Men need to stop the hate against women

Apparently we are talking across each other. What a shame. Thank you for taking the time to try to explain these things to me. But, for lack of a Y chromosome, I'm just never going to "get it."

when I spoil him, he spoils me ten times as much. I wish I had learned this early on in my marriage, lol, I would have saved myself a lot of aggravation.

that's the way it should be. When A is good to B, B should be good ten times as much to A.

The problem with many (as in one of my experiences) is that when A is bad to B then B feels like they did something wrong and is ten times as good to A then the bad cycle continues.

"there once was a time... when men cared enough about the women they loved to fight for them. to fight for their souls. to protect them from all the evil that befalls this world."

^^another fucked up thing women do - they deliberately start shit to see if her guy will protect her.

my first gf kept doing this and kept saying that i never stand up for her (i lost many pals cos of her shit stirring).

when she left me for her obese boss to drive his sports car, and left me in debt, i wasted fat boy in his workplace, and spat in and punched her in the face.

fat boy didn't do shit to protect her.

Blame your sisters there lady! If it wasn't there being offered...there woudn't be any takers. I for one have NEVER been w/ a prostitute(and never will). Where in the hell do you live that you believe every man has sex w/ prostitutes? Las Vegas?

Another non-intelligent comment from this woman w/a truly warped-mind. You need help lady! You don't have keep trying...ALL of us already know that you are a complete Moron!

not sure what the eff you are talking about, but I would take a bullet for my husband and he would take one for me.

sorry you don;t have someone like that in your life.

My brother married a nice japanese lady. Very sweet, but make no mistake, she wears the pants in the family. She doesnt work but is a super mom and wife.

yes, and if more people could get past themselves in the beginning of a relationship and try being the 'giver', they would soon learn that the payback was tenfold (given you are yoked up with the right person). People tend to want to 'take' in the beginning, not realizing the impact that can have. As we've read here before, most people complain about giving too much and not receiving anything back.

Love should be given away freely, with no expectations.

The fact is, not everyone gets it right in matters of the heart, there are lots of land mines, hearts get blown away, but if you bring the right gear to the love battlefield you will come out a winner.

I don't think it's a lack of a Y chromosome that you're lacking. Apart from that you have absolutely no respect for your Father(calling him an asshole)...that tells us all volumes about you. Thanks Eve, you are just SO Smart!!! NOT Really.

Not "women"...that particular woman if you could even call her that. She sounds more like a "little girl' with security issues. It's shit like this that gives all of us real women a bad rep. Feel free to hate those little bitches men, I do too.

Best lesson any American male can learn - avoid American women, marry a foriegner who appreciates all your hard work and dedication, and when they tell you how much they love you come back with "put that in writing will you?" just to make it legal and part of a pre-nup that will set fairness in any divorce as an expectation.

Of course we could also avoid liberal women, as thats where all the sappy men-destroyers exist. Show me a religous woman who was not treated fairly in a divorce... one in a million maybe.

Thank the libtard movement for all this men-hating and double-standards in family court. No man has any respect or desire for any woman with a 'court order' for anything anymore. All it says is RED FLAG alert and to run away from them.

Now THATS what we call a **REAL WOMAN**!

A REAL WOMAN

why. women in this country are worthless.

Took me 20 years and 3 long (4-6yrs/ea) failed relationships to realize not to get involved with any American woman. Sad but not wasting my time on searching for the needle-in-the-haystack within the USA anymore.

Far far too many appreciative and strong women outside the USA to waste time on the locals anymore.

Pretty hard to not despise a group of creatures that cry about "communication" when they speak in riddles.

OP you are blind if you believe this is about Misogynist attitudes. OP - only a woman taught to think any man who says anything negative about women is a 'woman hater' - you are stupid. WAKE UP!!!

It is NOT misogyny - any hard feelings are brought on by the actions of a woman that were not fair and based in double-standards.

You try to deflect in true liberal fashion that your attitude is what brought you to react and create this thread in the first place!

Own up to being part of the problem and seek a FAIR solution EQUAL for both and you may see positive change.

Or keep your belief all women are victims and any man who says otherwise is a 'hater'. Your type started this crap and now cry fould when you get any backlash? Coward! Oh wait - could be a leberal too... yeah they deflect everything as someone elses fault.

