwich while I'm out?
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I think your missing the real problem here. The problem is within YOU. Why do you feel that you need to make something of yourself...why do you feel that unsecure? There is no higher "honor" in my book than to be a good wife and mother. It is a huge but rewarding job. Afterall, you are raising this worlds future people! What really is the issue here is YOUR EGO...or more accurately, you listeining to satan's call and allowing him to get into your head by way of making you unsatisfied and that you are unworthy unless you make a name for yourself. EGO and PRIDE are destroyers and have destroyed many since the beginning of time. I would hope that you are as intelligent as you claim to be...for if you are you will not dismiss what I've said and it will sink-in. Pursuits of money via career over love loses everytime! Peace.
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I'm assuming that last bit goes for men as well as women, correct? Just checking.

I think my insecurities began when I was a little girl and I went to the fire station with my father. At some point I said, "I WANT TO BE A FIREMAN LIKE YOU, DADDY."

And my father said, "Cool. But do something where you can make money first and volunteer on the side. When you have your own kids you'll realize the pay isn't that great."

I mean, that asshole. Not only did he expect me to have TWO jobs, but also to be a good mother and (presumably) wife. In that moment, I was condemned to a life of chasing after the unattainable in an unconscious effort to win the love of a father I couldn't know was simply a mouthpiece of Beelzebub. The ways of the devil truly are insidious, aren't they?

Oh, that I have wasted my life in such a way! Pride has blinded me to what I should have known in my heart to be true. Please pray that I will find my way off of this path of the damned and back towards the light!

Also, seriously, I'm fixing sandwiches for lunch if there are any takers. I'm taking a sick day so I should be making soup, but there's just something about this thread that triggers a deeply rooted urge for salami in me...
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Did you read what you wrote there? Where's the intelligence there? I didn't see it. Let's see you called your Father an asshole!? Thanks fo helping me make my point about how you women actually are these days. You negativity and half-assed sarcasm will be your only companion throughout your lifetime, is my prediction. And NO, if your a lesbian...your gf doesn't count either! ;). Ofcourse you pretended to miss "the point" of my reply to you. Nevermind if you're that damned stupid....you don't deserve to know. Have a nice day.
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"never marry an american woman"
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great way to sum it up!

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that's a thread of its own...

women need to learn to also keep themselves looking as best they can, not just for themselves but because when you are at your best in terms of weight and health, you have more energy and can take care of your family better. too many women just let themselves 'go' after marriage and kids. Its not fair to anyone, especially the hubby. don't bait and switch, ladies. keep fit, eat healthy, do your hair pretty at times and ffs, get rid of clothes that make you look matronly. NO SWEAT PANTS. Be someone your hubby looks forward to seeing after a long work day, otherwise he'll be thinking about other women who still dress to impress.
 Quoting: daisy 34495736


I keep in shape to set an example for my kids. I dont wear makeup. I wear tennis shoes and khaki's everyday to work, but at home, Im all about the sweatpants. But I only see my kids, so no biggie.

But those spray tan girls are awfully popular to not be attractive.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 34746297


well I have always been physically fit, for ME. I won't deny that my husband likes me that way and that at times I have felt a bit insecure if I gained a few pounds, but I can't blame him for a world that has programmed him and every other man to want a certain look - men cannot escape this porn-driven society we now exist in, where everything has a sexual connotation or double entendre.

Now that we are growing old together we see the world for what it is, my insecurities and complaints have diminished. I don't work out for anyone but myself because it makes be strong and self reliant in doing things. More importantly, my workouts keep me mentally fit. When I complete a ten mile run, I know I pushed myself to do on a 90 degree day, I feel empowered.

As for clothing, I understand that when you have kids, sometimes sweats are the way to go, but if a man is bustin balls 50-60 hours a week, at the end of the week, do something special for him. A little perfume, something pretty and feminine and make him the center of attention for a few hours, baby him. Cook him his favorite meal and LISTEN to him. Don't spend one minute talking about yourself or complaining, give him the spotlight for just that short time each week or as often as your schedule allows.

