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Men not marrying. How deep does the problem go?

 
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I've been happily married for almost 18 years.

Guess it depends on who your with. But, I love marriage and family.

Being single and lonely all the time sucks.

And yes, I am a man.
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First of all she probably has a smoking addiction that has aged her 10+ years faster...than her actual age...

Plus it's costing someone $200 a month. May as well be cocaine or heroin..

Or she bought into the BS story about BBWs and how everyone should except them the way they are (FAT) and she could care less what she looks like.

She probably works in a fast food restaurant and has nothing of value to bring to the table...Or as I like to call them...MONEY PITS...

Or the guys know plenty of other guys that took a divorce trip through the heavily female slanted court system and had their clocks cleaned...

Or they know over half of all first marriages FAILS...

Or they know statistically that women cheat more than men...

Give me ONE GOOD reason why anyone should be married?

If gays and lesbians can raise children....why get married?


Friends with benefits is the future...Get used to the idea... 5a
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Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression. (1 Tim. 2:14)

And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth God shall escape from her; but the sinner shall be taken by her. (Eccl. 7:26)

For what saith the scripture? Abraham believed God, and it was counted unto him for righteousness. (Rom. 4:3)
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Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife. (1 Cor. 7:27)

But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. (1 Cor. 7:32-33)

For God speaketh once, yea twice, yet man perceiveth it not. (Job 33:14)
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From a womans POV.


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wisin up.... you can only get away with using a guy for so long
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lol, yeah friends with benefits is SO the future....says the forum with the super gonorrhea thread. If we were meant to boink like donkeys, pretty sure we wouldn't have STD's that rot your genitals off.

I'm married 8 years to the same great guy. We had our 3rd baby 8 months ago and our sex life is currently nil. We've had one date night in 8 months. I had the body of a fucking rock star before this baby (32, 5'7, 125 lbs and 14% bodyfat, I could do 50 pullups, no joke) and now, thanks to breastfeeding hormones, I have 15 extra pounds that have me living in sweatpants (I refuse to buy larger clothes. I just refuse.) My husband gained 20 lbs right along with me. So, the cute baby part is awesome but the rest of my life and romantic status sucks but I STILL would recommend marriage any day. Why? It's a wave! We are currently at a bottom and we will work out way back up to the top the same way we always do (with the gym, and date nights, and some lingerie once my ass shrinks again.)

Real problem with marriage today are people thinking it's a fucking fairy tale of laziness. Hey look, I got married now I don't have to try anymore! Men get beer bellies. Women get fat. No one dresses up for each other anymore. I see lots of people who don't flirt, don't kiss, don't banter, don't hug. Hello? If you go to work and you don't work, you get fired. If you get married and you don't work, you get divorced. unhappy in your marriage, get to work! Most likely you are 50% of the problem!
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I would be afraid to even date anyone now. They might give you a disease.
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The first 10-minutes or so I couldn't help but smirk and laugh at this frustrated feminist who is now waking up to the reality of women poisoned their own well. To me there was nothing attractive or interesting about her (save her nice tits) because she butchered her hair, spoke so deliberately and over the top philosophically as though she were giving a lecture to a bunch of Harvard LGBT manufactured mutts. Is this the way feminists talk, with every other sentence engineered around a few words in "quotations" (hold hands out a mockingly make the quotations signs, as though you were offended by the words in quotations, yet this feminist could not wait to get to the next opportunity to to her "quotations" signal. Who talks like that? Surely no man.

At around the 10:00 minute mark, m/l, she began to really dig into the heart of the matter. What is attractive and comforting and energizing about being around, or listening t, a woman that has little respect for the man in her life, and that will do most anything to offend his sensibilities, all in the name of proving her equal or better worth than her male counterparts - little or nothing.

Some men I know have been in therapy with their wives for years, all started because the man wasn't doing enough to understand her innermost needs, her never-ending need and demand to be told again and again and again that their looks haven't faded, that everything they do has supreme value to the man in their lives, that their beauty and loving nature never faded. These poor saps will never learn and never make their wives happy. The psycho-terapists (all apart of the queering and neutering of boys, young men, and what's left of the older men) work in collaboration with U.N. governments to create drug-doped men and women, less and less interested in mating and having kids. Feminists rarely read or learn about this side of their movement.

