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What happens when your spouse drinks too much

 
Uncle Tardo!

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This is not a good situation at all.. you need to be very careful
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It's been a fuel for our advancement tho..

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Sounds like he's allergic to the booze and will be breaking out in handcuffs before you know it.

That said, you sound like a real ball-breaking piece of work.

Give him his dick back and send him packing for the good of you both.
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03/26/2013 04:46 PM
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Stockholm syndrome
T-Man

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Do you think I am wrong to say that? That a man should contribute to the household. I compared it to a company that has share holders. I told him right now I am the president, because I hold most of the stock. My boys hold the other shares, because of their late father (SSI), and my husband holds no shares, he does not contribute to the board
 Quoting: skyblau


yea i dont know if youre trolling now cuz that shouldnt even be a question. its a given...

i mean he wouldnt have to contribute financially if he was a good dude helping out in other ways. he just sounds like a straight up loser, with self pitty and agression and obviously a drinking problem and loads of built up anger.

dude needs to get a reality check and sleep on the street for all i care.
you suck if you dont stand up for yourself (why are you even with this dude anymore?! there most be so many better dudes out there, but yea thats the most basic problem men see. women always chose to do anything for complete morons while the cheat and get bored with a good man)

also you just make it worse by addint to it. even without getting beer. your just calming whats happening. you arnt doing anything about it. you condone it. one could even say you bring this to yourself.
wich is something i never get

and yea, i do like a woman thats rather in a 3 year relationship and living together with a complete dickhead that cant do anything really, then to just leave him and try to find better (or be better off alone) cuz shes under his will like a little puppy and she doesnt want for anything to change really. i mean why would she. after 3 years shes pretty much used to him and his will
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Sounds like he's allergic to the booze and will be breaking out in handcuffs before you know it.

That said, you sound like a real ball-breaking piece of work.

Give him his dick back and send him packing for the good of you both.
 Quoting: BxMac


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My husband got really drunk and pissed off last night. Today he is begging me to buy him some beer. I said NO. I did the emotioncons to visually show him why I don't want him to drink. He stormed out and went fishing.
 Quoting: skyblau


Wait? Wut?
Husband has to ask you for beer money?....or money for anything?

wtfdoc
 Quoting: Useless Cookie Eater


Yes, he refuses to work, I pay all the bills.
 Quoting: skyblau


I lived this life. I understand where you are coming from. I kept making excuses for him. He didn't work, bounced my mortgage payments, etc. He was 6'5" and 300lbs. Big guy with a short fuse.

One day he turned his anger on my kids. That was the last day he stayed in my house. That was almost 7 years ago. I have been single ever since and relish every moment of it.

I wish you strength and if you need someone to talk to, pm me.
 Quoting: NothingFancy


yea my mom did the same. why do you always wait till something happens to your kids. just leave damnit.
before he turns to the kids. cuz obviously for the kids that is to late. should have left before that happened.
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Wait? Wut?
Husband has to ask you for beer money?....or money for anything?

wtfdoc
 Quoting: Useless Cookie Eater


Yes, he refuses to work, I pay all the bills.
 Quoting: skyblau


I lived this life. I understand where you are coming from. I kept making excuses for him. He didn't work, bounced my mortgage payments, etc. He was 6'5" and 300lbs. Big guy with a short fuse.

One day he turned his anger on my kids. That was the last day he stayed in my house. That was almost 7 years ago. I have been single ever since and relish every moment of it.

I wish you strength and if you need someone to talk to, pm me.
 Quoting: NothingFancy


yea my mom did the same. why do you always wait till something happens to your kids. just leave damnit.
before he turns to the kids. cuz obviously for the kids that is to late. should have left before that happened.
 Quoting: T-Man


Because I was young and stupid.
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Stockholm syndrome
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yup

its a master/slave thing really.
has to do with lack of selfrespect (wich they lose piece by piece, just like teaching a puppy not to poo in the hallway or to do tricks when tolt so. the dogs learn the guidelines and the punishments/treets they get for listening to their boss. difference is humans should be able to realise that they are both humans and have a right to be happy without a boss/owner)
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03/26/2013 04:53 PM