HEY OP - you OWN it!!

Welp, you've attacked my pride, my intelligence, and my perceived sexual orientation (for the record I'm straight, but that's neither here nor there). All obviously fair points, well made.

But please don't attack my use of sarcasm. As you've said, it is one of the few things I know will grant me cold comfort in my spinstery twilight years. That and, most likely, cats.

In the end there are both bad men and bad women. This thread started by a upset and offended-by-backlash OP who clearly seeks to look down the nose of those who do not give sympathy but rather fact.

When ANY parent is gone that causes its own problems. When you have to parents and one or the other is an asshole - causes its own problems. When one or the other is a problem and you are no thappy - then LEAVE.

NEVER stay in a bad relationship, but unlike the men-haters who feel 'entitled' by a double-standard court system to destroy a man, thus the kids too (only fools think the kids will be alright in adulthood), many on here have some truly positive insights, not just rants.

Haters like this 'lack of a Y-chromosome' poster are brainwashed to deflect true accountability or consequence. I bet she is a liberal who voter for nObama too.

I don't see you on mine or me on yours.

Who are you?

Last Edited by Debauchery on 02/19/2013 05:26 PM

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Misogyny will only help to keep you from being full and complete in yourself.
Hating anyone will just destroy you.

You men just aren't getting it.
There are threads ATTACKING women here almost everyday.
There are not threads attacking men almost everyday. I can't remember the last time I saw one.

But this environment is extremely hostile...to women, to gays, to anyone of a different colour or ethnicity or religion or political persuasion...other than white, conservative and redneck.

Obviously, some men have the opportunity to spew their hatred here.
But they also have the opportunity to read another's perspective, and learn what it is like not being the 'dominant perspective'.

I had to really LOL when I read a karma comment I got:

"No woman wants a loser, so you dont have to worry about commitment, you incredible fucktard"

Whatever woman did that really made my day cos I fucked her...in the head!!

no, seriously, I got a story for ya, mebbe you will understand.

Married the girl 15 years ago when she was an adorable kindergarden teacher.
5 years ago, she wanted more money and a house and a carreer change.
Then she wanted a fosterkid, which we got, a wonderful daughter.
She went to work in the prison system with kids that are locked up and gradually changed...., she became harder, more abusive, angry sex.
Then she went into managment-level for 'ze money'.
A year later she had an affair, and suffice to say I didn't take kindly to that cos I imagined us already growing old and dying in that house we bought.

Divorced now, 42, blond, 6"1 and am alone now for a year and a half, and seriously, I say a lot, but haven't had a woman since.
My wife truly fucked me over in the divorce(since she got the money) and tried to take away my daughter whom I deerly love and hope to be there for her into adulthood.
First I started drinking, but then I easily identified the problem; I'm too trusty, too nice, too giving and I shoulda stood up to her 10 years ago, but I didn't.

Now I have my daughter one week and she is with my ex the other, co-parenting(I never discuss anything with her but the trivial) and 2,5 years from now my daughter will be free from her, cos she desperately wants to live with me but the guardian and fostercare won't let her.
My wife is really mean and downgraading to her...

so , how's that for starting to hate women, I see it all around, just was the fucker who didn't wanna believe it, but here I am!
Before the mariage, girlfriends, same story, they all want the bad boy...

I will be alone for the reat of my life by choice, maybe I will sleep with one but WILL let her know up front there is NO chance of a relationship.

period.

I stand by my post on page 3 and the subsequent ones, except for the one where I made that bad joke.

I have disability(you can see nothing)

I married when I was very young and believed with all of my heart that was the way marriage was supposed to be, but the young man I married was young as well and just took and took and really took advantage.

This is the typical excuse of the jealous American woman. No, we don't want a submissive woman or bitch. The women outside of America are far nicer and kinder to us than American women. Unfortunately for you, you will never understand this. These non-American women are family oriented and are the type of women you could actually trust and share your finances too. These non-American women are the type of women that know the concept of equal sharing and know the world has changed a lot and that they too have to work at it in the relationship. These non-American women know that if they fuck up your life, they fuck up their own life. Really, American women have priced themselves out of the market.

^^THIS^^ ... is why women are seeing a backlash. They own it and like everyone else blame the victims.

Kudos to you for your bravery and courage though it all.