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So I recently met this older woman at the equestrian center (she does horse riding, and pretty good). We had a nice talk (I'm 22 btw) and we left eachother by trading our phone numbers. Nothing spectacular, I mean, I thought we had this friend-vibe, although I must admit she's pretty good looking and I'm into elder women, too..

So, after about a week we started texting to eachother and she said to me that she liked to see me again because she needed somebody to help her out at the equestrian center. I didn't agree with that because I don't want to get into any trouble (She's got a fiance and 1 child). She then found out about my facebook and texted me saying that I'm her type of guy. So I told her that she's rather young looking for her age (I'd give her 24). I'm meeting with her in a week or so. What should I do
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She's not married, yet, and if you can prevent a misguided marriage it's probably your civil duty.

Is the child the fiancee's?
:ritd:"You've been left on your own, like a Rainbow in the Dark" -Ronnie James Dio:ritd:
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She's not married, yet, and if you can prevent a misguided marriage it's probably your civil duty.

Is the child the fiancee's?
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You are right buddy.

No, it's not. The child is from a previous relationship with another guy (he left her).

She told me that she suspects her fiance cheating on her.. She's not sure, though. Will I get in trouble if I get sexual with this woman?
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Re: 31 yo woman acts strange with me
It seems that you hold attractiveness in high regard.
Therefor imagine what you may be sleeping with when your forty...
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Re: 31 yo woman acts strange with me
if she is going to cheat her fiance do you think there is a chance in the near future she is going to cheat you?
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You're an idiot! She is getting married and has one child supported kid and you want to f her? How about 100 grand for the rest of your life for 3mins of shitty fun with a whore. Yes she is a whore how many other little 20 somethings have past between her legs? STD? 3mins my friend and that is it!
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if she is going to cheat her fiance do you think there is a chance in the near future she is going to cheat you?
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From what I know, she seems like a loving and caring person. Seems like her fiancé doesn't treat her right..

I see what you're saying but I mean, I know that I don't want to get in a relationship with her, because of the age thing, I mean.. I'm not against sexual involvement.
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Re: 31 yo woman acts strange with me
She's not married, yet, and if you can prevent a misguided marriage it's probably your civil duty.

Is the child the fiancee's?
 Quoting: Holy_Diver


You are right buddy.

No, it's not. The child is from a previous relationship with another guy (he left her).

She told me that she suspects her fiance cheating on her.. She's not sure, though. Will I get in trouble if I get sexual with this woman?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35070110


Any "trouble" sent your way would be misguided. The girl is not under any obligation at this point...in fact, if she's not sure now she certainly shouldn't go through with any marriage.

What happens between you and her has nothing to do with whether her fiancee is cheating or not, this is all her decision.
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if she is going to cheat her fiance do you think there is a chance in the near future she is going to cheat you?
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From what I know, she seems like a loving and caring person. Seems like her fiancé doesn't treat her right..

I see what you're saying but I mean, I know that I don't want to get in a relationship with her, because of the age thing, I mean.. I'm not against sexual involvement.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35070110


If her fiancee doesn't treat her right, she has an obligation to herself to end the relationship. If she stays enganged, she is lying about her susupicions to make herself look better to you.

She's looking for some last-minute action; she is not ready for marriage and does not understand love. Probabaly a typical american female sociopath.

I'll bet the father of her child didn't leave her or, at best, she drove him away. Then again, girls like this typically go for guys who are going to use them and move along, so the snake eats it's own tail.

You are preparing to do the same thing.

Don't get her pregnant, and remember that condoms do not protect against Herpes or Genital Warts.
:ritd:"You've been left on your own, like a Rainbow in the Dark" -Ronnie James Dio:ritd:
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Re: 31 yo woman acts strange with me
She's not married, yet, and if you can prevent a misguided marriage it's probably your civil duty.

Is the child the fiancee's?
 Quoting: Holy_Diver


You are right buddy.

No, it's not. The child is from a previous relationship with another guy (he left her).

She told me that she suspects her fiance cheating on her.. She's not sure, though. Will I get in trouble if I get sexual with this woman?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35070110


Any "trouble" sent your way would be misguided. The girl is not under any obligation at this point...in fact, if she's not sure now she certainly shouldn't go through with any marriage.

