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| daisy User ID: 34495736 02/24/2013 09:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | But I'm 100% sure I don't want to stay in a long relationship with her. Just sometimes with her, would be fine. If she'd pay me sometimes for clothing and stuff, that would be cool as hell, too. Isn't this what every young guy dreams about? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35070110 you are as dumb as a box of rocks. I have absolutely no respect for either one of these two individuals. A 31-year old cougar with an out of wedlock child and a fiance wishing to play around with a boy. A 21-year old boy who wants a cougar to buy him stuff in exchange for sex. They are both a couple of loser nitwits. someday when OP is older he will look back at all the forks in the road and realize how many wrong turns he made, even though he had the moral GPS right inside him, but decided to let his dick do the driving. U turns are some of my best memories. :flowers: |
| Holy_Diver The Man on the Silver Mountain User ID: 20712268 02/24/2013 09:30 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | just make sure to try to get an accurate head count of the number of guys she's already been with so you can add that to your list. Remember when two people have sex, there is a bond made and you often times get their negative energy, which you then pass on to the next person you sleep with. Quoting: daisy 34495736 and people wonder why the world is so miserable. ![]() I'm with you, believe it or not, but this sort of information is not going to reach anyone similar to OP and where he's at in life. The world is already destroyed by this, you're asking OP not to loot for food in the ruins. OP is not ready for spiritual truths, and neither is the woman in question. Can't force them to be. |
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| daisy User ID: 34495736 02/24/2013 09:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Holy_Diver Not exactly. I seduced a married woman once over time on the phone. But when we finally met, she was in a frenzy, we were making out but I couldn't go through with it. Something about her frenzy struck the wrong chord. After that, when I was about 26, I had a relationship with a divorcee who was 42. It went on for about 3 months and it was fantastic, but everything felt/spoken between us was pure fantasy and eventually reality broke her down. She did not want to have her heart broken because of the age difference down the road, so she pulled the plug (and also, evidently, was finding someone her own age at the same time, because he was all lined up and ready to go minutes after breaking up...grrr...) Worth it? Yes. Allright, I'm going to do it. Thanks for the motivation. just make sure to try to get an accurate head count of the number of guys she's already been with so you can add that to your list. Remember when two people have sex, there is a bond made and you often times get their negative energy, which you then pass on to the next person you sleep with. and people wonder why the world is so miserable. ![]() Did you just associate sex with negative energy? You don't seem like a person I'd like to hang out with. Like I said in my OP. It was not by choice that all this happened to me. She came to, she wants to have sex. I'm just giving her what she wants and a good nice time from her miserable existence (her fiancé is a dick). If you're jealous that you're not able to spend time with someone, crossing the boundaries of society, then I feel deeply sorry for you. Just because someone wants to have sex with you doesn't make it right - especially when you know she is engaged, she clearly has problems. You will no doubt learn the hard way, just pray the fiancee is not the jealous type that seeks revenge. Sorry, but I am happily married and would never cheat, let alone have sex with someone in exchange for gifts. You assume this woman would even spend a penny on you. She sounds like she is just using you. I wouldn't get too excited for a new xbox or anything like that. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 6543219 02/24/2013 09:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you willingly let a woman cheat on her fiance, you are allowing someone who is innocent to be hurt in about the worst way possible. Not to mention potentially getting yourself in a dangerous / unpredictable situation if he found out about you. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27364126 I, personally, wouldn't be able to do it knowing the pain it would cause. I've had opportunities in my past. But I sleep very well at night. Dude, it isn't worth it in the end. Retain your dignity and self respect. Do the right thing. There are other chicks out there. excellent post. Absolutely. The cougar's fiance should be treated better than this. To the young boy OP: You need to grow up. You don't need an old cougar to give you stuff. (That makes you a male whore.) |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 23106908 02/24/2013 09:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You're an idiot! She is getting married and has one child supported kid and you want to f her? How about 100 grand for the rest of your life for 3mins of shitty fun with a whore. Yes she is a whore how many other little 20 somethings have past between her legs? STD? 3mins my friend and that is it! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23560528 You only fuck for 3 minutes ??? |
