lol, yeah friends with benefits is SO the future....says the forum with the super gonorrhea thread. If we were meant to boink like donkeys, pretty sure we wouldn't have STD's that rot your genitals off.

I'm married 8 years to the same great guy. We had our 3rd baby 8 months ago and our sex life is currently nil. We've had one date night in 8 months. I had the body of a fucking rock star before this baby (32, 5'7, 125 lbs and 14% bodyfat, I could do 50 pullups, no joke) and now, thanks to breastfeeding hormones, I have 15 extra pounds that have me living in sweatpants (I refuse to buy larger clothes. I just refuse.) My husband gained 20 lbs right along with me. So, the cute baby part is awesome but the rest of my life and romantic status sucks but I STILL would recommend marriage any day. Why? It's a wave! We are currently at a bottom and we will work out way back up to the top the same way we always do (with the gym, and date nights, and some lingerie once my ass shrinks again.)

Real problem with marriage today are people thinking it's a fucking fairy tale of laziness. Hey look, I got married now I don't have to try anymore! Men get beer bellies. Women get fat. No one dresses up for each other anymore. I see lots of people who don't flirt, don't kiss, don't banter, don't hug. Hello? If you go to work and you don't work, you get fired. If you get married and you don't work, you get divorced. unhappy in your marriage, get to work! Most likely you are 50% of the problem!