What happens between you and her has nothing to do with whether her fiancee is cheating or not, this is all her decision.
 Quoting: Holy_Diver


Thanks for clearing my mind. This thing has been troubling me for the last week.

Seems like you've been in a similar situation like mine, have you?

Are older woman worth it?
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So I recently met this older woman at the equestrian center (she does horse riding, and pretty good). We had a nice talk (I'm 22 btw) and we left eachother by trading our phone numbers. Nothing spectacular, I mean, I thought we had this friend-vibe, although I must admit she's pretty good looking and I'm into elder women, too..

So, after about a week we started texting to eachother and she said to me that she liked to see me again because she needed somebody to help her out at the equestrian center. I didn't agree with that because I don't want to get into any trouble (She's got a fiance and 1 child). She then found out about my facebook and texted me saying that I'm her type of guy. So I told her that she's rather young looking for her age (I'd give her 24). I'm meeting with her in a week or so. What should I do
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35070110


She's a cougar. Find someone your own age.

Let's say you married her and stayed with her. Someday, you'll be 50 and she'll be 59. You'll be 65 and she'll be 74. Not so appealing, huh?
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If I were you I would have sex with her and then inform her fiance about it, wouldn't want to doom the poor man into living a lie. That's just horrible.
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She's looking for some last-minute action; she is not ready for marriage and does not understand love. Probabaly a typical american female sociopath.

 Quoting: Holy_Diver


^^^This
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if she is going to cheat her fiance do you think there is a chance in the near future she is going to cheat you?
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From what I know, she seems like a loving and caring person. Seems like her fiancé doesn't treat her right..

I see what you're saying but I mean, I know that I don't want to get in a relationship with her, because of the age thing, I mean.. I'm not against sexual involvement.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35070110


If her fiancee doesn't treat her right, she has an obligation to herself to end the relationship. If she stays enganged, she is lying about her susupicions to make herself look better to you.

She's looking for some last-minute action; she is not ready for marriage and does not understand love. Probabaly a typical american female sociopath.

I'll bet the father of her child didn't leave her or, at best, she drove him away. Then again, girls like this typically go for guys who are going to use them and move along, so the snake eats it's own tail.

You are preparing to do the same thing.

Don't get her pregnant, and remember that condoms do not protect against Herpes or Genital Warts.
 Quoting: Holy_Diver


Oh shit.. but my dick tells me to do it. Not sure if I win the battle against my will.

But I'm 100% sure I don't want to stay in a long relationship with her. Just sometimes with her, would be fine. If she'd pay me sometimes for clothing and stuff, that would be cool as hell, too. Isn't this what every young guy dreams about?
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any woman who is still in a relationship is off limits, imho.

have some respect for yourself, OP. 7 billion people in the world, find a single gal.

flower
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if she is going to cheat her fiance do you think there is a chance in the near future she is going to cheat you?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15411952


From what I know, she seems like a loving and caring person. Seems like her fiancé doesn't treat her right..

I see what you're saying but I mean, I know that I don't want to get in a relationship with her, because of the age thing, I mean.. I'm not against sexual involvement.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35070110


If her fiancee doesn't treat her right, she has an obligation to herself to end the relationship. If she stays enganged, she is lying about her susupicions to make herself look better to you.

She's looking for some last-minute action; she is not ready for marriage and does not understand love. Probabaly a typical american female sociopath.

I'll bet the father of her child didn't leave her or, at best, she drove him away. Then again, girls like this typically go for guys who are going to use them and move along, so the snake eats it's own tail.

You are preparing to do the same thing.

Don't get her pregnant, and remember that condoms do not protect against Herpes or Genital Warts.
 Quoting: Holy_Diver


Oh shit.. but my dick tells me to do it. Not sure if I win the battle against my will.

But I'm 100% sure I don't want to stay in a long relationship with her. Just sometimes with her, would be fine. If she'd pay me sometimes for clothing and stuff, that would be cool as hell, too. Isn't this what every young guy dreams about?
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you are as dumb as a box of rocks.
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Seems like you've been in a similar situation like mine, have you?

Are older woman worth it?
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Not exactly. I seduced a married woman once over time on the phone. But when we finally met, she was in a frenzy, we were making out but I couldn't go through with it. Something about her frenzy struck the wrong chord.

