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A letter I just left for my Ex. I AM FREE!!!

 
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Don't answer your phone! She'll whine, cry-- don't fall for that. Enjoy your FREEDOM!!!
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So true...

This is pretty important OP.

Whatever you do, don't ever give her the time of day again...

Bitches freak out so damn hard when they think that you're done with them/don't love them anymore. They will do just about ANYTHING to try and get you trapped again.

 Quoting: Mister Obvious


And so do some men. I dated someone for a year who was a complete jerk. He was arrogant and though he was God's gift to women. When I broke it off with him, he got down on his knees and cried, and begged like a little child for me to give him another chance. It was a real mark upon him to see that he wasn't such a gift after all.
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Oh my that is quite a letter OP. Good for you for standing up and taking control of the situation. I've had quite a few breakups in my life but always felt in person to be best. I wonder your motives for not doing it in person but you realize as I do that it does help contain the mess of it for abit. I fear that in the end it might be a source of regret if she tries to pay you back for what happened. Your words are just gut wrenching for me to read though and I'm not even involved lots of hate some of it not necessary in my mind at all just piling on unnecessary pain. Is this your anger coming out? Don't get me wrong I don't condone you anything and I'm sure you are deeply hurt just not sure this is the best way to go about it. I pray your pain is lessening, your heart to heal, and your soul to soar again. No one deserves to be put through that. <<PEACE and LOVE>>>
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To put it bluntly I suspected that she would instigate some sort of violence and that is the last thing I wanted to have happen. A buddy of mine got done for domestic assault when he tried to leave his girl, it ended up being a major headache for him just to get away. The letter seemed the best way to handle it given the potential for some sort of violence.
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I don't buy that for 1 second. If you were truely concerned about violence you wouldn't have berated her in your letter.

It was a cowardly act, however by today's standards it might pass as manly.
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Hey OP.
My girlfriend and i just broke up two days ago too. She was also a total misandrist? (not sure if thats a word). She hated men, and over the course of our two year relationship, i felt that i was slowly losing more and more respect, and having my masculinity stamped all over. We broke up face to face on saturday night. I must be honest, it was still really painful to experience, however i knew that i just couldnt continue living my life that way. I wasnt happy. I still tried to convince myself that i was happy, and that i could make it work, but i just had to throw a spanner in the works so to speak. It still hurts now though. Every morning i wake up to the reality, and its all a bit strange at the moment. Im glad youve posted this just now - it helps me look at my own relationship and know that there are plenty of dudes in similar situations. Good on you bro. I wish you everything that you desire and deserve from life. Peace!
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Thank you man. Yeah we're not alone. It's been a process for me and I've secretly been reclaiming my power by educating myself for the past few months. It feels great when you do. No controller, no passive aggressive shit and now nobody to answer to. One resource I locked into is this, [link to www.manwomanmyth.com]

If you start doubting your decision or if you want a look at the bigger picture, have a gander. There's a shit load of social programming going on in regards to gender roles and I have a feeling that's why so many of us guys feel like we're up shit creek w/o a paddle.

Congrats on your decision bro, I wish you all the best.
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I'm FREE! I left this letter on the kitchen table. She gets back tonight but I will be gone. I feel so great.

dance

Anne,

Iím writing this letter to you in hopes that it will help clarify a few things that youíve no doubt become aware of since you arrived home. The situation is exactly as it seems, I have left you. The plain truth is, I am no longer attracted to you. For the past few months I can safely say that I have felt physically ill in the morning when I wake up and see your face next to mine. Everything about you has become sour in my mind, even the way you smell. To be honest I find being around you draining, both physically and emotionally.

These issues are only surpassed by your negative and hateful attitude, which I might add has become progressively worse over the past year. You have become an egotistical, selfish and unimaginative person who rarely asks me what I need or want, in fact I cannot remember the last time you offered me anything of value. It baffles me that you show more passion for something like Dancing with the Stars or Idol than you do our relationship and our future. It stuns me that you cannot see how far you have fallen, how much dignity you have lost.