Too many couples are like ships in the night, passing each other by and passing through their OWN lives without stopping to smell the roses and drink the wine.

Trust me, doing these simple gestures will kick back a woman more than she deserves. Men want to feel special too. When we women actively do these things they can't help but want to love us and provide for our every need.
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My experience is that the more naturally attractive you are the worse men will treat you. I have always taken care of myself , but to try feeling beautiful when you are pregnant and your man tells you you look fat, and pregnancy is disgusting can really throw a wrench in your faith in men.

Vanity is wasted time, but we all suffer for one reason or another. I myself am trying to age gracefully, as I have no interest in botox, plastic, surgery etc. I prefer a natural look. But most men expect attractive women to maintain an air of youth in an unrealistic fashion. My ex husband has had it all, nose job, botox, lipo, I find this ridiculous looking but he likes his young chicks from playboy and pretends this makes a difference to them.

I have never found that my endeavors to maintain my beauty have been met with love for and provision for my every need, nor would I want this scenario. I am aware of my feminine mystique and gratefully an independent entity.....
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oh, wow, that broke my heart reading that and I cannot imagine how that must have made you feel. You do know that by being pregnant, giving birth and just being a mom, that is such a huge and wonderful accomplishment, not to mention that everyone knows how pregnancy tortures the female body, you are stronger for it and just the physical pain of going through that will lend itself to you being an over all stronger person both physically and mentally.

You mentioned him as your ex, so I hope you are in a better place now. I don't know how a man could say that to his pregnant wife. I do believe that some people are just evil, no conscience or souls, they wander among us and have no regard for the pain and misery they cause to others.

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that's a thread of its own...

women need to learn to also keep themselves looking as best they can, not just for themselves but because when you are at your best in terms of weight and health, you have more energy and can take care of your family better. too many women just let themselves 'go' after marriage and kids. Its not fair to anyone, especially the hubby. don't bait and switch, ladies. keep fit, eat healthy, do your hair pretty at times and ffs, get rid of clothes that make you look matronly. NO SWEAT PANTS. Be someone your hubby looks forward to seeing after a long work day, otherwise he'll be thinking about other women who still dress to impress.
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I keep in shape to set an example for my kids. I dont wear makeup. I wear tennis shoes and khaki's everyday to work, but at home, Im all about the sweatpants. But I only see my kids, so no biggie.

But those spray tan girls are awfully popular to not be attractive.
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well I have always been physically fit, for ME. I won't deny that my husband likes me that way and that at times I have felt a bit insecure if I gained a few pounds, but I can't blame him for a world that has programmed him and every other man to want a certain look - men cannot escape this porn-driven society we now exist in, where everything has a sexual connotation or double entendre.

Now that we are growing old together we see the world for what it is, my insecurities and complaints have diminished. I don't work out for anyone but myself because it makes be strong and self reliant in doing things. More importantly, my workouts keep me mentally fit. When I complete a ten mile run, I know I pushed myself to do on a 90 degree day, I feel empowered.

As for clothing, I understand that when you have kids, sometimes sweats are the way to go, but if a man is bustin balls 50-60 hours a week, at the end of the week, do something special for him. A little perfume, something pretty and feminine and make him the center of attention for a few hours, baby him. Cook him his favorite meal and LISTEN to him. Don't spend one minute talking about yourself or complaining, give him the spotlight for just that short time each week or as often as your schedule allows.

Too many couples are like ships in the night, passing each other by and passing through their OWN lives without stopping to smell the roses and drink the wine.

Trust me, doing these simple gestures will kick back a woman more than she deserves. Men want to feel special too. When we women actively do these things they can't help but want to love us and provide for our every need.
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rockon I totally agree with you Daisy on the aspect of spoiling ones man. Keeping my man happy means I am happy and he believes the same.

It's not all peaches and cream in our life because neither of us are the "Yes Dear" type...lol. But that is just added spice.
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My husband and I speak our minds to each other regularly. You call it added spice...we call it passion. :) I'm all about spoiling my man, maybe it's because he is a "man" and not an overgrown boy. I don't feel degraded in any way pleasing him and I can't understand women who do feel that way or wouldn't want to please their man. He shows me appreciation for everything I do and i reciprocate. It's really not a hard concept.
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Test -

What do men do with money?
Buy overpriced cars, homes, food, prostitues, takeover countries, their resources, kill the men and children, rape the women, have cheep labor build towers to commemorate these crimes.

