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<p%/- User ID: 29168784 Panama 05/18/2013 06:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Because I have yet to meet a woman who adds energy to my life. Quoting: Open Your Eyes Every single one thus far takes my energy Without replacing it This is pretty close to how I feel about everyone in general. People take because I am a decent person. But now I am so tired I just dont give a fuck anymore. I love being alone, I was just being nice. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 39821965 United States 05/18/2013 06:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Relationships and love lead to dependency. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16396016 Love also leads to being hateful. Friendships is alot better then being in a relationship because you are there to actully support your friends without having to worry about emotional baggage. If you're in a relationship with somebody and try to support your girlfriend or you're boyfriend your often seen as clingy or ackward because. Alot of people Men and Woman alike arn't used to friendships being in romanatic interest they just view it as pure pleasure and ectasy. Which is why alot of relationships dont work out. People judge you with who you are with you can sit there and build a relationship with somebody for like six - eight years of you're life and it can easily be broken if your spouse starts feeling bored or socially ackward are you. Then they blame you or themselves. Or just say they need a break which leads to self-harm to yourself. The more relationships you jump into the more harder your heart becomes. Because humans are immature beings who give to much of themselves to fast. Nobody truely understands you but yourself. Its better to be single and understand your own entity then try to have somebody dictate or understand you for something called "Love" Which is why i am single and prefer friends and to live a a-sexual lifestyle. I love sex too much to be asexual...and toys do not cut it. I'm far too afraid of disease to have one-night stands. Unfortunately, 'fuck-buddies' tend to get attached and people get hurt. It sucks. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 25867801 United States 05/18/2013 06:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So is women who made us sin? is women evil? is it because of Eve? are we the pray? are we the innocent of the movie? we don't want to do this but they corrupt us. We do not deserve this... Women in America are just into wanting money and verbally and mentally abusing men who don't have enough of it, and robbing men who do via our court system. Money sucking bitches, all of them. They should keep it honest and become prostitutes, only they don't have the charm for it. To add, NAWALT (Not All Women Are Like That) are despicable liars. There's one moron like that on this very page. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 25867801 United States 05/18/2013 07:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Only passing through, but its the same everywhere I go. Talked to 2 people here, and both were trying to persuade me to go out and get laid. Not sure why, I am just another guy trying to live a simple life. You probably look like George Clooney in his prime or flash a lot of jewelry. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 40053698 United States 05/18/2013 07:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Because I have yet to meet a woman who adds energy to my life. Quoting: Open Your Eyes Every single one thus far takes my energy Without replacing it I am a giver though So I naturally give energy However, you asked why I am single And the answer is... Because I am waiting for an energy match A Balanced Energy Exchange I don't think that situation ever exists in this life. There are givers; there are takers--I don't think givers are ever paired up with givers. Takers with takers, yes, that's why most never stay together. but generally people take a lot of withdrawals and no deposits--financially, emotionally, physically and spiritually. Rots of ruck! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 38848264 United States 05/18/2013 07:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Because I have yet to meet a woman who adds energy to my life. Quoting: Open Your Eyes Every single one thus far takes my energy Without replacing it I am a giver though So I naturally give energy However, you asked why I am single And the answer is... Because I am waiting for an energy match A Balanced Energy Exchange you take my energy the way you treat women like all they are is something to F |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 38848264 United States 05/18/2013 07:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am a single mother of one beautiful girl. I did not have my child until later in life. Most men my age, already have raised their children and do not want to date someone with children. There are a lot of weird men out there. My daughter is too important to me, I can't take the chance. Quoting: txtrblmkr smart woman:) |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 39682922 United States 05/18/2013 07:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Been pondering whether to reply to this or not, but I will give it a go: * Jaded * It seems the men that cross my path only want sex and not even safe sex, just a warm body. No thanks, at least not on your terms. The mind is another reason, just few and fewer men who can hold a real conversation. * Last few short-lived relationships were typical, everyone on best behavior then the real person comes out and is not who you think it was. I don't have patience for pretending. Life is too short. * Lost desire for many years to risk being vulnerable with anyone like that again due to #1: Jaded. Sort of coming out of this but so far I seem to only attract the sex wanting males. * Have had plenty of opportunities, just isn't good timing, not what I am looking for. Working on raising my child which is enough and I have been fine with that for the most part...and have been for many years. * Kind of regret the years of being alone in some ways but not all. It would be nice to find someone who shares mutual attraction(chemistry) and can talk about real things without glancing at their I-phone and the like, ugh. Major turnoff. I guess I am picky now and would choose to be alone rather than settle for something less than at this point. I never cared about money, cars, jobs in terms of what makes a man because I disagree with what I see many women valuing - disgusts me and ruins it for women like me. I also have ended up with some real jerks and take some responsibility for those bad decisions...which makes me wary to make anymore without fully knowing why I did that in the past. I am sort of there now, been through a celibate phase with no problems. I still believe in love but don't ever see it happening to me in the way it should. Just safer to be alone. Not ever interested in marrying again unless someone wants to commit themselves for years, then and only then it may be an option, i.e. we can marry when we are both old and we survived and stuck together through those tests. I think marriage changes things for sure. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 39445579 Malaysia 05/18/2013 08:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Relationships and love lead to dependency. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16396016 Love also leads to being hateful. Friendships is alot better then being in a relationship because you are there to actully support your friends without having to worry about emotional baggage. If you're in a relationship with somebody and try to support your girlfriend or you're boyfriend your often seen as clingy or ackward because. Alot of people Men and Woman alike arn't used to friendships being in romanatic interest they just view it as pure pleasure and ectasy. Which is why alot of relationships dont work out. People judge you with who you are with you can sit there and build a relationship with somebody for like six - eight years of you're life and it can easily be broken if your spouse starts feeling bored or socially ackward are you. Then they blame you or themselves. Or just say they need a break which leads to self-harm to yourself. The more relationships you jump into the more harder your heart becomes. Because humans are immature beings who give to much of themselves to fast. Nobody truely understands you but yourself. Its better to be single and understand your own entity then try to have somebody dictate or understand you for something called "Love" Which is why i am single and prefer friends and to live a a-sexual lifestyle. I love sex too much to be asexual...and toys do not cut it. I'm far too afraid of disease to have one-night stands. Unfortunately, 'fuck-buddies' tend to get attached and people get hurt. It sucks. coward whore the worst kind |
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Little Drummer User ID: 36452921 United States 05/18/2013 08:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am single because I spent my whole life thinking I was choosing the wrong guy. 4 marriages. After many years of introspect I have come to realize that I was the common denominator. I worked hard and long on all my issues, and guess what happened? I stopped even wanting to date, let alone be in a relationship. The moral of this (to me) is that as I got healthier I realized I was no longer looking for someone to make me happy or complete me in some way. Only I can do that. Now I am happy, and its just me, healed happy and healthy. |
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