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so why you are NOT married?

 
daisy
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I'm happily married. But here's the deal to a successful marriage, I make sacrifices. I put him first - always.

And to my happy but sometimes belated surprise, he puts me first in so many ways that I am not even aware of - because he is a man, his approach is different and not on my same wavelength... Everything he does, he does for US, for me. Its hard to see that sometimes because most people are so fixated on themselves that rarely they stand back to look at the big picture. They literally fail to stop and smell the roses along the journey of marriage/committed relationships.

I've also learned you cannot make another person love you, no matter how hard you try. Love just is. It exists and the pull and force of it is what keeps you together. So if you are the jealous, envious type, you will drive the other person crazy over time and eventually push them away. You have to let a flower bloom, its the same with love, you cannot dictate how it is going to be, it just is. You need to be in full acceptance of the person you love and not someone who wants to evoke a constant stream of change. If you crave change, change your own thinking, your own self and expectations, not the other persons.


I do think that today people have it a lot harder in terms of finding someone that they want to commit to 'forever'. There are so many negative influences tearing people apart and corrupting the pureness that used to be what attracted people to each other in the first place.

I am not naive. I am grateful for each day that passes that I have a husband to love and to be loved by, but if I ever found myself single for whatever reason, I do not believe I would ever marry again. To me, marriage is a bonding of true friendship and trust that takes years to achieve. Love is friendship set on fire. These types of relationships only happen sometimes once in a lifetime - IF at all.

The men and women that piss through relationships are only robbing themselves and these are the people that become jaded and think all men and women are shit. People become way too intimate way too soon and then wonder why the relationship didn't last more than a year. When is the last time anyone tried being just friends first and allowing a deep human trust to form before jumping in and messing it up with sex. Love is more than sex, yet sex is the driving force for so many in the beginning of the relationship, and unfortunately so many people wind up having kids they did not even plan to have or to trap the guy into remaining in their lives and vice versa.

If you keep a little mystery in your relationships in terms of the sex (don't do it all too soon), you will keep him interested for a lot longer.

Women that rush into sexual relationships and give it all up to the guy too soon and then get dumped become materialistic because once they have given themselves in such a way they don't see the reason any longer in remaining 'pure'.

They view sex as a means to getting something. I can't imagine a worse feeling for someone to feel the loss of someone they liked/loved and to have done all sorts of sexual stuff that they might not have wanted to do just to make the guy happy only to get dumped because deep down a guy doesn't want a whore in the beginning of the relationship. Women think you whore it up before marriage... NO, you show some self respect, hold back and be that whore AFTER marriage, and for all of your marriage - keep him satisfied. How many guys complain that the sex stops after marriage? they got all they wanted before and after the woman got the wedding and the kids, things slowed down.

Men are pretty easy creatures to please. But both sexes need to understand the simplicity of a union/marriage... its about having a lifelong friend for this journey in life, if you so choose to walk it with someone - and with that comes a little sacrifice and a lot of respect for each other has human beings, not as disposable people that get used and abused.

Marriage is not for everyone and there is nothing wrong with remaining single if you can't be a true, life long friend. Just don't expect to have someone to grow old with and take long walks on the beach if you can't find it in yourself to understand the true meaning of a marriage; its more about friendship. Anyone can find someone to have sex with. But marriage is an entirely different platform that truly fills the void that so many seem to be filled with.

hf
 Quoting: daisy 34495736



Your post is well put and I'm not trying to be an asshole but......in regards to your last paragraph, you don't have to be married to have all of that. Just a commitment to another person. I feel the same way about my boyfriend without the legal proceedings.

But otherwise, yes! hf
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I can totally understand the not wanting the 'legal' aspect of marriage these days. I married young, which is one of the reasons I believe I lucked out in the game of love; I bet on him like he bet on me and we are still making it work after all these years. We still laugh a lot and that is another reason I believe we are still together, we do not take anything for granted and we still find the bright things in life to enjoy and laugh about. Nothing is forever, that's why you have to enjoy each day for what it is. Too many people live in misery and they don't have to.

Life is good. hf
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Why are there so many miserable men here?

Would you guys allow the same words to escape your mouth when speaking of your Mother?

I can see why some of you are without a wife. Just look at the disrespectful way you refer to women. (whore)

Maybe it's the whore you guys fell out of that's turned you bitter.

*shrugs*
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Why are there so many miserable men here?

