We all have what I like to call "jealous-ometers in us. They are there to protect our marriage. When a woman gets too close to our husband, we can sense it immediately, and we have not just a right, but a responsibility to protect our marriages/children. We should go to our husbands and point it out. They are often oblivious, and don't catch on as much as we do. Then, our husbands should go to the women in question, and tell them "Stop calling me. I love my wife, and am faithful to her".

If the wife did this, the woman would laugh it off, and continue to flirt. However, by the husband saying it, she knows she has been rejected, and in her embarrassment, will probably stop the behavior.