I think most people learn too late in the game of love what the winning strategy is. For women, its being as pure to herself has possible and really looking at the damage that having multiple partners does to one's psychological well being. For every bad experience with a love relationship that involved sex that goes wrong, you are just building up a bad resentment towards the men. As for men, I can't even begin to explain the work that needs to be done and the programming that has been deeply embedded into them to view women as they do.

All we women can do that are married is to continue to love and seek out the best ways to protect out men from what they are burdened with in this world as best we can. It is no easy task for those of us that know and understand our men, they are being attacked, just like the women.

The fact is, most people want to have a soul mate, best friend, lover, spouse; whatever you want to call it and the only way is to put down the hate and start helping people up. start encouraging them and understanding that none of us set out to destroy another, shit happens, life hardens you and you do your best to put the broken pieces back together and forgive one another.

There is no other way, men and women need to work together. they both need each other.