OP is like a person from the year 1400

From before when there was a such thing as a man and woman with deeper more relating and connecting relationships where the two relate intellectually and idealistically and energetically , even psychicly

so hes thinking on the level of chosing a women based on race, appearance, cookie cutter attributes

You could say its a social level between animals and humans, or you could say its old-style socal level like ancient times or the dark ages.