In my opinion, life is no just to suffering, is also to enjoy of the happiness, both are part of the learning and evolution.
Of course i know i arguing with milenar wisdom, and this seems absurdly pretentious, but accept as true just because is tradition, without any filter or analysis, don't looks right to me.

If anyone here could see your own life from out side of the physical dimension, and to return would have to face an ocean of suffering, just to pass another day more with their beloved ones, i bet with total sure he would.
Total detachment is just for the assets, and to me seems like try take a shortcut to the unreachable enlightment.