you are so on the right path. and I totally agree with what you wrote. I know if I ever found myself single I would have the same outlook as you, sex only after marriage and a long period of trusting that other person.

One of the things that I love about myself is that I have remained loyal and in love to one man in a world that wants me to go against this. There is no greater feeling than to exist knowing that you are who you want to be. I know people who justify their cheating or their sexual promiscuity and all it does is rob them of their own beauty. The wonder why they have psychological problems and for some even health problems due to sleeping around and they just don't get it.

I can't stand shaking most people's hands these days, some people are just so dirty, yet so many people in this world have no issues having sex on the second or third date. I have a friend who has become terribly sick with a viral super bug and she got it right after her second date with a guy that she gave a BJ to. He later dumped her for his ex-wife. She is a wreck, both health-wise and mentally, as she now fears she caught something from sucking this guy's dick. I honestly don't know how people can deal with that type of stuff. It must suck (no pun intended, lol).