Would you guys allow the same words to escape your mouth when speaking of your Mother?

I can see why some of you are without a wife. Just look at the disrespectful way you refer to women. (whore)

Maybe it's the whore you guys fell out of that's turned you bitter.

*shrugs*
 Quoting: Venus Goddess


It's our shallow punitive culture with nothing of human substance or previous generations that had vision enough to give a damn about those coming after.

Internet porn just makes men sadder and hold women to a type of perfection that doesn't exist.

Destruction of this 'culture' would bring relief to begin again so love and bonding can deepen.
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so why you are NOT married?
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Define - MARRIED please!
That which is - has already been, And what is to be - has already been. Quote: King Solomon.
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I'm happily married. But here's the deal to a successful marriage, I make sacrifices. I put him first - always.

And to my happy but sometimes belated surprise, he puts me first in so many ways that I am not even aware of - because he is a man, his approach is different and not on my same wavelength... Everything he does, he does for US, for me. Its hard to see that sometimes because most people are so fixated on themselves that rarely they stand back to look at the big picture. They literally fail to stop and smell the roses along the journey of marriage/committed relationships.

I've also learned you cannot make another person love you, no matter how hard you try. Love just is. It exists and the pull and force of it is what keeps you together. So if you are the jealous, envious type, you will drive the other person crazy over time and eventually push them away. You have to let a flower bloom, its the same with love, you cannot dictate how it is going to be, it just is. You need to be in full acceptance of the person you love and not someone who wants to evoke a constant stream of change. If you crave change, change your own thinking, your own self and expectations, not the other persons.


I do think that today people have it a lot harder in terms of finding someone that they want to commit to 'forever'. There are so many negative influences tearing people apart and corrupting the pureness that used to be what attracted people to each other in the first place.

I am not naive. I am grateful for each day that passes that I have a husband to love and to be loved by, but if I ever found myself single for whatever reason, I do not believe I would ever marry again. To me, marriage is a bonding of true friendship and trust that takes years to achieve. Love is friendship set on fire. These types of relationships only happen sometimes once in a lifetime - IF at all.

The men and women that piss through relationships are only robbing themselves and these are the people that become jaded and think all men and women are shit. People become way too intimate way too soon and then wonder why the relationship didn't last more than a year. When is the last time anyone tried being just friends first and allowing a deep human trust to form before jumping in and messing it up with sex. Love is more than sex, yet sex is the driving force for so many in the beginning of the relationship, and unfortunately so many people wind up having kids they did not even plan to have or to trap the guy into remaining in their lives and vice versa.

If you keep a little mystery in your relationships in terms of the sex (don't do it all too soon), you will keep him interested for a lot longer.

Women that rush into sexual relationships and give it all up to the guy too soon and then get dumped become materialistic because once they have given themselves in such a way they don't see the reason any longer in remaining 'pure'.

They view sex as a means to getting something. I can't imagine a worse feeling for someone to feel the loss of someone they liked/loved and to have done all sorts of sexual stuff that they might not have wanted to do just to make the guy happy only to get dumped because deep down a guy doesn't want a whore in the beginning of the relationship. Women think you whore it up before marriage... NO, you show some self respect, hold back and be that whore AFTER marriage, and for all of your marriage - keep him satisfied. How many guys complain that the sex stops after marriage? they got all they wanted before and after the woman got the wedding and the kids, things slowed down.

Men are pretty easy creatures to please. But both sexes need to understand the simplicity of a union/marriage... its about having a lifelong friend for this journey in life, if you so choose to walk it with someone - and with that comes a little sacrifice and a lot of respect for each other has human beings, not as disposable people that get used and abused.

Marriage is not for everyone and there is nothing wrong with remaining single if you can't be a true, life long friend. Just don't expect to have someone to grow old with and take long walks on the beach if you can't find it in yourself to understand the true meaning of a marriage; its more about friendship. Anyone can find someone to have sex with. But marriage is an entirely different platform that truly fills the void that so many seem to be filled with.

hf
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I don't sacrifice shit. She does what I say and that's all there is to it.
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Believe it or not I don't really sacrifice shit either.... I've got it made. Its easy to 'sacrifice' when you love someone, its effortless - it just happens naturally.

hf

I would elaborate more, but I don't have time. banana2

I need to go be a good wife and make some breakfast
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I don't know, perhaps because i'm ugly.
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Did it TWICE,,,

And was cleaned out both times to the point of just having a bag of clothes each time.
AND having to pay thousands in child support (1 child each) and whatever other expenses occured.

