just to be clear...there were no "stipulations"....i was married to an ABUSER...psychological, emotional, and at times physical. there is nothing wrong with valid constructive criticism. the only nice things this asshole said to me were manipulative or sexual "i like the way your tits look in that shirt." or whatever. this man offered no loving caring compassionate ear...he thought marriage was a ticket to sex anytime anywhere with no effort at even treating me like a human being. apparently subtle statements as i made before ring hollow on manboy whore ears. not surprising. you too would probably make great friends bc the only reason any woman wld be with him now is bc of money (i made more than him when we married)....but that might even wear thin, so he's prolly stuck with porn. he is a psycho/sociopath...no doubt.

he did not deserve to fuck me. period.

any man or woman who is abusive does not deserve "love making" or fucking.