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Anonymous Coward User ID: 22031346 United States 02/20/2013 09:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sad but true - after some of my relatives wondered "why on earth don't you have a boyfriend, you are so nice, cute blah blah why aren't you meeting anyone?" everyone decided I should try ChristianMingle because they thought I might have a better chance at meeting a nice guy with old-fashioned marriage values. Plus CM advertises on TV all the time so all the older ladies - aunts, grandma's etc think oh this must be good. HAHAHA! What a joke, it makes the questionable Match.com guys one of my coworkers keeps going for out of desperation look like they're sporting halo's. After scrolling through all the ChristianMingle matches the site pulled up for me across a 2-state area I kept making jokes that this looks like a web site running a contest to see which guy will turn into a serial killer first. Most of the guys I saw on there, if I had seen them at a convenience store or any parking lot, etc I would have locked my car doors FAST and had the pepper spray ready as I sped off certain a violent crime would soon be in progress. If I had actually seen a guy like that at my doorstep, I would have been calling 911 certain it was going to be a rape/break-in combo! The best I can say about the site is that the ones that didn't look like future-felons-of-America were complete and total goobers playing up Christianity to try to get some nice naive girls to go to bed with them. I don't think having been to church once or twice and not spontaneously combusting really makes someone Christian. These guys would talk Christian values but then you find out they technically have gone to church on Easter or Christmas and they have heard of some guy named Jesus. Oh please. Then there were a few that were so perfectly Christian, they had clearly just cut and paste Bible talk into their profile. Or else were so delusional they really thought they were Jesus. Spare me! I only communicated with one person and by the second email he had me completely freaked out - he was on my @ss already about I wasn't answering fast enough, when he could call me, it just screamed "stalker in the making." Fortunately I never posted a photo and he lived a good 6-8 hrs away. I lasted a whole 3 days in the online dating world. Spent most of my time on the site blocking every match they pulled up for me. Right after I turned my account off and applied for a place in the witness protection program (lol) one of my guy friends told me he just heard on the news that 86% of men with online dating profiles are actually already in other relationships - married, or shacked up with kids at home, engaged, you name it. The great thing about my 3 day experience of online dating is that NO ONE asks me why I'm still single now! And I get invited to more things - family, friends, than when everyone was just trying to get me to hurry up and find a guy. And I no longer fret over meeting the right guy soon, I'm just so thankful to be hanging out with friends without the freak factor of these guys! |
Bluebird User ID: 27748381 United States 02/20/2013 09:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | What a sicko! I don't think it's safe to trust anybody you only know from the internet in spite of the fact this has worked out for some. One of the most important aspects of conspiracy theories is being able to discern when there isn't one. Oh yeah, like you'd understand anyway. Where are we going and why am I in this handbasket?. . .J. Handy |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 33807501 United States 02/20/2013 12:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was on that sight...although prolly a bit older than you..i ran into negative stuff...the first guy I met on line maneuvered me into calling him the first day and when he got me on the phone he started talking of marriage...saying isn't that what God wants, for us to get married....I got him off the line real fast....then I met another guy (on line only) who I actually liked...but then he turned up in prison for child molestation. Yes and when they say..I have been a Christina all my life....that is a dead give away they don't know a darn thing they are talking about...so I have decided, since I am a Christian I will leave it up to God to bring me the man! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27068852 . ... AMEN! ... . ... at 31 years of age ... The Lord brought my soul mate into my life! ... . ... 29 years of marriage and solid!!!! ... . |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27068852 United States 02/20/2013 01:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was on that sight...although prolly a bit older than you..i ran into negative stuff...the first guy I met on line maneuvered me into calling him the first day and when he got me on the phone he started talking of marriage...saying isn't that what God wants, for us to get married....I got him off the line real fast....then I met another guy (on line only) who I actually liked...but then he turned up in prison for child molestation. Yes and when they say..I have been a Christina all my life....that is a dead give away they don't know a darn thing they are talking about...so I have decided, since I am a Christian I will leave it up to God to bring me the man! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27068852 . ... AMEN! ... . ... at 31 years of age ... The Lord brought my soul mate into my life! ... . ... 29 years of marriage and solid!!!! ... . thanx for your support!!!!!! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 15993935 Netherlands 02/20/2013 07:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Christian dating services are a scam. They don't screen or vet anyone, and suckers think because they call themselves "christian" its all legit. I wouldn't give them a dime. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 961432 . Anyone and anything that is Christian or Muslim I stay away from. You are all fucking insane. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 33807501 United States 02/22/2013 01:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A friend once told me all his more aggressive guy friend looked for gals who were on christian sites or described themselves as such, as they were easy pickins. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33283057 . ... also a danger in actual fellowships ... . ... beware of strangers ... . ... true for more than just children! ... . |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1452946 02/22/2013 10:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | What a sicko! I don't think it's safe to trust anybody you only know from the internet in spite of the fact this has worked out for some. Quoting: Bluebird Who would go out with a guy looking like that? are women that horny to take anything that comes along |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 27091126 United States 02/23/2013 05:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | women need to be very careful on dating sites. You never know who is going to show up at your door. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24473407 Not only Women But also Men Woman Files False Rape Claim Because Sex Was bad With Man She Met Online [link to www.examiner.com] |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1169659 United States 03/15/2013 01:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm a christian, but when I was looking into personals sites christian mingle was the lowest on my list. I live in the bible belt and know how it is... the more time a female spends in church, the more likely she is to be a druggie and/or have a whole bunch of different baby daddies. I've found that if you want a christian woman who "walks the walk" look for ones who don't wear their christianity as a badge or some sort of accessory. |