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Anonymous Coward User ID: 17965061 Canada 05/17/2013 09:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 40021086 United States 05/17/2013 09:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Same here, but it has been 3 years and now I suppose I am single by choice. It is like time has passed me by and I don't understand people/women anymore. Besides being a little lonely at times, life is good. Just have to rewire my thinking a little. It used to be I had to consider what my wife needed. Now I have to think more like a narcissus. Me Me Me, it is actually hard for me to think that way. I guess my wife trained me well to be a domesticated man......maybe I'm ruined for life! I figure once I figure out how to be selfish again, I'll meet some womem and have to go back to my domesticated ways. LOL . |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 40018178 United States 05/17/2013 09:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Because all of my relationships were mentally and emotionally draining. Quoting: AnonymousGirl There is something inside of me that shuts down when I think something might be leading in the direction of a potential relationship. I can relate to a lot of the answers so far but this one is succinct and just about where I'm at. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 620235 United States 05/17/2013 09:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't like someone up my rear 24/7. It's bad enough having to live within societies rules to add someone else on top of it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 39829221 49 single women I am very happy bingo 45 single male i think master shake said it best 'i do what i want when i want and how i want it' and can change my plans at any time |
~Me User ID: 38592187 Canada 05/17/2013 09:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Because all of my relationships were mentally and emotionally draining. Quoting: AnonymousGirl There is something inside of me that shuts down when I think something might be leading in the direction of a potential relationship. I can relate to a lot of the answers so far but this one is succinct and just about where I'm at. This is what scares me now too ~sigh with being emotionally/mentally shattered. Not sure how/when I'll ever trust any man again. |
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wisc_natureboy User ID: 38787568 United States 05/17/2013 10:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Because all of my relationships were mentally and emotionally draining. Quoting: AnonymousGirl There is something inside of me that shuts down when I think something might be leading in the direction of a potential relationship. I can relate to a lot of the answers so far but this one is succinct and just about where I'm at. This is what scares me now too ~sigh with being emotionally/mentally shattered. Not sure how/when I'll ever trust any man again. Ugh, three broken humans, I'm probably in self-denial. We all breathe the same air. .-.. --- ...- . / .- .-.. .-.. |
Mr. Know-it-all User ID: 3064002 United States 05/17/2013 10:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Because I have yet to meet a woman who adds energy to my life. Quoting: Open Your Eyes Every single one thus far takes my energy Without replacing it I am a giver though So I naturally give energy However, you asked why I am single And the answer is... Because I am waiting for an energy match A Balanced Energy Exchange You remind me of myself when I was young and naive. Then I married Satan and grew up. Needless to say I'm divorced now. Unless you have the same energy signature as me you will not understand where I am truly coming from Less than 200 people on the planet can relate Already been there done that, kid. I'm telling you what's in store for you next if you don't smarten up. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 40018178 United States 05/17/2013 10:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Because all of my relationships were mentally and emotionally draining. Quoting: AnonymousGirl There is something inside of me that shuts down when I think something might be leading in the direction of a potential relationship. I can relate to a lot of the answers so far but this one is succinct and just about where I'm at. This is what scares me now too ~sigh with being emotionally/mentally shattered. Not sure how/when I'll ever trust any man again. I'm a man and gave the answer in bold. I guess both sexes are capable of finding relationships to be draining. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 39904184 Canada 05/17/2013 10:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Because all of my relationships were mentally and emotionally draining. Quoting: AnonymousGirl There is something inside of me that shuts down when I think something might be leading in the direction of a potential relationship. I can relate to a lot of the answers so far but this one is succinct and just about where I'm at. This is what scares me now too ~sigh with being emotionally/mentally shattered. Not sure how/when I'll ever trust any man again. Ugh, three broken humans, I'm probably in self-denial. I'm not broken anymore. :) I fixed myself. Although, the "switch" that keeps going off sometimes makes me wonder if I've only fooled myself into thinking I have. I know everyone says that relationships take hard work, but I don't think they should. They should be effortless, easy and simple, and if they're not, then something's very wrong. If I ever enter into another one , it will be completely natural and effortless. <--- I'm allowed to dream. |
AMassiveNINtoolforBeethoven User ID: 39815915 Mexico 05/17/2013 10:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Nature is amazing. I had to watch that twice. Thanks for sharing. Yey! Glad you enjoyed the video. i love how Terence McKenna refers to Nature as the center of the mandala. Here is my secret. It is very simple: one sees well only with the heart. The essential is invisible to the eyes. - The Little Prince, by Antoine de Saint Exupéry Subterranean homesick alien excommunicated from the brotherhood of man to wander lonely as a puzzled anagram... |
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Mr. Know-it-all User ID: 3064002 United States 05/17/2013 10:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3064002 You remind me of myself when I was young and naive. Then I married Satan and grew up. Needless to say I'm divorced now. Unless you have the same energy signature as me you will not understand where I am truly coming from Less than 200 people on the planet can relate Already been there done that, kid. I'm telling you what's in store for you next if you don't smarten up. Is someone going to force me to marry Satan :shirly: It is called Free Will And with Free Will, You use or lose it You choose your life Don't project that my life will evolve like yours did As you and I are on different paths NO, you'll make that poor decision yourself unless you get out there and date more than the nothing you are currently. One person on the planet marrying Satan is plenty, trust me. I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy. |