Women spend more and more of their time away from the home, away from their kids, away from their mates, and spend more of their time with their equally misguided and miserable girlfriends, spending their off-work hours running back and forth to the training facilities, hair and nail and feet care salons, beautification spas, makeup shops, and hours in front of their mirrors, all to meet up with their girlfriends at more and more bars, playing the rolls they played when they were 22-year old women, and when their male counterparts don't ooh and ahh over them, they slop down more and more wine and cocktails, and turn their cougar-instincts on some young steer just looking to get laid.

Women are determined to do whatever and spend whatever to kid themselves into thinking they can and should compete with the never-ending parade of newly minted 22-year old females. What most older women don't understand is that most non-neutered men don't want to hear more and more from the same herd of 30 and 40-year old women with huge emotional issues, never to be satisfied or happy, with a huge chip on their shoulders, and truckloads of negative baggage and energy.

This feminista is dead-on in the way men are portrayed everywhere, in movies, TV, magazines, and commercials. Either the men are gun-totting backwoods' hicks that survive by wrestling alligators or snakes, and have the IQ of a wombat, or the feminized male is subservient to his much more educated and refined female counterpart, or the non-female role is filled by a neutered and uber-passive male or one or more of your ever-growing parade of LGBT Lady Gag Gag members.

The author is undoubtedly frustrated that now she sees the seeds that she and her feministas sowed. She and her gaggle of girlfriends are heartbroken that most men have finally grown tired and weary of breaking their backs for country, fellow-man, wives and girlfriends, only to be betrayed while they were away. Feminists have entered every traditionally male role, including front lines in the army, football, basketball, all the trades, the highest in academia, fatherhood, and everything in between. And the females wonder why men are no longer lining up to spill their blood or work tirelessly like a slave to give the woman of their dreams just about everything they could possibly heap upon her, from a never satisfying bigger and better home, to vacations to match or better her girlfriend's recent travels, to better and better and maybe private schools for their children so everyone can feel proud and prestigious for increasing their offspring's refinement. And maybe the male is tired of hearing he must remember time and time again to praise his wife's or girlfriend's looks and efforts she makes to keep herself beautiful, always with a declining rate of return, and the endless hours she previously purchased with his money, to fix her hair, her body, her makeup, her wrinkles, her ass, and so on. She deludes herself into thinking its just to be more appealing to all males, with maybe 5% of her prepping dedicated toward the male she is betrothed to. Much more likely, she does the beautifications' rituals to outdo her female counterparts.

Females spend most of their time trying to one-up their female friends, dying for one oogle or ahh from a male, and then if a male responds as she desires, and that male isn't up to her impossible standards, then she scoffs at him, belittles his attempts to coax a response out of him, perhaps calls the police or her attorneys on him, and so the male asks - for what?

Most women have very shallow lives. They were taught by their equally confused mothers that their looks are all that matters. Young girls spend their lives dressing up, putting on makeup, preparing for the mating rituals, competing on this shallow plane with all other females, friends or not, and of course they work hard to excel in school.

Men on the other hand, keep their male buddies their whole lives, not for what they look like but for what they say, do, and have the capabilities to compete in, or teach their other male-buddies to do. Men hunt, fish, run, race bikes and cars, build things, destroy things, fix things, talk to one another, and all without sniping about how they fixed their hair, their nails, their shoes, their clothes, their latest and greatest jewelry, etc. Men have these capabilities their whole lives. Women's external beauty fades, and for too many women, that's all they have. When that is gone, they are miserable and lonely, and need their male friends to also throw themselves into their poisoned well.

In short, men have lives outside their wives and girlfriends, and this upsets females royally. Women are forever jealous of their female counterparts, and mens' freedom to come and go and do as they please.

