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Anonymous Coward User ID: 35737972 United States 03/31/2013 11:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) i see all these folks talking about abuse, THen they complain in the next thread about black culture and disrespect they have for people. Can it. You haven't raised a kid in the hood before. Little Timmy might need a good yelling but some children grow up hard and need an ass WHOOPING with a belt. I suggest you stop judging people in 20 second video clips. |
MuslimAmerican User ID: 26542172 United States 03/31/2013 11:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) That depends on what the question is in reference to, if you're talking about within a Muslim caliphate or from the actual Shariah standpoint a short answer is yes but it's rare and very complicated and must include a confession 3 times in a row by the accused or in the case of witnesses their testimony will be heard and based on who they are(with relation to the accused or accusers) weighed. The most common punishment for adultery, if it is actually carried out by the state is lashings that should not bruise nor cut the skin of the accused or disabled them or another words they cannot "beat" you down. Most of the death penalties handed down for adultery are for repeat offenders and are usually reversed on appeal in the end. Vast majority of people killed because of adultery are killed by their families or spouse's family, honor killings are cultural among Muslims, Sikh, Jews, Hindus and Christians in parts of Asia, Africa and whats referred to as the Middle East. Honor killings are illegal in all of the countries they occur within, but like everywhere the law makes no difference to criminals. Most countries if you're caught for an honor killing especially Pakistan you will get the death penalty yourself. Though places like Pakistan, Saudi Arabia and similar countries that claim to practice Shariah are hardly reputable examples of true Islamic Shariah in practice. Feed the hungry, visit the sick, free a captive if he be unjustly confined(kidnapped/enslaved by someone). Assist any person oppressed, whether they're of the Muslim or non-Muslim. - Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 26865673 United States 03/31/2013 11:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) Anger does not justify abuse. He should have found another way...there are a million other healthy options. He was just embarrassed....pure ego b.s. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 36928750 This. Violent abusers are motivated by their own intolerably painful shame. Probably they did nothing to deserve being sevetely shamed ad children. Just born into families of injured people. Agreed. & way to be a positive male role model in these young girls lives, who are blasted with sexual imagery on a daily basis. Imagery that permeates the subconscious leaving most women vulnerable to the desires of perverse, demonizing acts in order for social acceptance. Yes, I'm sure beating their asses with a cord while calling them a "motherfucker" will show them how you're just angry out of love. Not pride, not spite, but love. I got the belt plenty when I was young. I was, however, never called a motherfucker or anyone vile name. I was sat down, talked to, and had the spanking explained to me. I then knew to never do it again. "Twerking" is a part of hiphop, rap culture...which is mostly enjoyed by black people. & judging by the way this man chooses to punish his children, his inflection in which he speaks, and the jargon he uses, it is safe to say that he too is most likely submerged himself into this culture. The result being, his daughters actions are most likely a symptoms of a culture he embraces. Making him none other than an ignorant, temperamental hypocrite. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33753048 United States 03/31/2013 11:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) Anger does not justify abuse. He should have found another way...there are a million other healthy options. He was just embarrassed....pure ego b.s. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 36928750 This. Violent abusers are motivated by their own intolerably painful shame. Probably they did nothing to deserve being sevetely shamed ad children. Just born into families of injured people. Agreed. & way to be a positive male role model in these young girls lives, who are blasted with sexual imagery on a daily basis. Imagery that permeates the subconscious leaving most women vulnerable to the desires of perverse, demonizing acts in order for social acceptance. Yes, I'm sure beating their asses with a cord while calling them a "motherfucker" will show them how you're just angry out of love. Not pride, not spite, but love. I got the belt plenty when I was young. I was, however, never called a motherfucker or anyone vile name. I was sat down, talked to, and had the spanking explained to me. I then knew to never do it again. "Twerking" is a part of hiphop, rap culture...which is mostly enjoyed by black people. & judging by the way this man chooses to punish his children, his inflection in which he speaks, and the jargon he uses, it is safe to say that he too is most likely submerged himself into this culture. The result being, his daughters actions are most likely a symptoms of a culture he embraces. Making him none other than an ignorant, temperamental hypocrite. You assume quite a bit...maybe he is a "dad" who gives a damn about the well-being of his daughters. |
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HypnoSlaveDoll User ID: 37012290 United States 03/31/2013 11:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) Agreed...Ahhh the memories. My ass was beaten too, belt, switch, car antennae... But after the lesson was learned, the next time I thought about doing such inappropriate behavior...I remembered the consequences, and didnt. Taught me that our actions DO have consequences. ^^^^ This! My mom used to wield a mean hickory switch. You can damn sure bet it got my attention, and made me think about why I got switched and was an absolute deterrent against doing whatever I did in the future. In fact, I think I got off easy- I deserved every whipping I got, and there were plenty of times when I would have received a whipping if my mom knew what I'd been up to... I can only remember getting a couple from my dad, he was more of a "shamer" and to be honest, there were times I would have preferred a whipping over being made to contemplate what I had done. Granted, the guy in the video does go overboard, but I think we need more parenting along these lines- I'd bet $100 these girls won't post any more twerking videos, and I bet they don't take part in any "flash mob" nonsense either... Just my 2 cents. |