What do Women do with money?
Feed, clothes, care for all the women and children who are victims of the men who did the above - year after year after year- with the little bit of money that is thrown their direction by the men who hire damage control specialists to cover the scrum crusted asses.
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Have ever looked into how many wars were started because of a woman? Namely a Queen? Do the math. You might be surprised. Ofcourse, there was Eve that put us on G-ds "shitlist" too from the very beginning!....thanks for that! ;)
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Test -

What do men do with money?
Buy overpriced cars, homes, food, prostitues, takeover countries, their resources, kill the men and children, rape the women, have cheep labor build towers to commemorate these crimes.

What do Women do with money?
Feed, clothes, care for all the women and children who are victims of the men who did the above - year after year after year- with the little bit of money that is thrown their direction by the men who hire damage control specialists to cover the scrum crusted asses.
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Have ever looked into how many wars were started because of a woman? Namely a Queen? Do the math. You might be surprised. Ofcourse, there was Eve that put us on G-ds "shitlist" too from the very beginning!....thanks for that! ;)
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This man keeps stacking physical.
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There are always sooooo many women-bashing threads here on glp.
It is a surprise when there is not a misogynist thread posted here.
There are not even 1% of the same kind of man bashing threads here.
Men, don't you realize that women come to this forum too? But with all the hate you are chasing them away. Intense anger, and damaging words are more damaging on women than for men, it seems, although that is not good for anyone.
I could say porn has warped a lot of men's minds and made them hate women more.
But ultimately, you men have to deal with your anger without blaming. That is the only way things will change for you.
There is also a thread posted now about an ex marine newscaster who assaulted his wife. Those threads accompany the threads about how men hate women. There is a pattern. men are not dealing with their anger in a constructive way.
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I think it's just GLP. I don't see those kind of threads on any other forums.
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Fuck it. People are always going to hate on somebody.
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Funny thing about this thread is how no one is talking about the growing trend of American women being one of the least desirable on the PLANET. I am single and like being this way. I have found most women to be shallow, attention grubbing crazy people. I dont hate them but I have seen enough to longer want to be involved with an american woman and I am an american male through and through. I am tired of all the TV shows and commercials that constantly depict males as fat and stupid, while the women are brilliant care givers that run the whole show. Really? Plus as far abuse is concerned it is almost equal percentage wise between men and women. Males rarely report physical abuse from females. And one more thing about woment that they hate to hear. For one week a month from puberty to menopause YOU ARE INSANE, irrational beings that cannot be reasoned with on any level. THAT IS A FACT JACKie. ;-)
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That's the truth. Men are learning to never marry American women.
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So you're going gay?
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I see this ^ one is an illiterate female.
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I don't think I even want a "traditional" wife.

I don't care about her cooking meals or doing things for me. I'm insanely picky about everything.

I want someone more like a best friend.
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that is the single most important thing in a relationship/marriage.

It also helps if she knows how to use a firearm as well.

If you pursue a mate as you would a 'best friend' you will not fail. All the other stuff is either icing, or simply superficial and not needed.

True Love is Friendship set on Fire.
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Thanks daisy.

It's what I've always wanted but still haven't found her. :\
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never give up. think of all you've discovered just here on glp - now multiply that with the world around you. new doors open and people walk through them all the time.

they key is to be out and about as much as you can. the virtual life is not as good as real life, and I only mention that because so many people get afraid to venture out, they get afraid to live away from their computers.

Hobbies are key, get involved in outdoorsy types of clubs, such as any type of working out (or whatever you like, hiking, photography, etc), that's how you make lots of friends and never forget the friends of friends. I am always kind to everyone I meet and talk to, and I've met wonderful friends through acquaintances and friends that way in my ski club. If I was single, I'd rarely have a free weekend..
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