For thousands of years men slaved-away to attract and retain a loving, attractive, respectful, appreciative, woman. Women wanted a hard-working, intelligent, strong, protective, attractive man willing to go to any lengths to make the woman and their children happy and safe. Women were convinced by their feminista sisterhood to walk away from so much, give up so much, and for what? Many are now lonely, angry, shells of the people they could have been.

Feminists, and their LBGT friends, are both a major part of the eugenics program devised to erode propagation of the species. Weak-souled feminists and their largely weak-souled and internally timid gay-friends are out at sea in a big boat, with no one but the dykes willing to row.

This disgruntled feminist, not quite sure about her identity and the road she is on, needs to reach out to the Rosie O'Donnell's of the world; whine about men, whine about the world's sick status, continue adopting more and more children to further poison the well, and reflect on what might have been, had they not demanded everything and more from their mate.

Women wanted equal pay, equal labor, equal recognition, equal fame and fortune, and they got it. And now they have equal pain, heartache, disease, mental fatigue, stress, and soon enough - younger and younger mortality.

Women like this feminist are oh-so-frustrated that men have grown weary of their game, see fewer and fewer benefits to pursuing the Western-World's elitist/feminist women, with so much attitude that it drains the life out of men. Watch the woman's face, frustration and flushing. She recognizes her own betrayal every time she looks in the mirror.

Men don't demand everything and more from their male friends, and they find that trait in women extremely tiresome.
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It appears easy to make generalizations on this topic especially if one is in the single category. My best friend on the planet is the person I'm married to. There isn't anyone who knows me better or more tuned into who I am. The opposite is true as well. There is something to be said for having a life partner to share experiences with and talk to late into the night when living in such an insecure world. There is also a spiritual connection that was there from the on start. Being spiritually connected is an essential ingredient to a strong lasting marriage. A strong relationship also requires doing ones own individual inner work toward personal growth. This is where the pedal meets the medal and most fall by the wayside.

Think of it this way. Each person is already happy with who they are when they meet and even happier to be with each other to share this experinece together. These are the relationships that last over the long haul.

Inner works means taking the time to get to know oneself and get to that happy place inside. Start with that.

Last Edited by Alexander on 05/08/2013 03:22 PM
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ever since porn came around ..men can see a naked woman anytime. Its all about the sex. Men want't sex. Porn fixes this problem without all the hassle of a woman trying to bring us down and control our lives.
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women are a great big waste of time. better to find a nice hobby.
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ever since porn came around ..men can see a naked woman anytime. Its all about the sex. Men want't sex. Porn fixes this problem without all the hassle of a woman trying to bring us down and control our lives.
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men can still get sex: but it's "they're way, or the highway".
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Women control all the sex.....nothing happens unless a woman gives you her permission..

If you marry them...you just gave her control of your entire financial future...and all the sex


So they get all the sex and all the money...

See anything wrong with this picture?


Let's get married... 1rof1
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lol, yeah friends with benefits is SO the future....says the forum with the super gonorrhea thread. If we were meant to boink like donkeys, pretty sure we wouldn't have STD's that rot your genitals off.

I'm married 8 years to the same great guy. We had our 3rd baby 8 months ago and our sex life is currently nil. We've had one date night in 8 months. I had the body of a fucking rock star before this baby (32, 5'7, 125 lbs and 14% bodyfat, I could do 50 pullups, no joke) and now, thanks to breastfeeding hormones, I have 15 extra pounds that have me living in sweatpants (I refuse to buy larger clothes. I just refuse.) My husband gained 20 lbs right along with me. So, the cute baby part is awesome but the rest of my life and romantic status sucks but I STILL would recommend marriage any day. Why? It's a wave! We are currently at a bottom and we will work out way back up to the top the same way we always do (with the gym, and date nights, and some lingerie once my ass shrinks again.)

