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Single Women, It Is Inapprpriate to Call/Text/Contact/Hang Out With Maried Men!

 
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Single Women, It Is Inapprpriate to Call/Text/Contact/Hang Out With Maried Men!
In light of recent threads going on, this seems to be a repetitive topic. I'll just get right down to it. In case your mother didn't teach you, it is extremely inappropriate to call/contact/hang out with/flirt with married men. He took a vow, and promised his eternal love and faithfulness. You could not only break apart a marriage ruining both of their lives ,but also make the children's lives miserable by breaking up the family. So if you're thinking about sending that text message, delete it!
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I agree wholeheartedly. The only married man I call, email, or text is my boss and that is because he works from home. I don't have a choice. And, ALL contact is word related. No chit chat, no forwarding jokes, no sharing personal information.
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I agree wholeheartedly. The only married man I call, email, or text is my boss and that is because he works from home. I don't have a choice. And, ALL contact is word related. No chit chat, no forwarding jokes, no sharing personal information.
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"work related" - I can spell. I just can't type with a cat draped across the keyboard.
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So a woman can't be friends with a married man. That is ridiculous
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It takes two to tango
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So a woman can't be friends with a married man. That is ridiculous
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They can be friends with the whole family. For instance, hanging out with him AND his wife is OK. But, you should never be alone with a married man. It's extremely disrespectful to his wife, and can often be a temptation for him to cross the line. It may start out innocent, but one thing leads to another. It's like playing with fire.
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On a side note, let's say there's nothing going on. Even so, he's hanging out with you, talking about personal problems with you, etc. Therefore, you are stealing the time, attention, and intimacy that is supposed to only go to his wife. She is supposed to be his first priority. So, while she's sitting at home with the kids doing dishes, I doubt she appreciates you taking his time.
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So a woman can't be friends with a married man. That is ridiculous
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No, it's really the truth and some of us have taken 20 years and some divorces to understand this.
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I imagine most married men would agree that excessive personal info being exchanged is nothing but trouble as long as these kind of rules were %100 a two way street and not only to be applied to him.

Also with all do respect ladies, there will be ladies who are frankly your enemy who will try to fight this kind of attitude
and convince you its all the man so they continue to do what they want. The same way predator males would to other married men.

You have to be prepared to see "one of your own" as the enemy if you really want to change anything.
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OP has this happened to you? Are you a wife of a married man who did this? Just curious.
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On a side note, let's say there's nothing going on. Even so, he's hanging out with you, talking about personal problems with you, etc. Therefore, you are stealing the time, attention, and intimacy that is supposed to only go to his wife. She is supposed to be his first priority. So, while she's sitting at home with the kids doing dishes, I doubt she appreciates you taking his time.
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Huh. So if the husband doesn't want to be around you, it's somehow magically some misc. third party's fault? Have you ever asked your husband why he doesn't want to spend time with you? Are you a shrew? Did you get disgustingly fat? Get that horrific soccer mom dyke haircut? Do you ignore him? Refuse sex with him? Denigrate him in front of his kids?

I would also suggest that mistresses can actually help SAVE marriages. As long as they're not discovered by the short haired obese shrew wife who won't screw her husband but will be enraged if someone else finds them attractive. I know a few guys that would have ditched the misery of their dead marriages long ago if not for finding a few authentic snippets of happiness on the side.

The side dish and her TM's are red herrings, dear. Either he's a complete POS dog or you have failed to maintain an atmosphere, body, attitude that he finds inviting. Own it.
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We all have what I like to call "jealous-ometers in us. They are there to protect our marriage. When a woman gets too close to our husband, we can sense it immediately, and we have not just a right, but a responsibility to protect our marriages/children. We should go to our husbands and point it out. They are often oblivious, and don't catch on as much as we do. Then, our husbands should go to the women in question, and tell them "Stop calling me. I love my wife, and am faithful to her".

If the wife did this, the woman would laugh it off, and continue to flirt. However, by the husband saying it, she knows she has been rejected, and in her embarrassment, will probably stop the behavior.
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If there is deception or one is hiding it from a spouse? Then, yes, it's wrong.

