Is my fiance cheating on me? True talk!!!!

I confess...

It was ME...

I told her to do that...

But don't tell anybody?

well i found the evidence, going to talk in about 30 mins when she gets home... damn this is rough

I hope she IS "cheating" on you! You worthless, piece of shit! You know what marriage is...you know what commitment is...yet, you have not take either step towards marriage or commitment. Go fuck yourself! Now, you want to know if she is cheating on you?!?! You worthless piece of crap and shit! Go and marry her...then you can have the balls to come and make a statement like this on GLP!

Here is YOU...

"I haven't made a commitment, and don't want to...but, is the color blue still blue?"

Fuck you! Make a commitment...then you can ask if she is breaking the commitment!

GOD HAVE MERCY ON YOUR POOR CHILD! AS TO NOW - YOU ARE A WORTHLESS FATHER...your child would have been better off without a father...at least he would have been consistently "NOT THERE" - as it is - by your own questioning...you are only "PARTLY PRESENT"

just dont do anything silly... remember if she was cheating in the past... you are the victim here... do not turn the tides against yourself and give her even the slightest grounds to call you the villain.

even if it hurts so bad you cant stand it... be calm and relax and talk in a gentle tone. Dont freak out and throw shit or threaten her... that will just fuck yourself.

I hope this is a misunderstanding

100% with the Dr. on this one. As a young woman I had little confidence or self-expression in bed but as I got into my 30s ... hell yeah, that's when a woman knows what she want and isn't afraid to go for it. And after having a baby things change inside your body, you get more confident, more awareness of what's going on and how you feel. If you two are happy and making a great family I really really doubt that she's cheating on you.

Be open to new sexual experimentation, it will keep your relationship alive. If you are afraid of intimacy you may hold back on getting too wild and crazy sexually and that can stifle the best thing you could have.

You have to sign your name to get a car loan...but, not to fuck and produce a child!!! That is WRONG! I don't give a shit about the OP. He gets what he deserves. The child...that is another story. This moron produces a child...but, has no commitment to the child or mother. And now he is here asking for reassurance...here is my reassurance...you committed nothing...expect nothing. If she is fucking around...what did you have in the "card" game? You had nothing...no commitment...thanks for playing...you should have married...then you could have said something...as of now...you know not whether she is getting better at sex via expansion of her own brain...or from new experiences fucking around...either way...you had no COMMITMENT IN THE PROCESS!!!

im starting to think your name is Brittany

next time, put your finger in her butt.

LOL! Oh, now, come on Doc! I am telling this piece of crap the way it REALLY is...and why society should not give a crap about him and his "situation." Here...let me give an analogy...

"Gee, I am Ralph. I went to work for 'this guy.' It was great money, but oddly enough I never paid taxes. Now, the IRS is telling me I have to pay taxes or go to jail."

Is "Ralph" OK? No! Should the rest of us who do pay taxes think that "Ralph" should NOT pay taxes?! Fuck him! He knew the rules...and now, because the consequences are painful...he wants some sort of "societal" remediation?!?! NOPE! Let Ralph pay for his own stupidity...and let OP sit in silence...in his own stupidity and lack of commitment!

2 Quatloos says he never spoke to her about the matter!
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OP should take commitment more seriously i agree.

I still hurt for the dude.

and i personally would have worded it different.

maybe im just getting soft in my "old" age...

Im gonna have to go outside and strangle a kitten to death now to redeem myself



OP just make sure in the future you put your family first... even above yourself. Don't let personal demons drag you down. Being in a relationship is a hard job... its 24/7
be more serious about commitment... if you want to carry on an 'advanced' form of an relationship.

I do (somewhat) agree with AC6685... but i chose a different nicer tone... not that their tone is wrong... its raw and primal... which doesnt mean that its bad.

I'm still sending you positive vibes dude, im not hating... i hope you can find some form of happiness!

Now where is a kitten...

