My son will make a great husband. He's loyal, hardworking and knows the value of committed relationship. He can be lazy but only when he's unmotivated.
Men are like lions laying about in the heat of the african sun. That is ok.
But if a man cares for you you are his queen and you both bring your soul and value to the table.
You can put up with all kinds of stuff if you help each other.
Quoting: DawaSatso the women these days have no souls.the man brings his gifts to the table ie love respect,loyality,work ethic while the woman in todays terms brings I WANT WANT WANT. if he goes to work and puts in long hours,she is not there at the end of the day to comfort him and provide him rest,she is there demanding things and telling him how much he sucks for being gone all day.so he switches it up and stops working so much so he can spend time with her,then he becomes a no good lazy worthless"all you want is sex" scum bag.....yup your son will be broken soon...
That is quite a leaping presumption you make about ALL women which is just not true.
Having not met this little skank you have conjured up all by yourself in your own mind? Now that's crazy.
I even have the sense after a relationship that was a nightmare not to include ALL MEN in my perceptions cut out any creative reasoning unlike yourself.
It is definitely true women, especially young ones don't understand men at all or relate realistically. I agree with you there as I look back at the mistakes I made about giving a man space and quiet after thinking about a problem all day long.
Even though we both worked all day I had energy to discuss, he didn't, but I didn't understand that.
That is really basic and women don't get it.
Robert Bly said "give a man one sentence or two, more than that he will put a bag over his head and run away".
What you describe sounds like a woman/girl who was either not versed in healthy male/female discourse by her parents and didn't know any better.
But you can't assume everyone in the world is playing out the same script which will end the same way as yours.