If both are ok with it, and it's a mutual friend, then it's ok, I think.
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I know this is a thread for single women, but... If you are a married woman, if you spent as much time trying to satisfy your husband as you do getting upset about who he talks to you wouldn't have anything to worry about. Just saying.
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I hang out with married guy friends every Tuesday at the brew pub. We all made friends at the dogpark. There's no problem. We are meant to be friends and have a great time. If you don't have trust in your relationship, well the problem isn't the female friend.

It is possible and very natural to be JUST friends! Got to let go of the fear.

Cheers. cheers
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So you're supposed to stop contact with all unmarried single female friends? There should be limits, I agree. I dont think its necessary that the female friend needs to be mutual. I do think it needs to be one that wife is comfortable with. Also, the male needs to make it clear that its friends only. Not all guys are trying to bang everyone.
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On a side note, let's say there's nothing going on. Even so, he's hanging out with you, talking about personal problems with you, etc. Therefore, you are stealing the time, attention, and intimacy that is supposed to only go to his wife. She is supposed to be his first priority. So, while she's sitting at home with the kids doing dishes, I doubt she appreciates you taking his time.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31128946


Huh. So if the husband doesn't want to be around you, it's somehow magically some misc. third party's fault? Have you ever asked your husband why he doesn't want to spend time with you? Are you a shrew? Did you get disgustingly fat? Get that horrific soccer mom dyke haircut? Do you ignore him? Refuse sex with him? Denigrate him in front of his kids?

I would also suggest that mistresses can actually help SAVE marriages. As long as they're not discovered by the short haired obese shrew wife who won't screw her husband but will be enraged if someone else finds them attractive. I know a few guys that would have ditched the misery of their dead marriages long ago if not for finding a few authentic snippets of happiness on the side.

The side dish and her TM's are red herrings, dear. Either he's a complete POS dog or you have failed to maintain an atmosphere, body, attitude that he finds inviting. Own it.
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What? This is not about me. A friend of mine's husband recently left her for another woman. She has 3 kids..3! She has not received one penny of child support, or help with the kids. She is completely devastated, and leads a miserable life. I feel so bad for her, and have been trying to show support all that I can.

Wanna know why he left? Because she carried, and gave birth to 3 kids, obviously gaining weight beyond her control. HE saw her fat and pregnant ,and didn't like it. Then, he didn't want to help with the babies once they were born. Hanging out with hot women at bars was much more fun...no responsibility!

So don't talk to me about looks. Of course your wife gains weight because she has your children...the children you're supposed to be helping with while you're receiving texts from these single women!

Some men can be pigs, but these women sure don't help!

Oh by the way, I lost all my baby weight. But even before I did, my husband told me I was still beautiful, and was very supportive. He didn't used that as an excuse to have a "mistress" as you said. He took a vow, to God, and to me.
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one word: THREESOME
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I hang out with married guy friends every Tuesday at the brew pub. We all made friends at the dogpark. There's no problem. We are meant to be friends and have a great time. If you don't have trust in your relationship, well the problem isn't the female friend.

It is possible and very natural to be JUST friends! Got to let go of the fear.

Cheers. cheers
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I understand that it's innocent. However, how do you think it makes their wives feel to know that while they watch kids/ do chores, their husbands are hanging at bars with you? What if they were hoping for intimate time with their husband? Don't you feel you're stealing that away a little bit?
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In light of recent threads going on, this seems to be a repetitive topic. I'll just get right down to it. In case your mother didn't teach you, it is extremely inappropriate to call/contact/hang out with/flirt with married men. He took a vow, and promised his eternal love and faithfulness. You could not only break apart a marriage ruining both of their lives ,but also make the children's lives miserable by breaking up the family. So if you're thinking about sending that text message, delete it!
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Tell that to the married men.


"He took a vow."


