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Message Subject Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive)
Poster Handle Anonymous Coward
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That was CRIMINAL ASSAULT.
Children are people with RIGHTS.
Yes, parents need to discipline, but there is a difference between discipline and assault.
Not to sound like I'm a "know it all", but I did spank my children. After they got repeated warnings. Then he/she would have to go choose the wooden spoon they where going to be spanked with. One whack on the butt, then a very long talk about how they could change their actions.

My grown daughter told me awhile ago, "It wasn't the spanking that was bad, it was that TALK."

The decision to have children means you take the responsibility to raise and teach them. Disciplining a child requires that YOU are disciplined and make the commit of time, thought and YOUR actions so that the child can learn from the situation.

Grounding a child to their room is hell. It means YOU are grounded, because you have to be there to make sure the kid stays in their room. But, it gives everyone a "time out" to consider what just happened.

The man in this video was not acting as a parent.
He was punishing his CHATEL.
In the past, legally, women and children were CHATEL of the man: his property to do with as he pleased.

We are faced now with a "new society" of temptations, advertising and social manipulation of our children...and adults.

Solutions within the family structure need to be restored. IMO those solutions come from people RESPECTING each other and COMMUNICATING what is happening around us...and what our reactions will be...as a FAMILY.

As a child, I was beaten (repeatedly) in the same manner these children were beaten. It is a horrible and terrifying experience to be physically beaten by the person who is supposed to love and protect you. Takes a long time to heal those scars.

I've made my share of my own mistakes, however, I decided my children would never be beaten. And they were never beaten.

My guess is the man in this video was also brutally beaten as a child. However, he did not make that decision to break the pattern of abuse in his own family.

Today there are lots of adults locked into the emotional scars from being physically abused as children. They are unable to relate to others, are triggered by certain words and actions. And then we have an entire society that is abusive.

Watch for those triggers, people. "Something" is pushing us all to violence in our human society. We need to step back and evaluate.

Are we going to be triggered into responding with violence (just as this man was)? Or are we going to step back and evaluate. Find a different course of response to those that want to digress humans into violence?

Think about your emotional response in viewing this video.
Did you want to beat the crap out of the man that was hitting the children?
Did you want to get right in there and hit the kids for their "bad behavior"?

Why? Why did you react this way?
And what can you personally do to help this family?

Now you know why my kids "dreaded the talk after the spoon".

Peace. Be well.
 Quoting: Nancy (Lazaryan) Hutchison


SHut your hole u go discipline your kid with time outs.
This father will determine his kids punishment!

WHo the hell are you to decide anything for that family? You don't walk in his shoes you don't put food on the table and they Ain't your kids.

I for one think you are a bad parent because you don't discipline your kids and you need to have them taken away.

HOW dare you ever interfere in another man's family.

GO take a vaccine u we definitely don't want your children breeding.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35737972


As I was pointing out--
WHAT is your REACTION to this video?

Why do you believe that assaulting a child is okay?
Why do you believe that brutally whipping a child is "proper discipline"?

You state, "This father will determine his kids punishment." You believe that the children are CHATEL, his property, and have no rights. Do you also believe that the wife is the property of the man, and if she "get out of line" that she should be beaten?

Where did you learn these things?

Did I say NOT to discipline? I said that discipline is necessary.
There is a difference between discipline and brutal assault.

I've been there, done that.
Taken kids out of gangs. Fed and clothed them, when I had no money.
Gave them a safe place to be. Talked with their parents, who became my friends. Accepted the children and parents both as human beings and helped, listened and showed a different way to communicate. We worked towards solutions that were not violent.

There is a force greater than violence.
as long as you choose violence, you will never learn that force
 Quoting: Nancy (Lazaryan) Hutchison

I believe that children should be the property of parents until majority. It's not that way legally in our country, but it should be. I didn't learn this from anyone else. I figured it out AS A CHILD because obviously my parents were more suited to supervise me than the adult legal system.

It has nothing to do with a man owning his wife.
 
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