A cheating ex wants me back

ten bucks.. or poularity.. both leave a bad taste.. masegil wont fix..

Run and dont look back

meet someone new... Here's a few options you could consider okay....

its an easy one, go hire a good looking guy to hit on her and see what happens, not a one night stand but a long term ting, see if she bites or not.

she will.. and hes even more pissed.. walk bro..

Definitely not healthy to do so. In 20 years, you will be proud of yourself if you move on and stay away from her.

Even considering it should make you feel bad. The high road is you. You dont have to take it. Fuck that. Go get something better... why are you waiting?

I have to agree. For me, there is no room for cheating. We live in some dangerous times. If you cannot trust the one person you are supposed to love then wtf happens when the SHTF? No thanks, you cheat, you can pack your bags and get the f*ck out.

Trust, integrity and honesty are paramount in my book. Even though she admitted the deed, who knows what else was going on in that pea brain of hers.

I agree with the guy above, as soon as she stops respecting YOUR dick, its over. Ain't no one got time fo dat.

no wonder she cheated on you if you would go out with a girl just for sex

Grow up

I'm on the fence sometimes with issues like these. I wouldn't tolerate it personally at my age, but if two people are head over heels in love and want to forgive each other, then yes, take another chance and go for it. If it doesn't work at least you know you gave it a second chance.

I just sometimes wonder about WHY a person does that -- it would almost make more sense if the relationship had some issues to justify it some way -- OP said no issues which makes daisy go "hmmmm".

would she be sneaky again and would OP not see it? and what kinda girl gets drunk and gives out the pussy like that.

things that make one go "hmmmm"

in this case I rule that bitches be crazy.

judgement goes to OP for a new piece of tail.

see i think the younger you are you can forgive and still make it work. the older you get, if someone cheats, RUN.

you just keep processing and talking through it, bro. we all here to help you off the ledge.

I got back together with my ex back in 1991. Same scenario, she had an 'excuse' and felt bad about it.

I did get back with her after being apart a few months. Basically I put on a good show, she thought things were great and working out, and after looking back I now think she honestly did want to be a better person, after we got back together.

The sex for me was great after that because I did not allow any emotion into my dealings with her. It was all an act. It was pure lust-driven easy opportunities to have some ass right there, when I wanted it. She never suspected. I took great pride in knowing I was only there for sex, and that she did not have a clue.

After a year I met an amazing woman in my business 'networking'. We began a great friendship that began to bloom into something much deeper. I never touched her while I was still with my ex. This new woman was of such high character that I was actually ashamed of how I had treated my e and was using her. Once it became apparent we had feelings for each other, I admitted to the new woman how I had been carrying on with my ex.

She understood to a point. But once I had told her about it, she told me the only way for us to move forward was for me to let my ex go - and to be honest about how I had treated her.

Bottom line: I have now been married to woman number 2 for 18 years and we have 2 great kids. She has been an amazing woman and a blessing to my life.

My ex? She fell apart. Over the last 20-plus years she has been through 3 failed marriages, abusive boyfriends, depression, and drug problems (which she never had before we split up for good). I have heard from people who know us both that she is angry at life, not so much at me I guess, but she sees what I have - financially and emotionally - and she is sort if angry because she realizes she had the opportunity for all of that and fucked it up.

I'm not happy that she's done badly since me. I do enjoy the fact that her story highlights how sometimes a dumb bitch just doesn't know how to be happy. If that's wrong so be it.

If I were you I'd use her to do weird sexual shit you wouldn't dare ask a potential mate to try, maybe even a threesome towards the end. Treat her well until you need to move on, but use her like a whore and discard her on your terms.

That's how she treated you.

OP, there's a lot of suggestion to treat her bad and use her. I would not do that to anyone, no matter how much pain they caused me. Yo need to stay true to yourself. Remember YOU didn't cheat. You are in the right. Don't bitter yourself doing deviant acts to feel like you won something. No one wins when it comes to stuff like this. The best thing you can do is be thankful you are not married to her and have no assets tied up waiting to split, etc. Be the better person who's mother would be damn proud that her son was not some sort of deviant prick who was taking someone else, a human being, for granted. It leads you down a path you don't want to go on many levels.

Rise up. Keep yourself the way you are and go get back out there in the dating world.

Awesome story, cept the using your x for sex part lol. Chick two could have just as easily told you to take off...