one takes mind of all things. It's choosing who's words you let effect the actions in your life that is the challenging part. And who you let alter the path you take.

Maybe accepting you're not perfect would help you see this clearly.

take in everything you can. Start learning and assessing what is true and false. Try to develop your ability to see many perspectives.

People will say everything you can imagine. Avoiding whats around you is a crutch. Learn from it.