Ladies, do nice guys really finish last?

Can I go for a test drive before making that decision?

both or just one?

Both of course, but not at the same time

LOL sure, let me know how it works out

I finish last all night long.

thanks for sharing ac

The first one...we deserve the best.

Well...actually I already made my choice and it's neither of those two candidates

So, Peaches...what does your heart tell you?

I used to want a handsome, dangerous guy that lives life in the fast lane, wild and fun so that I could change him into a handsome, sweet, old fashioned guy that treats you like a queen.

That didn't work so I just married a handsome, sweet, old fashioned guy that treats me like a queen.

so true divinity. to me its a no brainer

octo, my heart already made the choice. i can only see that sweet wonderful man in my future

Good choice Peaches


Here's to happiness

Of course they do, it is afterall the gentlemanly thing to do!!

Ladies first!!

4by2

you are devilish

Hi Peaches,

Great to see you in fine spirits again tonight!

Test drives are ok, but for god’s sake never marry the bad boy.

They will steal every thing you got and leave you busted.

My daughter did this; he was a handsome Mexican man that was educated.

She was with him for 13 years, she came into some money, about 1 million bucks from a settlement. He managed to steal it all, and convince her it was not his fault.

She finally saw the light and moved out, the house that they brought together, some how
The paper work was never done correctly and she ended up with nothing.

Most bad boys are well hung; they use the toll to seduce you. Take you stuff, and on to the next one.

Beware the Bad boys

Most men will marry "Marry-anne" [Remember gilligan's Island?] but will come to visit "ginger"...


~Women are no different.

The "bad-boy" is good for a romp or two, but they'll end up marrying the well-off, dorky, testosterone challenged one....


The maternal instinct dominates the female of the species. She looks for stability and security when looking for a potential mate and in most cases, this supercedes appearance...

Women pick the selfish, arrogant assholes,
which encourages men to be selfish, arrogant assholes,
who inevitably treat those women like shit,
then those women bitch and complain endlessly,
on their cellphones while driving,
about those men.

I prefer the nice guy. I've been down the other road and it only ends in heartache.

then women complain about how there are no "good men" out there, when it's their fault for picking the "bad boys" as they are called, then thinking they can change them later on.

Life is about choices. Make your own, and stop blaming others for them.

nice guys may indeed finish last...

that may or may not mean that they make sure their lady is satisfied first...

what about mean guys?... do some of them even finish at all, let alone first, middle, or last?

also, if you're a lady and you meet a guy who proclaims himself, 'nice'... run... run... run away from that guy!

he can cry in his room while he makes worship puddles on your behalf...

*****Most bad boys are well hung; they use the toll to seduce you. Take you stuff, and on to the next one.*****

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Actually, most of these narcissists are charming and incredibly confident.

Most women of a certain age [younger] are attracted to confident men who cannot be controlled [Alpha Males]

Only lurking, ladies...


How about a Rennaisance man?

bad boys beat women at their own game and get everything from them, while nice guys just get beat by women, and end up getting cheated on and divorced and end up having to pay child support to the "bad boy" the woman runs off with because she "needs to find herself" or needs more "fun"

gotta be careful. more fuel for the fire. :)

peace and love. :)

finally some great answers. i wanted to see how the majority would respond to this question.

daja, of course you too

Unfortunately, dorky and nerdy is "in"...

The fem-boy persona is all the rage.

The age of cool is dead.

from Dave Barry:

Men are like fine wine. They start out as grapes and the women stomp the crap out of them until they turn into something acceptable to have dinner with.

i don't know about that jackal. my nice guy isn't a dork and he isn't financially secure either. he is just a man that knows how to treat a lady and in return it makes me want to cherish him too

Peaches, they have the internet in Vermont.

So, pack up already!

LOL daja we have already talked about it and i'm in the process of trying to find a job there. once i move i'm afraid you won't be seeing me around much