I will NEVER marry again,,,

Bitches ,,, all you want is the money,,, go spread your legs like the rest of the whores.

NEVER AGAIN

skull_fing

I will be 59 when I finish paying support. I have paid for over 35 years.

BEAT THAT
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uhh...keep your dick in your pants then
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so why you are NOT married?
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because i believe all woman are whores.. and yeh what more is there to say? as in you cant turn a whore into a housewife and so on...
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More so they have implants on a higher dimensional level which renders them useless mentally.

Then most men are just the same, only bigger, hornier, stronger, so then they are both Satanic beings incorporating a planet in a Satanic event.

It is Satanic because it only happens in one place in the Universe!

You've been warned.
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Made a conscious decision not to. What's the point? My boyfriend and I (I'm female) have been together eight years and we have no plans to get married, much to the frustration and confusion of both our families. They always ask "don't you love each other? Aren't you committed to each other?" yes, of course we do/are, that's why we're still together and why we live together. But we don't need a piece of paper to prove any of that.

The only reason anyone can give me why we should get married is "for the insurance" which to me seems like a lame reason to get married since its supposedly about love. Not to mention the divorce rate is so high it's pretty pointless.

Marriage does not equal love, and vice versa. THAT'S why I'm not married.
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Wow, you're avatar is a cock, it's like your knowledge extends into that of a beast but not a human.
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For all you who say various things.

Your goal here is to create Union between Man God and Earth.

If you fail.

Neither of you make it to heaven.

And no.

*shits self laughing*

*cleans shit from walls, dripping into a puddle*

There is no "other" life. This is it. Where you see yourself now. Is where your form from this realm will be in ETERNITY.
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Made a conscious decision not to. What's the point? My boyfriend and I (I'm female) have been together eight years and we have no plans to get married, much to the frustration and confusion of both our families. They always ask "don't you love each other? Aren't you committed to each other?" yes, of course we do/are, that's why we're still together and why we live together. But we don't need a piece of paper to prove any of that.

The only reason anyone can give me why we should get married is "for the insurance" which to me seems like a lame reason to get married since its supposedly about love. Not to mention the divorce rate is so high it's pretty pointless.

Marriage does not equal love, and vice versa. THAT'S why I'm not married.
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Wow, you're avatar is a cock, it's like your knowledge extends into that of a beast but not a human.
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No idea what you're on about but...thanks? I guess?


To be more precise though, my avatar is the cover of the Rolling Stones album Sticky Fingers...which is a picture of a cock. So yeah.
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I was married for a long time, now I'm divorced. He turned out to be abusive - emotionally, verbally, and physically. It started out verbally, then went to emotional then eventually physically. Typical textbook case in hindsight. It happened gradually over 10 years and we should have split then but it dragged on even longer.

It has been a few years since the divorce and I'm just starting to feel myself again. We had money so it wasn't that. We just didn't get along. I'm free now and I don't think I'd legally bind myself to another. I never thought my marriage would turn out this way, ever. Too leery to try again.
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Did it TWICE,,,

And was cleaned out both times to the point of just having a bag of clothes each time.
AND having to pay thousands in child support (1 child each) and whatever other expenses occured.

I will NEVER marry again,,,

Bitches ,,, all you want is the money,,, go spread your legs like the rest of the whores.
NEVER AGAIN

skull_fing
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i like you.. yes ive given up on women.. but im not gay.. and i like you..
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 22847731


======================================================
Thanks,, I try to be likeable to everyone. And to the poster that said I couldn't pick em.
WRONG
They both were educated, very good looking and had their careers in order. As I.
They were just bullshitted by other men into thinking otherwise.
AND since my family is "well to do" they KNEW they would get all the "support" they needed/wanted.

I do have 2 AWESOME kids tho,,, my son is starting his doctorate in IT and my daughter is showing amazing artistic skills.
So mebbee it wasn't fruitless after all.

peace
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wtf
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Sure are loads of bitter men here, wow. Because it's always the women's fault that the marriage fails, right? And then there is that pesky little fact you can't stand that women can go out and get laid anytime so that automatically means we are actually doing so, and that makes us all whores. Interesting logic. Just because YOU would be doing it doesn't mean we are. I have been separated for 1.5 yrs and not had sex, even though I have had many opportunities with rather attractive men. I have just moved on from meaningless sexual encounters. I am sick of you bitter assholes calling all women whores. Fuck you.

