Is my fiance cheating on me? True talk!!!!

Look, if this is the girl you plan on marrying you need to be able to ask her anything. I would just playfully ask her the next time you are intimate to do what she did before and tell how great it felt. You are supposed to be in love, she should be glad to share with you how she discovered that way and be glad that it pleases you.

you need to start a good marriage off with honesty. and you don't need to accuse her of anything when you talk about it.

thats right^

Im a dude (of course)

been married over 2 years... have lived with this chick for over 4 years...

i still got tricks she hasnt even seen...

you never never never revel every trick you know all in one sitting... you gotta space them out... keep things interesting... keeps it fresh

I hear what your saying its just hard to come off when your set in the way that you approach your loved one. This sounds rtarded but last night I pounded her to see if another name came out, I know I know, its dumb and selfish on my part. But It just has me thinking too much and I think too much as it is. We are very honest, have a great relationship its just that I think she may have been swayed by the moment. I mean I work and look at gorgeous women all day but its just eye candy, I know what I have and hey, a mind fuck is just as good

yea in a good scenario this would be perfect since youve been together for 4 years and like you said you know the sex life. that might mean to her things might get boring.

and if you want to stay together for a long time im guessing its pretty good to do little new stuff together to keap it fresh

hope thats the case!

you should just say you liked it if she does it again next time. or if she doesnt then ask for it.

for all you know she might be super happy she tried something new and you liked it :)

OP, I've got news for you, women are full of surprises.

If she is cheating, she would be less likely to make love to you.

Cheating signs:
-time unaccounted for
-working out excessively
-new hair, clothes, etc
-lots of time on the computer/texting/phone calls
-emotional distance


the fact that she got her freak on with you is a good thing. generally women are not like men, they don't go around fucking a lot of guys, they are emotional creatures and place love over sex. men on the other hand...

are you going to marry her? or what?
are you committed? trying to find an excuse out?
commit or move on

1. If you are so anti media, why are you on this website?

2. NO she is not cheating on you. If she were cheating, she would avoid having sex with you. (trust me on this, I am a girl)

She read or heard about this somewhere.

Um.. maybe it just feel good to her? Like really good..... A certian area is stimulated when a woman leans forward on a man... Good grief.

Also dude every person has confidence issues...
especially chicks... maybe it took her this long to feel confident enough to try something a little "wild" with you.

brag about it to her.

Tell her how it blew your mind.

cos if this was something that was the result of confidence... not saying anything will hurt it! and you may not get it again... at least not for a long time!

if it was a cheating thing... you will find out sooner or later... and then just dump the bitch...

hope she isnt cheating bro, i got my fingers crossed for ya!

but i wouldnt jump the cheating gun just yet. NOT until you have proof... cos our minds can play with us and make the untrue seem true... until you find solid proof... i wouldnt sweat it... speaking of sweating it...

get off here and brag on her recent performance... she might just give you the sequel... and it might just be even better than the previous...

Hey now.....Makes sense but even if she wanted to have a ONE TIME thing and has moved on from him, all that would still be just as bad. Now your assuming nothing has happened as I wish I could, but you never,never question your gut when you get that feeling. Could save or end a life in which decision is made, in this case, could make or break a gorgeous life with a wonderful family. And not all men place sex over love, personally, I like the thought more than anything but would never "cheat" on my lady I swear love to.

You are seriously reading into this way too much.

She just wanted to stimulate her clit. End of story.

I like your words bro.

I don't believe in marriage but I will give her what she truly wants. Very committed, as I said, we have a gorgeous one year old and we make a great family.

That came out wrong, im sure you know what I mean.

now go get er tiger

I will assume you are in the age range of 23? Which means you are both young. And congrats on the fact that you are getting married. Understand that living in that state of fear that she has done something, like cheated, will spill over into all other areas of your relationship. You have given no indication that she has cheated other than a new positions she tried, which she could have read about in a cosmo magazine. I would do what I suggested in my previous post.

The biggest turn off is being accused of something you didn't do. Often time the person accusing has something they did and they are feeling guilty. Not saying you did anything, but you need to learn to be confident and lead the relationship like a real man. A real man would just ask in a gentle way; 'baby where'd you learn that? do it again" and make sure you tell her how great it was. Otherwise she'll feel awkward about trying knew things in the future. She's only 23, I hope she still has a lot to learn! No woman should know every sexual position at 23.

Start being the man.

*new things

IDK does it means shes cheating? Who knows. Does it mean you better start spicing tthings up before she does start cheating? Surely.

Speak up. Say something. Hey you change d positions the other night, you wanna try some new stuff? What do you think your up for? Type stuff Dont not speak to her about it.

The Tarot Cards say NO she is not cheating.

5 of Pentacles Reversed
Suddenly, you feel more open to love, more able to take the chance of being vulnerable, and when this happens, almost magically, you may find yourself receiving more love. Be open.
The relationship may suddenly draw closer and become more pleasing. The only problem this card can point to is if your relationship has been built on "it's us against the cold, cruel world." to survive, if you have that attitude, that must change.

Queen of Wands
The Queen is positive, uplifting energy. When she stands in for a woman in your life, she's a good friend, who is solidly on your side, even though she may seem a bit self-absorbed. If you are trying to conceive and this card appears, it's one of the most positive signs that there can be.

The World
if you have been in a long-term committed relationship for some time, you are likely to find it rising to "new and better heights." Things in the love department should be quite interesting, in a good way

oh hell. there ya go OP... i'm 95% certain she isnt double dipping on you man. (aka she isnt cheating)

She had a Kid and is transforming from girl to woman... its been a year since she had the kid... so its time for that primal instinct to kick in... that woman instinct!

girls are "okay" in bed... they can be fun and all...
and i've met a few that were "super-jumped-up-fucking-awesome"

but women....



oh damn OP... you gonna be very happy



go fuck her dude!
...at the very least make love

OP she might have conceived. If she is not pregnant now, she might be soon.

If it felt good... relax,enjoy, be happy and go with it.

then don't ever expect her to be loyal and true.

It sounds like you need to look in the mirror.

Quit blaming her. She simply added some spice. Are you boring in bed?

Are you?

I just did a tarot reading as well for the OP

and the cards said she wasnt cheating as well.

the older women get, the more in tune they get with their bodies.

OP is off here and putting the moves on his lady.



you go OP

you go you!



Last Edited by Dr. Acula on 02/23/2013 10:13 PM

like a fine wine
better with age
;)

(in all aspects of life, not just sex)

Last Edited by Dr. Acula on 02/23/2013 10:16 PM