My limits have been reached and I have had enough. Your attempt to deprive me of my masculinity and sovereignty will no longer be tolerated. So this is where you find yourself, standing in the living room, stunned. Stunned because you never expected this, because you thought you owned me, you thought only you had the power to do something like this. The 46 inch flatscreen that you enjoy so much is no longer a prop for your moronic addiction. Go and buy your own. I have taken everything that I paid for (except the things which I bought for you). Keep the fridge (Iím getting a nice big one to reward myself for this amazing decision I have just made).

Finally I want you to look up the word Misandry as itís something you are unequivocally guilty of. You should be glad that for the first time in your life someone has actually called you out on your bullshit. You can either lie to yourself as usual or you can pick up the proverbial mirror and take an honest look inside.

Good luck

D
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Marriage is a vow for life, it is a Sacrament. God will
give you the "grace" to persevere, ask Him for it.
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very serious
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anytime you feel the need to dig the knife in as hard as OP did, you still have feelings for that person.

hate is not the opposite of love. indifference is.

i predict OP will be crying for forgiveness before his side of the bed gets cold.

he's not over her. not by a long shot.
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could be...
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I'm FREE! I left this letter on the kitchen table. She gets back tonight but I will be gone. I feel so great.

dance

Anne,

Iím writing this letter to you in hopes that it will help clarify a few things that youíve no doubt become aware of since you arrived home. The situation is exactly as it seems, I have left you. The plain truth is, I am no longer attracted to you. For the past few months I can safely say that I have felt physically ill in the morning when I wake up and see your face next to mine. Everything about you has become sour in my mind, even the way you smell. To be honest I find being around you draining, both physically and emotionally.

These issues are only surpassed by your negative and hateful attitude, which I might add has become progressively worse over the past year. You have become an egotistical, selfish and unimaginative person who rarely asks me what I need or want, in fact I cannot remember the last time you offered me anything of value. It baffles me that you show more passion for something like Dancing with the Stars or Idol than you do our relationship and our future. It stuns me that you cannot see how far you have fallen, how much dignity you have lost.

My limits have been reached and I have had enough. Your attempt to deprive me of my masculinity and sovereignty will no longer be tolerated. So this is where you find yourself, standing in the living room, stunned. Stunned because you never expected this, because you thought you owned me, you thought only you had the power to do something like this. The 46 inch flatscreen that you enjoy so much is no longer a prop for your moronic addiction. Go and buy your own. I have taken everything that I paid for (except the things which I bought for you). Keep the fridge (Iím getting a nice big one to reward myself for this amazing decision I have just made).

Finally I want you to look up the word Misandry as itís something you are unequivocally guilty of. You should be glad that for the first time in your life someone has actually called you out on your bullshit. You can either lie to yourself as usual or you can pick up the proverbial mirror and take an honest look inside.

Good luck

D
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Marriage is a vow for life, it is a Sacrament. God will
give you the "grace" to persevere, ask Him for it.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20541213


yup want a grace. heres everyone striking on makin force explosions and stuff like that. serious physics. physics of the mind.
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anytime you feel the need to dig the knife in as hard as OP did, you still have feelings for that person.

hate is not the opposite of love. indifference is.


i predict OP will be crying for forgiveness before his side of the bed gets cold.

he's not over her. not by a long shot.
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Then again, feelings for that person doesn't equal love IMO and indifference isn't the opposite of love.
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I agree that "indifference" definitely is the opposite of "love".
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OP will turn into a chronic habitual masturbator.

A member of the "Real Doll" club.

And will live Happily Ever After.
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Sorry OP but there is a thing called tactfulness, and you are showing the lack thereof.

Her looks didn't change overnight, so including anything about her demeanor first thing in the morning is rather -uh, let me think for the word-, uh,
childish, yes, that is it. I'm going to make fun of the way you look, nanna nanna noo noo, right?
That is how it comes across. That is MALICIOUS to say it.

Root him on people, taking the COWARDS approach to life.
You outgrew her so you left her.