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Because I was young and stupid.
 Quoting: NothingFancy


im sorry. did mean to sound rude. i just hate it. its like, it has to happen to the kids because they actually mean alot to their mother. but they dont care evenly much about themselfs. thats what sucks :(

plus after that they usually go into the opposite direction where they dont want to let anyone near anymore out of fear this would happen again or they would get hurt if the person would find them weak, i guess. i mean you just dont want to even have a chance to get hurt anymore. wich is the other extreme.
but no, years later. i see my moms over it. took way to long tho. shes happily re-married now with an awesome dude. and they are really happy.
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03/26/2013 04:56 PM
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Get drunk together and play rockband!
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Because I was young and stupid.
 Quoting: NothingFancy


im sorry. did mean to sound rude. i just hate it. its like, it has to happen to the kids because they actually mean alot to their mother. but they dont care evenly much about themselfs. thats what sucks :(

plus after that they usually go into the opposite direction where they dont want to let anyone near anymore out of fear this would happen again or they would get hurt if the person would find them weak, i guess. i mean you just dont want to even have a chance to get hurt anymore. wich is the other extreme.
but no, years later. i see my moms over it. took way to long tho. shes happily re-married now with an awesome dude. and they are really happy.
 Quoting: T-Man


Unfortunately this is not uncommon or new to the human condition....
"It can't happen"

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No sleep till mars!

The greening of mars.. it can be done!

Pray for extraterrestrial intervention...

We won't make it off world with our political, ideological and religious differences.

It's been a fuel for our advancement tho..

It must be done!

Been jumping time streams since I don't know when..
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Because I was young and stupid.
 Quoting: NothingFancy


im sorry. did mean to sound rude. i just hate it. its like, it has to happen to the kids because they actually mean alot to their mother. but they dont care evenly much about themselfs. thats what sucks :(

plus after that they usually go into the opposite direction where they dont want to let anyone near anymore out of fear this would happen again or they would get hurt if the person would find them weak, i guess. i mean you just dont want to even have a chance to get hurt anymore. wich is the other extreme.
but no, years later. i see my moms over it. took way to long tho. shes happily re-married now with an awesome dude. and they are really happy.
 Quoting: T-Man


Oh no....I did not take your reply as being rude. Believe me, after all this time I beat myself up over some decisions I have made. I was just echoing my own demons.

Maybe one day I will try the relationship thing, the jury is still out on that. I am glad your mom is happy, it sounds like a good ending.

hf
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Last time my wife drank she showed up here trying to kick my door in at 6:00am, she threatened me with various things, till I let her in and when I called my mother so she would come over to be a witness so I wouldnt get charged with domestic violence she grabbed my cell phone (mil-spec) and smashed it on a metal shelf till it quit working.

Fun stuff!

Then she goes on a tangent about "why won't you drink with me!".

Obviously she doesn't have a concept about how much self control I needed not to... well it wouldn't have been pretty.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 36295539


Mil-Spec cell phones? I know the military buys Apples and Galaxies but Mil-Spec cell phones? I never heard of such a creature.
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Casio makes Mil-Spec. They have them at verizonwireless.com
Uncle Tardo!

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03/26/2013 05:05 PM

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If you have to do the order of protection thing..there is no going back ....Understand?

Don't get hooked into the post order of protection honeymoon

Make your move and just go for it!
"It can't happen"

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No sleep till mars!

The greening of mars.. it can be done!

Pray for extraterrestrial intervention...

We won't make it off world with our political, ideological and religious differences.

It's been a fuel for our advancement tho..

It must be done!

Been jumping time streams since I don't know when..
Useless Cookie Eater

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03/26/2013 05:09 PM

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My husband got really drunk and pissed off last night. Today he is begging me to buy him some beer. I said NO. I did the emotioncons to visually show him why I don't want him to drink. He stormed out and went fishing.
 Quoting: skyblau


Wait? Wut?
Husband has to ask you for beer money?....or money for anything?

wtfdoc
 Quoting: Useless Cookie Eater


Yes, he refuses to work, I pay all the bills.
 Quoting: skyblau


No offense....but how do you tolerate a guy like that?
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Because I was young and stupid.
 Quoting: NothingFancy


im sorry. did mean to sound rude. i just hate it. its like, it has to happen to the kids because they actually mean alot to their mother. but they dont care evenly much about themselfs. thats what sucks :(

plus after that they usually go into the opposite direction where they dont want to let anyone near anymore out of fear this would happen again or they would get hurt if the person would find them weak, i guess. i mean you just dont want to even have a chance to get hurt anymore. wich is the other extreme.
but no, years later. i see my moms over it. took way to long tho. shes happily re-married now with an awesome dude. and they are really happy.
 Quoting: T-Man


Oh no....I did not take your reply as being rude. Believe me, after all this time I beat myself up over some decisions I have made. I was just echoing my own demons.

