so why you are NOT married?

Oh ...this... thread.
The twist & turns it has taken.

my condolences on your slavery.

The reason I am not married is because the woman I would have gone through Hell and back for (Think "What Dreams May Come")
cheated on me and left. 7 years later and I still can't get over her. I guess I'll die alone in the long run.

To each his own. Just remember to be always asking, "So what am I doing that warrants the investment of the only life I have?"

good for you.
she showed her true colors.

lemme guess, the other guy
had a bigger wallet ???
lol

"I know several including myself that are living in what you
describe as "fairy tales.""

it's reaing what you and daisy write which gives me a bit of hope. thanks!

you should only think this way
if you are actually pursuing marriage
slavery.

if you are not looking,
then what purpose does
self assessment serve ??

none

I suggest that my question is a life-long question applicable at all times and in all way no matter the circumstances in which we find ourselves.

my condolences
you swallowed the fairy tale too :(

Enjoy your self-satisfaction.

thank you
I will :)

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I was just talking with my husband and telling him how lucky I am to be his wife. Even after all these years, I never take him for granted. I gently remind him that we have what we have because we know that sin corrupts and we are well aware of the attacks on the marriage in this day and age. We fight together to stay together. God is our commander in Chief.

And yes, I am living the fairy tale to the fullest, he is my knight in shining armor.

another one who expects a White Knight
to come riding in and sweep her off
her feet and gives her every whim.

lol

you folks are delusional.
you need to put down the
Harlequin Romance Novels.
it's giving you false hope
that it could happen to you.

Life and Love, you are a bright light in this dark thread. Keep shining brightly.

I am sure our readers are quite capable of choosing whom to believe.

why can't you accept the fact that some people have found happiness and love? Why does it bother you so much?

I think a spoonful of live and let live would do you well.



You sound very hurt and broken by what you write, not all women are evil gold diggers. There are some that exist to compliment and be a best friend to their men. Please stop taking everyone else's inventory, there are many who are happily married and there is no need to attack people, your judgement and opinions are more a reflection of you than anyone else.

lol

that explains it.
both of you swallowed the
religious kool-aid.

that makes both of you are
religious zombie slaves.

btw, Tell Terrell hello for me ;)

this is the most honest answer of the whole thread.
thank you. :)

Oh, btw, I've never read a harlequin romance novel. I deal in the real stuff. I've been down in the trenches of love. I know how make it work.

Like I said before, marriage is not for everyone, bit for those who have been happily blessed by it and enjoy it, there is no need to attack us. It shows your true colors of racism towards the people that believe in it and honor it.

A lot of people have been turned off by the idea of marriage. But in all honesty, if you find someone who you really can share the rest of your life with, then hell why not take a chance?

SOME
is the correct word.

look at the divorce stats
to see them not in your favor.

for you, too!

more than half your assets,
a lifelong alimony payment,
losing your house, cars and kids,
is NOT worth the risk when
the odds are already against
you.

Spent my youth chained to a job, now the only chicks available have to much baggage. There are not a lot of fish in the sea, a lot of manatees maybe ; ), i'm not rich so can't rob the cradle like Charlie Sheen.

not religious at all. I honor my Creator.

You are clearly jealous and green with envy that no one wants to stand by your side trough good times or bad.

I am not trying to disrespect you, but I've read all your posts, you need anger management and you need to realize it takes TWO people to kill a relationship. You cannot blame the woman for all of it.

I am sure whoever it was that was married to you had a tough ride as well. You are very transparent and your wall does not guard your weakness as a man.

No woman wants a weak minded man and that is the way you come off here. Learn to love yourself and you might attract someone who actually wants to stand by your side till death do you part.

Get a prenuptial agreement?

oh yea, let's get all mushy
and lovey dovey

that will change the hope outlook.

NOT !!!