I was married for 11 yrs and have two beautiful children and I had some wonderful times in my marriage and my ex and I are still friends, after a rough patch, something you ex husbands obviously are not. And who thinks you can have children and NOT end up paying thousands for them, whether married or not? If you can't hack that, then keep your dick wrapped! Kids cost money! You are all just mad because you think your precious, vast sums of child support are being used for your ex WHORE to look good for her suitors, right? Again. Fuck you and your presumptions. I don't know how you can live and be happy with your thought processes. And to the guy who says he'll be paying 35 yrs of child support, YOU screwed up buddy. My ex keeps up with his payments, most of the time anyway, and he will be done when our youngest turns 18 in 11 years. If you paid for that long you must have been a real bum and probably still are. Good for your kids that they managed to have some success despite their sperm donor.
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Why are there so many miserable men here?

Would you guys allow the same words to escape your mouth when speaking of your Mother?

I can see why some of you are without a wife. Just look at the disrespectful way you refer to women. (whore)

Maybe it's the whore you guys fell out of that's turned you bitter.

*shrugs*
 Quoting: Venus Goddess


It's our shallow punitive culture with nothing of human substance or previous generations that had vision enough to give a damn about those coming after.

Internet porn just makes men sadder and hold women to a type of perfection that doesn't exist.

Destruction of this 'culture' would bring relief to begin again so love and bonding can deepen.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 34046798


There is truth in this. I have a friend who is 46 and never had a relationship. He's always had a crush on me but he knows I see him as a brother and he enjoys my company without getting all resentful and psycho that I don't like him "that way". We saw a fit looking woman on the streets and he was enjoying the view but the he saw her face and was like "nevermind" and she was attractive! She just wasn't an 8 or 9. But this guy is like a 5 and very overweight. Porn addict yes, and admits to having ED. I wonder why? Yes, men want someone "hot" regardless of how they look and when they realize they are invisible to hot women, they start hating them and thinking of them as whores. Shallow is right. I feel sorry for my beautiful children who will likely end up with some guy who cares only about their beauty and will cheat or whatever when they hit a certain age. Internet porn is absolutely destructive. I have never seen so many angry men as on GLP, and these are the guys, I believe, who would rape and hit women as well. That anger is NOT normal. Ladies need to go for gentle, sweet guys, and be sure that it's not a facade, otherwise they are going to get hurt. I can even tell now by looking in a man's eyes if he hates women, and a lot of them will be funny and charming but soon enough you will see cracks in the facade and realize they too hate women and would love to use a woman and toss her like an old shoe afterwards. Love is not something these brainwashed, porn-addicted useless eaters comprehend nor feel. I am just as well to stay single forever at this point until I meet one of the last trustworthy, kind, quality men left out there.
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Why are there so many miserable men here?

Would you guys allow the same words to escape your mouth when speaking of your Mother?

I can see why some of you are without a wife. Just look at the disrespectful way you refer to women. (whore)

Maybe it's the whore you guys fell out of that's turned you bitter.

*shrugs*
 Quoting: Venus Goddess


It's our shallow punitive culture with nothing of human substance or previous generations that had vision enough to give a damn about those coming after.

Internet porn just makes men sadder and hold women to a type of perfection that doesn't exist.

Destruction of this 'culture' would bring relief to begin again so love and bonding can deepen.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 34046798


"Perfection that doesn't exist"

I believe this is why so many are unmarried, and the cause of failed marriages/unions.

Maybe if more people were acceptant of others faults, life would be euphoric.
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I love hitntheheadfred. He's a real sweetheart,honestly. He's a really nice guy and funny,too.
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Because I am a 5'5" male.
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So? So is Michael J. Fox. He might even be 5'4".Prince is 5'4" and always had pretty women. I guess learn to act or become a musician? Lol, j/k. Well I am 5'9" (woman) and there are guys who won't date me because they want a woman who is petite. I see a lot of ads from guys 6'0" and they want a woman 5'4-5'6" or whatever, so they can feel big and manly. So I have been rejected for my height before too. In fact my ex of 12 yrs is 5'11" and he preferred me not to wear heels that made me taller than him. I thought it was ridiculous. Grow a set. Mick Jagger's longtime current girlfriend is 6'4 or 6'5"!
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Re: so why you are NOT married?
because marriage is a stupid idea.

just ask those who are married!

ohyeah
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Why are there so many miserable men here?