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Mr. Know-it-all User ID: 3064002 United States 05/17/2013 10:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Mr. Know-it-all 3064002 Already been there done that, kid. I'm telling you what's in store for you next if you don't smarten up. Is someone going to force me to marry Satan :shirly: It is called Free Will And with Free Will, You use or lose it You choose your life Don't project that my life will evolve like yours did As you and I are on different paths NO, you'll make that poor decision yourself unless you get out there and date more than the nothing you are currently. One person on the planet marrying Satan is plenty, trust me. I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy. The only way her and I will come together is Divine Intervention. Dating just to date is not the correct approach to find her She is one of a kind Fine. Suite yourself. Learn the hard way as I did. Dumbass. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 40020490 United States 05/17/2013 10:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Same here, but it has been 3 years and now I suppose I am single by choice. It is like time has passed me by and I don't understand people/women anymore. Besides being a little lonely at times, life is good. Just have to rewire my thinking a little. It used to be I had to consider what my wife needed. Now I have to think more like a narcissus. Me Me Me, it is actually hard for me to think that way. I guess my wife trained me well to be a domesticated man......maybe I'm ruined for life! I figure once I figure out how to be selfish again, I'll meet some womem and have to go back to my domesticated ways. LOL . You sound like a nice person. Where are you from, there might be a match for you here. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 27855584 United States 05/17/2013 10:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Because most of the men I have dated lost interest when they realized I had no intention of sleeping with them until/unless things between us were serious. Quoting: Pure of Heart It would seem that there's no place for a self-respecting thirty-year-old woman in today's "hook-up" culture. Are you attracted to older men? I'm finding myself attracted to older men lately, yes. It seems that most of the men my age right now are either already married, or have decided to be eternal bachelors. Men in their forties tend to be more mature/on my level. Which isn't to say that I'm just soooo mature (I'm pretty silly, actually) but I take relationships seriously and expect my partner to do the same :) I've pretty much put dating on hold for now. I want to be stable financially and at a good place in my life before I ask someone else to be part of it I hear you, IMO, one must be in a good place individually before they can successfully integrate with anothers' life. I thought I was ready to date again, but I too am in a state of flux. I gave notice at the beginning of last semester not to schedule me to teach any classes for the Summer or Fall terms. I plan to travel in a camper truck for a while. Perhaps we can meet for a coffee? ;-`) Indeed. I've seen many couples drift apart because they got together far too young, before they really knew who they were separately. In my opinion, a person must have a strong foundation of 'self' before sharing their life/love/body with another. Right now, my sense of self is just beginning to emerge; my passion is writing, my area of study is English (getting my first bachelor's degree at thirty has certainly been an eye-opening experience in many different ways) and for work, I'm a writing tutor. Everything is up in the air right now. Money's very tight and my nights are very quiet (which is usually just how I like it -- most of my time is spent here at home, or with my grandparents). What do you teach? And where do you plan to travel? :) |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 12367143 Canada 05/17/2013 10:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Good topic. I don't need the approval of another human to "justify or validate" my existence. I come from a great gene pool. Multi-talented, even gifted in music, art, free thinking, and have gobs of creativity that lets me create so many gorgeous things for this world. I have yet to find a female that is worthy of my seed. A female that has good morals, a code of ethics that she doesn't compromise for any reason whatsoever. So many people these days are nothing but scammers, liars, scumbags, pill popping dirtbags, crack heads, etc. I don't wish to have that filth in my life. Smoke pot? Sure. Go ahead. Take 20 oxycontin a day? Fuck that shit. Get out! I am FAR too much of a free thinker, open minded and have had so many amazing experiences that a "normal" person can't fathom any of them, or most likely ridicule them so their little pea brains don't overheat and they don't shit their pants trying to think of a hypothesis that fit into their sad little paradigm. I don't want a slut. I don't want any of the modern diseases that turn your guts into liquid shit, or make my prong fall off. I've had it with dealing with liars and thieves. I can't see how a person could trust a mate that is texting their ass off all fucking day. To who? and why? Sorry cell phone morons out there, but you're nothing but pathetic excuses for a human. Can't get through an hour without yapping on the phone or texting your next fling? Nah, i'll stay single now. I was married and also engaged again, but after some soul searching i got the hell out and haven't looked back since. My blood pressure has gone way down, little stress to deal with now, don't worry about lies filling my home and my life, no need to spend gobs of cash on some shallow bitch who's only there until the monet stream runs out. So many reasons. Society is in the shitter, and technology has alot to do with it. As well as hollywood and the equal rights bullshit. Hey guys, do women ever hold a door open for you? Probably few. I have a life to live and a calling to do some things that i personally don't want to see derailed, or interfered with, or minimized due to some twat's pea brain not being able to process any of it. If i want to go out at 2:30 am and look for UFOs, or climb a mountin, i don't need approval from NOBODY. And you know what? LIFE IS FUCKING GREAT!!!! |