Last Edited by Dr. Acula on 02/24/2013 05:54 PM

Doc...see the bold above! Only one that is soo young it has not yet opened its eyes! ROFLMAO!

Soooooo OP what happened when you confronted her? Inquiring minds want to know!

Im gonna visit the pet store tomorrow... and ask If I can "hold" one for a second

muwahahahahahahaha

Well first off i must respond to this "No commitment factor" thats been spreading, how is me worrying that my fiance is cheating so we can live a life of peace having no commitment? ... We just not married yet is the only thing thats not a "full commitment" but with times its hard and also with so many other ventures we set forth for each other. So call me peice of shit that deserves this or w/e you say, AC you are no better or no worse for bashing me for wanting to know the truth for someone i truly love with everything i have, that i never knew i would.

As for how things went, GREAT! We talked all night long and so much information about critical missteps was talked about on a deep level. I never felt better but she feels like shit this morning. Thinking i can never trust her again but all i wanted was the truth to be happy. I love this girl more than life itself, it sounds corny but i really do, making love to her last night was simply phenonminal.

She did not cheat recently and "got in the groove" how she put it. She usually gets hurt when on top so she took a different approach, as for the shit i posted, that was back in 2011, a demon that still haunts me but even that flame was put out of its misery with faith and hope towards the evergreen future.
So for all of you of you with positive words in a TIME OF NEED , thank you.

And to those who want to talk shit like a walking asshole w/o any true knowledge or who just feel the need to be "the know it all" in these situations when someone is just looking for advice or maybe some insight, well guess what... You too will question your life when it's in its greatest point thinking "something has to be wrong" and for when you do i say... ' YOU ARE TRULY A PIECE OF SHIT SCUMBAG, YOU DESERVE EVERY KNICK AND CUT WITH A WORLD OF SALT BEHIND IT'.... fully kidding here but really, no need to bash anyone for trying to find the truth and make things right.


After one day, i feel we jumped over hills and heights it would have took months to do just two days ago.

BTW.... i had her swimming in a pool last night, being as she was leaking like sieve.

congrats OP!

Internet Porn- it gives everyone some new ideas. Relax, and come up with a new move yourself.

Thanks buddy, your words along with ms daisy's truly inspired me and gave me another outlook on this whole traffic jam. Your the type i would love to sit down and blaze (if you love mary ofcourse) with but hey this will do just fine.


Thank you my friend.

I have nothing against sweet ol Mary

But im a drunkard type

I'd sit down with you and drink while you smoked and hang out with you no problem... if I werent such a recluse. lol



May this new path in life bring you much much much much happiness!

My first thought was something along these lines. Too tired, was trying something a little less taxing.

So my reading was dead on. Is she also pregnant? If not she will be soon.

Yes you were in every facet. We have now heightened our own sense of sexuality through the studies of tantra and connecting our chaktra. We have years to go but one night and it feels we have rejuvenated everything we "thought" that we had lost. On the flip side, i hope not lol. Dont get me wrong, if she is, then we are prepared and ready for our 2nd stubborn brat ;) . But It would put a fork in the road, now you have me thinking she just might be!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well i have no idea how you knew or what you do know but you were correct my friend. We found out, well i found out my fiance is 6 weeks pregnant. She knew at 6 this morning when the "gut instinct" kicked in. Not sure, but thank you? But really, deff a realization that is going to be fun to explore. Ill keep it updated with all the info? Hopin for a boy but a girl would be great. Any medieval names? Looking for something old age and old world with a strong meaning.

stop living in fear. you sound like a scared little boy

Bravo AC 27760808! Looks like GLP has its own super psychic on board. Good call!

If you have to ask, then they are.

OMG, really? Instead of becoming someone who now all of a sudden doesn't trust her due to a new movement, did it occur to you to say ,Wwow, I really liked that move it was a real turn on."

Women read magazines, think about things that may feel good to them as well as you. Just because of a new sex move doesn't mean she is cheating on you.

If you don't trust someone why friggin bother?