Married men is it ok for your wife to hang out with other men alone

Hell, NO. People mistake movies and Oprah and TV shows with reality. No real man,would let his woman, and no woman that respects her man would ''hang out'' with another guy. You a feminist?

Have to say a no to that one.

What business would a married woman have with a single man that isn't family.

Something is wrong there.

I feel no they cannot, and the same goes for men hanging with women.

^^^ This.


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no and they shouldnt be able to vote or drive or have jobs either LOL

you truly are an idiot arent you.

i am a married woman with a child i have 4 or 5 guys friends i hang out with by myself i think its ok as long as u aint a hoe and he isnt showing a sexual interest in you or hitting on you even making subtle advances... if you can actually be trusted and the other person can as well, you have to observe boundries as a woman to not suduce a man as well dont dress slutty dont casually flirt dont sit so closr you would touch these are all things that will encourage trouble i fyou are able to control your self there is no issue i am a very loyal wife so boy girl it doesnt matter because it isnt my husband... i think that is dependent on the relationship as well is your husband confortable with it? -- Ashnonymous

A married person should avoid secluding himself or herself alone with one other person of the opposite sex, or, if the married person is gay, with one other person of the same sex.


A friendship with a person of the sex you are sexually attracted will not always lead the married friend, or friends, to cheat on their spouse, or spouses.


But its just too risky.


Insofar as this is a matter of "denying freedom to a spouse," it should not be a double standard. A married man who tells his wife, "Hey, I'm going over to Amy's house to have a few beers--Call you when I leave!" is an asinine man.


He will be called a a hypocrite if he takes issue with his wife's unavailability, after she resurfaces and says, "Sorry I missed your calls--oh, and all your texts--I was at Ben's watching this movie we rented so my ringer was off! LOL, but I'll c u soon. Kisses."


The real question is: What kind of fucking moron would not intuitively know everything I just wrote?!
The real answer is: Only an imaginary person. Everybody knows this shit, but people deny it in order to justify their actions, or desired actions, involving putting their dicks or pussies over their heads and their hearts.

Interesting responses.

If being alone with another man/woman in a friendship causes infidelity your relationship with this person ain't worth a damned to begin with.

Don't trust the "gay friend" bit. Its faked sometimes by players, which can put your spouse in a compromising position. Plus gay men and women probably experiment with heterosexuality inasmuch as straight men and women reportedly experiment with homosexuality.


And lets not forget the "bisexual friend"--the one your husband or wife may incorrectly present as his or her "gay friend," due to confusion or otherwise.


"Homely dudes"--HA! If you think wives cheat only with better looking men, you are really up shit's creek.


Even men, who are so visually oriented sex-wise that porn exists to the extent it does, cheat with women who look worse than their wives (see, e.g., Arnold Schwarzenegger, Hugh Grant; see also [link to www.cnn.com] or any other articles on this point).


You are correct, though, that a married man or woman may spend time alone with a relative of the opposite sex, provided that the relative is related by blood. A relative of the opposite sex who is not related by blood to the husband or wife in question is a different matter.


A stepmother or stepfather of your husband or wife can be trusted with your spouse on a case-by-case basis. There may be issues with this if the stepparent is a pervert.


If the stepparent is ok, the associated stepgrandparent will usually also be acceptable.


Step siblings can be dangerous friends for your spouse, especially if the step-relationship is freshly minted, or came about during your spouse's adulthood.


In-laws are the most problematic, although they are not universally poor friends for your husband or wife. If your wife's sister's husband--i.e., your wife's brother in-law--is spending much time alone with your wife, watch out. If your husband's brother's wife--i.e., your husband's sister in-law--is spending much time alone with your husband, especially watch out.


The sad truth is that cheating with relatives is quite common, and not only among the guests on Jerry Springer who seem especially prone to the fucking of relatives.

If anyone even has to ask this question I ponder the veracity of their marriage to begin with. Of course she can ffs. Unless of course you are not solid in your relationship?

I trust my wife, and even if I knew the guy, and knew he wouldn't try anything, when a married woman is seen around with another man (married or not), society makes presumptions, rumors start, etc etc -- and the rabbit hole begins.

HELL NO!!!

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I disagree. I keep female friends around because they have lots of other female friends that are single.

Yup....my wife hangs out with guys from her work sometimes....I trust her....we been married 20+ yrs....I told her from day 1 that she can't cheat on me but I would happily give her a divorce if she wanted someone better than me....if she cheats, everyone dies....if she just wanted a divorce cuz she was tired of me, thats fine....

I'm not a married man, but rather a single female, so I hope you don't mind my answering the question. I would say generally no, but there are exceptions, like in my mom's case. Her best childhood friend was someone she knew well before my dad, and they're friends to this day and were never interested in each other. He's married and sometimes he and my mom will meet for lunch, and his wife and my dad are okay with it because my mom and this man are more like sibs. His wife is friends with my mom as well, and she likes that my mom gives him ideas about birthday and Christmas presents because he is clueless about this sort of thing.

For one, its about respect. For example.. WTH would you, or your husband "hang out" with another member of the opposite sex? It doesnt matter if there is no sexual attraction.. It looks plain bad. What an ass I would look like to people and feel like if my husband was spending what should be time with me, with another woman. And yes, If I saw a female friend hanging out "alone" with a guy friend that wasnt her husband.. I would most likely call her a hoe (in my head of course).. Relationships are damned if you cant do this? Please. Damn people are stupid! I am not really directing the latter towards you, but, after 18 years.. I think I am qualified to have an opinion.. Why would anyone these days, days of hurry up and wait, workiing non stop, school ect would you waste your time with someone else when that time should be spent with your spouse?

SMH

I disagree, why cant they all meet up for lunch together? If I were to have lunch with a childhood friend that was a man, or vise versa you can be damn sure Id be there as a couple with my husband.

This

No

Of course it isn't.

Question is why the wife would want to put herself in that position.

If she was a proper wife she would NOT be doing that.

Some people are good people, some people are bad people and some are just stupid.

Don't marry a mean bitch and avoid the dumb ones.

Problem solved.

Take my wife...please. (Sorry couldn't resist!)

lol

Treat your chattel well boys.

no....I trust my wife but not guys that try and befriend her.