Real problem with marriage today are people thinking it's a fucking fairy tale of laziness. Hey look, I got married now I don't have to try anymore! Men get beer bellies. Women get fat. No one dresses up for each other anymore. I see lots of people who don't flirt, don't kiss, don't banter, don't hug. Hello? If you go to work and you don't work, you get fired. If you get married and you don't work, you get divorced. unhappy in your marriage, get to work! Most likely you are 50% of the problem!
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You haven't been a Male who has gone through the Divorce Meat Grinder AFTER your wife slept around on you ... and who after SHE left is still trying to ruin you and working continuously to get you fired and unemployable.

Once you have been through the modern Divorce Meat Grinder Experience, where the legal system is totally tilted towards the female side of the equation, "Marriage" has no allure anymore ... since as a male you realize that you will NEVER really know what is going on inside the brain of a woman ... and also know that women as a group are a pretty coniving group for whom lying and destroying others comes naturally (yes there are exceptions, but they are precisely that ... exceptions)
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Single. Can't marry.
Can't get along with any of them. Lol.
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Well at least your country is up front about it.

They take your money before you get married, not after. ohyeah
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eh, things will turn around in the near future. when this whole joke of an economy collapses, earth changes, blah blah blah doom happens, women who can't say enough how they don't need a man will go running for one (and I'm a woman saying this.) Better one man to protect you than 20 men to pass you around. In a SHTF scenario, men and women will revert to their traditional gender roles. Family will become important again. Men will take pride in protecting the most vulnerable in their families and women will appreciate them for it. We are living in an unnatural state. What cannot continue, will stop....
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I do agree with this. It should not be a state of affairs where men are either lording it over the family, or used by them. The men should be taking pride in providing for and protecting, and the others can have a part in that too. By the same token I think we have all learned that good men can also participate in various homemaking activities. The healthy state is for a family to be functioning as a life sustaining team. Extended families too. We have indeed been living in an unnatural state, plus there have been corrupting influences like this gay epidemic that is currently spinning out of control. I don't see this gay tsunami as natural at all.I believe it is a weird offshoot of all the hidden mind control activity, by which millions of people are controlled with sexual abuse. Apparently the best method of controlling a victim is with anal rape. So they are trying to stealth-normalize that with this big gay push. Then it can be mixed into everyday life and the perps won't need to worry about prosecution for rape. We are also hearing that police, the military and prisons use rape far more than was believed and this is also for control. Terrorizing victims by raping them achieves mind control because the mind shuts down over the trauma and then the persons behavior can be easily controlled. It's called trauma based mind control and is being systematically used in our military and the techniques moved out of there and into the street where they are being used by gangs and scumbags like those guys who had the 3 women tied up for 4 years.
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Gynocentric, WTF does that mean?
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Gyno = female
Centric = all about us, douche
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Women SAY they want a sensitive man, loves kids, great personality, sober, good in bed, etc....If they find a guy like that, they dump him if he doesn't have a job. It doesn't seem to matter if he posesses ALL the traits that would make him an ideal mate. If the guy doesn't work, eventually she will leave him if she ever dares to get involved with him in the first place. With the fact that white men are going to be a minority in a few years, women are turning more towards "other" types of guys. The man could have all the traits of g*d himself but if he doesn't work to carry the majority of the burden, bye bye.

Check it out. ----> [link to www.mgtow.com]
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Hello! I think it's assumed one's partner will either work or pull their own weight in other ways. I personally believe it's impossible for a family to raise more than one child without one partent staying home with them. Better to live a very humble life on one income than foist your kids off on someone else to raise.

If there are no kids, both should bring in some money or else one should be a virtual slave -- wouldn't wish that on anyone.
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I've been married for almost thirty years. When we first got married it was about romantic love, and sex and overall life expectations...but time passed and we got older and we changed and there have been periods where we both would have agreed to throw in the proverbial towel if that was an easy option.

We stayed married, and I can honestly say that the feelings I once had have changed dramatically through all these years. I still look to my significant other for friendship and for intimacy but what most of you folks are missing is a spine warming sensation of love that I've finally gotten after decades with my guy. There aren't many words to describe it- it's sort of like that feeling you get on a clear frosty night when the first snow falls and the world seems at peace...or the first scent of rain in Spring when the tulips glow. Of course it isn't any of those things, but I don't have words to express what the sensation is. You are just going to have to accept it when I say that there is a physical feeling of attachment that is much stronger than "being hot for someone".

