my wife hates my parents

Why does she hate your parents?

Schmuch

find out the problem & fix it

If it cant be fixed then accept it

are you sure it's your parents she hates and not the fact that she knows you put your relationship with them first before your marriage?

Does she have a point or is she just a crazy biotch?

Do they like her?

... and I hate my wife's parents. SO WHAT?


You little pussy... deal with it.

In my case, they knew that a group was going to come to my home and try to kill me... and they did not tell me. The woman was in the same subdivision, and could have walked over to our house and told us... but she just left when her husband called her on her cell phone and said it was going down that night... they had known for almost a week.

This bitch, had a daughter (my wife) and two grand-kids in the house... but she was only concerned about herself, as was her piece of shit busband, so they kept quiet.

It was not until two days after the failed attempt, and after talking to the pastor of their church, that all three of them came over to our house and told us what they knew.

Which helped of course, because I had no idea before that who it was... but it sure would have helped to know beforehand.

So, your wife hates your parents.... and I hate my wifes parents...

If I can deal with it, YOU can deal with it.

Yes, divorce your wife and marry your mom. It's what you really want.

You need to choose one or the other or you are going to be miserable the rest of your life.

I hated my in-laws......because they treated me like crap. My husband never stuck up for me and never stood up to them. We are now divorced and the best part of it is I never have to have another holiday with those hateful, nasty people.

If you love your wife, find a way to help her make peace with them. If they treat her badly it's up to you to make them stop and put boundaries in place that they must respect.

Sorry, but I think if he loves his wife and enjoys being with her, then he should choose her.

There comes a time where people need to grow up and stop feeling like they have to please mommy and daddy all the time.

My ex took years to let go of talking to his mom every single day. I loved his mom, but I didn't like how dependant he was for her approval when he was in his twenties. It was nice when he finally let go of that need.

Lol

I hate you, your parents, and your wife. Your wife's parents are cool though.

That was me and I chose my wife and we have been happy ever since. I could not imagine their controlling ways in our life with our 3 kids.

You sound very resentful and frankly miserable still. I'm guessing you have borderline personality disorder and followed the standard American feminist tack, deciding to ditch your marriage as soon as it became inconvenient, even though it is a life long contract before God.

My wife was very much like you. She hates my family irrationally actually and always felt very insecure around them. She too blamed me for "not sticking up for her". Turned out her real problem was borderline personality disorder, and she could not tolerate any competition for my time, nor could she stand any challenges to what she felt was right.

Well to her credit she stuck it out and now she's doing great and is able to deal with life's emotional challenges a little better. She remained committed to the marriage contract, as did I and we are both the better for it.

For her any random criticism was an attack that was intolerable. What would be normal verbal give and play in a conversation, was viewed by her as a total war scenario. At some point she would chew out my mother for long periods of time for various perceived faults and so forth. It is the typical sort of catastrophizing that borderlines like to do.

I suspect you know the pattern. There is no middle ground in the way you perceive life and in particular of how you think others perceive you. I recommend getting help while you still can.

By the way when you have two loved one's fighting with each other, over minor annoyances what do you consider "defending"? Is a defense to you a total attack that burns all relationship bridges with one of the party's? Or is more prudent to try to be a peacemaker and bridge the differences?

Typical american. family is always first dumb cunt people like you make me sick . What has happened to the american culture putting your family in care homes etc. no respect.

Like your going to be married still in 2 years anyway.