Would you guys allow the same words to escape your mouth when speaking of your Mother?

I can see why some of you are without a wife. Just look at the disrespectful way you refer to women. (whore)

Maybe it's the whore you guys fell out of that's turned you bitter.

*shrugs*
 Quoting: Venus Goddess


It's our shallow punitive culture with nothing of human substance or previous generations that had vision enough to give a damn about those coming after.

Internet porn just makes men sadder and hold women to a type of perfection that doesn't exist.

Destruction of this 'culture' would bring relief to begin again so love and bonding can deepen.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 34046798


There is truth in this. I have a friend who is 46 and never had a relationship. He's always had a crush on me but he knows I see him as a brother and he enjoys my company without getting all resentful and psycho that I don't like him "that way". We saw a fit looking woman on the streets and he was enjoying the view but the he saw her face and was like "nevermind" and she was attractive! She just wasn't an 8 or 9. But this guy is like a 5 and very overweight. Porn addict yes, and admits to having ED. I wonder why? Yes, men want someone "hot" regardless of how they look and when they realize they are invisible to hot women, they start hating them and thinking of them as whores. Shallow is right. I feel sorry for my beautiful children who will likely end up with some guy who cares only about their beauty and will cheat or whatever when they hit a certain age. Internet porn is absolutely destructive. I have never seen so many angry men as on GLP, and these are the guys, I believe, who would rape and hit women as well. That anger is NOT normal. Ladies need to go for gentle, sweet guys, and be sure that it's not a facade, otherwise they are going to get hurt. I can even tell now by looking in a man's eyes if he hates women, and a lot of them will be funny and charming but soon enough you will see cracks in the facade and realize they too hate women and would love to use a woman and toss her like an old shoe afterwards. Love is not something these brainwashed, porn-addicted useless eaters comprehend nor feel. I am just as well to stay single forever at this point until I meet one of the last trustworthy, kind, quality men left out there.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17431247


what many men are failing to realize is their years and years of exposure to porn has affected them in ways they are not aware of.

any type of exposure to porn over time will take a man's soul.

And women have their own demons to deal with. They fight to keep up with what men want only to realize the image they project (sex goddess/princess/whore/etc) is the very image that porn is programming men hate.

Turn off the Computer/Internet and TV and spend time outdoors with real people and you will see a different type of appeal. You will be drawn to people for better reasons, not because of what you've been programmed to fantasize about on the Internet/TV.

hf
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Why are there so many miserable men here?

Would you guys allow the same words to escape your mouth when speaking of your Mother?

I can see why some of you are without a wife. Just look at the disrespectful way you refer to women. (whore)

Maybe it's the whore you guys fell out of that's turned you bitter.

*shrugs*
 Quoting: Venus Goddess


It's our shallow punitive culture with nothing of human substance or previous generations that had vision enough to give a damn about those coming after.

Internet porn just makes men sadder and hold women to a type of perfection that doesn't exist.

Destruction of this 'culture' would bring relief to begin again so love and bonding can deepen.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 34046798


"Perfection that doesn't exist"

I believe this is why so many are unmarried, and the cause of failed marriages/unions.

Maybe if more people were acceptant of others faults, life would be euphoric.
 Quoting: Venus Goddess


I think people like to believe 'perfect' people exist and they just haven't found one yet because if they had to look in the mirror and realize how imperfect they were as well it would be devastating.

my imperfections are what make me different from everyone else... but then maybe that is why I am also happily married? IDK, but I am going to keep enjoying both my imperfections and my hubby's because perfect people are the most boring people on the planet.

rockon
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because marriage is a stupid idea.

just ask those who are married!

ohyeah
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well if that was truly the case there wouldn't be thread after thread of 'marriage sucks' threads. People hate the concept of marriage because most people have failed at it.

People tend to hate being failures.


For those of us who have happy marriages and actually like and love the person we share our lives with, its a fairy tale come true for us and most people that are divorced or single and looking get jealous/envious when they see people who achieved the number one success, which is true love. If this wasn't true people wouldn't bitch so much about it.

