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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 35070110  Luxembourg02/24/2013 08:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Holy_Diver The Man on the Silver Mountain  User ID: 20712268  United States02/24/2013 08:50 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 35070110 Luxembourg02/24/2013 08:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She's not married, yet, and if you can prevent a misguided marriage it's probably your civil duty. Quoting: Holy_Diver Is the child the fiancee's? You are right buddy. No, it's not. The child is from a previous relationship with another guy (he left her). She told me that she suspects her fiance cheating on her.. She's not sure, though. Will I get in trouble if I get sexual with this woman? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 30938598 United States02/24/2013 08:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 15411952  Canada02/24/2013 08:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 23560528 United States02/24/2013 08:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You're an idiot! She is getting married and has one child supported kid and you want to f her? How about 100 grand for the rest of your life for 3mins of shitty fun with a whore. Yes she is a whore how many other little 20 somethings have past between her legs? STD? 3mins my friend and that is it! |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 35070110 Luxembourg02/24/2013 08:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | if she is going to cheat her fiance do you think there is a chance in the near future she is going to cheat you? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15411952 From what I know, she seems like a loving and caring person. Seems like her fiancé doesn't treat her right.. I see what you're saying but I mean, I know that I don't want to get in a relationship with her, because of the age thing, I mean.. I'm not against sexual involvement. |
| Holy_Diver The Man on the Silver Mountain User ID: 20712268 United States02/24/2013 08:58 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She's not married, yet, and if you can prevent a misguided marriage it's probably your civil duty. Quoting: Holy_Diver Is the child the fiancee's? You are right buddy. No, it's not. The child is from a previous relationship with another guy (he left her). She told me that she suspects her fiance cheating on her.. She's not sure, though. Will I get in trouble if I get sexual with this woman? Any "trouble" sent your way would be misguided. The girl is not under any obligation at this point...in fact, if she's not sure now she certainly shouldn't go through with any marriage. What happens between you and her has nothing to do with whether her fiancee is cheating or not, this is all her decision.  "You've been left on your own, like a Rainbow in the Dark" -Ronnie James Dio |
| Holy_Diver The Man on the Silver Mountain User ID: 20712268 United States02/24/2013 09:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | if she is going to cheat her fiance do you think there is a chance in the near future she is going to cheat you? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15411952 From what I know, she seems like a loving and caring person. Seems like her fiancé doesn't treat her right.. I see what you're saying but I mean, I know that I don't want to get in a relationship with her, because of the age thing, I mean.. I'm not against sexual involvement. If her fiancee doesn't treat her right, she has an obligation to herself to end the relationship. If she stays enganged, she is lying about her susupicions to make herself look better to you. She's looking for some last-minute action; she is not ready for marriage and does not understand love. Probabaly a typical american female sociopath. I'll bet the father of her child didn't leave her or, at best, she drove him away. Then again, girls like this typically go for guys who are going to use them and move along, so the snake eats it's own tail. You are preparing to do the same thing. Don't get her pregnant, and remember that condoms do not protect against Herpes or Genital Warts. "You've been left on your own, like a Rainbow in the Dark" -Ronnie James Dio |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 35070110 Luxembourg02/24/2013 09:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She's not married, yet, and if you can prevent a misguided marriage it's probably your civil duty. Quoting: Holy_Diver Is the child the fiancee's? You are right buddy. No, it's not. The child is from a previous relationship with another guy (he left her). She told me that she suspects her fiance cheating on her.. She's not sure, though. Will I get in trouble if I get sexual with this woman? Any "trouble" sent your way would be misguided. The girl is not under any obligation at this point...in fact, if she's not sure now she certainly shouldn't go through with any marriage. What happens between you and her has nothing to do with whether her fiancee is cheating or not, this is all her decision. Thanks for clearing my mind. This thing has been troubling me for the last week. Seems like you've been in a similar situation like mine, have you? Are older woman worth it? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 6543219 United States02/24/2013 09:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So I recently met this older woman at the equestrian center (she does horse riding, and pretty good). We had a nice talk (I'm 22 btw) and we left eachother by trading our phone numbers. Nothing spectacular, I mean, I thought we had this friend-vibe, although I must admit she's pretty good looking and I'm into elder women, too.. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35070110 So, after about a week we started texting to eachother and she said to me that she liked to see me again because she needed somebody to help her out at the equestrian center. I didn't agree with that because I don't want to get into any trouble (She's got a fiance and 1 child). She then found out about my facebook and texted me saying that I'm her type of guy. So I told her that she's rather young looking for her age (I'd give her 24). I'm meeting with her in a week or so. What should I do She's a cougar. Find someone your own age. Let's say you married her and stayed with her. Someday, you'll be 50 and she'll be 59. You'll be 65 and she'll be 74. Not so appealing, huh? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 34532356  Finland02/24/2013 09:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 6543219 United States02/24/2013 09:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 35070110 Luxembourg02/24/2013 09:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | if she is going to cheat her fiance do you think there is a chance in the near future she is going to cheat you? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15411952 From what I know, she seems like a loving and caring person. Seems like her fiancé doesn't treat her right.. I see what you're saying but I mean, I know that I don't want to get in a relationship with her, because of the age thing, I mean.. I'm not against sexual involvement. If her fiancee doesn't treat her right, she has an obligation to herself to end the relationship. If she stays enganged, she is lying about her susupicions to make herself look better to you. She's looking for some last-minute action; she is not ready for marriage and does not understand love. Probabaly a typical american female sociopath. I'll bet the father of her child didn't leave her or, at best, she drove him away. Then again, girls like this typically go for guys who are going to use them and move along, so the snake eats it's own tail. You are preparing to do the same thing. Don't get her pregnant, and remember that condoms do not protect against Herpes or Genital Warts. Oh shit.. but my dick tells me to do it. Not sure if I win the battle against my will. But I'm 100% sure I don't want to stay in a long relationship with her. Just sometimes with her, would be fine. If she'd pay me sometimes for clothing and stuff, that would be cool as hell, too. Isn't this what every young guy dreams about? |
| daisy User ID: 34495736 United States02/24/2013 09:14 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| daisy User ID: 34495736 United States02/24/2013 09:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | if she is going to cheat her fiance do you think there is a chance in the near future she is going to cheat you? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15411952 From what I know, she seems like a loving and caring person. Seems like her fiancé doesn't treat her right.. I see what you're saying but I mean, I know that I don't want to get in a relationship with her, because of the age thing, I mean.. I'm not against sexual involvement. If her fiancee doesn't treat her right, she has an obligation to herself to end the relationship. If she stays enganged, she is lying about her susupicions to make herself look better to you. She's looking for some last-minute action; she is not ready for marriage and does not understand love. Probabaly a typical american female sociopath. I'll bet the father of her child didn't leave her or, at best, she drove him away. Then again, girls like this typically go for guys who are going to use them and move along, so the snake eats it's own tail. You are preparing to do the same thing. Don't get her pregnant, and remember that condoms do not protect against Herpes or Genital Warts. Oh shit.. but my dick tells me to do it. Not sure if I win the battle against my will. But I'm 100% sure I don't want to stay in a long relationship with her. Just sometimes with her, would be fine. If she'd pay me sometimes for clothing and stuff, that would be cool as hell, too. Isn't this what every young guy dreams about? you are as dumb as a box of rocks. |
| Holy_Diver The Man on the Silver Mountain User ID: 20712268 United States02/24/2013 09:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Seems like you've been in a similar situation like mine, have you? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35070110 Are older woman worth it? Not exactly. I seduced a married woman once over time on the phone. But when we finally met, she was in a frenzy, we were making out but I couldn't go through with it. Something about her frenzy struck the wrong chord. After that, when I was about 26, I had a relationship with a divorcee who was 42. It went on for about 3 months and it was fantastic, but everything felt/spoken between us was pure fantasy and eventually reality broke her down. She did not want to have her heart broken because of the age difference down the road, so she pulled the plug (and also, evidently, was finding someone her own age at the same time, because he was all lined up and ready to go minutes after breaking up...grrr...) Worth it? Yes. "You've been left on your own, like a Rainbow in the Dark" -Ronnie James Dio |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 35070110 Luxembourg02/24/2013 09:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh shit.. but my dick tells me to do it. Not sure if I win the battle against my will. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35070110 But I'm 100% sure I don't want to stay in a long relationship with her. Just sometimes with her, would be fine. If she'd pay me sometimes for clothing and stuff, that would be cool as hell, too. Isn't this what every young guy dreams about? you are as dumb as a box of rocks. You girls like to spend our money, too. I'm just getting back what I gave to you. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 34853598 United States02/24/2013 09:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29234021 United States02/24/2013 09:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You're an idiot! She is getting married and has one child supported kid and you want to f her? How about 100 grand for the rest of your life for 3mins of shitty fun with a whore. Yes she is a whore how many other little 20 somethings have past between her legs? STD? 3mins my friend and that is it! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23560528 this^ person needs to get fucked |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 35070110 Luxembourg02/24/2013 09:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Seems like you've been in a similar situation like mine, have you? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35070110 Are older woman worth it? Not exactly. I seduced a married woman once over time on the phone. But when we finally met, she was in a frenzy, we were making out but I couldn't go through with it. Something about her frenzy struck the wrong chord. After that, when I was about 26, I had a relationship with a divorcee who was 42. It went on for about 3 months and it was fantastic, but everything felt/spoken between us was pure fantasy and eventually reality broke her down. She did not want to have her heart broken because of the age difference down the road, so she pulled the plug (and also, evidently, was finding someone her own age at the same time, because he was all lined up and ready to go minutes after breaking up...grrr...) Worth it? Yes.  You're my hero. I think I'll go through it, no matter what. Woman in their 30 seem really nice and are appealing to me, I don't know why.Allright, I'm going to do it. Thanks for the motivation. |
| daisy User ID: 34495736 United States02/24/2013 09:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh shit.. but my dick tells me to do it. Not sure if I win the battle against my will. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35070110 But I'm 100% sure I don't want to stay in a long relationship with her. Just sometimes with her, would be fine. If she'd pay me sometimes for clothing and stuff, that would be cool as hell, too. Isn't this what every young guy dreams about? you are as dumb as a box of rocks. You girls like to spend our money, too. I'm just getting back what I gave to you. no, you are selling yourself in exchange for gifts, which means you have no self respect and that has nothing to do with her, it means you have a very low opinion of yourself. |
| Holy_Diver The Man on the Silver Mountain User ID: 20712268 United States02/24/2013 09:23 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | any woman who is still in a relationship is off limits, imho. Quoting: daisy 34495736 have some respect for yourself, OP. 7 billion people in the world, find a single gal.  No attractive girl is truly single, at least from an Honor perspective. Therefore, any non-married girl is eligible, and if a girl is takable, the one who takes her does both her and the other a favor by ending something sub-par. Truth be told, only an intact family with children belonging to both parents needs be left alone "You've been left on your own, like a Rainbow in the Dark" -Ronnie James Dio |
| daisy User ID: 34495736 United States02/24/2013 09:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Seems like you've been in a similar situation like mine, have you? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35070110 Are older woman worth it? Not exactly. I seduced a married woman once over time on the phone. But when we finally met, she was in a frenzy, we were making out but I couldn't go through with it. Something about her frenzy struck the wrong chord. After that, when I was about 26, I had a relationship with a divorcee who was 42. It went on for about 3 months and it was fantastic, but everything felt/spoken between us was pure fantasy and eventually reality broke her down. She did not want to have her heart broken because of the age difference down the road, so she pulled the plug (and also, evidently, was finding someone her own age at the same time, because he was all lined up and ready to go minutes after breaking up...grrr...) Worth it? Yes. You're my hero. I think I'll go through it, no matter what. Woman in their 30 seem really nice and are appealing to me, I don't know why.Allright, I'm going to do it. Thanks for the motivation. just make sure to try to get an accurate head count of the number of guys she's already been with so you can add that to your list. Remember when two people have sex, there is a bond made and you often times get their negative energy, which you then pass on to the next person you sleep with. and people wonder why the world is so miserable.  |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 6543219 United States02/24/2013 09:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | But I'm 100% sure I don't want to stay in a long relationship with her. Just sometimes with her, would be fine. If she'd pay me sometimes for clothing and stuff, that would be cool as hell, too. Isn't this what every young guy dreams about? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35070110 you are as dumb as a box of rocks. I have absolutely no respect for either one of these two individuals. A 31-year old cougar with an out of wedlock child and a fiance wishing to play around with a boy. A 21-year old boy who wants a cougar to buy him stuff in exchange for sex. They are both a couple of loser nitwits. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 27364126 United States02/24/2013 09:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you willingly let a woman cheat on her fiance, you are allowing someone who is innocent to be hurt in about the worst way possible. Not to mention potentially getting yourself in a dangerous / unpredictable situation if he found out about you. I, personally, wouldn't be able to do it knowing the pain it would cause. I've had opportunities in my past. But I sleep very well at night. Dude, it isn't worth it in the end. Retain your dignity and self respect. Do the right thing. There are other chicks out there. |
| daisy User ID: 34495736 United States02/24/2013 09:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | any woman who is still in a relationship is off limits, imho. Quoting: daisy 34495736 have some respect for yourself, OP. 7 billion people in the world, find a single gal. No attractive girl is truly single, at least from an Honor perspective. Therefore, any non-married girl is eligible, and if a girl is takable, the one who takes her does both her and the other a favor by ending something sub-par. Truth be told, only an intact family with children belonging to both parents needs be left alone true, but if this gal is engaged, I'd say she's off limits. But heck what do I know. Glad I don't have to deal with this type of shit |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 26985611  Sweden02/24/2013 09:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| daisy User ID: 34495736 United States02/24/2013 09:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you willingly let a woman cheat on her fiance, you are allowing someone who is innocent to be hurt in about the worst way possible. Not to mention potentially getting yourself in a dangerous / unpredictable situation if he found out about you. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27364126 I, personally, wouldn't be able to do it knowing the pain it would cause. I've had opportunities in my past. But I sleep very well at night. Dude, it isn't worth it in the end. Retain your dignity and self respect. Do the right thing. There are other chicks out there. excellent post. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 35070110 Luxembourg02/24/2013 09:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Seems like you've been in a similar situation like mine, have you? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35070110 Are older woman worth it? Not exactly. I seduced a married woman once over time on the phone. But when we finally met, she was in a frenzy, we were making out but I couldn't go through with it. Something about her frenzy struck the wrong chord. After that, when I was about 26, I had a relationship with a divorcee who was 42. It went on for about 3 months and it was fantastic, but everything felt/spoken between us was pure fantasy and eventually reality broke her down. She did not want to have her heart broken because of the age difference down the road, so she pulled the plug (and also, evidently, was finding someone her own age at the same time, because he was all lined up and ready to go minutes after breaking up...grrr...) Worth it? Yes. You're my hero. I think I'll go through it, no matter what. Woman in their 30 seem really nice and are appealing to me, I don't know why.Allright, I'm going to do it. Thanks for the motivation. just make sure to try to get an accurate head count of the number of guys she's already been with so you can add that to your list. Remember when two people have sex, there is a bond made and you often times get their negative energy, which you then pass on to the next person you sleep with. and people wonder why the world is so miserable. Did you just associate sex with negative energy? You don't seem like a person I'd like to hang out with. Like I said in my OP. It was not by choice that all this happened to me. She came to, she wants to have sex. I'm just giving her what she wants and a good nice time from her miserable existence (her fiancé is a dick). If you're jealous that you're not able to spend time with someone, crossing the boundaries of society, then I feel deeply sorry for you. |
| ifSHTF have a plan when it hits the fan. User ID: 34510652 United States02/24/2013 09:29 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She's not married, yet, and if you can prevent a misguided marriage it's probably your civil duty. Quoting: Holy_Diver Is the child the fiancee's? You are right buddy. No, it's not. The child is from a previous relationship with another guy (he left her). She told me that she suspects her fiance cheating on her.. She's not sure, though. Will I get in trouble if I get sexual with this woman? Wrap it and bang her. She's already leaving the fiance anyhow. When I was 22 I hooked up with a 31 yr old gal and it was awesome. That extra 10 years of experience was key. Just don't get attached. |
