Should you have full access to your husband's/wife's, gf's/bf's cell phone/email?

I think most people are hippocrites..most people would take the.opportunity to check if there were an option to..and im sure most in here who say no have done it before...over checking is another story...that means there are major trust issues which can be just as bad for both parties as finding something...but if some scenario occured and i felt the need to see with my own eyes and that became an issue....i would then see the situation as investing myself, my time, emotions, lifestyle and opportunity to be with someone worthwhile to someone who potentially has secrets or took lightly my concerns. Someone quoted a dr phil show earlier in this post and asked would u rather be right or be happy and quite honestly i would rather be right and happy which would mean checking and.finding all as.good...if not both and i had to choose from being.right or happy then i would rather be right instead of happy and a nieve fool.

Sure. Why not?

Umm, no. See this is how people get away with cheating for such a long time and never get caught or get caught years down the line.

I am now going through a very recent break up with my now ex (whom I have a child with), because he thought he could use the trust I had in him in order to cheat on me.

The damage was done though, I already knew something was up and during that time we were suppose to be working on us and like a moron I ~*trusted*~ him... he cheated on me with her (when he knew I was suspicious of them) within a week of me confronting him about my suspicions. So when I found out 2 days later (after he cheated on me), I dumped him. I was heartbroken he would just use the fact that I trusted him, as a tool to cheat.

THIS is the reason why I am 100% in agreement with the saying "If you have nothing to hide, why hide anything?" In order to have a relationship, you need trust and trust comes from transparency. It's not suppose to be freely given. Freely giving it away, sets you up to be hurt... kinda like how I was. ;)

So when the next one comes along down the line... guess what? He'll know it's all or nothing, transparency or GTFO time. Because I will not be hurt or made fool of again. No one is worth that trouble. Not at all.

If you have so little trust of someone you should not be with them.

Should you? No way!

I would have zero interest in what's in her phone/email and in return I expect my phone/email is considered private.

I would never go into a woman's purse either.

If you can't help yourself because “you just gotta know!”; the relationship won't last anyway... women hate being with jealous possessive men, because it shows insecurity and women like confidence.

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In my marriage this would be a big no because of patient confidentiality. I wouldn't want to know about the nasty things my husband treats or what diseases the soldiers have anyway. Gross.