She is not here to defend herself is she?
What if she was?
What is she said OP left her shit stains to clean in his undies every week for 489 weeks straight, and kept it secret so he would never be humiliated. What a champ she is to do that but he leaves out her charity, eh?

I'm saying what if?

So anyways, leave her looks out of it.

If she is draining and all that, then I am sure she reflected what you were giving out.
You both lost interests and she was just the wise one- as were you- to chill while finding your next residence, or avenue out, but you once again all of a sudden change PLANS in mid-air and her life is crashed and haulted once more to pick up after the mess OP has crewated yet again, in his usual childish manner.

-

That was fiction I just wrote.
I have no idea what OP is happy about.
The World is in death grips and he is happily moving forward and ahead -to -what?

He publicly humiliates her as his last act of love to this woman I bet he has told repeatedly- HE LOVES.

ugh.
I'm a go puke now, dig?
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Always end a relationship in person. You are low.
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A true coward to take all the stuff and not confront in person. The OP should have been there even if the stuff was gone. Two sides to every story too. I hate people's break up stories, just say you broke up and keep the rest of us out of the drama.
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I'm FREE! I left this letter on the kitchen table. She gets back tonight but I will be gone. I feel so great.

dance

Anne,

Iím writing this letter to you in hopes that it will help clarify a few things that youíve no doubt become aware of since you arrived home. The situation is exactly as it seems, I have left you. The plain truth is, I am no longer attracted to you. For the past few months I can safely say that I have felt physically ill in the morning when I wake up and see your face next to mine. Everything about you has become sour in my mind, even the way you smell. To be honest I find being around you draining, both physically and emotionally.

These issues are only surpassed by your negative and hateful attitude, which I might add has become progressively worse over the past year. You have become an egotistical, selfish and unimaginative person who rarely asks me what I need or want, in fact I cannot remember the last time you offered me anything of value. It baffles me that you show more passion for something like Dancing with the Stars or Idol than you do our relationship and our future. It stuns me that you cannot see how far you have fallen, how much dignity you have lost.

My limits have been reached and I have had enough. Your attempt to deprive me of my masculinity and sovereignty will no longer be tolerated. So this is where you find yourself, standing in the living room, stunned. Stunned because you never expected this, because you thought you owned me, you thought only you had the power to do something like this. The 46 inch flatscreen that you enjoy so much is no longer a prop for your moronic addiction. Go and buy your own. I have taken everything that I paid for (except the things which I bought for you). Keep the fridge (Iím getting a nice big one to reward myself for this amazing decision I have just made).

Finally I want you to look up the word Misandry as itís something you are unequivocally guilty of. You should be glad that for the first time in your life someone has actually called you out on your bullshit. You can either lie to yourself as usual or you can pick up the proverbial mirror and take an honest look inside.

Good luck

D
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Dancing with the stars? Idol? It's your fault...you are a fool to ever have been attracted to such a shallow individual. There's a consequence engine, and it works.
Make a stupid choice and you pay a heavy price. If you were dumb enough to get involved with anyone who could be so inert, so innocuous, so empty as to waste precious living time watching such meaningless drivel, then you deserve her.
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Yea good one o.0 nob head

Hopefully she has a big brother that will give you a bit of a slap. Clearly she deserves better than a cock muncher like yourself.

Maybe you are gay?? Physically sick at the sight of a female body??? Thanks for coming out to us all at GLP
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Cock muncher. Wow You dumb fucker have no idea of this persons situation , yet feel the need to slander this person for having the GUTS to stand up to a POS partner.???
Get a life you fucking moron. <3
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"The problem is all inside your head", she said to me
The answer is easy if you take it logically
I'd like to help you in your struggle to be free
There must be fifty ways to leave your lover

She said it's really not my habit to intrude
Furthermore, I hope my meaning won't be lost or misconstrued
But I'll repeat myself, at the risk of being crude
There must be fifty ways to leave your lover
Fifty ways to leave your lover

You just slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan
You don't need to be coy, Roy
Just get yourself free
Hop on the bus, Gus
You don't need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free

