Life is actually exactly what you make it, your beliefs. Life is so much more than pain. Pain is a teacher like anything else, dwelling on it and not learning from it will create more of it, your choice.

In reality, life is so much more than pain, perfectly proven by the fact that you know what pain is. The is no good without evil, dark without light, sickness without health. One cannot understand the concept of pain without experiencing joy.

What you do with your pain and joy is your choice.