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amachiavellian User ID: 20940257 Canada 03/31/2013 12:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) Sorry if this has already been asked but ... Who filmed and posted this video? And why the fuck does the second girl get up and walk to the same spot to be beaten as the first? I'd be running away while he was beating the first kid. That said; this 'twerking thing is utterly disgusting behavior. If those were my daughters I'd be furious and they would be punished. An all out whipping though? Um. No. That is not acceptable. — read for knowledge, not answers. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 4447714 United States 03/31/2013 12:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) Sorry but that type of punishment never accomplished anything except rebellion. I myself try to talk and explain to my kids what they did wrong and the consequences of there actions. Pretty much teach them right from wrong in the first place to avoid them going out and do whatever "Twerking" is. Quoting: Donthaveone 12465121 That class of individuals are destroying our society. It is all about making the almighty dollar to them and to fuck with Morals. Fuckin' libtsrds are the reason America is going to shit. "Spare the rod, spoil the child" You'll be talking to your kids over a telephone while looking at them through a bullet-proof glass window later on in life, bet on it. Beating childen only teaches them violence; if your goal is to turn them into serial killers or sadists this is the route to take. beating is bad Spanking is good Wish I could see videos on my phone so I don't know what's on this one If It's an islamist killing another one if their children then Im glad I can't see it |
Nancy (Lazaryan) Hutchison User ID: 32983814 United States 03/31/2013 12:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) That was CRIMINAL ASSAULT. Children are people with RIGHTS. Yes, parents need to discipline, but there is a difference between discipline and assault. Not to sound like I'm a "know it all", but I did spank my children. After they got repeated warnings. Then he/she would have to go choose the wooden spoon they where going to be spanked with. One whack on the butt, then a very long talk about how they could change their actions. My grown daughter told me awhile ago, "It wasn't the spanking that was bad, it was that TALK." The decision to have children means you take the responsibility to raise and teach them. Disciplining a child requires that YOU are disciplined and make the commit of time, thought and YOUR actions so that the child can learn from the situation. Grounding a child to their room is hell. It means YOU are grounded, because you have to be there to make sure the kid stays in their room. But, it gives everyone a "time out" to consider what just happened. The man in this video was not acting as a parent. He was punishing his CHATEL. In the past, legally, women and children were CHATEL of the man: his property to do with as he pleased. We are faced now with a "new society" of temptations, advertising and social manipulation of our children...and adults. Solutions within the family structure need to be restored. IMO those solutions come from people RESPECTING each other and COMMUNICATING what is happening around us...and what our reactions will be...as a FAMILY. As a child, I was beaten (repeatedly) in the same manner these children were beaten. It is a horrible and terrifying experience to be physically beaten by the person who is supposed to love and protect you. Takes a long time to heal those scars. I've made my share of my own mistakes, however, I decided my children would never be beaten. And they were never beaten. My guess is the man in this video was also brutally beaten as a child. However, he did not make that decision to break the pattern of abuse in his own family. Today there are lots of adults locked into the emotional scars from being physically abused as children. They are unable to relate to others, are triggered by certain words and actions. And then we have an entire society that is abusive. Watch for those triggers, people. "Something" is pushing us all to violence in our human society. We need to step back and evaluate. Are we going to be triggered into responding with violence (just as this man was)? Or are we going to step back and evaluate. Find a different course of response to those that want to digress humans into violence? Think about your emotional response in viewing this video. Did you want to beat the crap out of the man that was hitting the children? Did you want to get right in there and hit the kids for their "bad behavior"? Why? Why did you react this way? And what can you personally do to help this family? Now you know why my kids "dreaded the talk after the spoon". Peace. Be well. |
eatinmraw User ID: 13951732 United States 03/31/2013 12:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) i read many of the comments before watchin the video just to see. i figured those yelling about abuse were just the usual whiners on here that sound like they live or want to live in hippie communes. so after finally watchin the video i'd have to say the punishment was not proper. there's no good lesson to be learned by the girls when they're chased by what looks like an out of control adult whipping around what looks like an electrical cord or rope. i only watched it once and i believe the second girl was gettin hit in the face a few times. that whipping instrument will leave scars on faces and other areas of the body that could mentally scare the girls for life. how do they go about life and explain why they have scars on their faces or other exposed parts of their bodies? many muslim men as well as other male dominated cultures love that kind of shit