Ooo slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan
You don't need to be coy, Roy
Just listen to me
Hop on the bus, Gus
You don't need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free

She said it grieves me so to see you in such pain
I wish there was something I could do to make you smile again
I said I appreciate that and would you please explain
About the fifty ways

She said why don't we both just sleep on it tonight
And I believe in the morning you'll begin to see the light
And then she kissed me and I realized she probably was right
There must be fifty ways to leave your lover
Fifty ways to leave your lover

You just slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan
You don't need to be coy, Roy
Just get yourself free
Hop on the bus, Gus
You don't need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free

Slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan
You don't need to be coy, Roy
Just listen to me
Hop on the bus, Gus
You don't need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free
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I'm FREE! I left this letter on the kitchen table. She gets back tonight but I will be gone. I feel so great.

dance

Anne,

Iím writing this letter to you in hopes that it will help clarify a few things that youíve no doubt become aware of since you arrived home. The situation is exactly as it seems, I have left you. The plain truth is, I am no longer attracted to you. For the past few months I can safely say that I have felt physically ill in the morning when I wake up and see your face next to mine. Everything about you has become sour in my mind, even the way you smell. To be honest I find being around you draining, both physically and emotionally.

These issues are only surpassed by your negative and hateful attitude, which I might add has become progressively worse over the past year. You have become an egotistical, selfish and unimaginative person who rarely asks me what I need or want, in fact I cannot remember the last time you offered me anything of value. It baffles me that you show more passion for something like Dancing with the Stars or Idol than you do our relationship and our future. It stuns me that you cannot see how far you have fallen, how much dignity you have lost.

My limits have been reached and I have had enough. Your attempt to deprive me of my masculinity and sovereignty will no longer be tolerated. So this is where you find yourself, standing in the living room, stunned. Stunned because you never expected this, because you thought you owned me, you thought only you had the power to do something like this. The 46 inch flatscreen that you enjoy so much is no longer a prop for your moronic addiction. Go and buy your own. I have taken everything that I paid for (except the things which I bought for you). Keep the fridge (Iím getting a nice big one to reward myself for this amazing decision I have just made).

Finally I want you to look up the word Misandry as itís something you are unequivocally guilty of. You should be glad that for the first time in your life someone has actually called you out on your bullshit. You can either lie to yourself as usual or you can pick up the proverbial mirror and take an honest look inside.

Good luck

D
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28183826





Dancing with the stars? Idol? It's your fault...you are a fool to ever have been attracted to such a shallow individual. There's a consequence engine, and it works.
Make a stupid choice and you pay a heavy price. If you were dumb enough to get involved with anyone who could be so inert, so innocuous, so empty as to waste precious living time watching such meaningless drivel, then you deserve her.
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Thanks for your input. As I explained in an early reply, she changed. These sorts of things became priorities for her and she didn't want to hear any kind of criticism about what she was being programmed' with. I know all about the "consequence engine" and now so does she.
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I'm FREE! I left this letter on the kitchen table. She gets back tonight but I will be gone. I feel so great.

dance

Anne,

Iím writing this letter to you in hopes that it will help clarify a few things that youíve no doubt become aware of since you arrived home. The situation is exactly as it seems, I have left you. The plain truth is, I am no longer attracted to you. For the past few months I can safely say that I have felt physically ill in the morning when I wake up and see your face next to mine. Everything about you has become sour in my mind, even the way you smell. To be honest I find being around you draining, both physically and emotionally.

These issues are only surpassed by your negative and hateful attitude, which I might add has become progressively worse over the past year. You have become an egotistical, selfish and unimaginative person who rarely asks me what I need or want, in fact I cannot remember the last time you offered me anything of value. It baffles me that you show more passion for something like Dancing with the Stars or Idol than you do our relationship and our future. It stuns me that you cannot see how far you have fallen, how much dignity you have lost.

