My husband is up to his old tricks again. He is staying with my friend, so he keeps me updated on my husbands "progress", which is nil. He did get a job, but he met a "friend" who is into all sorts of bad habits, and my friend is deeply concerned about what he got himself into. I told him if he goes back to his old habits, he needs to throw him out. I promised him I would not under any circumstances take him back in. This time I am finally done. He may end up on the street, but he has every chance and opportunity to get it together, but he refuses to. Why do some people seem stuck in making bad choices? I can't comprehend it at all why he would go back to his old habits, when my friend is putting in every effort to help him get on his feet, and get his life together. I have learned from this though, he doesn't want to change, and the bridge is burned for good.
If he gets on here and reads this, I hope he does. All I have to say is, "I will never let you come back, because you never learn. I am disappointed, that you don't accept my friends help to get on your feet. If you get thrown out, because of your new friend that is definitely a bad influence on you, you burn your own bridges. I am not stupid enough to fall for your begging that you have no where to go, and the next time you bribe my kids to convince me to let you come back, I doubt I will ever let you visit with my boys again. Why should I? What kind of role model are you? What kind of father figure are you for them? They deserve better, and so do I. I refuse to waste another year of unhappiness hoping you will change."
So maybe he will read it. You never know.