Men not marrying. How deep does the problem go?

I do agree with this. It should not be a state of affairs where men are either lording it over the family, or used by them. The men should be taking pride in providing for and protecting, and the others can have a part in that too. By the same token I think we have all learned that good men can also participate in various homemaking activities. The healthy state is for a family to be functioning as a life sustaining team. Extended families too. We have indeed been living in an unnatural state, plus there have been corrupting influences like this gay epidemic that is currently spinning out of control. I don't see this gay tsunami as natural at all.I believe it is a weird offshoot of all the hidden mind control activity, by which millions of people are controlled with sexual abuse. Apparently the best method of controlling a victim is with anal rape. So they are trying to stealth-normalize that with this big gay push. Then it can be mixed into everyday life and the perps won't need to worry about prosecution for rape. We are also hearing that police, the military and prisons use rape far more than was believed and this is also for control. Terrorizing victims by raping them achieves mind control because the mind shuts down over the trauma and then the persons behavior can be easily controlled. It's called trauma based mind control and is being systematically used in our military and the techniques moved out of there and into the street where they are being used by gangs and scumbags like those guys who had the 3 women tied up for 4 years.

Gyno = female
Centric = all about us, douche

Hello! I think it's assumed one's partner will either work or pull their own weight in other ways. I personally believe it's impossible for a family to raise more than one child without one partent staying home with them. Better to live a very humble life on one income than foist your kids off on someone else to raise.

If there are no kids, both should bring in some money or else one should be a virtual slave -- wouldn't wish that on anyone.

I've been married for almost thirty years. When we first got married it was about romantic love, and sex and overall life expectations...but time passed and we got older and we changed and there have been periods where we both would have agreed to throw in the proverbial towel if that was an easy option.

We stayed married, and I can honestly say that the feelings I once had have changed dramatically through all these years. I still look to my significant other for friendship and for intimacy but what most of you folks are missing is a spine warming sensation of love that I've finally gotten after decades with my guy. There aren't many words to describe it- it's sort of like that feeling you get on a clear frosty night when the first snow falls and the world seems at peace...or the first scent of rain in Spring when the tulips glow. Of course it isn't any of those things, but I don't have words to express what the sensation is. You are just going to have to accept it when I say that there is a physical feeling of attachment that is much stronger than "being hot for someone".

We don't have a lot of patience anymore in society, but love is like a plant. When the roots are shallow it's easy to tear them out of the ground. When they are deep and strong- then they are almost like steel bands.

Marriage is a contract, that is absolutely true, but it is also a path to the highest comfort a person can feel here on earth. It's a union of minds and hearts.

I know that it is as hard as heck to make it work sometimes...but if you keep nurturing it and you keep working at it there are some mighty sublime feelings of deep pleasure associated with marriage that I hate to see forgotten.

People sometimes say one of the reasons they want to marry is that they don't want to die alone..I think they don't want to die without anyone to mourn for them. We can bash marriage all we want, but bottom line is we understand that some people are literally bonded to their partners and when they lose them it's quite tragic.

Sorry to disabuse you of your thinking that marriage is a scam, honestly, if that is what comforts you then by all means go on thinking that way- after all, you are probably right, especially if you go into marriage with that shallow conception of it. You get out of it what you put into it.

Marriage is a big deal! There is way more to it, and I'm really not trying to be a mystic here- I'm afraid I'm just not smart enough to know how to explain what it is I feel. Can I just say that there is a lot more depth to marriage than silly nitpicking fights about who does what, or bogus bellyaches about how each partner looks. It has nothing to do with how much money your partner makes, or how fine a life you are living. It's that grown up feeling of being home.

There is more!

more like the woman wants a free ride,then when she finds out she can have all his shit for free she has acouple kids and rapes the family in court....when I see a single mother today I ask 1 thing.SO how are the lil pay checks doing today...

when you are dating the woman has half your money and all the pussy....then you get married then the woman gets all your money and still has all the pussy...

I agree that girls want guys to have a job, but that doesn't even make sense. I've got more than enough for two people to live together for a lifetime,yet girls still want us to have a job. What a waste of time, when we could be fucking and doing other productive things together.

Even money won't buy sex or love anymore.......

With the bias laws a man has to be an idiot to get married these days. Feminists are only to blame.They want equality but same time want special treatment for women. A hypocritical movement.