My limits have been reached and I have had enough. Your attempt to deprive me of my masculinity and sovereignty will no longer be tolerated. So this is where you find yourself, standing in the living room, stunned. Stunned because you never expected this, because you thought you owned me, you thought only you had the power to do something like this. The 46 inch flatscreen that you enjoy so much is no longer a prop for your moronic addiction. Go and buy your own. I have taken everything that I paid for (except the things which I bought for you). Keep the fridge (Iím getting a nice big one to reward myself for this amazing decision I have just made).

Finally I want you to look up the word Misandry as itís something you are unequivocally guilty of. You should be glad that for the first time in your life someone has actually called you out on your bullshit. You can either lie to yourself as usual or you can pick up the proverbial mirror and take an honest look inside.

Good luck

D
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Marriage is a vow for life, it is a Sacrament. God will
give you the "grace" to persevere, ask Him for it.
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Uhhhh...I could have missed it, but I didn't notice that he called her his wife... his "ex".... they were just probably shacked up anyway.
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Sorry OP but there is a thing called tactfulness, and you are showing the lack thereof.

Her looks didn't change overnight, so including anything about her demeanor first thing in the morning is rather -uh, let me think for the word-, uh,
childish, yes, that is it. I'm going to make fun of the way you look, nanna nanna noo noo, right?
That is how it comes across. That is MALICIOUS to say it.

Root him on people, taking the COWARDS approach to life.
You outgrew her so you left her.

She is not here to defend herself is she?
What if she was?
What is she said OP left her shit stains to clean in his undies every week for 489 weeks straight, and kept it secret so he would never be humiliated. What a champ she is to do that but he leaves out her charity, eh?

I'm saying what if?

So anyways, leave her looks out of it.

If she is draining and all that, then I am sure she reflected what you were giving out.
You both lost interests and she was just the wise one- as were you- to chill while finding your next residence, or avenue out, but you once again all of a sudden change PLANS in mid-air and her life is crashed and haulted once more to pick up after the mess OP has crewated yet again, in his usual childish manner.

-

That was fiction I just wrote.
I have no idea what OP is happy about.
The World is in death grips and he is happily moving forward and ahead -to -what?

He publicly humiliates her as his last act of love to this woman I bet he has told repeatedly- HE LOVES.

ugh.
I'm a go puke now, dig?
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Firstly I haven't publicly humiliated anyone, last time I checked there are a million other Anne's on the planet. Her looks did not change, as I've explained in previous replies, she changed. For me attractiveness is not just a physical thing rather it's a composition of things. She had become ugly to me not because her looks changed but because she turned into a sociopath with no empathy.

You seem fairly sure of a lot of things you have little to no idea about, I'm happy for you to speculate all you want about the situation but it won't change the fact that I'm free, happy and loving life again.

Peace.
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Misandry opposite of Misogynist.

I know more misogynist then I do man haters.
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Wow.... for someone to leave a note and leave is horrible thing to do to someone, especially to someone you supposely loved at one time but then to post here for all to see is just creepy.

I think this guy did this woman a huge favor by leaving. There's something so wrong with this picture.
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Sorry OP but there is a thing called tactfulness, and you are showing the lack thereof.

Her looks didn't change overnight, so including anything about her demeanor first thing in the morning is rather -uh, let me think for the word-, uh,
childish, yes, that is it. I'm going to make fun of the way you look, nanna nanna noo noo, right?
That is how it comes across. That is MALICIOUS to say it.

Root him on people, taking the COWARDS approach to life.
You outgrew her so you left her.

She is not here to defend herself is she?
What if she was?
What is she said OP left her shit stains to clean in his undies every week for 489 weeks straight, and kept it secret so he would never be humiliated. What a champ she is to do that but he leaves out her charity, eh?

I'm saying what if?

So anyways, leave her looks out of it.

If she is draining and all that, then I am sure she reflected what you were giving out.
You both lost interests and she was just the wise one- as were you- to chill while finding your next residence, or avenue out, but you once again all of a sudden change PLANS in mid-air and her life is crashed and haulted once more to pick up after the mess OP has crewated yet again, in his usual childish manner.

-

That was fiction I just wrote.
I have no idea what OP is happy about.
The World is in death grips and he is happily moving forward and ahead -to -what?

