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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 36246280 United States 03/15/2013 12:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Farm dogs will show their true colours at some point, especially around small kids. Shoot it in the head and finish the drama, it's no big deal. Quoting: Sir France's Beercan I was actually expecting a comment like this early on. Nice to know I was wrong. But yeah, no dice. I would suggest the people replying so far haven't got a clue about farm dogs. They're hard fuckers and very bright so will quickly learn what it takes to keep you sweet. They will NEVER be yours though and as I said they will turn on an annoying kid or another animal (likely your dog) so save yourself a fuckload of trouble and shoot it. That's not true. A lot of dogs can be rehabilitated. If the farm dog can thrive better in a one dog/one person foster home don't you think she deserves that? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 36246399 United States 03/15/2013 12:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 36246399 United States 03/15/2013 12:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Also, I don't really understand the "farm dog" thing. I was raised on a farm with outdoor dogs, and now I live in a city. I can totally see our "farm dogs" adapting to the city. In the end it is still a dog. In my opinion, a dog can move from one pack to another if YOU facilitate the change and YOU are in charge. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 36246280 United States 03/15/2013 01:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Also, I don't really understand the "farm dog" thing. I was raised on a farm with outdoor dogs, and now I live in a city. I can totally see our "farm dogs" adapting to the city. In the end it is still a dog. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 36246399 In my opinion, a dog can move from one pack to another if YOU facilitate the change and YOU are in charge. That's great if you have a big house/yard and take the steps to make it happen properly. My problem is that I don't have that. This isn't a perfect case senerio. This is happeneing way way too fast and I need to know that it's possible. And if I'm doing what's best for these dogs. That's why I'm asking for help. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 17584550 United States 03/15/2013 01:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, Quoting: SaltyFlats To pull this off you are going to need a lot of free time and serious focus on training. First and foremost you need to buy a crate. You need to train the Farm Dog just as you would a new puppy. Like others have said, long walks, bicycle runs, walks with both dogs are a must. Be fair and respect your city dog above and beyond everything. If its endless fighting and stress for the little guy in his home, that isn't right. If you love your dog you already know this. I've got a "city dog" a French Bulldog. No way, no way whatsoever would I allow a fighting farm dog in a tiny living space with him MMA style. Come on guy... Right now the farm dog is on the bed and the city refuses to get on the bed. Even if I push the farm dog off. This is beyond bad & a HUGE no-no. The new farm dog, should not, under any circumstances, be on the bed or furniture. By being on your bed, she is claiming your personal space and bullying you and establishing dominance. Your city dog by refusing to get on the bed is doing this because the farm dog has threatened him. He is also letting you know that this is not okay and does not want to share the bed with the farm dog. You should really read 90% of the advice you've been given and follow it. Otherwise your city dog could be seriously injured or worse, killed. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 36246280 United States 03/15/2013 01:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, Quoting: SaltyFlats To pull this off you are going to need a lot of free time and serious focus on training. First and foremost you need to buy a crate. You need to train the Farm Dog just as you would a new puppy. Like others have said, long walks, bicycle runs, walks with both dogs are a must. Be fair and respect your city dog above and beyond everything. If its endless fighting and stress for the little guy in his home, that isn't right. If you love your dog you already know this. I've got a "city dog" a French Bulldog. No way, no way whatsoever would I allow a fighting farm dog in a tiny living space with him MMA style. Come on guy... Right now the farm dog is on the bed and the city refuses to get on the bed. Even if I push the farm dog off. This is beyond bad & a HUGE no-no. The new farm dog, should not, under any circumstances, be on the bed or furniture. By being on your bed, she is claiming your personal space and bullying you and establishing dominance. Your city dog by refusing to get on the bed is doing this because the farm dog has threatened him. He is also letting you know that this is not okay and does not want to share the bed with the farm dog. You should really read 90% of the advice you've been given and follow it. Otherwise your city dog could be seriously injured or worse, killed. She's been off after I read the comments. