"to have one's individuality completely ignored is like being pushed quite out of life; like being blown out as one blows out a light" e.scott

too bad he doesn't seem to realize that by calling the shots without so much as discussing with you - rather announcing what will be - that he is objectifying you. real people don't do well when they are ignored. and then to be suddenly withdrawn from tobacco when it was not your choosing is harsh.

why are you a kept woman, if you don't mind me asking. i understand millions of reasons why one could be. never mind the jerks on this thread. do you have any access to the household funds? if so, do the obvious unless there is some major reason why not to. to quit or not to quit - maybe isn't the question. to be valued as a human being may be.

by the way, once upon a thread ago you wrote the funniest line i have ever read on glp. after that i notice your threads. hang in there. and take care. of you.