This is the problem

JUNE CLEAVER IS DEAD AND THE MOLD HAS BEEN BROKEN.

Whatever happened 30 years ago doesn't even come close to applying today..Your argument doesn't pertain to the present conversatition...

They don't make women like they used to.\


3-4 marriages is the norm today and you won't stay married to a girl today for 30 years..

The problem goes all the way to the divorce court system...


Friends with benefits...take it or leave it..

It's the future of relationships..

Shacking Up...

IT IS BECAUSE OF PORNOGRAPHY AND FAT WIFES....

LOLOLOL!!!!

Just wait till sinful robot comes with it's VR sex program, you ain't seen nothin yet

The problem is that good women are hard to find. Like Andre from Outkast says. A Lady is as rare as a Candy Coated Unicorn.

Lucky for me I found a lady. A woman that has my back no matter what and a strong moral fabric. Not into the fakeness of this world and it's participants.

You really have your head up in the clouds

Women want....money, dick and money

men want pussy, money and pussy..

Why's that?

That's the problem. No depth. Lost and Shallow.

Men don't marry because they end up like me.
I'm stuck in a marriage I can't stand.
Been married 11 years and any feelings I had for my wife finished a long time ago.
The only reason I stay with her is because of the kids, when she out shopping or I'm at work, I'm pretty happy, but when shes there I hate every minute of every day and I'm pretty sure she feels the same way.
My life was better before I got married, I had fun, loads of friends and just generally enjoyed my life.
Don't get me wrong, when we first got married it wasn't all bad we did love each other once, but that 7 year itch thing really kicked in, we grew apart any interests that we shared just seemed to disappear to the point where we virtually have nothing in common at all, by this time we had a little girl, and I wouldn't do anything to fuck up her life, so now I'm stuck.
Stuck with a woman I don't want to be with, stuck because I don't want to hurt the kids and now I go through life like I'm in a prison cell I can't get out of, but I would rather live like that then screwing the kids up.

The kids are going to be screwed up because they can tell things aren't right with mommy & daddy. So they will grow up seeing this relationship termoil and think it's normal.

Theres no turmoil, its not like we fight, we just have no feelings for each other anymore, any interests we used to share have disappeared basically we just live together and thats it.

Kids know more than you think....It's messing with their minds..

Females under 30 who are college graduates and in the city now outearn comparable males by approximately 8%, or so the latest government figures show.

Add to this the fact that women now outnumber men in college (almost 60% females versus 40% males now, with female enrollment increasing and male enrollment decreasing) and one can see that for the younger generation at least women who get an education are being MORE financially rewarded than men.

If you want to say that someone who works 30 hours a week does NOT make as much as someone who works 40 hours a week ... well you are probably correct.

If you are going to say that someone who works in a job with little physical risk (say receptionist) does not make as much as one who works in a dangerous job where the risk of being seriously injured or dying on the job (think iron worker or drilling roustabout) then you are correct.

Once you adjust out for hours worked
For dangerous versus safe jobs
For years on the job working
then the earnings difference actually swings IN FAVOR of women.

Sorry guy, as a female military veteran and former sheriff’s deputy I can attest that females certainly do work dangerous jobs successfully. Everyone has their limitations though and heights are mine thus I could never climb utility poles with ease however many males cannot do this task either so what is your point.

Climbing telephone is probably one thing females can outdo guys on. As a male i've tried, but couldn't get up half way--I'd suddenly get that funny feeling then my legs buckled and then helplessly slide to the ground.

pussy is pussy to me. Love can only be found elsewhere.
so what does that mean?

i use all of you

As a military female veteran climbing high was required while cross training in an associated career field however, I can tell you this native New Yorker cringed while visiting a dentist in a high rise in NYC. We are who we are and although I never backed down from a violent perp however, scaling heights is my weakness

I see a lot of marxist brainwashing in here. Equality, victimization, pay differences, etc.

Shhh... Quiet your mind... Do you hear that voice? Deep down inside of you? That faint, tiny little whisper. It is yearning to come out, yearning for compassion, understanding, and unconditional love, humbleness, integrity, honesty, love, empathy, valuation of human life. The mind keeps silencing it though, the tyranny of hyper-sanity wins and the vicious cycle continues. That voice is your heart.

It is time to begin the golden age. We must stop the fighting, and love all no matter what! NO MATTER WHAT!!