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At some point you have to trust each other to do the right thing--both husband and wife. I don't keep in touch with anyone of the opposite sex that would pose a threat to my marriage, I know my weaknesses and I have too much respect for my spouse. I don't need the attention that bad to risk problems it may cause; i.e. jealous spouse. If your marriage is good, you don't have time to text the opposite sex.
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In light of recent threads going on, this seems to be a repetitive topic. I'll just get right down to it. In case your mother didn't teach you, it is extremely inappropriate to call/contact/hang out with/flirt with married men. He took a vow, and promised his eternal love and faithfulness. You could not only break apart a marriage ruining both of their lives ,but also make the children's lives miserable by breaking up the family. So if you're thinking about sending that text message, delete it!
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Tell that to the married men.


"He took a vow."


cruise
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Yes, but he'd be more likely to follow that vow if you didn't throw temptation in his face.
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Women and men can be friends, it just requires that each of them have a partner at the time that is wearing them out in bed.

Most people have dull unsatisfying sex, if they even have it with their significant other.

I think your guy is much more likely to cheat if you are like unto a cum receptacle (unsatisfying passion free sex) versus no sex at all (he'll just learn to masturbate).
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So you're supposed to stop contact with all unmarried single female friends? There should be limits, I agree. I dont think its necessary that the female friend needs to be mutual. I do think it needs to be one that wife is comfortable with. Also, the male needs to make it clear that its friends only. Not all guys are trying to bang everyone.
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I hang out with married guy friends every Tuesday at the brew pub. We all made friends at the dogpark. There's no problem. We are meant to be friends and have a great time. If you don't have trust in your relationship, well the problem isn't the female friend.

It is possible and very natural to be JUST friends! Got to let go of the fear.

Cheers. cheers
 Quoting: Sloane


I understand that it's innocent. However, how do you think it makes their wives feel to know that while they watch kids/ do chores, their husbands are hanging at bars with you? What if they were hoping for intimate time with their husband? Don't you feel you're stealing that away a little bit?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31128946


No because our kids are grown afro older than you. I didn't consider/know age difference when I replied.

Well maybe that has something to do with it. I think the older you get the more secure you become with yourself. Their wives don't like microbrew and that's all they serve, and they don't mind at all.

And it's not like a pick up bar - it's a friendly "Cheers everybody knows your name' kind of place. I didn't mean to be insensitive - just coming from a different time in my life than you. But yes when you talk about little kids and being home on your own taking care of them, well I completely understand that.

But have always been friends with men and women alike - throughout my life.
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So a woman can't be friends with a married man. That is ridiculous
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They can be friends with the whole family. For instance, hanging out with him AND his wife is OK. But, you should never be alone with a married man. It's extremely disrespectful to his wife, and can often be a temptation for him to cross the line. It may start out innocent, but one thing leads to another. It's like playing with fire.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31128946


This

hanging around with him alone means the woman has a peaked interest in him

and she is playing an inappropriate game


being with the entire family is fine

as long as her intent stays clean
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Huh. So if the husband doesn't want to be around you, it's somehow magically some misc. third party's fault? Have you ever asked your husband why he doesn't want to spend time with you? Are you a shrew? Did you get disgustingly fat? Get that horrific soccer mom dyke haircut? Do you ignore him? Refuse sex with him? Denigrate him in front of his kids?

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Hahaha, the "horrific dyke haircut." I used see them at soccer games and think to myself "why would a women cut her hair like and want to look so plain and ugly." Oh and they all had the same cut and thought they were the shit. I would catch their husbands checking me out and just to be an asshole, always give a big flirty smile.
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Holy smokes this has been happening to me last 3 weeks. Nothingbin appropriate but temptation is there to cross line. As a christian man my whole life would be destroyed not to mention her salvation. I have the spiritual,war going on in my life. Thanks be to god for jesus her souls on te line
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Friendship between a woman and a married man is possible, but the wife should be included as much as possible.

So if a woman and her male married friend wants to hang out and watch a ball game, then the wife needs to be in the same room or at least the same house.

The husband should also defer to his wife, the galpal should always come second.
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What about married women who hang out/flirt with/call single men? That's the situation I'm in. Same reaction?

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