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 36246399 United States 03/15/2013 01:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, Quoting: SaltyFlats To pull this off you are going to need a lot of free time and serious focus on training. First and foremost you need to buy a crate. You need to train the Farm Dog just as you would a new puppy. Like others have said, long walks, bicycle runs, walks with both dogs are a must. Be fair and respect your city dog above and beyond everything. If its endless fighting and stress for the little guy in his home, that isn't right. If you love your dog you already know this. I've got a "city dog" a French Bulldog. No way, no way whatsoever would I allow a fighting farm dog in a tiny living space with him MMA style. Come on guy... Right now the farm dog is on the bed and the city refuses to get on the bed. Even if I push the farm dog off. This is beyond bad & a HUGE no-no. The new farm dog, should not, under any circumstances, be on the bed or furniture. By being on your bed, she is claiming your personal space and bullying you and establishing dominance. Your city dog by refusing to get on the bed is doing this because the farm dog has threatened him. He is also letting you know that this is not okay and does not want to share the bed with the farm dog. You should really read 90% of the advice you've been given and follow it. Otherwise your city dog could be seriously injured or worse, killed. I totally agree with the above. Also, is your farm dog wearing a leash inside? I would immediately put the dog on one and let the dog drag it around. It may lessen his feeling of dominance and it would give you more instant control over the dog if you need it. I would also have the farm dog muzzled until they learn to coexist together. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 5141990 United States 03/15/2013 01:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She was establishing dominance over the city dog when the city dog actually has the seniority and dominance in the home. Some non-aggressive dogs are fine with that though. The farm dog will need A LOT of long, long walks or some form of hard exercise along with training. This helps them release excess aggression & hormones. So does having them fixed - either sex. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17584550 Melatonin is very good at mellowing out dogs too. Just the regular chewable over-the-counter stuff. Just make sure you research the dosage-to-weight ratio online first. [link to doghealth1.com] Also chamomile tea helps mellow them out. They'll more likely drink it if you mix in a little bit of cream. They are both fixed. I'm training the farm dog on leash right now but as soon as she's comfortable I plan on doing that. We do have a big back yard. Is one at a time okay? Or should we have both of them out there? Only have them out together if you're there to supervise or else the city dog may get bullied or bitten again. (Made this sad mistake once). The melatonin treatment should probably be started asap though. It's pretty cheap. Around $6-$7 for a 3 month bottle. And at feeding times make sure you eat first, then the city dog and then the farm dog and that the farm dog is aware of this. The poster with the crate suggestion was spot on too. You can find good ones on Craigslist. I'm always out there during outside time. But just to be sure we'll do one at a time. When I walked them I always take the city dog out first, then the farm. The farm dog has to be hand fed because she doesn't like to eat out of a bowl just yet. And the city dog doesn't eat all her food in one sitting. The city dog is a grazer. And the farm dog is a quick eater. How can I make that work? I was always told that crate training should be done positively and not used for "punishment?" Do they sell it at Petsmart/Petco? Yes, just leave the door always open, put a blanky over it, old rug inside and a pillow for humping for males...lol. Good dogs know when they have done wrong and will seek it out when they do...or just go in when the house/situation is stressed. Trust me, most naturally love a safe/cave like place to retreat to. Should never be for punishment but for their safety only. Mine is protective of front door/yard toward strangers and animals not in his pack; he will growl/bark when strangers approach our domain. I call him down after his alert...he goes to crate. It is safer for him with all the cop dog shooters out here lately. |
ZeuZ User ID: 36250190 United States 03/15/2013 01:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You must become the Alpha. Pick the dog up by his dick and give him the stare down. He must realize that his life is in your hands and you can end it whenever you so please. If the dog tries to bite or be aggressive, ram your hand down it's throat until it's near choking to death. Works great with unruly pitbulls. Eat, drink, and be merry, for tomorrow, you may die. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 36246280 United States 03/15/2013 01:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, Quoting: SaltyFlats To pull this off you are going to need a lot of free time and serious focus on training. First and foremost you need to buy a crate. You need to train the Farm Dog just as you would a new puppy. Like others have said, long walks, bicycle runs, walks with both dogs are a must. Be fair and respect your city dog above and beyond everything. If its endless fighting and stress for the little guy in his home, that isn't right. If you love your dog you already know this. I've got a "city dog" a French Bulldog. No way, no way whatsoever would I allow a fighting farm dog in a tiny living space with him MMA style. Come on guy... Right now the farm dog is on the bed and the city refuses to get on the bed. Even if I push the farm dog off. This is beyond bad & a HUGE no-no. The new farm dog, should not, under any circumstances, be on the bed or furniture. By being on your bed, she is claiming your personal space and bullying you and establishing dominance. Your city dog by refusing to get on the bed is doing this because the farm dog has threatened him. He is also letting you know that this is not okay and does not want to share the bed with the farm dog. You should really read 90% of the advice you've been given and follow it. Otherwise your city dog could be seriously injured or worse, killed. I totally agree with the above. Also, is your farm dog wearing a leash inside? I would immediately put the dog on one and let the dog drag it around. It may lessen his feeling of dominance and it would give you more instant control over the dog if you need it. I would also have the farm dog muzzled until they learn to coexist together. Yes she's leashed. She's been off the bed since pretty much the first comment that said to get her off. Do you think a muzzel would make her angry? |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 36246280 United States 03/15/2013 01:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You must become the Alpha. Pick the dog up by his dick and give him the stare down. He must realize that his life is in your hands and you can end it whenever you so please. If the dog tries to bite or be aggressive, ram your hand down it's throat until it's near choking to death. Quoting: ZeuZ Works great with unruly pitbulls. She's a girl. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 36246280 United States 03/15/2013 01:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | FOOL. You have a little studio apartment and things were great and now two big dogs. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 36242962 Way to go. How old is Farm Dog and what breed is it...? Thats the most important part to figuring this out. Lets start there. Please look back. The farm dog is 3. And the city dog is 1 1/2. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 5141990 United States 03/15/2013 01:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She has not bit you so I would not muzzle her nor would I beat her, alpha roll her, or corner her. These things only make a dog either more aggresive or more submissive; not positive either way. Put her on NILF program and get a crate. [link to k9deb.com] My dog is very people pushy. NILF works above all other things I have tried. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 36242962 Canada 03/15/2013 01:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | FOOL. You have a little studio apartment and things were great and now two big dogs. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 36242962 Way to go. How old is Farm Dog and what breed is it...? Thats the most important part to figuring this out. Lets start there. Please look back. The farm dog is 3. And the city dog is 1 1/2. This is not good. Farm dog is 3 and pretty set in her ways now. Used to having space and cruising all day outside where dogs are happy to be. Not couped up in a little apartment. Do yourself and your other dog a favor. Find a new home for Farm. With room and a yard at least. Farm is used to living a certain way and now finds itself in a cell. City is used to it and smaller. Farm will hate it. Farm will turn your shit upside down. Yes dogs adapt but can you. Is this how YOU want to live. Is this FAIR to other dog. Is this fair to Farm Dog. LOOK FOR A HOME OR MOVE YOURSELF. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 36242962 Canada 03/15/2013 01:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | FOOL. You have a little studio apartment and things were great and now two big dogs. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 36242962 Way to go. How old is Farm Dog and what breed is it...? Thats the most important part to figuring this out. Lets start there. Please look back. The farm dog is 3. And the city dog is 1 1/2. This is not good. Farm dog is 3 and pretty set in her ways now. Used to having space and cruising all day outside where dogs are happy to be. Not couped up in a little apartment. Do yourself and your other dog a favor. Find a new home for Farm. With room and a yard at least. Farm is used to living a certain way and now finds itself in a cell. City is used to it and smaller. Farm will hate it. Farm will turn your shit upside down. Yes dogs adapt but can you. Is this how YOU want to live. Is this FAIR to other dog. Is this fair to Farm Dog. LOOK FOR A HOME OR MOVE YOURSELF. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 5141990 United States 03/15/2013 02:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She has not bit you so I would not muzzle her nor would I beat her, alpha roll her, or corner her. These things only make a dog either more aggresive or more submissive; not positive either way. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5141990 Put her on NILF program and get a crate. [link to k9deb.com] My dog is very people pushy. NILF works above all other things I have tried. So 2 APBT's, city dog 1.5 male, farm dog 3 yr old female. If you want her I would give her a chance...most dogs are able to be trained. She ran with a pack on the farm so you know she tolerates other dogs. She may have just been teaching the younger dog that when she wants to be left alone that means left alone. Without seeing the incident it is hard to say. APBT's don't show many body signs when they attack to give you a heads up. So you will need to be alert at all times. Pits tend to be very people submissive in my experience but BETA's in a pack. Understanding that alone is half the battle imo. A smart dog will let you think you are alpha until a situation arises. I would crate, NILF program, feed separate, leash at all times indoors. You have brought her to a new situation and it will take time for all. [link to www.massachusettsdogtrainer.com] |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 36246280 United States 03/15/2013 02:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She has not bit you so I would not muzzle her nor would I beat her, alpha roll her, or corner her. These things only make a dog either more aggresive or more submissive; not positive either way. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5141990 Put her on NILF program and get a crate. [link to k9deb.com] My dog is very people pushy. NILF works above all other things I have tried. So 2 APBT's, city dog 1.5 male, farm dog 3 yr old female. If you want her I would give her a chance...most dogs are able to be trained. She ran with a pack on the farm so you know she tolerates other dogs. She may have just been teaching the younger dog that when she wants to be left alone that means left alone. Without seeing the incident it is hard to say. APBT's don't show many body signs when they attack to give you a heads up. So you will need to be alert at all times. Pits tend to be very people submissive in my experience but BETA's in a pack. Understanding that alone is half the battle imo. A smart dog will let you think you are alpha until a situation arises. I would crate, NILF program, feed separate, leash at all times indoors. You have brought her to a new situation and it will take time for all. [link to www.massachusettsdogtrainer.com] I think crate is going to have to happen. Especially with the food situation. There's no extra places to feed them separate right now so how would I go about that. I'm familiar with NILF the city pit use to have bad separation anxiety and that really helped. I do want to try. But I have to be smart. Right now I'm not allowing her on the bed. City pit is first come first serve. First love, first feeding, first potty break. Is that a good way to go about it? How do I know when to give farm dog love? Or when to allow her on the bed? Farm pit has stopped growling since city pit is on bed. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 5141990 United States 03/15/2013 02:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It cannot be said enough...Alpha does not / should not raise a hand nor voice to gain cooperation from pack members. I think she is dominant beta not alpha but time will tell. [link to www.massachusettsdogtrainer.com] Good crate training steps in the OMEGA section. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 36246280 United States 03/15/2013 02:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | one last thing... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5141990 It cannot be said enough...Alpha does not / should not raise a hand nor voice to gain cooperation from pack members. I think she is dominant beta not alpha but time will tell. [link to www.massachusettsdogtrainer.com] Good crate training steps in the OMEGA section. I've never laid a hand on my dog. Good strong body language is the best way. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 36246280 United States 03/15/2013 02:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Okay so far farm dog is not allowed on the bed. Only city dog. The growling has stopped. She has however started to whine. This is normal and should be ignored. What should I be doing with her though? I mean after. Should I just avoid her all day and only acknowledge her when she does something good? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 5141990 United States 03/15/2013 02:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She has not bit you so I would not muzzle her nor would I beat her, alpha roll her, or corner her. These things only make a dog either more aggresive or more submissive; not positive either way. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5141990 Put her on NILF program and get a crate. [link to k9deb.com] My dog is very people pushy. NILF works above all other things I have tried. So 2 APBT's, city dog 1.5 male, farm dog 3 yr old female. If you want her I would give her a chance...most dogs are able to be trained. She ran with a pack on the farm so you know she tolerates other dogs. She may have just been teaching the younger dog that when she wants to be left alone that means left alone. Without seeing the incident it is hard to say. APBT's don't show many body signs when they attack to give you a heads up. So you will need to be alert at all times. Pits tend to be very people submissive in my experience but BETA's in a pack. Understanding that alone is half the battle imo. A smart dog will let you think you are alpha until a situation arises. I would crate, NILF program, feed separate, leash at all times indoors. You have brought her to a new situation and it will take time for all. [link to www.massachusettsdogtrainer.com] I think crate is going to have to happen. Especially with the food situation. There's no extra places to feed them separate right now so how would I go about that. I'm familiar with NILF the city pit use to have bad separation anxiety and that really helped. I do want to try. But I have to be smart. Right now I'm not allowing her on the bed. City pit is first come first serve. First love, first feeding, first potty break. Is that a good way to go about it? How do I know when to give farm dog love? Or when to allow her on the bed? Farm pit has stopped growling since city pit is on bed. Feed her in the crate or bathroom for now; anything to block their view of each other at eating time. She may have had to fight for food on the farm in the pack. See how she does with that, feed her second and make her sit before feeding. I know it is hard ... I free feed my dog because he instinctually eats instead of gorging like most. Trust me they will get used to set feedings. I would not withhold love; just make her work for it with a sit or down. She is getting off the bed fine for you but you still need to be sure of your alpha position so wait awhile for bed privileges. That is your and your boys domain for now. Dogs are going to fight a little it is their nature. My 50 pound chow X puts his friend a 78 pound younger Belgian Malinois in his place when needed...it happens. I would just read everything you can find, don't be intimidated with the task, and try to let the dogs work out their rankings if at all possible. Best outdoors on unfamilar turf before entering the home...but best case scenario does/can not always happen. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 36246399 United States 03/15/2013 03:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Walk your dogs ALOT outdoors with you acting as pack leader. Long walks will make the three of you into a pack as you walk. This will imitate the natural state of a pack of dog better than anything that you can do inside. Try to walk for an hour each day. The exercise will also cut down on boredom and agression and they should be calmer. Plus you will meet other dog lovers for some support for YOU! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 5141990 United States 03/15/2013 03:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | one last thing... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5141990 It cannot be said enough...Alpha does not / should not raise a hand nor voice to gain cooperation from pack members. I think she is dominant beta not alpha but time will tell. [link to www.massachusettsdogtrainer.com] Good crate training steps in the OMEGA section. I've never laid a hand on my dog. Good strong body language is the best way. Sorry that was not intended for you but I screwed it up...lol. I was stating that for those who obviously do not know dogs or beat them into submission based on their comments here. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 36246280 United States 03/15/2013 03:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She has not bit you so I would not muzzle her nor would I beat her, alpha roll her, or corner her. These things only make a dog either more aggresive or more submissive; not positive either way. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5141990 Put her on NILF program and get a crate. [link to k9deb.com] My dog is very people pushy. NILF works above all other things I have tried. So 2 APBT's, city dog 1.5 male, farm dog 3 yr old female. If you want her I would give her a chance...most dogs are able to be trained. She ran with a pack on the farm so you know she tolerates other dogs. She may have just been teaching the younger dog that when she wants to be left alone that means left alone. Without seeing the incident it is hard to say. APBT's don't show many body signs when they attack to give you a heads up. So you will need to be alert at all times. Pits tend to be very people submissive in my experience but BETA's in a pack. Understanding that alone is half the battle imo. A smart dog will let you think you are alpha until a situation arises. I would crate, NILF program, feed separate, leash at all times indoors. You have brought her to a new situation and it will take time for all. [link to www.massachusettsdogtrainer.com] I think crate is going to have to happen. Especially with the food situation. There's no extra places to feed them separate right now so how would I go about that. I'm familiar with NILF the city pit use to have bad separation anxiety and that really helped. I do want to try. But I have to be smart. Right now I'm not allowing her on the bed. City pit is first come first serve. First love, first feeding, first potty break. Is that a good way to go about it? How do I know when to give farm dog love? Or when to allow her on the bed? Farm pit has stopped growling since city pit is on bed. Feed her in the crate or bathroom for now; anything to block their view of each other at eating time. She may have had to fight for food on the farm in the pack. See how she does with that, feed her second and make her sit before feeding. I know it is hard ... I free feed my dog because he instinctually eats instead of gorging like most. Trust me they will get used to set feedings. I would not withhold love; just make her work for it with a sit or down. She is getting off the bed fine for you but you still need to be sure of your alpha position so wait awhile for bed privileges. That is your and your boys domain for now. Dogs are going to fight a little it is their nature. My 50 pound chow X puts his friend a 78 pound younger Belgian Malinois in his place when needed...it happens. I would just read everything you can find, don't be intimidated with the task, and try to let the dogs work out their rankings if at all possible. Best outdoors on unfamilar turf before entering the home...but best case scenario does/can not always happen. Okay feed seperate. Make her work for love. Walk on leash together with city dog. She was playing with an squeaky toy. Should I allow that? Or will it develop a toy hog mentality? |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 36246280 United States 03/15/2013 03:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Walk your dogs ALOT outdoors with you acting as pack leader. Long walks will make the three of you into a pack as you walk. This will imitate the natural state of a pack of dog better than anything that you can do inside. Try to walk for an hour each day. The exercise will also cut down on boredom and agression and they should be calmer. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 36246399 Plus you will meet other dog lovers for some support for YOU! If she walks well with the other dog how will I know she can handle "city" life? |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 36246280 United States 03/15/2013 03:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | one last thing... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5141990 It cannot be said enough...Alpha does not / should not raise a hand nor voice to gain cooperation from pack members. I think she is dominant beta not alpha but time will tell. [link to www.massachusettsdogtrainer.com] Good crate training steps in the OMEGA section. I've never laid a hand on my dog. Good strong body language is the best way. Sorry that was not intended for you but I screwed it up...lol. I was stating that for those who obviously do not know dogs or beat them into submission based on their comments here. Oh haha my bad! |
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