and we've probably all seen pictures and videos of horribly scarred girls in them. they do it for family dignity and shame without any care of whether the punished have any respect towards them or learn a lesson from it. i know it's not exactly the same punishment here, but now these girls may have lost complete respect for the adult. i don't know for sure, but i'm feelin like maybe he was punishing them more for him than to really teach the girls a lesson. any thought of those girls went out the door when he rapped the cord or rope around his hand and then flew into an uncontrolled rage and went for the face. with him bein so cold and totally out of control during the beating, the girls really only learned about pain delivered by an out of control person they love/d, resentment and fear. respect through fear is just not the same respect learned through a more controlled punishment. i'm not sayin they should not have received some form of corporal punishment, but how this adult went about it just ruined much of whatever good relationship he had with the girls. i wish we had a way to keep track of these girls over the next 5-10 years and see how they fare. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 36724606 New Zealand 03/31/2013 12:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) Oh for chrissakes you fucking libtards this is not child abuse, it's called 'corporal punishment'. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1721958 If he beat them all the time just for the hell of it, then it would be child abuse. My hats off to this gentleman, he should win' father of the year'. Betch'ya those ho's don't go postin' no mo twerk videos. i hope you NEVER have children. |
eatinmraw User ID: 13951732 United States 03/31/2013 12:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) i see all these folks talking about abuse, THen they complain in the next thread about black culture and disrespect they have for people. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35737972 Can it. You haven't raised a kid in the hood before. Little Timmy might need a good yelling but some children grow up hard and need an ass WHOOPING with a belt. I suggest you stop judging people in 20 second video clips. he will be judged by the court AND possibly a jury made up of people like many here on GLPee. So yes...we can judge on a 20 second video without knowin whether or not he was a great father in every other aspect of his life. Although...i get the feelin he's NOT that great anyway. |
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eatinmraw User ID: 13951732 United States 03/31/2013 12:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) Anger does not justify abuse. He should have found another way...there are a million other healthy options. He was just embarrassed....pure ego b.s. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 36928750 This. Violent abusers are motivated by their own intolerably painful shame. Probably they did nothing to deserve being sevetely shamed ad children. Just born into families of injured people. Agreed. & way to be a positive male role model in these young girls lives, who are blasted with sexual imagery on a daily basis. Imagery that permeates the subconscious leaving most women vulnerable to the desires of perverse, demonizing acts in order for social acceptance. Yes, I'm sure beating their asses with a cord while calling them a "motherfucker" will show them how you're just angry out of love. Not pride, not spite, but love. I got the belt plenty when I was young. I was, however, never called a motherfucker or anyone vile name. I was sat down, talked to, and had the spanking explained to me. I then knew to never do it again. "Twerking" is a part of hiphop, rap culture...which is mostly enjoyed by black people. & judging by the way this man chooses to punish his children, his inflection in which he speaks, and the jargon he uses, it is safe to say that he too is most likely submerged himself into this culture. The result being, his daughters actions are most likely a symptoms of a culture he embraces. Making him none other than an ignorant, temperamental hypocrite. You assume quite a bit...maybe he is a "dad" who gives a damn about the well-being of his daughters. the name callin and whippin in the face shows no care for their well being. lets see when his name comes out and we see what kind of criminal record he may have. with the type of totally out of control behavior he displayed, i'd put my money on him bein more like that in his life than a bill cosby like father. to bad he could not have found somewhere in between so as to teach the girls a lesson and save face for him too. that type of beatin looks like it's more about his feelings and honor. |
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eatinmraw User ID: 13951732 United States 03/31/2013 12:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) Agreed...Ahhh the memories. My ass was beaten too, belt, switch, car antennae... But after the lesson was learned, the next time I thought about doing such inappropriate behavior...I remembered the consequences, and didnt. Taught me that our actions DO have consequences. ^^^^ This! My mom used to wield a mean hickory switch. You can damn sure bet it got my attention, and made me think about why I got switched and was an absolute deterrent against doing whatever I did in the future. In fact, I think I got off easy- I deserved every whipping I got, and there were plenty of times when I would have received a whipping if my mom knew what I'd been up to... I can only remember getting a couple from my dad, he was more of a "shamer" and to be honest, there were times I would have preferred a whipping over being made to contemplate what I had done. Granted, the guy in the video does go overboard, but I think we need more parenting along these lines- I'd bet $100 these girls won't post any more twerking videos, and I bet they don't take part in any "flash mob" nonsense either... Just my 2 cents. so then the whippings never really taught you important right and wrong lessons. as you stated, you continued bad behavior even though you knew you would have gotten the switch if she found out what you were still doing. if we had a way to really keep track of these girls, i'd take you up on that $100 bet. |