Maybe one day I will try the relationship thing, the jury is still out on that. I am glad your mom is happy, it sounds like a good ending.

hf
 Quoting: NothingFancy


yea and im pretty confident its there for you aswell.
youll see eventually

your going through the same stages no i guess as you did than. you had the jing, youre now in the jang. and one day ull be centered and balanced i guess
T-Man

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03/26/2013 05:12 PM

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I hope OP just gets that noone here thinks or her wrong. we just all think she deserves better.
Uncle Tardo!

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03/26/2013 05:13 PM

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I hope OP just gets that noone here thinks or her wrong. we just all think she deserves better.
 Quoting: T-Man


i co sign that^
"It can't happen"

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No sleep till mars!

The greening of mars.. it can be done!

Pray for extraterrestrial intervention...

We won't make it off world with our political, ideological and religious differences.

It's been a fuel for our advancement tho..

It must be done!

Been jumping time streams since I don't know when..
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03/26/2013 05:15 PM
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I hope OP just gets that noone here thinks or her wrong. we just all think she deserves better.
 Quoting: T-Man


i co sign that^
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Agreed. Still think she needs to get rid of that rat infesting her home.
T-Man

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03/26/2013 05:20 PM

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I hope OP just gets that noone here thinks or her wrong. we just all think she deserves better.
 Quoting: T-Man


i co sign that^
 Quoting: Uncle Tardo!


Agreed. Still think she needs to get rid of that rat infesting her home.
 Quoting: Sonic Doom


obviously.
also dont think kids wont notice whats going on. were not morons. also if youre a women in this situation and you have daughter.. you know what shes learning and how her love life will look like later on...

and it probably wont happen anyway. i know and understand this. but it would be best to get rid of him.
i would say have him clean his act. but we all know thats just a game to add a couple of more years to it...
Uncle Tardo!

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03/26/2013 05:22 PM

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I hope OP just gets that noone here thinks or her wrong. we just all think she deserves better.
 Quoting: T-Man


i co sign that^
 Quoting: Uncle Tardo!


Agreed. Still think she needs to get rid of that rat infesting her home.
 Quoting: Sonic Doom


very dangerous
"It can't happen"

[link to htwins.net]

No sleep till mars!

The greening of mars.. it can be done!

Pray for extraterrestrial intervention...

We won't make it off world with our political, ideological and religious differences.

It's been a fuel for our advancement tho..

It must be done!

Been jumping time streams since I don't know when..
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Here's an idea for you, seriously. It's next to fucking impossible to find a self respecting job these days when one is a middle aged man. Trust me when I say he doesn't like his circumstance either!
What you shouldn't do is denigrate him because of this if he is trying to find a job. You should reward him for trying and give him his time to blow off his frustrations.
Buy him beer and inform him that you want him to drink and unwind to forget his professional frustrations for awhile, but he needs to pound the resumes out the next day.
Be a partner and not a master to him. Men are their own masters and don't need a woman playing that role. The more you turn the thumbscrews, the worse the situation will get.
Understand that, be supportive, know he isn't happy with the situation and demand that he lays the wood to you for you to concede his masculinity to him.
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My husband got really drunk and pissed off last night. Today he is begging me to buy him some beer. I said NO. I did the emotioncons to visually show him why I don't want him to drink. He stormed out and went fishing.
 Quoting: skyblau


Wait? Wut?
Husband has to ask you for beer money?....or money for anything?

:wtfdoc:
 Quoting: Useless Cookie Eater


Money for nothing and your chicks for free. Cheaper buy, Bye the dozen.