He publicly humiliates her as his last act of love to this woman I bet he has told repeatedly- HE LOVES.

ugh.
I'm a go puke now, dig?
 Quoting: pso 34275754


Firstly I haven't publicly humiliated anyone, last time I checked there are a million other Anne's on the planet. Her looks did not change, as I've explained in previous replies, she changed. For me attractiveness is not just a physical thing rather it's a composition of things. She had become ugly to me not because her looks changed but because she turned into a sociopath with no empathy.

You seem fairly sure of a lot of things you have little to no idea about, I'm happy for you to speculate all you want about the situation but it won't change the fact that I'm free, happy and loving life again.

Peace.
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When people "fall in love" they turn a blind eye to the shortcomings and failings of their love interest. Everyone loves that euphoria and sexual tension of new love.
Most people are unable to "stay in love" very long because that newness wears thin as daily problems arise. Next time, be objective about the person you get intimately involved with. Just jumping into bed and into relationships with someone who initially seems attractive is dangerous. I've not met anyone who totally changes as much as OP claims this "ex" changed....there had to be thousands of clues in this person's personality.... the first thing that jumped out at me was her choice of entertainment.... big clue right there. Idol and dancing with stars would be sign of total empty headedness and selfishness and immaturity. There had to be millions of other clues. I personally think that people have a certain basic personality throughout their lives, and their basic personality doesn't change that much....it seems to me that people are either basically givers or takers and that personality seems to hold throughout life.
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Re: A letter I just left for my Ex. I AM FREE!!!
Is she your ex girlfriend, or your soon to be ex WIFE? In the case of the latter, you should seek marital counseling before making a decision you will regret. There's still time.
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03/31/2013 06:55 PM
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Re: A letter I just left for my Ex. I AM FREE!!!
Her looks did not change, as I've explained in previous replies, she changed. For me attractiveness is not just a physical thing rather it's a composition of things. She had become ugly to me not because her looks changed but because she turned into a sociopath with no empathy.

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Sociopaths and borderlines are masters at reeling you in initially. (both men and women) They are great actors, and pretend to have the exact traits that you value.

But they can't maintain the act very long, and as soon as they hook you in, they do indeed change.

Also - they tend to rush you into commitment super fast. (moving in, having a child, fast marriage)

Good Luck OP - beware in the future.
Those types tend to be drawn to loving, giving, empathetic people in order to drain them. Like moths to flame.
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03/31/2013 07:01 PM
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You are not free. This journey is just beginning for you OP. You have many steps left before this is over. Get ready for the worst experience of your life.
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03/31/2013 07:02 PM
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Sometimes people just grow apart.

If the op is feeling so horrible in his marriage
Guaranteed his wife feels it too.

Your letter was rather cowardly imo,
You should have said that all to her face.
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03/31/2013 07:06 PM
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... and the wheel of karma continues.


you need to forgive her and yourself or else you'll keep coming back and doing this over and over again until you learn forgiveness
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03/31/2013 07:07 PM
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OP,
Funny thing about it is, after reading your very private message to your wife, I don't feel like I know your wife at all... but I do know you're an asshole.
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03/31/2013 07:10 PM
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Im sure she will feel a lot of relief when she reads that OP.
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03/31/2013 07:14 PM
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Thats great you feel free OP.

I am just wondering why you didn't bring this up with her previously and work on it together?
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03/31/2013 07:16 PM
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If you were a real man, you would have talked to her about how you felt, not carried like like a mouse and let her stomp on you and then think you have gotten even by writing your vindictive letter.

You're a typical weak and pathetic male!
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03/31/2013 07:18 PM

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Always end a relationship in person. You are low.
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What's low? Its better than a text and he didn't steal. I believe he did a good thing to possibly avoid a fight. Because fighting never leads anywhere.
For every negativity, create two positives!

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Part of a pack one wolf chose to leave
A life like his dreams this wolf chose to weave

On his own in the dark the wolf could not see
Nobody was telling him what to believe

When he questioned what truly made him free
It was always the moonlight guiding thee

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