We don't have a lot of patience anymore in society, but love is like a plant. When the roots are shallow it's easy to tear them out of the ground. When they are deep and strong- then they are almost like steel bands.

Marriage is a contract, that is absolutely true, but it is also a path to the highest comfort a person can feel here on earth. It's a union of minds and hearts.

I know that it is as hard as heck to make it work sometimes...but if you keep nurturing it and you keep working at it there are some mighty sublime feelings of deep pleasure associated with marriage that I hate to see forgotten.

People sometimes say one of the reasons they want to marry is that they don't want to die alone..I think they don't want to die without anyone to mourn for them. We can bash marriage all we want, but bottom line is we understand that some people are literally bonded to their partners and when they lose them it's quite tragic.

Sorry to disabuse you of your thinking that marriage is a scam, honestly, if that is what comforts you then by all means go on thinking that way- after all, you are probably right, especially if you go into marriage with that shallow conception of it. You get out of it what you put into it.

Marriage is a big deal! There is way more to it, and I'm really not trying to be a mystic here- I'm afraid I'm just not smart enough to know how to explain what it is I feel. Can I just say that there is a lot more depth to marriage than silly nitpicking fights about who does what, or bogus bellyaches about how each partner looks. It has nothing to do with how much money your partner makes, or how fine a life you are living. It's that grown up feeling of being home.

There is more!
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Re: Men not marrying. How deep does the problem go?
why the hell would a man marry a woman in todays world?

it does nothing to keep the woman

she can leave / divorce him whenever she wants for no reason at all and take half his shit

fuck that shit

it's a total trap
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Truth .. it's just legally too dangerous for a man to get married anymore. You ladies can thank your nearest feminist for forcing you into slave labor.
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Just as dangerous for the woman. I've known quite a few ladies that got stuck with debts from a man she married.

Marriage or co-habitation (sometimes described as common law marriage) shouldn't be a problem for 2 decent people. Problem is finding that decent person!
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if the social morays of 100 yrs ago excepted divorce i can guarantee the divorce rates would be just as high as today. divorce happens for many reasons some complex,some simple, some ugly . all these moralistic self righteous arguments forget that humans are human and we change throughout our lives and divorce is not always a bad thing.
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I believe it is because people are not real.

And when they feel its time to get serious, they find the other person is an asshole.
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more like the woman wants a free ride,then when she finds out she can have all his shit for free she has acouple kids and rapes the family in court....when I see a single mother today I ask 1 thing.SO how are the lil pay checks doing today...
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Single. Can't marry.
Can't get along with any of them. Lol.
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Well at least your country is up front about it.

They take your money before you get married, not after. ohyeah
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when you are dating the woman has half your money and all the pussy....then you get married then the woman gets all your money and still has all the pussy...
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why the hell would a man marry a woman in todays world?

it does nothing to keep the woman

she can leave / divorce him whenever she wants for no reason at all and take half his shit

fuck that shit

it's a total trap
 Quoting: Ghetto Monk


That's what the feminists want. They want to create total division between the sexes so they can proceed with their psychopathic dream of a lesbian uptopia. All this time, we thought the word feminazi was a joke. Looks like the joke is on us.

Don't play the feminazi's game men. Just make sure you marry the right woman. Don't be in a rush. There are plenty of good women out there in that have taken refuge away from this sick society. D

Also, things are going to get rough soon. BE STRONG. YOU ARE A MAN, YOU CAN DO THIS. Don't be afraid to speak your mind on this subject... Note: that does not mean you have to hurt people in the process... You will shut out those who need shutting out, and bring in those who need brought in.

hugs
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Women SAY they want a sensitive man, loves kids, great personality, sober, good in bed, etc....If they find a guy like that, they dump him if he doesn't have a job. It doesn't seem to matter if he posesses ALL the traits that would make him an ideal mate. If the guy doesn't work, eventually she will leave him if she ever dares to get involved with him in the first place. With the fact that white men are going to be a minority in a few years, women are turning more towards "other" types of guys. The man could have all the traits of g*d himself but if he doesn't work to carry the majority of the burden, bye bye.