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| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 35070110 02/24/2013 09:37 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35070110 Allright, I'm going to do it. Thanks for the motivation. just make sure to try to get an accurate head count of the number of guys she's already been with so you can add that to your list. Remember when two people have sex, there is a bond made and you often times get their negative energy, which you then pass on to the next person you sleep with. and people wonder why the world is so miserable. ![]() Did you just associate sex with negative energy? You don't seem like a person I'd like to hang out with. Like I said in my OP. It was not by choice that all this happened to me. She came to, she wants to have sex. I'm just giving her what she wants and a good nice time from her miserable existence (her fiancé is a dick). If you're jealous that you're not able to spend time with someone, crossing the boundaries of society, then I feel deeply sorry for you. Just because someone wants to have sex with you doesn't make it right - especially when you know she is engaged, she clearly has problems. You will no doubt learn the hard way, just pray the fiancee is not the jealous type that seeks revenge. Sorry, but I am happily married and would never cheat, let alone have sex with someone in exchange for gifts. You assume this woman would even spend a penny on you. She sounds like she is just using you. I wouldn't get too excited for a new xbox or anything like that. Her fiancé treats her like shit. She told me she found out he's meeting with another woman and he doesn't tell her what he does during weekends. Seems fishy to me. I don't know if she's telling me truth but I don't think she's got a reason to lie to me. |
| daisy User ID: 34495736 02/24/2013 09:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | just make sure to try to get an accurate head count of the number of guys she's already been with so you can add that to your list. Remember when two people have sex, there is a bond made and you often times get their negative energy, which you then pass on to the next person you sleep with. Quoting: daisy 34495736 and people wonder why the world is so miserable. ![]() I'm with you, believe it or not, but this sort of information is not going to reach anyone similar to OP and where he's at in life. The world is already destroyed by this, you're asking OP not to loot for food in the ruins. OP is not ready for spiritual truths, and neither is the woman in question. Can't force them to be. they are among the damned. And what's sad is every young guy that reads this is just being conditioned to view woman has disposable. Use them for sex, and leave them. What kind of a society do we live in now where OP's thinking has become acceptable and encouraged. Maybe OP didn't get enough gifts from his mother... IDK, perhaps Freud would know. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 34956840 02/24/2013 09:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| daisy User ID: 34495736 02/24/2013 09:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: daisy 34495736 just make sure to try to get an accurate head count of the number of guys she's already been with so you can add that to your list. Remember when two people have sex, there is a bond made and you often times get their negative energy, which you then pass on to the next person you sleep with. and people wonder why the world is so miserable. ![]() Did you just associate sex with negative energy? You don't seem like a person I'd like to hang out with. Like I said in my OP. It was not by choice that all this happened to me. She came to, she wants to have sex. I'm just giving her what she wants and a good nice time from her miserable existence (her fiancé is a dick). If you're jealous that you're not able to spend time with someone, crossing the boundaries of society, then I feel deeply sorry for you. Just because someone wants to have sex with you doesn't make it right - especially when you know she is engaged, she clearly has problems. You will no doubt learn the hard way, just pray the fiancee is not the jealous type that seeks revenge. Sorry, but I am happily married and would never cheat, let alone have sex with someone in exchange for gifts. You assume this woman would even spend a penny on you. She sounds like she is just using you. I wouldn't get too excited for a new xbox or anything like that. Her fiancé treats her like shit. She told me she found out he's meeting with another woman and he doesn't tell her what he does during weekends. Seems fishy to me. I don't know if she's telling me truth but I don't think she's got a reason to lie to me. oh, okay. sounds legit. have a good time. ![]() |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 35070110 02/24/2013 09:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | just make sure to try to get an accurate head count of the number of guys she's already been with so you can add that to your list. Remember when two people have sex, there is a bond made and you often times get their negative energy, which you then pass on to the next person you sleep with. Quoting: daisy 34495736 and people wonder why the world is so miserable. ![]() I'm with you, believe it or not, but this sort of information is not going to reach anyone similar to OP and where he's at in life. The world is already destroyed by this, you're asking OP not to loot for food in the ruins. OP is not ready for spiritual truths, and neither is the woman in question. Can't force them to be. they are among the damned. And what's sad is every young guy that reads this is just being conditioned to view woman has disposable. Use them for sex, and leave them. What kind of a society do we live in now where OP's thinking has become acceptable and encouraged. Maybe OP didn't get enough gifts from his mother... IDK, perhaps Freud would know. I had a good childhood. My parents never divorced, they're still together. My mother was the most caring woman on this earth. Do I still fit in your stereotype? |