After that, when I was about 26, I had a relationship with a divorcee who was 42. It went on for about 3 months and it was fantastic, but everything felt/spoken between us was pure fantasy and eventually reality broke her down. She did not want to have her heart broken because of the age difference down the road, so she pulled the plug (and also, evidently, was finding someone her own age at the same time, because he was all lined up and ready to go minutes after breaking up...grrr...)

Worth it? Yes.
:ritd:"You've been left on your own, like a Rainbow in the Dark" -Ronnie James Dio:ritd:
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Re: 31 yo woman acts strange with me
Oh shit.. but my dick tells me to do it. Not sure if I win the battle against my will.

But I'm 100% sure I don't want to stay in a long relationship with her. Just sometimes with her, would be fine. If she'd pay me sometimes for clothing and stuff, that would be cool as hell, too. Isn't this what every young guy dreams about?
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you are as dumb as a box of rocks.
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You girls like to spend our money, too. I'm just getting back what I gave to you.
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Sordid Lust Fucking and family disruption is the glue that holds this wholesome society together.
You have to do your part.
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You're an idiot! She is getting married and has one child supported kid and you want to f her? How about 100 grand for the rest of your life for 3mins of shitty fun with a whore. Yes she is a whore how many other little 20 somethings have past between her legs? STD? 3mins my friend and that is it!
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this^ person needs to get fucked
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Re: 31 yo woman acts strange with me
Seems like you've been in a similar situation like mine, have you?

Are older woman worth it?
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Not exactly. I seduced a married woman once over time on the phone. But when we finally met, she was in a frenzy, we were making out but I couldn't go through with it. Something about her frenzy struck the wrong chord.

After that, when I was about 26, I had a relationship with a divorcee who was 42. It went on for about 3 months and it was fantastic, but everything felt/spoken between us was pure fantasy and eventually reality broke her down. She did not want to have her heart broken because of the age difference down the road, so she pulled the plug (and also, evidently, was finding someone her own age at the same time, because he was all lined up and ready to go minutes after breaking up...grrr...)

Worth it? Yes.
 Quoting: Holy_Diver


rofl You're my hero. I think I'll go through it, no matter what. Woman in their 30 seem really nice and are appealing to me, I don't know why.

Allright, I'm going to do it. Thanks for the motivation.
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Oh shit.. but my dick tells me to do it. Not sure if I win the battle against my will.

But I'm 100% sure I don't want to stay in a long relationship with her. Just sometimes with her, would be fine. If she'd pay me sometimes for clothing and stuff, that would be cool as hell, too. Isn't this what every young guy dreams about?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35070110


you are as dumb as a box of rocks.
 Quoting: daisy 34495736


You girls like to spend our money, too. I'm just getting back what I gave to you.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35070110


no, you are selling yourself in exchange for gifts, which means you have no self respect and that has nothing to do with her, it means you have a very low opinion of yourself.
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any woman who is still in a relationship is off limits, imho.

have some respect for yourself, OP. 7 billion people in the world, find a single gal.

flower
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No attractive girl is truly single, at least from an Honor perspective.

Therefore, any non-married girl is eligible, and if a girl is takable, the one who takes her does both her and the other a favor by ending something sub-par.

Truth be told, only an intact family with children belonging to both parents needs be left alone
:ritd:"You've been left on your own, like a Rainbow in the Dark" -Ronnie James Dio:ritd:
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Seems like you've been in a similar situation like mine, have you?

Are older woman worth it?
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Not exactly. I seduced a married woman once over time on the phone. But when we finally met, she was in a frenzy, we were making out but I couldn't go through with it. Something about her frenzy struck the wrong chord.

After that, when I was about 26, I had a relationship with a divorcee who was 42. It went on for about 3 months and it was fantastic, but everything felt/spoken between us was pure fantasy and eventually reality broke her down. She did not want to have her heart broken because of the age difference down the road, so she pulled the plug (and also, evidently, was finding someone her own age at the same time, because he was all lined up and ready to go minutes after breaking up...grrr...)

Worth it? Yes.
 Quoting: Holy_Diver


rofl You're my hero. I think I'll go through it, no matter what. Woman in their 30 seem really nice and are appealing to me, I don't know why.

Allright, I'm going to do it. Thanks for the motivation.
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just make sure to try to get an accurate head count of the number of guys she's already been with so you can add that to your list. Remember when two people have sex, there is a bond made and you often times get their negative energy, which you then pass on to the next person you sleep with.

and people wonder why the world is so miserable.