Check it out. ----> [link to www.mgtow.com]
soap
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I agree that girls want guys to have a job, but that doesn't even make sense. I've got more than enough for two people to live together for a lifetime,yet girls still want us to have a job. What a waste of time, when we could be fucking and doing other productive things together.

Even money won't buy sex or love anymore.......
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Re: Men not marrying. How deep does the problem go?
why the hell would a man marry a woman in todays world?

it does nothing to keep the woman

she can leave / divorce him whenever she wants for no reason at all and take half his shit

fuck that shit

it's a total trap
 Quoting: Ghetto Monk


.....and he can divorce her whenever he wants for no reason and take half her shit also.

But is is not "their shit"?

Just saying.

In any event I agree, it's a mess.
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With the bias laws a man has to be an idiot to get married these days. Feminists are only to blame.They want equality but same time want special treatment for women. A hypocritical movement.
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I've been married for almost thirty years. When we first got married it was about romantic love, and sex and overall life expectations...but time passed and we got older and we changed and there have been periods where we both would have agreed to throw in the proverbial towel if that was an easy option.

We stayed married, and I can honestly say that the feelings I once had have changed dramatically through all these years. I still look to my significant other for friendship and for intimacy but what most of you folks are missing is a spine warming sensation of love that I've finally gotten after decades with my guy. There aren't many words to describe it- it's sort of like that feeling you get on a clear frosty night when the first snow falls and the world seems at peace...or the first scent of rain in Spring when the tulips glow. Of course it isn't any of those things, but I don't have words to express what the sensation is. You are just going to have to accept it when I say that there is a physical feeling of attachment that is much stronger than "being hot for someone".

We don't have a lot of patience anymore in society, but love is like a plant. When the roots are shallow it's easy to tear them out of the ground. When they are deep and strong- then they are almost like steel bands.

Marriage is a contract, that is absolutely true, but it is also a path to the highest comfort a person can feel here on earth. It's a union of minds and hearts.

I know that it is as hard as heck to make it work sometimes...but if you keep nurturing it and you keep working at it there are some mighty sublime feelings of deep pleasure associated with marriage that I hate to see forgotten.

People sometimes say one of the reasons they want to marry is that they don't want to die alone..I think they don't want to die without anyone to mourn for them. We can bash marriage all we want, but bottom line is we understand that some people are literally bonded to their partners and when they lose them it's quite tragic.

Sorry to disabuse you of your thinking that marriage is a scam, honestly, if that is what comforts you then by all means go on thinking that way- after all, you are probably right, especially if you go into marriage with that shallow conception of it. You get out of it what you put into it.

Marriage is a big deal! There is way more to it, and I'm really not trying to be a mystic here- I'm afraid I'm just not smart enough to know how to explain what it is I feel. Can I just say that there is a lot more depth to marriage than silly nitpicking fights about who does what, or bogus bellyaches about how each partner looks. It has nothing to do with how much money your partner makes, or how fine a life you are living. It's that grown up feeling of being home.

There is more!
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This is the problem

JUNE CLEAVER IS DEAD AND THE MOLD HAS BEEN BROKEN.

Whatever happened 30 years ago doesn't even come close to applying today..Your argument doesn't pertain to the present conversatition...

They don't make women like they used to.\


3-4 marriages is the norm today and you won't stay married to a girl today for 30 years..
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The problem goes all the way to the divorce court system...


Friends with benefits...take it or leave it..

It's the future of relationships..
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Shacking Up... 5abanana2
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IT IS BECAUSE OF PORNOGRAPHY AND FAT WIFES....
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Careful guys, especially when they 'smile' at you !

Remember the old Russian saying: " When the wolf shows her teeth, she's NOT smiling ! "
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LOLOLOL!!!! seal