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| daisy User ID: 34495736 02/24/2013 09:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you willingly let a woman cheat on her fiance, you are allowing someone who is innocent to be hurt in about the worst way possible. Not to mention potentially getting yourself in a dangerous / unpredictable situation if he found out about you. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27364126 I, personally, wouldn't be able to do it knowing the pain it would cause. I've had opportunities in my past. But I sleep very well at night. Dude, it isn't worth it in the end. Retain your dignity and self respect. Do the right thing. There are other chicks out there. excellent post. Absolutely. The cougar's fiance should be treated better than this. To the young boy OP: You need to grow up. You don't need an old cougar to give you stuff. (That makes you a male whore.) which is an entire NEW topic of how MEN disrespect each other as men when they sleep with another man's woman. OP, let her break things off with the fiancee, that way no one gets hurt. I could care less about what you and the cougar do, but you are BOTH going to hurt the fiancee. Everything that cougar told you is hearsay. How can you trust a woman that would CHEAT on her fiancee? HELLO? |
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| daisy User ID: 34495736 02/24/2013 09:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | just make sure to try to get an accurate head count of the number of guys she's already been with so you can add that to your list. Remember when two people have sex, there is a bond made and you often times get their negative energy, which you then pass on to the next person you sleep with. Quoting: daisy 34495736 and people wonder why the world is so miserable. ![]() I'm with you, believe it or not, but this sort of information is not going to reach anyone similar to OP and where he's at in life. The world is already destroyed by this, you're asking OP not to loot for food in the ruins. OP is not ready for spiritual truths, and neither is the woman in question. Can't force them to be. they are among the damned. And what's sad is every young guy that reads this is just being conditioned to view woman has disposable. Use them for sex, and leave them. What kind of a society do we live in now where OP's thinking has become acceptable and encouraged. Maybe OP didn't get enough gifts from his mother... IDK, perhaps Freud would know. I had a good childhood. My parents never divorced, they're still together. My mother was the most caring woman on this earth. Do I still fit in your stereotype? yes. clearly you are lacking in something that you are trying to acquire through an older woman, who you don't really have respect for, but just want to use. I would ponder why you are seeking to bed and older woman. But its a rabbit hole, so be careful... have a great time. |
| Holy_Diver The Man on the Silver Mountain User ID: 20712268 02/24/2013 09:48 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | they are among the damned. And what's sad is every young guy that reads this is just being conditioned to view woman has disposable. Use them for sex, and leave them. Quoting: daisy 34495736 What kind of a society do we live in now where OP's thinking has become acceptable and encouraged. Maybe OP didn't get enough gifts from his mother... IDK, perhaps Freud would know. Daisy, you and I may know the spiritual truths that we should all live by but surely you can step into the mind of a Hedonistic materialist and see how the "Equality" programming sold to them renders ideas like "Use them for sex and leave them" obsolete, to their way of thinking? Under the premises they've been indoctrinated to accept whole-hog, why shouldn't we assume she's using him for sex and leaving him? Surely a woman can crave sex and use men to fulfill their need? It is unfair to call the man out for that behaviour but not the poor, victimized woman. These two are meant for each other in this time/space to teach each other a lesson. We can't stop it from happening, all we can do is try to prevent the worst possible outcomes, which is STD and Pregnancy which are both detrimental to our society. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 6543219 02/24/2013 09:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So far thanks for all the advice, guys and gals. I appreciate it.. It was a though choice. But I think I know what I got to do now. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35070110 see ya in a month or so on one of those woman hating threads. have fun. remember, she'll rip your heart out... ![]() daisy, you make good points. I've read the manosphere. They hate women. And of a truth, Western women are not very likable. But the men are no better whatsoever. Society is truly a mess. |