5a
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But I'm 100% sure I don't want to stay in a long relationship with her. Just sometimes with her, would be fine. If she'd pay me sometimes for clothing and stuff, that would be cool as hell, too. Isn't this what every young guy dreams about?
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you are as dumb as a box of rocks.
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I have absolutely no respect for either one of these two individuals. A 31-year old cougar with an out of wedlock child and a fiance wishing to play around with a boy. A 21-year old boy who wants a cougar to buy him stuff in exchange for sex. They are both a couple of loser nitwits.
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If you willingly let a woman cheat on her fiance, you are allowing someone who is innocent to be hurt in about the worst way possible. Not to mention potentially getting yourself in a dangerous / unpredictable situation if he found out about you.

I, personally, wouldn't be able to do it knowing the pain it would cause. I've had opportunities in my past. But I sleep very well at night.

Dude, it isn't worth it in the end. Retain your dignity and self respect. Do the right thing. There are other chicks out there.
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Re: 31 yo woman acts strange with me
any woman who is still in a relationship is off limits, imho.

have some respect for yourself, OP. 7 billion people in the world, find a single gal.

flower
 Quoting: daisy 34495736


No attractive girl is truly single, at least from an Honor perspective.

Therefore, any non-married girl is eligible, and if a girl is takable, the one who takes her does both her and the other a favor by ending something sub-par.

Truth be told, only an intact family with children belonging to both parents needs be left alone
 Quoting: Holy_Diver


true, but if this gal is engaged, I'd say she's off limits. But heck what do I know.

Glad I don't have to deal with this type of shit flower
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If you decide to have sex anyway then please record it and upload to your GLP-family as thanks for all the excellent advices! lol
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If you willingly let a woman cheat on her fiance, you are allowing someone who is innocent to be hurt in about the worst way possible. Not to mention potentially getting yourself in a dangerous / unpredictable situation if he found out about you.

I, personally, wouldn't be able to do it knowing the pain it would cause. I've had opportunities in my past. But I sleep very well at night.

Dude, it isn't worth it in the end. Retain your dignity and self respect. Do the right thing. There are other chicks out there.
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excellent post.
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Seems like you've been in a similar situation like mine, have you?

Are older woman worth it?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35070110


Not exactly. I seduced a married woman once over time on the phone. But when we finally met, she was in a frenzy, we were making out but I couldn't go through with it. Something about her frenzy struck the wrong chord.

After that, when I was about 26, I had a relationship with a divorcee who was 42. It went on for about 3 months and it was fantastic, but everything felt/spoken between us was pure fantasy and eventually reality broke her down. She did not want to have her heart broken because of the age difference down the road, so she pulled the plug (and also, evidently, was finding someone her own age at the same time, because he was all lined up and ready to go minutes after breaking up...grrr...)

Worth it? Yes.
 Quoting: Holy_Diver


rofl You're my hero. I think I'll go through it, no matter what. Woman in their 30 seem really nice and are appealing to me, I don't know why.

Allright, I'm going to do it. Thanks for the motivation.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35070110


just make sure to try to get an accurate head count of the number of guys she's already been with so you can add that to your list. Remember when two people have sex, there is a bond made and you often times get their negative energy, which you then pass on to the next person you sleep with.

and people wonder why the world is so miserable.

5a
 Quoting: daisy 34495736


Did you just associate sex with negative energy?

You don't seem like a person I'd like to hang out with.

Like I said in my OP. It was not by choice that all this happened to me. She came to, she wants to have sex. I'm just giving her what she wants and a good nice time from her miserable existence (her fiancé is a dick).

If you're jealous that you're not able to spend time with someone, crossing the boundaries of society, then I feel deeply sorry for you.
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She's not married, yet, and if you can prevent a misguided marriage it's probably your civil duty.

Is the child the fiancee's?
 Quoting: Holy_Diver


You are right buddy.

No, it's not. The child is from a previous relationship with another guy (he left her).

She told me that she suspects her fiance cheating on her.. She's not sure, though. Will I get in trouble if I get sexual with this woman?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35070110


Wrap it and bang her. She's already leaving the fiance anyhow. When I was 22 I hooked up with a 31 yr old gal and it was awesome. That extra 10 years of experience was key.

Just don't get attached.