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03/26/2013 05:26 PM
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Leave him. There are still men in this Country.
Uncle Tardo!

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03/26/2013 05:27 PM

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Here's an idea for you, seriously. It's next to fucking impossible to find a self respecting job these days when one is a middle aged man. Trust me when I say he doesn't like his circumstance either!
What you shouldn't do is denigrate him because of this if he is trying to find a job. You should reward him for trying and give him his time to blow off his frustrations.
Buy him beer and inform him that you want him to drink and unwind to forget his professional frustrations for awhile, but he needs to pound the resumes out the next day.
Be a partner and not a master to him. Men are their own masters and don't need a woman playing that role. The more you turn the thumbscrews, the worse the situation will get.
Understand that, be supportive, know he isn't happy with the situation and demand that he lays the wood to you for you to concede his masculinity to him.
 Quoting: John Donson 36506908



yes should be taken into consideration
"It can't happen"

[link to htwins.net]

No sleep till mars!

The greening of mars.. it can be done!

Pray for extraterrestrial intervention...

We won't make it off world with our political, ideological and religious differences.

It's been a fuel for our advancement tho..

It must be done!

Been jumping time streams since I don't know when..
Uncle Tardo!

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03/26/2013 05:30 PM

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Leave him. There are still men in this Country.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 19004483


K sugar tits..

Yeah. if you are top shelf
"It can't happen"

[link to htwins.net]

No sleep till mars!

The greening of mars.. it can be done!

Pray for extraterrestrial intervention...

We won't make it off world with our political, ideological and religious differences.

It's been a fuel for our advancement tho..

It must be done!

Been jumping time streams since I don't know when..
T-Man

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03/26/2013 05:31 PM

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Here's an idea for you, seriously. It's next to fucking impossible to find a self respecting job these days when one is a middle aged man. Trust me when I say he doesn't like his circumstance either!
What you shouldn't do is denigrate him because of this if he is trying to find a job. You should reward him for trying and give him his time to blow off his frustrations.
Buy him beer and inform him that you want him to drink and unwind to forget his professional frustrations for awhile, but he needs to pound the resumes out the next day.
Be a partner and not a master to him. Men are their own masters and don't need a woman playing that role. The more you turn the thumbscrews, the worse the situation will get.
Understand that, be supportive, know he isn't happy with the situation and demand that he lays the wood to you for you to concede his masculinity to him.
 Quoting: John Donson 36506908



yes should be taken into consideration
 Quoting: Uncle Tardo!


whoa, im pretty sure that was female imput :)
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03/26/2013 05:32 PM

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Yes, he refuses to work, I pay all the bills.
 Quoting: skyblau


Like, straight up will not get a job so he can drink and fish all day?
poyl
Uncle Tardo!

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03/26/2013 05:34 PM

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Here's an idea for you, seriously. It's next to fucking impossible to find a self respecting job these days when one is a middle aged man. Trust me when I say he doesn't like his circumstance either!
What you shouldn't do is denigrate him because of this if he is trying to find a job. You should reward him for trying and give him his time to blow off his frustrations.
Buy him beer and inform him that you want him to drink and unwind to forget his professional frustrations for awhile, but he needs to pound the resumes out the next day.
Be a partner and not a master to him. Men are their own masters and don't need a woman playing that role. The more you turn the thumbscrews, the worse the situation will get.
Understand that, be supportive, know he isn't happy with the situation and demand that he lays the wood to you for you to concede his masculinity to him.
 Quoting: John Donson 36506908



yes should be taken into consideration
 Quoting: Uncle Tardo!


whoa, im pretty sure that was female imput :)
 Quoting: T-Man


Very likely...

Stand by your man
"It can't happen"

[link to htwins.net]

No sleep till mars!

The greening of mars.. it can be done!

Pray for extraterrestrial intervention...

We won't make it off world with our political, ideological and religious differences.

It's been a fuel for our advancement tho..

It must be done!

Been jumping time streams since I don't know when..
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03/26/2013 05:35 PM
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Yes, he refuses to work, I pay all the bills.
 Quoting: skyblau


Like, straight up will not get a job so he can drink and fish all day?
 Quoting: pinkshirtguy


Killer avatar man. :kneehi: