natural women are sexy
having a BMI north of 30 is not natural.
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 34753229 that's a thread of its own...
women need to learn to also keep themselves looking as best they can, not just for themselves but because when you are at your best in terms of weight and health, you have more energy and can take care of your family better. too many women just let themselves 'go' after marriage and kids. Its not fair to anyone, especially the hubby. don't bait and switch, ladies. keep fit, eat healthy, do your hair pretty at times and ffs, get rid of clothes that make you look matronly. NO SWEAT PANTS. Be someone your hubby looks forward to seeing after a long work day, otherwise he'll be thinking about other women who still dress to impress.
I keep in shape to set an example for my kids. I dont wear makeup. I wear tennis shoes and khaki's everyday to work, but at home, Im all about the sweatpants. But I only see my kids, so no biggie.
But those spray tan girls are awfully popular to not be attractive.
well I have always been physically fit, for ME. I won't deny that my husband likes me that way and that at times I have felt a bit insecure if I gained a few pounds, but I can't blame him for a world that has programmed him and every other man to want a certain look - men cannot escape this porn-driven society we now exist in, where everything has a sexual connotation or double entendre.
Now that we are growing old together we see the world for what it is, my insecurities and complaints have diminished. I don't work out for anyone but myself because it makes be strong and self reliant in doing things. More importantly, my workouts keep me mentally fit. When I complete a ten mile run, I know I pushed myself to do on a 90 degree day, I feel empowered.
As for clothing, I understand that when you have kids, sometimes sweats are the way to go, but if a man is bustin balls 50-60 hours a week, at the end of the week, do something special for him. A little perfume, something pretty and feminine and make him the center of attention for a few hours, baby him. Cook him his favorite meal and LISTEN to him. Don't spend one minute talking about yourself or complaining, give him the spotlight for just that short time each week or as often as your schedule allows.
Too many couples are like ships in the night, passing each other by and passing through their OWN lives without stopping to smell the roses and drink the wine.
Trust me, doing these simple gestures will kick back a woman more than she deserves. Men want to feel special too. When we women actively do these things they can't help but want to love us and provide for our every need.