| Holy_Diver The Man on the Silver Mountain User ID: 20712268 02/24/2013 09:53 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | which is an entire NEW topic of how MEN disrespect each other as men when they sleep with another man's woman. Quoting: daisy 34495736 OP, let her break things off with the fiancee, that way no one gets hurt. I could care less about what you and the cougar do, but you are BOTH going to hurt the fiancee. Everything that cougar told you is hearsay. How can you trust a woman that would CHEAT on her fiancee? HELLO? Daisy, you keep circling back to this issue of the "Fiancee" but I say again: THIS IS THE BEST TIME TO DESTROY THIS RELATIONSHIP before it ends up in our courts. They have not made any vows yet. There is nothing sacred to break apart except some dude's expectations which SHOULD BE BROKEN if this girl is such a terrible tramp. In your scenario, this heartless skank would ensnare this unsuspecting guy into a sham marriage that would end in divorce in 2 years or less because OP didn't expose her for what she is. Waaaaaayyyyyyyyyy more depressing down the road than before the damage is done, no? |
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| daisy User ID: 34495736 02/24/2013 09:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | they are among the damned. And what's sad is every young guy that reads this is just being conditioned to view woman has disposable. Use them for sex, and leave them. Quoting: daisy 34495736 What kind of a society do we live in now where OP's thinking has become acceptable and encouraged. Maybe OP didn't get enough gifts from his mother... IDK, perhaps Freud would know. Daisy, you and I may know the spiritual truths that we should all live by but surely you can step into the mind of a Hedonistic materialist and see how the "Equality" programming sold to them renders ideas like "Use them for sex and leave them" obsolete, to their way of thinking? Under the premises they've been indoctrinated to accept whole-hog, why shouldn't we assume she's using him for sex and leaving him? Surely a woman can crave sex and use men to fulfill their need? It is unfair to call the man out for that behaviour but not the poor, victimized woman. These two are meant for each other in this time/space to teach each other a lesson. We can't stop it from happening, all we can do is try to prevent the worst possible outcomes, which is STD and Pregnancy which are both detrimental to our society. Oh I agree with you. I was actually trying to help OP understand he is being used. This woman is a piece of shit. Any guy that would want to fuck a woman who is engaged is also a scumbag. They both deserve each other. Its the fiancee that suffers the most, OP and the cougar can say all the bad things he want to justify being together. Good people would not do this, the cougar should break up with the fiancee if she still wants to tomcat around. and people wonder why men hate women, that cougar is part of the problem, as is OP for falling for her tricks. |
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| dais User ID: 34495736 02/24/2013 09:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Meet her at the center after hours. You can have a countess/stable boy fantasy. Quoting: BxMac Bring a "daisy," and then feign guilt for your misguided ways. and has for the cougar, she needs a cold bath in the horse's trough. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 35067813 02/24/2013 10:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Option 1: If you had half a decent bone in your body, you would explain to her, that she is seeking happiness and fulfillment externally, and she will never find it that way, she needs to find it inside and realise that her fiancee and child are more than enough for her. Option 2: Then again if you're just another selfish self serving/ gratifying male as 99% of all other males, you will say nothing and fuck her for your own gratification, thereby destroying the lives of two other innocent humans If you thought anything of her and the human race at all you would choose option 1 |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 28232375 02/24/2013 10:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Eewwww! Get some self respect first and you won't have to ask anonymous cowards how to behave. Many problems in life come from letting your little head steer the ship. And there is a reason why healthy civilizations in general value 'purity' over 'debauchery'. Think about that. Loose morals come when the civilization is on the way to collapse. If you want a happy and successful life you won't get there by just sleeping with anything that whistles at you. |
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| daisy User ID: 34495736 02/24/2013 10:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | which is an entire NEW topic of how MEN disrespect each other as men when they sleep with another man's woman. Quoting: daisy 34495736 OP, let her break things off with the fiancee, that way no one gets hurt. I could care less about what you and the cougar do, but you are BOTH going to hurt the fiancee. Everything that cougar told you is hearsay. How can you trust a woman that would CHEAT on her fiancee? HELLO? Daisy, you keep circling back to this issue of the "Fiancee" but I say again: THIS IS THE BEST TIME TO DESTROY THIS RELATIONSHIP before it ends up in our courts. They have not made any vows yet. There is nothing sacred to break apart except some dude's expectations which SHOULD BE BROKEN if this girl is such a terrible tramp. In your scenario, this heartless skank would ensnare this unsuspecting guy into a sham marriage that would end in divorce in 2 years or less because OP didn't expose her for what she is. Waaaaaayyyyyyyyyy more depressing down the road than before the damage is done, no? I just read this post, and yes, it makes sense. I totally see your point and do agree. No point in winding up in divorce court. Once a cheater, always a cheater. |