Everyone wants it (true love and a relationship/marriage).... they just won't admit it.

tomato
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TAXES.
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so why you are NOT married?
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because i believe all woman are whores.. and yeh what more is there to say? as in you cant turn a whore into a housewife and so on...
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So women are whores but the men that whore around with them are not? iamwith
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Why are there so many miserable men here?

Would you guys allow the same words to escape your mouth when speaking of your Mother?

I can see why some of you are without a wife. Just look at the disrespectful way you refer to women. (whore)

Maybe it's the whore you guys fell out of that's turned you bitter.

*shrugs*
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It's our shallow punitive culture with nothing of human substance or previous generations that had vision enough to give a damn about those coming after.

Internet porn just makes men sadder and hold women to a type of perfection that doesn't exist.

Destruction of this 'culture' would bring relief to begin again so love and bonding can deepen.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 34046798


There is truth in this. I have a friend who is 46 and never had a relationship. He's always had a crush on me but he knows I see him as a brother and he enjoys my company without getting all resentful and psycho that I don't like him "that way". We saw a fit looking woman on the streets and he was enjoying the view but the he saw her face and was like "nevermind" and she was attractive! She just wasn't an 8 or 9. But this guy is like a 5 and very overweight. Porn addict yes, and admits to having ED. I wonder why? Yes, men want someone "hot" regardless of how they look and when they realize they are invisible to hot women, they start hating them and thinking of them as whores. Shallow is right. I feel sorry for my beautiful children who will likely end up with some guy who cares only about their beauty and will cheat or whatever when they hit a certain age. Internet porn is absolutely destructive. I have never seen so many angry men as on GLP, and these are the guys, I believe, who would rape and hit women as well. That anger is NOT normal. Ladies need to go for gentle, sweet guys, and be sure that it's not a facade, otherwise they are going to get hurt. I can even tell now by looking in a man's eyes if he hates women, and a lot of them will be funny and charming but soon enough you will see cracks in the facade and realize they too hate women and would love to use a woman and toss her like an old shoe afterwards. Love is not something these brainwashed, porn-addicted useless eaters comprehend nor feel. I am just as well to stay single forever at this point until I meet one of the last trustworthy, kind, quality men left out there.
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I would be willing to bet my next paycheck that if you did meet the kind of man you claim to want he would be friend-zoned as well.
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HAHAHAHHAHA! Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU for posting that website! I'm laughing my ass off. [link to www.menarebetterthanwomen.com]
HAHAHA
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Re: so why you are NOT married?
what I find interesting about threads that bash marriage is that I find them like 'misery loves company' its as if all the divorced/miserable single people want the happily married ones to join them.

how come you never see married people bashing the single life or starting threads about how they love being amrried? its because happy people tend to live and let live and they don't have time to sit around taking everyone else's inventory of how to define happiness.

I say if you are happy being single, stay single. Know yourself and what you want in life.

If you are happy being committed and in a monogamous relationship, then be the best husband or wife you can be.

hf
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divorced bc i married the wrong man. only want to marry my soul mate now. no more mistakes for me.
also, seems most men are manboys who are into toys, porn, and have no self-control or discipline. i want a man who is strong on the inside, moral, and a REAL man. strong arms are nice, too... :)
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also, better to be alone and lonely single than live that same way while married....that is the worst kind of loneliness, imho.
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Re: so why you are NOT married?
The elephant in the room is, it isn't necessary to be in a relationship for life.
It's not necessary to marry.

It's nothing more than a doctrine that longevity equates to more satisfying.

If people became masters of their inner universe, as in knowing themselves implicitly and walked in a sphere of self awareness they would relate to another, easier. A more mature approach to problem solving would be accessible leading to a secure, preferred long term relationship, which may lend itself to the desire for marriage.

However, most people are selfish, separatist, spiritually barren, megalomaniacs, bobbing in a perpetual state of denial, devoid of insight with negligible self awareness.

The current frequency human beings are on is not conducive to a healthy relationship, let alone a long term relationship.

We are in a manipulated climate of fear perpetuated by greed in a pit of consumerism expressed through materialism. When you see that even planet Earth is crumbling under this pressure.... the feeble minded low frequency human union is almost doomed to fail.

However, for those that want marriage, and for the ones that last, good for you.

For holy matrimony to last, I believe you have to have a certain level of spiritual maturity.... most do not reach this level of maturity which is gained through introspection leading to self correction. As a result most marriages will founder.

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